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"I used to have this previously, now though being polite and having a good chat usually ends up getting a message part way through where their character has completely changed and randomly out the blue say “so when am i banging that juicy hole of yours then” ![]() Oh.....maybe that's still to come.. ![]() | |||
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"I don't like to burden other people too much. But someone offered me an ear a month or two back when I had a 'situation' to deal with. I didn't take them up on the offer but was great of them. " Some people like to be burdened. That's why they offer ![]() | |||
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"Ive made some very nice friends but have a couple of women in particular who have become super great friends, we chat daily on and off of fab and genuinely care about each other in a personal sense. That's pretty cool ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've been lucky enough to find a few people who I have been able to talk to and open up with. I hope I've been able to provide that for one or two people too. " Its always good when it works both ways too. Feeling like you can be there for someone is good too. | |||
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"I don't like to burden other people too much. But someone offered me an ear a month or two back when I had a 'situation' to deal with. I didn't take them up on the offer but was great of them. Some people like to be burdened. That's why they offer ![]() Have to say I agree with you here , have come across a few incredibly decent people in the last while on here , pleasantly surprised would be my reaction | |||
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"I don't like to burden other people too much. But someone offered me an ear a month or two back when I had a 'situation' to deal with. I didn't take them up on the offer but was great of them. Some people like to be burdened. That's why they offer ![]() Yeah good point. | |||
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"i genuinely hope everyone has a hidden agenda with me, hopefully they might one day ask me for a FAF. ![]() Just so there’s no misunderstanding, I have no hidden agenda ![]() ![]() | |||
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"No. I like my friends to be "real". If I needed an annon person to tell my troubles to, I'd call the Samaritans. Not putting anyone down its just the way I like things. Wouldn't be adverse to having a fab female friend to meet up and have coffee with (no funny business mind ![]() Yeah I get that. I guess it feels more personal, you've gotten to know someone over time but essentially they're not part of your "real" life so you can talk more openly. A fab confidante is good though-for boy talk ![]() | |||
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"Are so nice. Most of us here will only ever chat online, we might never meet in person. It's surprised me how many people are just genuinely nice despite this. " I think the distance between lots of breaks things down to genuine friendship (or as close to it as possible for online). It's nice to just chat, I like it and have found it now and again. | |||
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"i genuinely hope everyone has a hidden agenda with me, hopefully they might one day ask me for a FAF. ![]() FAF? ![]() | |||
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"yes I have a lovely lady I can always depend on to lend an ear if required ![]() It feels good knowing they're there when you need them eh? | |||
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"I have several that I love dearly and I’m lucky some are local. We meet for coffee, a chat and a hug. I don’t trust easily, but I trust them implicitly. Then there’s Swing, a friendship that blossomed into much much more ![]() ![]() Me too!! Shall we hold hands and chant? ![]() | |||
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"i genuinely hope everyone has a hidden agenda with me, hopefully they might one day ask me for a FAF. ![]() ![]() Don't sound too enthusiastic. ![]() | |||
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"No. I like my friends to be "real". If I needed an annon person to tell my troubles to, I'd call the Samaritans. Not putting anyone down its just the way I like things. Wouldn't be adverse to having a fab female friend to meet up and have coffee with (no funny business mind ![]() I can recommend it, it’s a lot of fun ![]() | |||
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"i genuinely hope everyone has a hidden agenda with me, hopefully they might one day ask me for a FAF. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't like to burden other people too much. But someone offered me an ear a month or two back when I had a 'situation' to deal with. I didn't take them up on the offer but was great of them. Some people like to be burdened. That's why they offer ![]() Tell them x | |||
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"Are so nice. Most of us here will only ever chat online, we might never meet in person. It's surprised me how many people are just genuinely nice despite this. I think the distance between lots of breaks things down to genuine friendship (or as close to it as possible for online). It's nice to just chat, I like it and have found it now and again. " Exactly. Or even down to there being no sexual spark, it maybe starts of flirty but grows into something platonic but still special. | |||
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"I have one friend that I’ve talked too for about 18months, never met, never spoken on the phone but message regularly and I class as a good friend. Could tell her anything " I love this x | |||
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"No. I like my friends to be "real". If I needed an annon person to tell my troubles to, I'd call the Samaritans. Not putting anyone down its just the way I like things. Wouldn't be adverse to having a fab female friend to meet up and have coffee with (no funny business mind ![]() ![]() No body local that's interested ![]() | |||
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"I have made some great friends off fab who i just chat too and quite a few i have met up with .Think it's great too chat and hear different veiws on things.On a bad day someone can make you smile . ![]() Exactly. And its sometimes in a way your "real" friends can't. | |||
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"i genuinely hope everyone has a hidden agenda with me, hopefully they might one day ask me for a FAF. ![]() ![]() ![]() You didn't specify the level of enthusiasm. If you say yes I'm prob just gonna lay back and stare at the ceiling. | |||
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"Not really seeing as the creepy males on here ruin it for everyone. Using blunt openers, lying, not showing up, posing as couples. The list goes on, and I get that to my account so I can't imagine what it's like for women " That's why the nice genuine guys shine through ![]() | |||
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"There's so much more to people than just sex, even on fab. I've made a number of fab friends that I haven't met, but have developed a really friendly connection and speak to often, even about non fab related issues. I may not be able to meet them all in person, but will certainly try ![]() I like that with some theres no need to meet in person too. It is what it is. | |||
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"I have a few people on here that I’ve become friends with. It’s great not having to hide everything from them. Though I’m not good at being open to anyone I try. Would love to have people around that I could meet for coffee and put the world to rights. Geography is a bugger on here x " I think a lot of that is the same for me. The slight anonymity lets me open up a bit more than I would to someone more involved in my life. | |||
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"I can honestly say I’ve met some fantastic people on here and at the clubs. Some I am very proud to say have become very close friends on here and in nilla life as well I am blessed to be so lucky" ![]() | |||
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"I have several that I love dearly and I’m lucky some are local. We meet for coffee, a chat and a hug. I don’t trust easily, but I trust them implicitly. Then there’s Swing, a friendship that blossomed into much much more ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes but we need to keep moving otherwise MisterBee will move in for a kiss ![]() | |||
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"It's not all about sex... As the saying goes & for a lot of us it's true too. I've made some genuine friendships on here. " That's because you're a genuine person x | |||
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"I have a few fab friends who I can have a laugh with, but also know they can be serious and helpful to me, when I need it. They know who they are ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"No. I like my friends to be "real". If I needed an annon person to tell my troubles to, I'd call the Samaritans. Not putting anyone down its just the way I like things. Wouldn't be adverse to having a fab female friend to meet up and have coffee with (no funny business mind ![]() ![]() ![]() Ah yes now that can ruin a beautiful friendship on Fab ![]() | |||
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"That's me! I'm Nice. I met one of my best friends on a swinging site 5 years ago - she's since retired from swinging but I love her and she's the only person I can talk to about this stuff. I'd absolutely love more girlies to chat to x" Its great being able to share this side of things with someone who doesn't judge. My real life friends are not exactly straight laced but they'd be shocked if I shared this! | |||
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"I have several that I love dearly and I’m lucky some are local. We meet for coffee, a chat and a hug. I don’t trust easily, but I trust them implicitly. Then there’s Swing, a friendship that blossomed into much much more ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Im covering my mouth with my other hand just in case ![]() | |||
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"I have several that I love dearly and I’m lucky some are local. We meet for coffee, a chat and a hug. I don’t trust easily, but I trust them implicitly. Then there’s Swing, a friendship that blossomed into much much more ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I’m wearing a mask ![]() | |||
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"I’m only here for the sex ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh and I hug friends ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have several that I love dearly and I’m lucky some are local. We meet for coffee, a chat and a hug. I don’t trust easily, but I trust them implicitly. Then there’s Swing, a friendship that blossomed into much much more ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You've clearly thought this through ![]() | |||
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"I used to have this previously, now though being polite and having a good chat usually ends up getting a message part way through where their character has completely changed and randomly out the blue say “so when am i banging that juicy hole of yours then” ![]() Sorry but that made me ![]() | |||
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"I have found the same op, after almost 10 years here. There are many really decent people in fab, where though they stand to gain no tangible outcomes, just have lashings of care and love for others. I grew up surrounded by similar people, though online groups are often rather less positive a bunch. Long may we continue to attract fantastic people ![]() High five to that! | |||
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"I have a few fab friends who I can have a laugh with, but also know they can be serious and helpful to me, when I need it. They know who they are ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have several that I love dearly and I’m lucky some are local. We meet for coffee, a chat and a hug. I don’t trust easily, but I trust them implicitly. Then there’s Swing, a friendship that blossomed into much much more ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() After the social on Saturday yes I have ![]() | |||
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"I've met some amazing people through the forums that I would class as friends, abd from all over the country. Several of which I chat with daily, often phone calls too - nothing sexual just life & it's ups n downs, laughs & crazy shit. A few, due to location, I may never meet, but I'm really hoping to visit a few others one day " Its a wonderful feeling to know they're there eh? | |||
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"I like online friendships, I've made a few. I'm the same in that I find it easier to chat to almost strangers about things. And they're always there in your phone when you need them or they need you. ![]() You don't need to look in their eyes ![]() | |||
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"We've both found some beautiful people here who will be friends for life ![]() ![]() ![]() This is it. The unexpected ones xxx | |||
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"I was having the conversation about on-line friends with someone the other week and think it's entirely possible for it to happen and they become just as close (possibly closer) in this virtual world as a friend in the real world. Just because you're not physically in the same place as someone doesn't mean you can't make a connection, find you have things in common and just plain get on in the same way as you would someone who is. There are a few people here that I class as true friends and who I chat to off and on, that I have no intention of meeting for the purposes the site was intended, but that I know I can talk to about most things without judgement and who will tell it like it is just the same as I would hope my "real world" friends would. A couple of them I have physically met and there was no difference in our interaction then than there is on here, it was just a natural progression. There are lots of nice and genuine people on this site, just as there are out there - by the same chalk there are lot of people I'd rather avoid here....just as there are out there ![]() Yeah theres always a flip side! | |||
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"Yeah, I have one or two folk I just blather with, I'd hope to meet them some day but don't mind the yaps to be honest, it's nice. One or two of the folk I've met here are very much real world friends now too, was at a fab friends today with my gf and my sister..it's weird writing about her as a fab friend actually as we've not done anything fab related for years, that fell by the wayside and Friendship took over. People are people, wherever you find them, and friendships blossom here sometimes as they do anywhere else, both face to face and cyber friends as it were ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've been lucky enough to find a few people who I have been able to talk to and open up with. I hope I've been able to provide that for one or two people too. " You have ![]() | |||
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"I've been lucky enough to find a few people who I have been able to talk to and open up with. I hope I've been able to provide that for one or two people too. " ![]() | |||
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"Made so many great friends from fab, especially the forums! Some I just chatter with on here, some I consider real friends and talk to daily and have my back when I struggle too ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There's so much more to people than just sex, even on fab. I've made a number of fab friends that I haven't met, but have developed a really friendly connection and speak to often, even about non fab related issues. I may not be able to meet them all in person, but will certainly try ![]() Totally agree with this, I've met some amazing people through here that I genuinely love chatting to. I hope to get to a few socials in the UK to go meet them next year ![]() | |||
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"Top bunch of people, that brighten my day, warm my heart, inform me, amuse me, take time to ask about us, amongst many other things. Big, collective cyber hug going out to you all." *hug ![]() | |||
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"I think I've been here what has to be 4 or maybe 5 years and in that time I've made way more real friends here than I have on the real. In fact I was speaking to 1 of them a couple of hours ago and I told her how I'd fucked most of my completely worthless real family right off must be 25 five years ago. so my real true friend although quite low in number I class as my true family I got chose for myself. Its a really quite exclusive little club in fact I wouldn't need all the fingers on 1 hand to count the all but 3 of them i met on here and none of them I've actually had sex with and not because I dont fancy any of them in fact I really do fancy them very much which is obviously why the 1st conversations always started. But now I value the friendship way way to much to risk just for a silly fuck but then my brain moved to it proper home and out of my bell end so many years ago now. In fact 1 of them I've even shared a bed with an not touched although that did in honesty test me a little to far as she is a real babe and good God she has got a body on her. it prove behond any dawt just how strong a real friendship on here can be. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So lovely to see a positive thread. Yes I have definetly made some good friends on here, they share my laughter, dry my tears when things have gone wrong and everything in between. Everyone needs friends like that in life. Angel " ![]() | |||
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"Made so many great friends from fab, especially the forums! Some I just chatter with on here, some I consider real friends and talk to daily and have my back when I struggle too ![]() We got ya strumps!! ![]() | |||
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"Made so many great friends from fab, especially the forums! Some I just chatter with on here, some I consider real friends and talk to daily and have my back when I struggle too ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We’ve made a friend on here through a meet. Though our experience tends to be more “I’d smash your pussy” than anything else. Would be good to have fab friends. " Yeah its good to get past that. When its about more | |||
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"Also I have a lovely Glaswegian friend who I spied on the forums during my first week on fab two and a half years ago, and we still talk on an almost daily basis. He's helped me through a lot and I'd like to think I've done the same. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There's so much more to people than just sex, even on fab. I've made a number of fab friends that I haven't met, but have developed a really friendly connection and speak to often, even about non fab related issues. I may not be able to meet them all in person, but will certainly try ![]() ![]() Road trip!! ![]() | |||
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"I tend to talk to my close friends away from fab about absolutely anything. I've known them alot longer. Though I do have friends from here I do meet up with for social coffee or drinks etc." I think my friends would be shocked to find me on here. Im the innocent one ![]() | |||
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"Had a lot of hassle and upset friends on here have helped massively people I will prob never meet there are some really genuine people who care on here x" We love them x | |||
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"There's so much more to people than just sex, even on fab. I've made a number of fab friends that I haven't met, but have developed a really friendly connection and speak to often, even about non fab related issues. I may not be able to meet them all in person, but will certainly try ![]() ![]() ![]() Definitely up for a road trip!! ![]() | |||
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"No. I like my friends to be "real". If I needed an annon person to tell my troubles to, I'd call the Samaritans. Not putting anyone down its just the way I like things. Wouldn't be adverse to having a fab female friend to meet up and have coffee with (no funny business mind ![]() ![]() ![]() I agree it would be nice! I have a lot of good friends I’ve made online, but none in this ‘world’! I’d take you up on that if I was closer x | |||
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"I have a few friends om here but one in particular is an absolute diamond. We originally met for fun but then I had problems with my ex fb. My friend became my rock helping me over it. We still talk every day, he is always there for me, the sex has fallen by the wayside but I have gained a very valuable friend for life." This is so sweet x | |||
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"I used to have this previously, now though being polite and having a good chat usually ends up getting a message part way through where their character has completely changed and randomly out the blue say “so when am i banging that juicy hole of yours then” ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Most people are reallllllllly nice on here ...... but there are also a few always waiting to shoot people down in flames which I have witnessed several times and think is both horrid and sad too ![]() Im sorry to hear that. Its not something that I've witnessed personally. Thankfully the nice people far outweigh the arseholes! X | |||
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"All my friends are male. I've never had an opportunity to make a good girlfriend but to be honest, I don't trust many people on here so I've not made much effort. I have a big circle of friends in real life who keep me busy. It would be nice to have a coffee and a laugh with a Fem but I'm not that fussed tbh. " I guess there's more chance of making male friends since most of our interactions are with them. Female friendship is different I think. | |||
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"Are so nice. Most of us here will only ever chat online, we might never meet in person. It's surprised me how many people are just genuinely nice despite this. No pressure or hidden agenda they just care. They always ask how you are and listen to your answer, forming proper friendships despite distance. Am I the only one who finds this? Do you have a fab friend or two? Someone you can talk to about anything and always makes you feel better? " Naaaaa I'm a orrible bastard | |||
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"Are so nice. Most of us here will only ever chat online, we might never meet in person. It's surprised me how many people are just genuinely nice despite this. No pressure or hidden agenda they just care. They always ask how you are and listen to your answer, forming proper friendships despite distance. Am I the only one who finds this? Do you have a fab friend or two? Someone you can talk to about anything and always makes you feel better? Naaaaa I'm a orrible bastard" Someone's gotta be! ![]() | |||
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