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What’s the best first line of communication.

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By *oody69er OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands

I see a lot of people on fab don’t like it if people message them saying “ hi , how are you ?” Or “ fancy a chat ? “ Whats the best one you’ve used or had used on yourself ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Faf?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Faf?'"

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By *oody69er OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands

Lmao , has it worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Faf?' "

I always put lot of effort than that... Women don't like text speak, so I send 'fancy a fuck' ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something that makes me laugh or shows they have read my profile.

One or 2 word messages get deleted now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Faf?' "

Rubi, faf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message yesterday 'oi wanker, wanna fuck?'

It worked! Though I've known him a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Faf?'

Rubi, faf? "

Hell yeah! Jump on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it depends on the woman and how you look too. If you're 6ft odd and stacked with muscle you've more leeway in what you say too I'd say. Some women hate small talk and like direct men and some hate direct men. I stick to the "hey how are you you?" and then mention something on their profile but I've met no one so trying the opposite might work haha

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By *oody69er OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands


"I got a message yesterday 'oi wanker, wanna fuck?'

It worked! Though I've known him a while "

Haha I bet there’s only him who can get away with that one tho .

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By *oody69er OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands


"I'd say it depends on the woman and how you look too. If you're 6ft odd and stacked with muscle you've more leeway in what you say too I'd say. Some women hate small talk and like direct men and some hate direct men. I stick to the "hey how are you you?" and then mention something on their profile but I've met no one so trying the opposite might work haha "

I feel your pain lol , I try An be a gentleman but that don’t seem to work either lol An I’ve only had the one meet

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Anything that starts with sugar tits usually works well for me

God bless Mel Gibson

SSS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message yesterday 'oi wanker, wanna fuck?'

It worked! Though I've known him a while

Haha I bet there’s only him who can get away with that one tho . "

It made me laugh and I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one the other day where he listed the reasons he wouldn't message me yet. It made me laugh. His profile was hot too win-win

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

A quick hello with a touch of mild genuine flattery is more than sufficient.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Hi, tea milk with 2 and a biscuit to dunk

Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, tea milk with 2 and a biscuit to dunk

Please "

I had a message fancy a wank and nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know who you are, i will find you and i will fuck you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know who you are, i will find you and i will fuck you.... "

Well that definitely may get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know who you are, i will find you and i will fuck you....

Well that definitely may get a reply "

Or an injunction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know who you are, i will find you and i will fuck you....

Well that definitely may get a reply

Or an injunction "

That too

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By *oody69er OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands

I like the straight forward fancy a fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know who you are, i will find you and i will fuck you....

Well that definitely may get a reply

Or an injunction

That too "

Well is was going to do the Liam Neeson thing and say " I will fimd you and i will kill you" but dont think that will go down to well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you finding Fab?"

- always goes down well with the Sheils

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Oreyt duck? Brown sauce wi' yer pork pie?

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By *inxy777Woman
over a year ago

essex


"Oreyt duck? Brown sauce wi' yer pork pie?

"

I would struggle with that!!

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Oreyt duck? Brown sauce wi' yer pork pie?

I would struggle with that!! "

Gotta be mustard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oreyt duck? Brown sauce wi' yer pork pie?

"

the stronger the sauce the better .......... cos they're gross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy messaged me the other day saying he’d read my profile and thought I had a cracking sense of humour so he got a message back.... hang on no he was a porn star maybe that was it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour usually works for me. Best one was a guy asking is he could wear my knickers as a ski mask!

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We don't mind a 'hi' or 'how are you' as the first line of communication as long as the next few lines contain something a bit meatier and no that doesn't mean dick pics

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


""How are you finding Fab?"

- always goes down well with the Sheils"

Or the varient "Are you having much luck on here?"

I've replied to that with "dunno check my veris, what do you think"

Funny, I got blocked after that!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"How are you finding fab?" Makes me realise they've not read my profile at all - instant delete.

Polite, thoughtful, funny without being offensive or weird, compliment on profile (not just 'nice pics') then I'll maybe message back.

But I check the profile before I even read the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a cave on a beach lives a trogladyte....

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


""How are you finding Fab?"

- always goes down well with the Sheils

Or the varient "Are you having much luck on here?"

I've replied to that with "dunno check my veris, what do you think"

Funny, I got blocked after that! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally start with

“HI, I’ve a 5 in here willy and I’m afraid to use it”

Or

“Come smell my boxers and guess the scent”

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By *oody69er OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands


"A guy messaged me the other day saying he’d read my profile and thought I had a cracking sense of humour so he got a message back.... hang on no he was a porn star maybe that was it! "

????

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By *oody69er OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands


"I normally start with

“HI, I’ve a 5 in here willy and I’m afraid to use it”

Or

“Come smell my boxers and guess the scent”"

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By *oody69er OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands


"I normally start with

“HI, I’ve a 5 in here willy and I’m afraid to use it”

Or

“Come smell my boxers and guess the scent”"

????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy messaged me the other day saying he’d read my profile and thought I had a cracking sense of humour so he got a message back.... hang on no he was a porn star maybe that was it! "

or perhaps he recognised you as one?

Awwwwwe bless

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Faf but only if sent via a carrier pigeon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's so many on here that demand a 5 page essay for you introduction as fab builds huge egos due to then not getting the attention in there real life like they do in here.

So it's always best to act educated and articulate and just send OUYYYYYYYYYYYYY x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back when I was messaging I used hotlist people and wait for a good status update I could incorporate to the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my pin number is ****

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Sheila, - fancy one up the drainpipe?

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By *verageguy8989Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Back when I was messaging I used hotlist people and wait for a good status update I could incorporate to the message.

"
I like that idea very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like hard work??

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

A witty remark about my pics, profile content or forum posts will usually elicit a response from me.

Best so far though was a guy who said I'd come up as being less than half a mile from him on 'see who's near' and was now wondering which of his neighbours was the sexy girl in my pics... it made me laugh and I replied... and so began a fwb relationship thats still as fun now as it was when we first met almost 2 years ago

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By *oody69er OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands


"A witty remark about my pics, profile content or forum posts will usually elicit a response from me.

Best so far though was a guy who said I'd come up as being less than half a mile from him on 'see who's near' and was now wondering which of his neighbours was the sexy girl in my pics... it made me laugh and I replied... and so began a fwb relationship thats still as fun now as it was when we first met almost 2 years ago

"

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By *oody69er OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands


"A witty remark about my pics, profile content or forum posts will usually elicit a response from me.

Best so far though was a guy who said I'd come up as being less than half a mile from him on 'see who's near' and was now wondering which of his neighbours was the sexy girl in my pics... it made me laugh and I replied... and so began a fwb relationship thats still as fun now as it was when we first met almost 2 years ago

"

Awww I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to like those from guys who have read my status AND my profile and try to attract attention from there .. usually gets a reply too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want to go on a ate? I’ll give you the D later :’)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

It's all I've got and it seems popular.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Genetally the same approach that works in real life. A bit if humour and not taking themselves too seriously. Hi/hello/what you up to doesnt work with me. Instant delete cos not into boring fuckers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

It's all I've got and it seems popular. "

That gets me wetting my pants! *swoon*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

It's all I've got and it seems popular.

That gets me wetting my pants! *swoon* "

But, I never knew it would work in a thread.

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By *oody69er OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands


"Hi

It's all I've got and it seems popular.

That gets me wetting my pants! *swoon*

But, I never knew it would work in a thread. "

I feel like cilla black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

It's all I've got and it seems popular.

That gets me wetting my pants! *swoon*

But, I never knew it would work in a thread. "

Now you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha hi has seemed to have worked out well for you lol. It’s definitely hard to find something to start a conversation that a lady hasn’t heard b4. So any tips lady’s? X

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