FabSwingers.com forum: How often do Women want pleasure?

By *hiswickSte OP Man
over a year ago

chiswick

Personally and from my experience men enjoy pleasure/sex/masterbation and really being quite naughty quite often.

I wondered how much women think about it in general and how often they would like to do something to that effect?

Of course it will depend and we all have different thresholds.

How much do girls want to purely orgasm or do they want to actually feel cock and be intimate with the man..

Thanks as this is a big question for me.

Stephen

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I like to be fucked mostly with a bit of lady fiddling thrown in for those days I dont meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met a man that wants sex or orgasm as much as I do

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By *hiswickSte OP Man
over a year ago

chiswick

Thanks for sharing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24/7 i reckon , cos pleasure to a woman isnt all about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't met a man that wants sex or orgasm as much as I do

Obviously you haven't met me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm kind of hoping for an orgasm to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women also pleasure themselves by talking if you didn’t know that

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Women don't have sexual needs only the desire to ensure the man has enjoyed himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm kind of hoping for an orgasm to be fair

We live in hope

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By *hiswickSte OP Man
over a year ago

chiswick

Thanks - yes forgive me that’s very true.

This is regarding that physical desire to orgasm I mean..

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, the answers will be so varied, it's almost a pointless question. Even one woman will change what she wants through time and the month.

The biggest thing to learn is that women ae different to each other and different in different situatuons with different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't met a man that wants sex or orgasm as much as I do

Obviously you haven't met me...."

Oh a one off meet I am easy enough to cope with, but long term....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I crave intimacy more than an orgasm, as I can give myself an orgasm whenever I want, yet chemistry and intimacy with the right person is harder to come by. Though if I'm horny it's because I'm craving the need to be with the hypothetical person in question.

.... if that makes sense?

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By *hiswickSte OP Man
over a year ago

chiswick

This is what I’ve noticed on occasions - a women who is so unselfish and completely giving. Of course I feel compelled to reciprocate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm kind of hoping for an orgasm to be fair

Just the one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't met a man that wants sex or orgasm as much as I do

Allow me to introduce myself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is what I’ve noticed on occasions - a women who is so unselfish and completely giving. Of course I feel compelled to reciprocate "

I think that's the expectation. Or she'll be moaning to her friends the next day about the selfish git she slept with, the night before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had past relationships break down due to my ridiculously high libido...!

(Then I figured out that cuckolding was the answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A damn sight more frequently than I get it

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By *hiswickSte OP Man
over a year ago

chiswick

Yes it does make sense. Thank you for sharing.

Horny for intimacy rather than horny to purely physically cum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does make sense. Thank you for sharing.

Horny for intimacy rather than horny to purely physically cum? "

If you press the reply quote button, you can reply directly to a persons quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does make sense. Thank you for sharing.

Horny for intimacy rather than horny to purely physically cum? "

Was this question for me..?

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By *hiswickSte OP Man
over a year ago

chiswick

"Yes it does make sense. Thank you for sharing.

Horny for intimacy rather than horny to purely physically cum?

If you press the reply quote button, you can reply directly to a persons quote

Ha thanks

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By *hiswickSte OP Man
over a year ago

chiswick

"Yes it does make sense. Thank you for sharing.

Horny for intimacy rather than horny to purely physically cum?

Was this question for me..? "

Not initially although please feel welcome to answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does make sense. Thank you for sharing.

Horny for intimacy rather than horny to purely physically cum?

Was this question for me..?

Not initially although please feel welcome to answer? "

Was it for me?

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By *hiswickSte OP Man
over a year ago

chiswick

"Yes it does make sense. Thank you for sharing.

Horny for intimacy rather than horny to purely physically cum?

Was this question for me..?

Not initially although please feel welcome to answer?

Was it for me? "

Yes it was just a summary of what I took away from what you said. Do you know maybe how many times a week you want that intimacy with that person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does make sense. Thank you for sharing.

Horny for intimacy rather than horny to purely physically cum?

Was this question for me..?

Not initially although please feel welcome to answer?

Was it for me?

Yes it was just a summary of what I took away from what you said. Do you know maybe how many times a week you want that intimacy with that person?"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't orgasm at all.

I crave sex or pleasure almost constantly.

I could happily fuck after being fucked. Unless I'm completely knackered.

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By *hiswickSte OP Man
over a year ago

chiswick

"I don't orgasm at all.

I crave sex or pleasure almost constantly.

I could happily fuck after being fucked. Unless I'm completely knackered. "

Thanks. Are your friends the same do you think or are you quite rare...

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"OP, the answers will be so varied, it's almost a pointless question. Even one woman will change what she wants through time and the month.

The biggest thing to learn is that women ae different to each other and different in different situatuons with different people."

I thought this, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like regular sex, but if i'm having it regular i'm happy for it to be mostly blowjobs, licking the beaver and a quickie shag.

I don't want marathon sex sessions daily. Be spontaneous, be quick (ish).

I also like regular spontaneous snogs and a bit of groping when going past each other etc.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If it were possible I'd like a good fuck probably every 2/3 days with solo play in between but life gets in the way too.

But yea depends on how I am and what point in the month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't orgasm at all.

I crave sex or pleasure almost constantly.

I could happily fuck after being fucked. Unless I'm completely knackered.

Thanks. Are your friends the same do you think or are you quite rare..."

I think it's a lot more common than people realise for women not to orgasm at all.

We do discuss it and a lot of ladies I speak to do tend to be very highly sexed.

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By *hiswickSte OP Man
over a year ago

chiswick

"I like regular sex, but if i'm having it regular i'm happy for it to be mostly blowjobs, licking the beaver and a quickie shag.

I don't want marathon sex sessions daily. Be spontaneous, be quick (ish).

I also like regular spontaneous snogs and a bit of groping when going past each other etc.

Thank you for sharing. This sounds really healthy and is what I imagine it should be like in a healthy relationship. Little and often and occasionally quite raw like maybe kissing your neck as you’re brushing your teeth and maybe having a spontaneous quickee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a real high libido and luckily I've met someone who tends to my needs whenever lol...I don't always feel the need to cum...just need to feel his cock inside me n feel that closeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As often as me, hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do want.... Pleasure!

When do want it. ....Now!

Does that sum it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do want.... Pleasure!

When do want it. ....Now!

Does that sum it up

I'm on my way

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Personally I always want it. If I wasn't such a contrary walking bitch I'd be in a relationship and have sex on tap... But I'm crap at relationships, so I own a chest full of toys and occasionally get to have sex with a hottie I haven't managed to scare away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on so many things, I’d I’m busy with family and life I don’t think about it. But then if all is quiet and I’ve got time to myself then I can get incredibly horny but still not want to just have a lady wank because it doesn’t fill the need of physically having sex. And I like the intimacy of having mr close and looking into his eyes as I cum. X

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I’d say I have a rather high sex drive.

Like many people though - the more i’m getting it, the more I want it - but when i’m not getting much my sex drive sometimes (not always) decreases!

It’s a rather fluid thing!

Of course - the sheer fact that that we’re on a site like this would indicate that most women on here would have a higher than average sex drive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do want.... Pleasure!

When do want it. ....Now!

Does that sum it up

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Think I'm completely drying up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I'm completely drying up

Cup of tea ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP. You have also addressed this question to women, who by being on this site, are probably more interested in sex than the general population.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Think I'm completely drying up

Cup of tea ? "

I'm more a hot chocolate kinda woman

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Personally and from my experience men enjoy pleasure/sex/masterbation and really being quite naughty quite often.

I wondered how much women think about it in general and how often they would like to do something to that effect?

Of course it will depend and we all have different thresholds.

How much do girls want to purely orgasm or do they want to actually feel cock and be intimate with the man..

Definitely the latter. I don't think about it all the time but I would love it every day in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I'm completely drying up

Cup of tea ?

I'm more a hot chocolate kinda woman "

I can do that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I'm completely drying up

Cup of tea ?

I'm more a hot chocolate kinda woman

I can do that too

Eh hem. You may have heard this before, but I've got some cream if you need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I'm completely drying up

Thought you were on the cum back trail? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I'm completely drying up

Cup of tea ?

I'm more a hot chocolate kinda woman

I can do that too

Eh hem. You may have heard this before, but I've got some cream if you need it

Always need cream

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Think I'm completely drying up

Cup of tea ?

I'm more a hot chocolate kinda woman

I can do that too

Eh hem. You may have heard this before, but I've got some cream if you need it

Always need cream

So I’ve heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say I have a rather high sex drive.

Like many people though - the more i’m getting it, the more I want it - but when i’m not getting much my sex drive sometimes (not always) decreases!

It’s a rather fluid thing!

Of course - the sheer fact that that we’re on a site like this would indicate that most women on here would have a higher than average sex drive!

Xx"

Yeah wot she says ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can go without sex for a long time. It's kissing I crave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say I have a rather high sex drive.

Like many people though - the more i’m getting it, the more I want it - but when i’m not getting much my sex drive sometimes (not always) decreases!

It’s a rather fluid thing!

Of course - the sheer fact that that we’re on a site like this would indicate that most women on here would have a higher than average sex drive!

Yeah wot she says ??"

I don't think I have a higher than average sex drive. I go days without thinking about sex, and can go months without having it. What I want from here is someone who can give me the experiences I want; which isn't easy to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally and from my experience men enjoy pleasure/sex/masterbation and really being quite naughty quite often.

I wondered how much women think about it in general and how often they would like to do something to that effect?

Of course it will depend and we all have different thresholds.

How much do girls want to purely orgasm or do they want to actually feel cock and be intimate with the man..

Thanks as this is a big question for me.

Stephen "

Great question!

I'd love to have sex, with a cock in me, just once a day. In an ideal world.

In this world I could settle for two or three times per week.

As for masturbation it's a regular, almost daily, event. Good orgasms but just not as good as having sex with someone with a cock.

And how much do I think about it? It fluctuates, but at times it's beyond believe, it's constantly and I am SO glad no one on work can read me!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Personally and from my experience men enjoy pleasure/sex/masterbation and really being quite naughty quite often.

I wondered how much women think about it in general and how often they would like to do something to that effect?

Of course it will depend and we all have different thresholds.

How much do girls want to purely orgasm or do they want to actually feel cock and be intimate with the man..

Thanks as this is a big question for me.

Stephen "

Well, as every single human on thiis planet is different, so will their answers be. You’ve assumed all women are straight, and all men are the same.

Why not Google and have a look at some studies on the subject?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP. You have also addressed this question to women, who by being on this site, are probably more interested in sex than the general population.

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And this!

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By *hiswickSte OP Man
over a year ago

chiswick

"Personally and from my experience men enjoy pleasure/sex/masterbation and really being quite naughty quite often.

I wondered how much women think about it in general and how often they would like to do something to that effect?

Of course it will depend and we all have different thresholds.

How much do girls want to purely orgasm or do they want to actually feel cock and be intimate with the man..

Thanks as this is a big question for me.

Stephen

Great question!

I'd love to have sex, with a cock in me, just once a day. In an ideal world.

In this world I could settle for two or three times per week.

As for masturbation it's a regular, almost daily, event. Good orgasms but just not as good as having sex with someone with a cock.

And how much do I think about it? It fluctuates, but at times it's beyond believe, it's constantly and I am SO glad no one on work can read me!"

Thank you for sharing. Yes I masterbate almost daily but not as good as just touching and flirting with a new person I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say I have a rather high sex drive.

Like many people though - the more i’m getting it, the more I want it - but when i’m not getting much my sex drive sometimes (not always) decreases!

It’s a rather fluid thing!

Of course - the sheer fact that that we’re on a site like this would indicate that most women on here would have a higher than average sex drive!

Yeah wot she says ??"

I agree that great sex makes me want more great sex. However, I don’t agree that by having a presence on Fabs indicates a higher than average sex drive. I, for example, came to this bonkers little world out of curiosity and because it was a great opportunity to embrace my bisexuality. I remain, not because I have a higher than average sex drive, but because I enjoy the liberal attitudes and (mostly) non-judgemental nature of many I have met.

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By *hiswickSte OP Man
over a year ago

chiswick

Thank you.

Yes I agree once you experience amazing sex there is momentum to want to continue.

I think it’s so healthy that we want to be intimate with people - give and receive pleasure.

I find a women who desires pleasure often so incredibly intriguing and sexy.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Well I'm kind of hoping for an orgasm to be fair

have you tried eBay they sell every thing there ,

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Think I'm completely drying up

Cup of tea ?

I'm more a hot chocolate kinda woman

I can do that too

Eh hem. You may have heard this before, but I've got some cream if you need it

I missed that,I love cream with chocolate!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Think I'm completely drying up

Thought you were on the cum back trail? X"

I change my mind like the weather Matt,blame my hormones!

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