FabSwingers.com forum: Better with age.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wine, we know matures well. And so does some cheeses. But do men, when it come down to sex?

My virginity was over quickly, and if I'm honest, most of my early exploits when exploring sex with ladies was probably very selfish, it wasn't so much about them. And when it was over for me, it was over for them too. And in truth, it was only into my twenties that a woman's orgasm started to become more of a priority than mine. (I know right

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So to start a debate, can anyone sincerely say, they were better at sex when younger, than you are now?

Or are you enjoying sex more with younger kids than those that are older than them?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

No and no cos I've not had anything

Still sailing dry over hear

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I would certainly like to think I was better, but I'm not the right one to judge that - I certainly know I'm more aware of my partners needs now than I was back then, and definitely know it's not just about 2 mins of in and out!!

That said when I was younger the only things we had to guide us were school sex education (factual and clinical) and the stories/letters sections of Mayfair, Fiesta and the like, so we weren't necessarily as sexually aware, or experimental as younger people are today.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

For me it’s just shades of crap - hopefully I’m slightly less crap than I was when I was younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not better when younger but at times it was a lot more exciting! The risks I took for sexual kicks I probably wouldn't even consider now! And it was the eighties...we were all at it like rabbits

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not better when younger but at times it was a lot more exciting! The risks I took for sexual kicks I probably wouldn't even consider now! And it was the eighties...we were all at it like rabbits

Peach x"

Jeez, you were wilder?!!!

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I'm more confident now and will say what I'd like and what I don't...

Also looking to experiment and see where that goes, whereas when I was younger I wouldn't of tried for fear of being judged...

The saying youth is wasted on the young comes to mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I'm better now cause I'm more confident. Mr also says certain techniques have improved over the years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peach x

Jeez, you were wilder?!!!

I'm just glad mobile phones and the Internet wasn't about!

Anyway, what ya chatting about? I'm an angel

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peach x

Jeez, you were wilder?!!!

I'm just glad mobile phones and the Internet wasn't about!

Anyway, what ya chatting about? I'm an angel

Peach x"

It's must all just be rumours then!

Think you maybe need to look up the definition of angel. Unless your a hells angel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more confident now and aware of my own sexuality.

I was shy and easily lead when younger. I would do things to please a partner not because I enjoyed them.

I wouldn't say I was selfish now but I understand the balance of give and take and I enjoy that I can take now too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better than when I was younger is probably not really for me to say...

But I do hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the fact that older generally means you've lived a bit too. By that I mean watched partners (at their worst) giving birth, vomiting down loos, dying of flu etc and can understand that the body isn't perfect but still loving it anyway.

Not said very well but I know what I mean

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

You certainly enjoy sex more with age. When you're younger you're driven by hormones (well I was), but sex when you get older takes on a different and sexier perspective. You can appreciate it more. So youngsters reading have a lot to look forward to.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Definitely much better now! I know what I like, am far more confident in my own skills, and also more comfortable in my own skin

But I still select younger partners... partly because they tend to be more fun and appreciate my often childish sense of humour... and partly down to stamina... they simply gotta be able to recover fast and keep up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up until 4 years ago I thought I was good in bed. Now I realise how terrible I was I feel like going back to those women and apologising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been with older guys who were incredible and younger guys who were incredible....think it depends on the person and sometimes experience.

I'm definitely a better shag than I was 5 years ago though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Up until 4 years ago I thought I was good in bed. Now I realise how terrible I was I feel like going back to those women and apologising.

Hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet younger guys. I have yet to find a guy on here much older than me that I'm attracted to. Some of the younger guys I have met have been incredible.

I think I'm a better lover than in earlier days, more daring and definitely insistent that it's a two-way thing and not all about the guy.

I'm very out of practice though so hope I don't forget how to...well...you know....do stuff!!!!

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

I thought I was good in bed till I found out all my ex’s had asthma

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Other than a few of quick knee tremblers with girls that wanted the bragging rights of having fucked a squaddie, my first serious relationship was not until I was 19. Looking back, I see it as a slightly abusive relationship, she being the dom and me as the curious sub. She made sure to know if I displeased her in ways now I know were slightly extreme and violent, but I knew no different, it's not like when I was young we had the Internet and my parents didn't advise me about s&m when telling me about the birds and the bees.. even the term femdom meant something totally different being a female contraceptive that could also double as a fishing keep net or a windsock..

But one thing that relationship taught me was how to listen to and appease a lady, and definitely unselfish when it comes to sex.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Blue - sorry that happened to you.

I'm definitely more confident in my sexuality, know what I do and don't like, but also hopefully better at reading my partners too so I can tell what they like and aren't so keen on so I can adjust accordingly.

Hopefully this all means a good time is had by all

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