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By *uriousgirl85 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Lincs

So I’ve been chatting with this guy a little while and it appears we have so much in common. We met tonight for a social and it was electric we are attracted to each other physically, sexually, emotionally, intellectually... now I can’t stop thinking about him... has anyone met on here and felt like this after.... if so how did it pan out?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It looks like you've been smitten real hard OP. That must've been some social!

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By *uriousgirl85 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Lincs

It’s never happened before and I’ve had a good few meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck him and find out

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By *uriousgirl85 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Lincs


"Fuck him and find out "
oh I intend to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I had this.. . But it faded as I kept reminding myself it was just sex.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I want someone I can't have all the time. It sucks!

Be careful op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...ended up dating and fucking him for two years....we haven't spoken for weeks...be careful...enjoy it though

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"So I’ve been chatting with this guy a little while and it appears we have so much in common. We met tonight for a social and it was electric we are attracted to each other physically, sexually, emotionally, intellectually... now I can’t stop thinking about him... has anyone met on here and felt like this after.... if so how did it pan out? "

Sort your home life out first whether that's staying together or divorcing and then when your head is straight see how you feel.

Of course this guy is attracting and exciting you as you're meeting him in a nice venue, eating drinking and chatting

Whereas you see your partner first thing in the morning, taking the bins out, unshaven etc etc

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By *uriousgirl85 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Lincs


"So I’ve been chatting with this guy a little while and it appears we have so much in common. We met tonight for a social and it was electric we are attracted to each other physically, sexually, emotionally, intellectually... now I can’t stop thinking about him... has anyone met on here and felt like this after.... if so how did it pan out?

Sort your home life out first whether that's staying together or divorcing and then when your head is straight see how you feel.

Of course this guy is attracting and exciting you as you're meeting him in a nice venue, eating drinking and chatting

Whereas you see your partner first thing in the morning, taking the bins out, unshaven etc etc"

Believe me you may have read my profile but my home life is not what you may think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve been chatting with this guy a little while and it appears we have so much in common. We met tonight for a social and it was electric we are attracted to each other physically, sexually, emotionally, intellectually... now I can’t stop thinking about him... has anyone met on here and felt like this after.... if so how did it pan out? "

I met a women and couldn't shake the feeling that I'd paid for the coffees.

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By *aughty-MittsCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Take it slow Hun baby steps see how things go. It's great you have found someone you really like though. But talking from experience it's crazy how someone can get so involved in your life and mess things up for you so baby steps xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve been chatting with this guy a little while and it appears we have so much in common. We met tonight for a social and it was electric we are attracted to each other physically, sexually, emotionally, intellectually... now I can’t stop thinking about him... has anyone met on here and felt like this after.... if so how did it pan out?

I met a women and couldn't shake the feeling that I'd paid for the coffees. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes (or at least I think so) we still chat and meet now and then but she moved down the arse end of the country so it's both easier and less easy, depending on how you look at it.

Good luck Op

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"So I’ve been chatting with this guy a little while and it appears we have so much in common. We met tonight for a social and it was electric we are attracted to each other physically, sexually, emotionally, intellectually... now I can’t stop thinking about him... has anyone met on here and felt like this after.... if so how did it pan out?

Sort your home life out first whether that's staying together or divorcing and then when your head is straight see how you feel.

Of course this guy is attracting and exciting you as you're meeting him in a nice venue, eating drinking and chatting

Whereas you see your partner first thing in the morning, taking the bins out, unshaven etc etc

Believe me you may have read my profile but my home life is not what you may think "

I don't think anything, it's your life

It's short so whatever you do be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to me. I'm years down the line and I still would pretty much give up everything for him. He texts me here and there. Last time we met was June. He's someone to me that I should never have gone with (someone I know from my work life)... And it's me that is left with the feels and yeah it hurts. Not sure what to suggest x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I get quite excited abut a new guy if things have gone well. But by the next day I'm back to 'normal'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve been chatting with this guy a little while and it appears we have so much in common. We met tonight for a social and it was electric we are attracted to each other physically, sexually, emotionally, intellectually... now I can’t stop thinking about him... has anyone met on here and felt like this after.... if so how did it pan out? "

Yep!! Happened to us and we’ve been together for 3 years now. Couldn’t be happier, the sex is even better than when we met..... Fabs have made us who we are today!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has happened, yes. I went on to have a relationship with him for a few years. We are not together anymore, but still great friends.

When you have a connection on all levels, the feeling can initially be extremely intense. Those feelings do wane though. I don't know your situation OP, but I hope it works out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Ended up living together for about 9 months. We split up but we are friends now though. Was very intense feelings throughout the time we were together and it was a bit of a emotional rollercoaster at times.

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