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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why am I swamped with guys only 5ft 2.

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

Me too

Are you tall?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

5ft 7 ish. So not really tall, but tall enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not called Snow White by any chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your not called Snow White by any chance "

PMSL. Can't be arsed with grumpy and dopey (the average turned down short man)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tons of guys lie about their Hight on here so a filter would only filter out the people who are honest about their Hight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6,4 and always willing to help

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By *hinypants77Man
over a year ago

Leeds

How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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A height filter would be first on my list to add to the search options followed by body type, You have to put them on your profile so why not add them to the search

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true and it has happened off a different site. He claimed 6ft 2 so I wore heels

He came up to my chin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very true and it has happened off a different site. He claimed 6ft 2 so I wore heels

He came up to my chin!"

Were you pleased he was such a heavy cummer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tons of guys lie about their Hight on here so a filter would only filter out the people who are honest about their Hight.

"

There’s no point lying about height on here, the lie kind of becomes obvious if you meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another thing for people to lie about to get round filters if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely they can't swamp you if they're that small??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very true and it has happened off a different site. He claimed 6ft 2 so I wore heels

He came up to my chin!

Were you pleased he was such a heavy cummer? "

That's quite an achievement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most filters a pretty much useless here. You're relying on those filling in the data fields being truthful.

There will always be people who will bend the reality in order to fit someone else's desires, even if it means they end up looking like a bit of a twonk when they get called out on it.

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially. "

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me "

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add a weight filter

Add a boob size filter

Add a dick size filter

The list is endless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tons of guys lie about their Hight on here so a filter would only filter out the people who are honest about their Hight.

There’s no point lying about height on here, the lie kind of becomes obvious if you meet lol "

I agree but I know a few women that have told me they meet a guy and he is obviously a lot shorter than his profile says.

I personally think that there should be lots of filters you everyone can filter out anyone that are not looking.

That way the more fussy the less profiles you will see and the more open minded the more opportunities you will have to meet people.

There are tons of profiles saying they are only looking for people of a certain height, race, penis size, body shape etc if people could filter then it might make them realise they are not likely to get a meet with anyone because they have filtered most people out.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Better to add a maximum weight filter and a BMI filter too,height is what it is but the amount of photos of peeps that are taking at "flattering" angles and the person describing themselves as average body type is shocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a snotty attitude filter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Add a weight filter

Add a boob size filter

Add a dick size filter

The list is endless "

I was going to say something similar. Where do we draw the line when we start to genetically modify our ideal meet?

A GM Meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A filter for what day you were born on? I want One of those.

Born in a Tuesday? Call me.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

IQ filter would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A filter for what day you were born on? I want One of those.

Born in a Tuesday? Call me. "

I actually was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A filter for what day you were born on? I want One of those.

Born in a Tuesday? Call me.

I actually was! "

Oh hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Add a weight filter

Add a boob size filter

Add a dick size filter

The list is endless "

Verification photo stood next to a metre ruler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6,4 and always willing to help "

I need help getting into my loft to get my Xmas decorations....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A filter for what day you were born on? I want One of those.

Born in a Tuesday? Call me.

I actually was!

Oh hello "

Hi

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

We like shorter guys. We are deluged by giants. A lot over 6’2. Bloody ridiculous our house was built for hobits. And besides visually it’s better to see smaller guys with Sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ordinarily I would have agreed with you as I’m 5’7 and love wearing very high heels so would always want over 6ft....

However I have met some very sexy men at my height

MrsK x

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Much prefer a taller guy 5”10 and above for me is perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A height filter would be first on my list to add to the search options followed by body type, You have to put them on your profile so why not add them to the search "

Height and dress size would be great additions to the search options. Yes some people will tell porkies but the majority would be honest.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

I am 6'3"

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Why am I swamped with guys only 5ft 2.

"

I hope the site adds it as a function, just after they put a weight filter on too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why am I swamped with guys only 5ft 2.

I hope the site adds it as a function, just after they put a weight filter on too"

Agreed ...also the amount of overweight people lying on profiles claiming there curvy

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.


"Why am I swamped with guys only 5ft 2.

"

Maybe the 5ft 2 women are being swamped by the tall men

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

Some might appreciate a maximum height filter too. Some of us trannies can get way tall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6,4 and always willing to help

I need help getting into my loft to get my Xmas decorations.... "

I'll even bring my own baubles

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Mrs F wears 6in heels and I can wear platforms so we will now change our height on profile. All is ok though as we will never take our shoes off. Hope being taller will enhance our already lovely persona and get even more meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height filter would be great as I like women under 5'7", but that would be useless unless accompanied with a body type and weight filter as I also like my woman of all shapes, slim or curvy etc just not grossly overweight types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love a height filter; purely a personal thing in that I'm really not into guys who are shorter than me.

Is height a reasonable reason for refusing someone? To me, yes, because there has to be physical attraction. Might I miss out on an incredible experience as a result? Possibly, but I'm not looking for my soul mate, so I'm fine with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree I'm 5'7 and love heels so the heightly challenged guys aren't my preference

Am sick of the cheesy line we're all the same height laid down, maybe I like to play stood up...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here "

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

I’m not the tallest and if such a filter exsisted then I would never had met one of the tallest ladies on Fab, she towers over me but we got along great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm no thanks. I can’t be having that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring in a minimum height filter and most women would probably set it to 6ft and above. Well that's me fucked haha

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I’m not the tallest and if such a filter exsisted then I would never had met one of the tallest ladies on Fab, she towers over me but we got along great "

Yeah we do

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Bring in a minimum height filter and most women would probably set it to 6ft and above. Well that's me fucked haha "

I'd set mine to 5ft 7. Oh what a coincidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not the tallest and if such a filter exsisted then I would never had met one of the tallest ladies on Fab, she towers over me but we got along great

Yeah we do "

Aww shucks you two...

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think


"I’m not the tallest and if such a filter exsisted then I would never had met one of the tallest ladies on Fab, she towers over me but we got along great

Yeah we do

Aww shucks you two... "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only 5ft 1 but I only like guys 6ft and over. Love a big man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish there was as I would love a meet with a taller lady.

Also would like a body type filter as I like my women with a bit of meat on them.

Any 6ft curvy+ ladies out there, give me a shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bring in a minimum height filter and most women would probably set it to 6ft and above. Well that's me fucked haha "

Me to lol I'm only 5'3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 6'1 wanna play x

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height "

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”? "

Because the lads on the white horses wouldn't get their chivalrous pity fucks if it were

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

I repeat i am 6'3".

Lol

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”? "

How can an adult add to their height - You mean like wearing platform shoes like tom cruise does?

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”?

How can an adult add to their height - You mean like wearing platform shoes like tom cruise does? "

No. You can have surgery. It involves breaking your legs and having them stretched so it’s not for the faint hearted.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


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No. You can have surgery. It involves breaking your legs and having them stretched so it’s not for the faint hearted. "

I can vouch it isn't.

My son had surgery last Dec, he has hemiplegia & his left leg was 7cm shorter than his right.

It's now only a 2cm difference.

5months before he could weight bare, the rehab & physio was intense and still ongoing.

He's the bravest person I know.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I take it as a given some men have a strange mental block about their true height. I have male friends who are convinced they are taller than me, and even after standing back to back to prove we are the same height they won't have it!

And on sites like this I have found it's the same.I usually subtract a couple of inches from any claimed height. It generally proves to be more accurate.

I have been out with guys shorter than me (I'm 5 foot 7) so it's not a deal breaker but I do prefer taller men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The joys of being 6'4.

Even if clothes are harder to find.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Why am I swamped with guys only 5ft 2.

"

Probably because most men don’t know what inches really are

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"The joys of being 6'4.

Even if clothes are harder to find. "

Same problem here, manufacturers assume tall goes with fat so you get a shirt where the sleeves are long enough but it fits you like a marquee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me "

Why do you care? Sure you don't meet anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The joys of being 6'4.

Even if clothes are harder to find.

Same problem here, manufacturers assume tall goes with fat so you get a shirt where the sleeves are long enough but it fits you like a marquee "

Exactly. Medium frame, just long body. So mediums become a crop top, XLs become tents.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Why am I swamped with guys only 5ft 2.

Probably because most men don’t know what inches really are "

My ex used to crash her car when parking as I would say it's ok bring it back 10 inches and she'd hit something after 4

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"The joys of being 6'4.

Even if clothes are harder to find.

Same problem here, manufacturers assume tall goes with fat so you get a shirt where the sleeves are long enough but it fits you like a marquee

Exactly. Medium frame, just long body. So mediums become a crop top, XLs become tents. "

Lmao I thought it was just me, I'm going to talk to a little old lady who has a shop that mainly alters women's clothing to see what she would charge to alter some shirts of mine etc

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


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No. You can have surgery. It involves breaking your legs and having them stretched so it’s not for the faint hearted.

I can vouch it isn't.

My son had surgery last Dec, he has hemiplegia & his left leg was 7cm shorter than his right.

It's now only a 2cm difference.

5months before he could weight bare, the rehab & physio was intense and still ongoing.

He's the bravest person I know. "

I used to want it done when I was younger, I saw it on a documentary about young women doing it to meet the height requirements for air hostesses.

These days I’m still not happy but realise I’m not that short and longer legs wouldn’t make much of a difference in my life. Now longer legs and a longer body, I’d be down for haha.

I hope your son is recovering well

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


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He's the bravest person I know.

I used to want it done when I was younger, I saw it on a documentary about young women doing it to meet the height requirements for air hostesses.

These days I’m still not happy but realise I’m not that short and longer legs wouldn’t make much of a difference in my life. Now longer legs and a longer body, I’d be down for haha.

I hope your son is recovering well "

Thank you lovey x

He's doing amazing now.

15 in Jan & finally able to walk without the use of a frame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”? "

I don't think it is acceptable generally speaking, just on here where fat women have the upper hand in comparison to the real world where life is just as desperate for them as it is for a lot of the men on here.

Filters are good in theory but in practice they would be hard to rely on.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Why am I swamped with guys only 5ft 2.

"

Why don't you dress up as Snow White and visit the local schools and hospitals to spread some goodwill with your dwarf followers

Might as well have something good come of it

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”?

I don't think it is acceptable generally speaking, just on here where fat women have the upper hand in comparison to the real world where life is just as desperate for them as it is for a lot of the men on here.

Filters are good in theory but in practice they would be hard to rely on.

"

quite a few of us don’t struggle in real life but thanks for making it sound like we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why am I swamped with guys only 5ft 2.

"

Maybe the lads at 5`2" don't have "fat Filter" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”?

I don't think it is acceptable generally speaking, just on here where fat women have the upper hand in comparison to the real world where life is just as desperate for them as it is for a lot of the men on here.

Filters are good in theory but in practice they would be hard to rely on.

quite a few of us don’t struggle in real life but thanks for making it sound like we do "

It's fine, don't mention it.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Why am I swamped with guys only 5ft 2.

Maybe the lads at 5`2" don't have "fat Filter" lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be more than happy with a height filter...also a weight filter, and any other filter you want to add. People have preferences. Shallow...possibly...but this is sex. We don't meet much because honestly, I have an issue with finding most men attractive. They must be taller than me, but otherwise, it's a personality thing. As for women, I prefer shorter women with some weight on them. Filters, as much as they would limit my choices, would also help me sort through people I'm more likely to be attracted to and isn't that the whole point of casual sex?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Why am I swamped with guys only 5ft 2.

Maybe the lads at 5`2" don't have "fat Filter" lol "

Incoming!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”?

I don't think it is acceptable generally speaking, just on here where fat women have the upper hand in comparison to the real world where life is just as desperate for them as it is for a lot of the men on here.

Filters are good in theory but in practice they would be hard to rely on.

"

Like everything else they would just be a guide. I think we underestimate the majority of people. Most would be honest.

You can already block based on age, so why not height?

Surely it would be a better experience for everyone.

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By *oody69erMan
over a year ago

midlands


"Me too

Are you tall? "

6ft 4 here ??

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Small guys would just stand next to scaled down kids furniture In there pics

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

At 4'9 there's no minimum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”?

How can an adult add to their height - You mean like wearing platform shoes like tom cruise does?

No. You can have surgery. It involves breaking your legs and having them stretched so it’s not for the faint hearted. "

So the your solution for people being too shirt is for then to have some pretty intense surgery??

And yet earlier on said that not everyone would want to change their weight, well I'm pretty sure not everyone would want to change their height either.

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”?

How can an adult add to their height - You mean like wearing platform shoes like tom cruise does?

No. You can have surgery. It involves breaking your legs and having them stretched so it’s not for the faint hearted.

So the your solution for people being too shirt is for then to have some pretty intense surgery??

And yet earlier on said that not everyone would want to change their weight, well I'm pretty sure not everyone would want to change their height either.

"

OMG…this has got way out of hand…is it not ok to have a preference for taller guys!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”?

How can an adult add to their height - You mean like wearing platform shoes like tom cruise does?

No. You can have surgery. It involves breaking your legs and having them stretched so it’s not for the faint hearted.

So the your solution for people being too shirt is for then to have some pretty intense surgery??

And yet earlier on said that not everyone would want to change their weight, well I'm pretty sure not everyone would want to change their height either.

OMG…this has got way out of hand…is it not ok to have a preference for taller guys!?!"

Clearly not

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”?

How can an adult add to their height - You mean like wearing platform shoes like tom cruise does?

No. You can have surgery. It involves breaking your legs and having them stretched so it’s not for the faint hearted.

So the your solution for people being too shirt is for then to have some pretty intense surgery??

And yet earlier on said that not everyone would want to change their weight, well I'm pretty sure not everyone would want to change their height either.

"

Completely missed the point of my post.

The point was you can change your height. Someone said you couldn’t. Well you can.

At NO point did I say people should or have to change their height in the same way people don’t have to change their weight.

But way to completely twist my words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5'11 here

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”?

How can an adult add to their height - You mean like wearing platform shoes like tom cruise does?

No. You can have surgery. It involves breaking your legs and having them stretched so it’s not for the faint hearted.

So the your solution for people being too shirt is for then to have some pretty intense surgery??

And yet earlier on said that not everyone would want to change their weight, well I'm pretty sure not everyone would want to change their height either.

OMG…this has got way out of hand…is it not ok to have a preference for taller guys!?!"

I didn’t say it wasn’t. What I said was if people can have a preference for taller guys and that be perfectly acceptable. Then people having a preference when it comes to weight should be acceptable too.

I don’t care who someone likes or doesn’t to be honest. But there are people who think preference for height is fine but for weight isn’t. And personally i don’t think you can have it both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

No it's not the same, people can't change their height

Actually you can. You can add to it. Not sure if it’s possible to take away from your height other than with age.

Besides. Not everyone would want to change their weight.

Not liking someone because of their height is no different to not liking someone because of their weight.

Why is it acceptable to say “I don’t like short guys”

But not acceptable to say “I don’t like fat women”?

How can an adult add to their height - You mean like wearing platform shoes like tom cruise does?

No. You can have surgery. It involves breaking your legs and having them stretched so it’s not for the faint hearted.

So the your solution for people being too shirt is for then to have some pretty intense surgery??

And yet earlier on said that not everyone would want to change their weight, well I'm pretty sure not everyone would want to change their height either.

OMG…this has got way out of hand…is it not ok to have a preference for taller guys!?!

I didn’t say it wasn’t. What I said was if people can have a preference for taller guys and that be perfectly acceptable. Then people having a preference when it comes to weight should be acceptable too.

I don’t care who someone likes or doesn’t to be honest. But there are people who think preference for height is fine but for weight isn’t. And personally i don’t think you can have it both ways. "

The ability or not to change your height or weight is irrelevant. We can search on ethnicity, so why not height and dress size?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If women were to have all of their filters that they want, there would be a funny role reversal in the amount of messages they and men get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like guys that are shorter than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can’t bring myself to meet a shorter man. I think I’d want to mother them.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

I’m 5’7” n have only ever met with one lady taller than me and she was really nice (even asked if I wanted her to walk in the kerb! Lol) I think is shorter guys get a bit of a rough deal generally

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

I've had men lie about their height, I've turned up, realised and said goodbye. I won't fuck someone I'm not sexually attracted to and I can't stand liars


"Tons of guys lie about their Hight on here so a filter would only filter out the people who are honest about their Hight.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive honestly never thought about it. I never check a man's height on his profile either.

I guess being on the short side myself it's never really mattered-Ive never met a man shorter than me.

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably why I don't get much then as ima short arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, that’s me fucked then standing tall at 5’4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, that’s me fucked then standing tall at 5’4

"

Great thighs! Yum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better to add a maximum weight filter and a BMI filter too,height is what it is but the amount of photos of peeps that are taking at "flattering" angles and the person describing themselves as average body type is shocking."

Most muscular people have a high bmi just like us short chubby people do, it wouldn't really help! People just need to describe themselves on their profile and take honest pics........ it's the age old problem with the descriptive term 'athletic build' a gymnast is an athlete as is a shot putter but both will be very different builds

#honestyisbest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive honestly never thought about it. I never check a man's height on his profile either.

I guess being on the short side myself it's never really mattered-Ive never met a man shorter than me. "

At 5ft 2.5" it's never been a problem for me either but I can see why it would annoy people if someone's added a few inches to their height on profile

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

What if a short person identifies as a tall person? It seems to be all the rage these days anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last vanilla date (2006) said she had a height stipulation on her profile, because she was tall. She agreed to meet a guy who turned out to be 5'4". She asked him why he'd lied about his height, when it would be so obvious on meeting. He said he figured she wouldn't meet him if he told the truth. Because lying is the best way to get a 2nd date, obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if a short person identifies as a tall person? It seems to be all the rage these days anyway "

What if an arse identifies as a nice bloke? That seems to be all the rage, too.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"What if a short person identifies as a tall person? It seems to be all the rage these days anyway

What if an arse identifies as a nice bloke? That seems to be all the rage, too."

one persons arse is another persons dream it's all about perceptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here "

I know exactly what you mean! I’m just over 5.10. I like to wear heels occasionally. I at least like a guy to match me In height. But I have played with some amazing guys who are just a tiny bit under so don’t rule it out completely.

Although I do often find it’s the guys that have the issue. My last Dom was 5.10 and he always asked me to remove my shoes before we played as I was too tall!!!!

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

I know exactly what you mean! I’m just over 5.10. I like to wear heels occasionally. I at least like a guy to match me In height. But I have played with some amazing guys who are just a tiny bit under so don’t rule it out completely.

Although I do often find it’s the guys that have the issue. My last Dom was 5.10 and he always asked me to remove my shoes before we played as I was too tall!!!!

"

Sod that I want whoever I’m with to look and feel amazing and if that means they tower over me then so be it x

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

Yes please! I'm just not sexually attracted to shorter men, my profile says I'm not but doesn't stop them asks no and talking crap such as 'we're all the same size lying down ' no false!

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"Very true and it has happened off a different site. He claimed 6ft 2 so I wore heels

He came up to my chin!"

That's was a fucking good shot...

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Yes please! I'm just not sexually attracted to shorter men, my profile says I'm not but doesn't stop them asks no and talking crap such as 'we're all the same size lying down ' no false! "

had a quick gander at your profile and yup it does mention the height thing,think it's in chapter 15 paragraph 27.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Add a weight filter

Add a boob size filter

Add a dick size filter

The list is endless "

The end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why am I swamped with guys only 5ft 2.

"

Much easier than a height filter, just get a box for them to stand on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should really get rid of the veri Bladey wrote for me.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me

I feel your pain honey. I like to feel small next to a man too

Same here

I know exactly what you mean! I’m just over 5.10. I like to wear heels occasionally. I at least like a guy to match me In height. But I have played with some amazing guys who are just a tiny bit under so don’t rule it out completely.

Although I do often find it’s the guys that have the issue. My last Dom was 5.10 and he always asked me to remove my shoes before we played as I was too tall!!!!

Sod that I want whoever I’m with to look and feel amazing and if that means they tower over me then so be it x"

I'll be wearing the 5" heels tomorrow then!

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"How about have an overweight filter too?

Same thing essentially.

No, no, no it isn't…grrr….

Speaking generally as a tall woman who loves wearing heels its just such a gorgeous feeling to be next to a man & still feel small. Please have some sympathy….I've craved this all my life only to find gorgeous tall men all love short women…boo hoo for me "

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Yes please! I'm just not sexually attracted to shorter men, my profile says I'm not but doesn't stop them asks no and talking crap such as 'we're all the same size lying down ' no false!

had a quick gander at your profile and yup it does mention the height thing,think it's in chapter 15 paragraph 27."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why am I swamped with guys only 5ft 2.

"

Look what you started

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