FabSwingers.com forum: overestimated meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had a meet.

She was neither "amazing" nor "omg".

She was normal.

We wouldnt do a " til the next time" as we werent "omg/amazing".

I didnt have "an amazing body" and she didnt say "omg..girls..he's a keeper"

Im normal.

We will never see each other again.

Superficial site full of fakery/liars and the easily-pleased.

Veries:"omg/wow/treat with respect/what can i say/lucky enough".

So shallow you wouldnt even need a rubber ring nailed to the wall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uhm..........I meet people I have chemistry with. I have a social meet before so I know the spark is real. I tease and flirt and build up to the meet.

I've had really good sex because of that. For me its about more than the physical act and that's what makes it amazing. The connection with someone and truly enjoying their company.

Im not here for mediocre experiences. Id rather have a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Uhm..........I meet people I have chemistry with. I have a social meet before so I know the spark is real. I tease and flirt and build up to the meet.

I've had really good sex because of that. For me its about more than the physical act and that's what makes it amazing. The connection with someone and truly enjoying their company.

Im not here for mediocre experiences. Id rather have a wank. "

Couldn't have said it better!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Guess you need to do more prep work op. Establish a connection rather than meeting any old person who's willing would be my tip

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By *orthatry84Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Wow OP, I think that says more about you than anyone else... so you didn’t have an amazing time, you didn’t find her that attractive and you won’t meet again... so just a case of anyone will do? We will stick to meeting people we genuinely like and have a great time with them, and then post verifications telling the truth about those meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a meet.

She was neither "amazing" nor "omg".

She was normal.

We wouldnt do a " til the next time" as we werent "omg/amazing".

I didnt have "an amazing body" and she didnt say "omg..girls..he's a keeper"

Im normal.

We will never see each other again.

Superficial site full of fakery/liars and the easily-pleased.

Veries:"omg/wow/treat with respect/what can i say/lucky enough".

So shallow you wouldnt even need a rubber ring nailed to the wall.

Op has a point if everyone is being honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't it be amazing if there were whistles, sparkles and bangs.

In reality, having an orgasm or emptying your balls is sufficient and the vast majority of meets fill those needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to under promise and over deliver!

I hate talking about what I'm going to do sexually before the actual meet because you never know how it's going to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean over-exaggerated meets op?

No idea how you could generate these claims. Surely it is down to the individuals directly involved to arrive at their own sujective opinion?

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

#thestruggleisreal

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

What are you saying spit it out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well OP. If she didn't know before she certainly knows now just what you thought.

It's a pity that discretion seems to have passed by here. Had she posted something so meh about your mert in a public forum how would you feel reading it?

I hope for the girls sake she doesn't see this thread.

And perhaps a suggestion for the future... if the girl doesn't blow your mind get inside you head make you dream before the meet even make your tackle tingle....then maybe all you need to know is right there before you meet someone.

But everyone on here has had good bad and "ordinary" meets at some time.

The grown ups don't post threads dissing someone they may have met who wasn't what was expected of hoped for. That's called discretion or respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to under promise and over deliver!

I hate talking about what I'm going to do sexually before the actual meet because you never know how it's going to go.

I agree with you totally. No promises or expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well OP. If she didn't know before she certainly knows now just what you thought.

It's a pity that discretion seems to have passed by here. Had she posted something so meh about your mert in a public forum how would you feel reading it?

I hope for the girls sake she doesn't see this thread.

But everyone on here has had good bad and "ordinary" meets at some time.

The grown ups don't post threads dissing someone they may have met who wasn't what was expected of hoped for. That's called discretion or respect.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

It's trend with social media these days, 3/5 is considered a fucking insult. 90% of people are above the median today.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Well OP. If she didn't know before she certainly knows now just what you thought.

It's a pity that discretion seems to have passed by here. Had she posted something so meh about your mert in a public forum how would you feel reading it?

I hope for the girls sake she doesn't see this thread.

But everyone on here has had good bad and "ordinary" meets at some time.

The grown ups don't post threads dissing someone they may have met who wasn't what was expected of hoped for. That's called discretion or respect.

Yeah that's a pretty low thing to do isn't it. So neither of them found each that attractive,well just enjoy the drink and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to under promise and over deliver!

I hate talking about what I'm going to do sexually before the actual meet because you never know how it's going to go.

^^^ This.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I've not had a meet since joining over a year agow.

You've had a meet so your doing better than me op so i woodount complain if i wor you

Ps wots rong with normal ?

I woodount say no to normal

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I've not had a meet since joining over a year agow.

You've had a meet so your doing better than me op so i woodount complain if i wor you

Ps wots rong with normal ?

I woodount say no to normal

You do have higher demands than average! You're in the 5% of male fab members who won't lower their standards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well OP. If she didn't know before she certainly knows now just what you thought.

It's a pity that discretion seems to have passed by here. Had she posted something so meh about your mert in a public forum how would you feel reading it?

I hope for the girls sake she doesn't see this thread.

But everyone on here has had good bad and "ordinary" meets at some time.

The grown ups don't post threads dissing someone they may have met who wasn't what was expected of hoped for. That's called discretion or respect.

I love how you so often save me the time of writing a reply in a thread. Thanks Hine ...

Totally this OP

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I've not had a meet since joining over a year agow.

You've had a meet so your doing better than me op so i woodount complain if i wor you

Ps wots rong with normal ?

I woodount say no to normal

You do have higher demands than average! You're in the 5% of male fab members who won't lower their standards! "

I have higher demands ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well OP. If she didn't know before she certainly knows now just what you thought.

It's a pity that discretion seems to have passed by here. Had she posted something so meh about your mert in a public forum how would you feel reading it?

I hope for the girls sake she doesn't see this thread.

But everyone on here has had good bad and "ordinary" meets at some time.

The grown ups don't post threads dissing someone they may have met who wasn't what was expected of hoped for. That's called discretion or respect.

I love how you so often save me the time of writing a reply in a thread. Thanks Hine ...

Totally this OP "

I think you would probably express it far more eloquently than I manage

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I've not had a meet since joining over a year agow.

You've had a meet so your doing better than me op so i woodount complain if i wor you

Ps wots rong with normal ?

I woodount say no to normal

You do have higher demands than average! You're in the 5% of male fab members who won't lower their standards!

I have higher demands ???

Yeah, you were saying the other day how you want meaingful meets rather than every hole being a goal.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

So, you had a meet that was just ok, therefore everybody else on the site is superficial / fake / easily pleased ???

No need to instantly assume everyone elses meets are under whelming.

Better luck in future.

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

"Uhm..........I meet people I have chemistry with. I have a social meet before so I know the spark is real. I tease and flirt and build up to the meet.

I've had really good sex because of that. For me its about more than the physical act and that's what makes it amazing. The connection with someone and truly enjoying their company.

Im not here for mediocre experiences. Id rather have a wank. "

Totally agree. Want a ramdom screw? Go to a local nightclub.

Fab gives you the chance to find likeminded people without beating around the bush.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I've not had a meet since joining over a year agow.

You've had a meet so your doing better than me op so i woodount complain if i wor you

Ps wots rong with normal ?

I woodount say no to normal

You do have higher demands than average! You're in the 5% of male fab members who won't lower their standards!

I have higher demands ???

Yeah, you were saying the other day how you want meaingful meets rather than every hole being a goal."

True.

Is that not a good thing then ?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I've not had a meet since joining over a year agow.

You've had a meet so your doing better than me op so i woodount complain if i wor you

Ps wots rong with normal ?

I woodount say no to normal

You do have higher demands than average! You're in the 5% of male fab members who won't lower their standards!

I have higher demands ???

Yeah, you were saying the other day how you want meaingful meets rather than every hole being a goal.

True.

Is that not a good thing then ?"

Well i was complimenting you, put it that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So we have threads from people moaning they can't get meets, now we get threads moaning about a meet being too normal!!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I've not had a meet since joining over a year agow.

You've had a meet so your doing better than me op so i woodount complain if i wor you

Ps wots rong with normal ?

I woodount say no to normal

You do have higher demands than average! You're in the 5% of male fab members who won't lower their standards!

I have higher demands ???

Yeah, you were saying the other day how you want meaingful meets rather than every hole being a goal.

True.

Is that not a good thing then ?

Well i was complimenting you, put it that way!"

O ok.

thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we have threads from people moaning they can't get meets, now we get threads moaning about a meet being too normal!!

Some people are never happy

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"So we have threads from people moaning they can't get meets, now we get threads moaning about a meet being too normal!!

I think he's more moaning that everyone else's meets are less average than his

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem a jolly type of chap

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"You seem a jolly type of chap

. Well, 'tis the season and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You seem a jolly type of chap

. Well, 'tis the season and all that "

Not for a couple of weeks it ain't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You seem a jolly type of chap

. Well, 'tis the season and all that

Not for a couple of weeks it ain't!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"You seem a jolly type of chap

. Well, 'tis the season and all that

Not for a couple of weeks it ain't!

Bah humbug you two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You seem a jolly type of chap

. Well, 'tis the season and all that

Not for a couple of weeks it ain't!

Bah humbug you two

Yup!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we have threads from people moaning they can't get meets, now we get threads moaning about a meet being too normal!!

I think he's more moaning that everyone else's meets are less average than his

How could he ever know?

Not sure if this is an I'm too good for here...or a look I managed to get fucked... or if I'm not swinging from a light fitting and swallow diving onto the bed into a grateful pussy then it's not exciting enough thread.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them. "

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera"

Mine is Agnes. Just saying...

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera"

I partake in the meeting, I do not partake in the "post meeting written sexual review".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera

Mine is Agnes. Just saying... "

Brown???

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera

I partake in the meeting, I do not partake in the "post meeting written sexual review". "

I prefer to think of it as a personal assessment

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

"Uhm..........I meet people I have chemistry with. I have a social meet before so I know the spark is real. I tease and flirt and build up to the meet.

I've had really good sex because of that. For me its about more than the physical act and that's what makes it amazing. The connection with someone and truly enjoying their company.

Im not here for mediocre experiences. Id rather have a wank. "

Completely agree.

I think our OP was being ironic about the type of verifications people write following meets.

Personally, I shy away from contacting people who have a plethora of phrases OP mentions in their verifications.

Equally, people refuse to meet me because of the number and nature of people who have verified me.

I respect everyone’s right to choose who they want to meet or have contact them. That’s why I read profiles, verifications and those of the people who wrote them before I look at photos.

If I fit what you’re looking for, based on what your profile says, I like your verifications and you look like fun then I might get in touch.

All of that is no guarantee of a reply as you might hate something I do or am.

Assume Nothing.

Read Everything.

Never Complain.

Good Luck.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"You seem a jolly type of chap

Yeah right bundle of joy,delightful all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera

I partake in the meeting, I do not partake in the "post meeting written sexual review". "

Has it occurred to you Mr Pompous that some of us use veris as a way of gauging if the guy is real/fake/axe murderer/so amazing in bed I'd better give him a go?

Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You seem a jolly type of chap

Yeah right bundle of joy,delightful all round."

He's just so. .. normal. Meh

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera

Mine is Agnes. Just saying...

Brown???

Hardly Angelica Houston mode. Hardly.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera

I partake in the meeting, I do not partake in the "post meeting written sexual review".

Has it occurred to you Mr Pompous that some of us use veris as a way of gauging if the guy is real/fake/axe murderer/so amazing in bed I'd better give him a go?

Just a thought!

Do you have an axe to grind?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"You seem a jolly type of chap

Yeah right bundle of joy,delightful all round.

He's just so. .. normal. Meh "

He's worse than normal he's...really normal. Meh

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Uhm..........I meet people I have chemistry with. I have a social meet before so I know the spark is real. I tease and flirt and build up to the meet.

I've had really good sex because of that. For me its about more than the physical act and that's what makes it amazing. The connection with someone and truly enjoying their company.

Im not here for mediocre experiences. Id rather have a wank.

Completely agree.

I think our OP was being ironic about the type of verifications people write following meets.

Personally, I shy away from contacting people who have a plethora of phrases OP mentions in their verifications.

Equally, people refuse to meet me because of the number and nature of people who have verified me.

I respect everyone’s right to choose who they want to meet or have contact them. That’s why I read profiles, verifications and those of the people who wrote them before I look at photos.

If I fit what you’re looking for, based on what your profile says, I like your verifications and you look like fun then I might get in touch.

All of that is no guarantee of a reply as you might hate something I do or am.

Assume Nothing.

Read Everything.

Never Complain.

Good Luck.

I utterly ignore other people's veris and I do OK.

My advice: Don't be a sycophant.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

So ... you had a meet which wasn't what you'd have wished for. But not unpleasant/frightening/humiliating ... just a bit of a disappointment. Given that none of us have a crystal ball it's inevitable this might happen sometimes but surely a case of missing chemistry isn't worthy of a thread which might potentially make the woman concerned feel uncomfortable were she to read it?

Furthermore, this single individual experience seems to have made you conclude that the site is therefore 'full of fakery/liars and the easily-pleased'?!?

How on earth is that logical? ... in fact it's ridiculous, immature and insulting. I've never made comments in a veri I didn't mean and I expect the same is true of most others here too.

Watch those sour grapes don't stick in your throat ....

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera

I partake in the meeting, I do not partake in the "post meeting written sexual review".

Has it occurred to you Mr Pompous that some of us use veris as a way of gauging if the guy is real/fake/axe murderer/so amazing in bed I'd better give him a go?

Just a thought!

Not really.

Nobody will display a veri that says "He's a bit of a creepy fucker" anyway.

So; if you use them to judge how "normal" or not somebody is, that's your perogative, but it seems a bit daft to me.

If you choose to use them as an indication of someones sexual prowess, then you ignore the fact that sex is very subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm trying to work out whether you have a point or not OP, I think you probably do having read more than a few veri's in my time.

To do it off a back of a meet tho is in poor taste.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

"I utterly ignore other people's veris and I do OK.

My advice: Don't be a sycophant."

Good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What use is a rubber ring nailed to a wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm trying to work out whether you have a point or not OP, I think you probably do having read more than a few veri's in my time.

To do it off a back of a meet tho is in poor taste."

Yep.

I get the point, but the timing was poor - making it specific rather than general wasn't the best strategy....

Personally, OP, I mostly display verifications as a form of social experiment. But I do get your point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Unclear what you are actually saying op. Perhaps state criticism separate to your meet review.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

My veris recieved and given were a combination of private jokes and amusing stories. Except for socials. No sexual performance reviews at all lol.

Old profile before anyone goes looking.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I like my veris.

They are what they are.

Who am I to define or demand what a veri should look like or read.

Pretentious crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pleased to say that we’ve had meets that we’re indeed amazing and have left us chomping at the bit for more. Certainly never had a successful meet that left us thinking there won’t be a repeat. So I would probably say any glowing veris we’ve left are accurate to how we felt about the person and the experience.

Mrs

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I had a meet.

She was neither "amazing" nor "omg".

She was normal.

We wouldnt do a " til the next time" as we werent "omg/amazing".

I didnt have "an amazing body" and she didnt say "omg..girls..he's a keeper"

Im normal.

We will never see each other again.

Superficial site full of fakery/liars and the easily-pleased.

Veries:"omg/wow/treat with respect/what can i say/lucky enough".

So shallow you wouldnt even need a rubber ring nailed to the wall.

nobody would want to give a bad verification, as it can say a lot about the person leaving it.....they want to seem like someone who is “meetable” instead of someone fussy.....what one has to remember is all meets are subjective and everyone’s views are clouded by what has gone on before....so if one person had met 10 people that are crap lovers, then the 11th, who may be distinctly average to others, could be someone’s best meet ever

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Well OP. If she didn't know before she certainly knows now just what you thought.

It's a pity that discretion seems to have passed by here. Had she posted something so meh about your mert in a public forum how would you feel reading it?

I hope for the girls sake she doesn't see this thread.

But everyone on here has had good bad and "ordinary" meets at some time.

The grown ups don't post threads dissing someone they may have met who wasn't what was expected of hoped for. That's called discretion or respect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OP here.

My meet never happened.

I just wanted to see the reaction and cod philisophies of anyone in "amazing" quasi-utopian fab world.

It's far shallower than I feared.It's the veruca pool at the the baths.

I'll just continue to read the appalling veries;

"omg...what can i say...this stunner(really! have you seen it?) turned up on time(yes,idiots put that,as if it's "amazing") and...fill your cheap thrill here...until next time(idiots put that too)....etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP here.

My meet never happened.

I just wanted to see the reaction and cod philisophies of anyone in "amazing" quasi-utopian fab world.

It's far shallower than I feared.It's the veruca pool at the the baths.

I'll just continue to read the appalling veries;

*Pokes hornets nest*

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

Don't you just love these "Let's wind them up" threads

The O.P apparently does judging by previous threads and comments

I think the green arrow is a must at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't you just love these "Let's wind them up" threads

The O.P apparently does judging by previous threads and comments

I think the green arrow is a must at times

TBH I find them less annoying than the "look at me" threads that crop up every 2 minutes.

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over a year ago

"I’m pleased to say that we’ve had meets that we’re indeed amazing and have left us chomping at the bit for more. Certainly never had a successful meet that left us thinking there won’t be a repeat. So I would probably say any glowing veris we’ve left are accurate to how we felt about the person and the experience.

Mrs"

Under no circumstances am I even remotely saying you are not being 100% accurate but, haven't you had one bad meet or veri because statistically speaking surely you must have, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well all I'm saying is good luck with any future meets op I've a feeling you may need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Superficial site full of fakery/liars and the easily-pleased.

Veries:"omg/wow/treat with respect/what can i say/lucky enough".

So shallow you wouldnt even need a rubber ring nailed to the wall.

What would please you op? Please tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP here.

My meet never happened.

I just wanted to see the reaction and cod philisophies of anyone in "amazing" quasi-utopian fab world.

It's far shallower than I feared.It's the veruca pool at the the baths.

I'll just continue to read the appalling veries;

People also say those things to take the piss out of the over the top veri's.

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over a year ago

"Uhm..........I meet people I have chemistry with. I have a social meet before so I know the spark is real. I tease and flirt and build up to the meet.

I've had really good sex because of that. For me its about more than the physical act and that's what makes it amazing. The connection with someone and truly enjoying their company.

Im not here for mediocre experiences. Id rather have a wank. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like someone just sits and reads veri's all day?

If you don't like the drivel that is written then don't read them! It's quite simple.

I for one can take them or leave them.

Some make me laugh and some make me sick in my mouth. I for one would definitely not get worked up about them.

You need to watch your blood pressure. You seem very negative?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs

Under no circumstances am I even remotely saying you are not being 100% accurate but, haven't you had one bad meet or veri because statistically speaking surely you must have, no?

Good question. We have quite a lot of veris that we don’t display because they were people we chatted to at a party but didn’t play with and have since lost contact. But they weren’t really meets. Also most of our play meets we met the first time at parties and there are 2 that I wouldn’t play with again. I think we have had 8 private meets via Fab who we didn’t meet first at a party, and 7 of them I was extremely keen on, but the one who I was less infatuated with, we still had a memorable and enjoyable threesome and met again. With regards to bad meets, yes we had quite a few of those when we used to use Craig’s List. We have had no bad meets through Fab though.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on, this guy works for that university and he is trying to collect data from our views... He is making up this scenario...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera

I partake in the meeting, I do not partake in the "post meeting written sexual review".

I prefer to think of it as a personal assessment

It's about as reliable as marketing. Who is going to put 'I met so and so and she/he is as dull as a rock and a shite shag'?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"OP here.

My meet never happened.

I just wanted to see the reaction and cod philisophies of anyone in "amazing" quasi-utopian fab world.

It's far shallower than I feared.It's the veruca pool at the the baths.

I'll just continue to read the appalling veries;

Ah is that what my veris are missing?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera

I partake in the meeting, I do not partake in the "post meeting written sexual review".

I prefer to think of it as a personal assessment

It's about as reliable as marketing. Who is going to put 'I met so and so and she/he is as dull as a rock and a shite shag'?"

Those are the 'treat with respect' veris

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over a year ago

"OP here.

My meet never happened.

I just wanted to see the reaction and cod philisophies of anyone in "amazing" quasi-utopian fab world.

It's far shallower than I feared.It's the veruca pool at the the baths.

I'll just continue to read the appalling veries;

I'll just continue to read this thread. Which idiots? Please tell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera"

Fancy a duck?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera

Fancy a duck?"

Is it worth it?

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over a year ago

"OP here.

My meet never happened.

I just wanted to see the reaction and cod philisophies of anyone in "amazing" quasi-utopian fab world.

It's far shallower than I feared.It's the veruca pool at the the baths.

I'll just continue to read the appalling veries;

There are a few things that pisses me off. How someone writes their veris is not one of them. Here OP, have a tums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well all I'm saying is good luck with any future meets op I've a feeling you may need it"

He'll be fine. Only (grabs stats from thin air) 2.25 percent of people use the forums anyway.

*(its risen from 2% as its seasonal )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is being 'normal' better than not being fake?,, just because the wow omg factors not there does'nt mean she was not the nicest person you could have missed the chance of knowing? Also just a thought- maybe you gave of the vibes for her to act un-interested??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't you just love these "Let's wind them up" threads

The O.P apparently does judging by previous threads and comments

I think the green arrow is a must at times

Well spotted ms Kerry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a meet.

She was neither "amazing" nor "omg".

She was normal.

We wouldnt do a " til the next time" as we werent "omg/amazing".

I didnt have "an amazing body" and she didnt say "omg..girls..he's a keeper"

Im normal.

We will never see each other again.

Superficial site full of fakery/liars and the easily-pleased.

Veries:"omg/wow/treat with respect/what can i say/lucky enough".

So shallow you wouldnt even need a rubber ring nailed to the wall.

Well aren't you just a bundle of fun and joy.

Merry Christmas

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Veris are tacky as fuck. I no longer partake in them.

Will you partake in me? My real name is Vera

I partake in the meeting, I do not partake in the "post meeting written sexual review". "

You write the veri. It doesn't have to be tacky or a sexual review.

Just because some people write crap doesn't mean the whole system should be walked away from. You are in the forum after-all....

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over a year ago

I'm a fussy fucker and definitely not easily pleased. Sometimes the chemistry just doesn't work. Isn't that inevitable when strangers meet for sex?People are generally interesting and there is usually something pleasant that occurs during a meet. They put themselves out to meet me, they must be entertaining and prepared to make an effort and have come across well at a social - otherwise we wouldn't be naked together. So I will make an effort to write a decent veri. Often what ISN'T in a veri can be very telling. You just need to read them with a careful eye and a tablespoon of salt.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"OP here.

My meet never happened.

I just wanted to see the reaction and cod philisophies of anyone in "amazing" quasi-utopian fab world.

It's far shallower than I feared.It's the veruca pool at the the baths.

I'll just continue to read the appalling veries;

*Pokes hornets nest*

hornets nest all redey poked.....

Now pokeing a grisley bear with a pointy stik

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over a year ago

Mrs

Under no circumstances am I even remotely saying you are not being 100% accurate but, haven't you had one bad meet or veri because statistically speaking surely you must have, no?

Mrs"

Pleased for you, thanks for seeing the question with the sincerity it was meant.

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over a year ago

"Uhm..........I meet people I have chemistry with. I have a social meet before so I know the spark is real. I tease and flirt and build up to the meet.

I've had really good sex because of that. For me its about more than the physical act and that's what makes it amazing. The connection with someone and truly enjoying their company.

Im not here for mediocre experiences. Id rather have a wank. "

This

well said rubes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the OP was being entirely direct, and his post was more of a parody.

Sex isn't always mind blowing and from some posts, it would appear it's almost seen as the main focus in life. Of course it's enjoyable in the right situation, but some people seem to be obsessed with perpetual chase and fantasy.....some!!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

" I don't think the OP was being entirely direct, and his post was more of a parody.

The first 2/3 in isolation would have read as parody. The last 1/3 changed the tone entirely.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

"I've not had a meet since joining over a year agow.

You've had a meet so your doing better than me op so i woodount complain if i wor you

Ps wots rong with normal ?

I woodount say no to normal

You do have higher demands than average! You're in the 5% of male fab members who won't lower their standards! "

I'm in that 5% too!

despite considering myself to be average I've never had difficulty attracting hot girls in real life so the bar is set high on here too, if that means I don't get meets then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never believe what I read on some verifications as most are very over exaggerated .which would end up disappointing .

I only meet if there is chemistry ,a connection and my best friends on here I always met for social first and chatted on the phone .

Hardly anyone ticks my boxes as most men on here have no respect and that's based on quality of messages and reading status updates and some forum threads.

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over a year ago

"OP here.

My meet never happened.

I just wanted to see the reaction and cod philisophies of anyone in "amazing" quasi-utopian fab world.

It's far shallower than I feared.It's the veruca pool at the the baths.

I'll just continue to read the appalling veries;

Well I did wonder. A single male actually getting a meet. Unheard of.

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

Orgasms are the most amazing natural feeling there is. Proceed that with the build up, conversation, a great night with a hot date and finishing off with a nice hotel/apartment for a night of sexual fantasy fulfilling and you have the recipe for a full on gushy verification.

Its all about effort and quality not quantity.

Meeting just anyone for a pint in the local and fumble in the back of your Vauxhall Astra isn't going to be much better than OK.

Having said all that, a veri is predominantly to verify someone is genuine. The accompanying text is second place, subjective and not of upmost importance.

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Don't you just love these "Let's wind them up" threads

The O.P apparently does judging by previous threads and comments

I think the green arrow is a must at times

Well spotted ms Kerry!

Why thank you lovely lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle for meets.

Some profiles are far too demanding yet you look at their veris and none of the people on the list live up to their criteria. I dont get it.

Im just a normal friendly single guy looking for a bit of fun.

Maybe im just too real, normal and thus boring hence struggle with meets.

It is what it is....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Idiots"

Who is?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Idiots

Who is?"

I see happy is back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Idiots

Who is?

I see happy is back "

Yep. Did you miss me?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Idiots

Who is?

I see happy is back

Yep. Did you miss me?

I didn't mean you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Idiots

Who is?

I see happy is back

Yep. Did you miss me?

I didn't mean you

I know.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Uhm..........I meet people I have chemistry with. I have a social meet before so I know the spark is real. I tease and flirt and build up to the meet.

I've had really good sex because of that. For me its about more than the physical act and that's what makes it amazing. The connection with someone and truly enjoying their company.

Im not here for mediocre experiences. Id rather have a wank. "

This exactly

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It doesn't surprise me that some people never have really good meets......lucky for me I have some totally fabulous ones, and I love my veris too.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"OP here.

My meet never happened.

I just wanted to see the reaction and cod philisophies of anyone in "amazing" quasi-utopian fab world.

It's far shallower than I feared.It's the veruca pool at the the baths.

I'll just continue to read the appalling veries;

I just joined the thread.

Based on the original post and this one I think someone hasn't ever had a good veri

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Idiots"

As in village idiot? I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were your verifications over zealous too OP?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Uhm..........I meet people I have chemistry with. I have a social meet before so I know the spark is real. I tease and flirt and build up to the meet.

I've had really good sex because of that. For me its about more than the physical act and that's what makes it amazing. The connection with someone and truly enjoying their company.

Im not here for mediocre experiences. Id rather have a wank. "

You read my mind!

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