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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve just had a guy rip into me cos I’ve had 50 people cancel meets this year. Said it’s my fault cos I didn’t plan properly. I must have hundreds of meets to get that many cancellations. It puts people off to have hundreds of meets etcetc

If he looked at me veris he would see I’ve had 6 this year lol. I plan. I chat. I arrange meets. I know I’m not the only one who’s been let down but is it really my fault every time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it? I dunno..I'd have to see all your conversations!

On a side note though, bugger me I like yer pics

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Lol ty

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

No, never your fault for people not showing up, ever.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Doesn't matter if you've had one cancelled meet or 250 of them - there's no need for anyone to rip into you especially without knowing the facts.

Block, delete, move on

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Ty. Was beginning to think I was doing something wrong. I check profiles. I read veris. We chat for a while. See if we like the same things. Arrange a time day place etc. Then bam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol ty"

Penny just dropped! That tatt looks familiar, think we chatted ever so briefly off the back of a tattoo thread a bit ago...

I confused myself then

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Doesn't matter if you've had one cancelled meet or 250 of them - there's no need for anyone to rip into you especially without knowing the facts.

Block, delete, move on "
blocked now. I think he was sulking cos I didn’t arrange a meet with him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to over think it I guess! Other peoples actions are never gonna be your fault, I just dont see why they need to act like an asshole cause they aren't getting some hah. You've dodged a bullet if their attitudes like that.

Chin up! X

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Lol ty

Penny just dropped! That tatt looks familiar, think we chatted ever so briefly off the back of a tattoo thread a bit ago...

I confused myself then "
yes lol. Having them reworked etc lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Ty. Was beginning to think I was doing something wrong. I check profiles. I read veris. We chat for a while. See if we like the same things. Arrange a time day place etc. Then bam. "

There's only so much you can do to verify if someone is genuine and sounds like you're doing most of it

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Ty. Sometimes we can laugh it off. Put it down to a bad day etc. But sometimes it niggles and makes us think twice about ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol ty

Penny just dropped! That tatt looks familiar, think we chatted ever so briefly off the back of a tattoo thread a bit ago...

I confused myself then yes lol. Having them reworked etc lol"

That's the one

Hope your well X bar the cancellations that is

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Lol ty

Penny just dropped! That tatt looks familiar, think we chatted ever so briefly off the back of a tattoo thread a bit ago...

I confused myself then yes lol. Having them reworked etc lol

That's the one

Hope your well X bar the cancellations that is "
lol yes ty. Poddling along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not responsible for the actions of others and have no control over what they may do or not do.

Don't stress it it's your fab your way those who don't accept that are not worth worrying about.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I’ve just had a guy rip into me cos I’ve had 50 people cancel meets this year. Said it’s my fault cos I didn’t plan properly. I must have hundreds of meets to get that many cancellations. It puts people off to have hundreds of meets etcetc

If he looked at me veris he would see I’ve had 6 this year lol. I plan. I chat. I arrange meets. I know I’m not the only one who’s been let down but is it really my fault every time?"

To be fair if you'd been a single man posting that's EXACTLY what would have been said: double standards on here.

People have lives outside fab and if they've cancelled I truly can't see what your problem is with that.

If you were waiting, dressed to impress with legs akimbo I'd still question your selection process as in seven years never had a no show and I'm not alone in that.

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"You are not responsible for the actions of others and have no control over what they may do or not do.

Don't stress it it's your fab your way those who don't accept that are not worth worrying about.

"
wise as always hine xx

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I’ve just had a guy rip into me cos I’ve had 50 people cancel meets this year. Said it’s my fault cos I didn’t plan properly. I must have hundreds of meets to get that many cancellations. It puts people off to have hundreds of meets etcetc

If he looked at me veris he would see I’ve had 6 this year lol. I plan. I chat. I arrange meets. I know I’m not the only one who’s been let down but is it really my fault every time?

To be fair if you'd been a single man posting that's EXACTLY what would have been said: double standards on here.

People have lives outside fab and if they've cancelled I truly can't see what your problem is with that.

If you were waiting, dressed to impress with legs akimbo I'd still question your selection process as in seven years never had a no show and I'm not alone in that."
the problem is no excuse. I have a life too. I have family etc. But the fact they cancel with no reason or just don’t turn up when I’m sat there yes all dressed up ready in a hotel room waiting. Then that is my problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fab I think. A lot of people are dreamers. Arrange something and then realise it's not for them.

Or just enjoy the chase too much!

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By *oreverHorny69Man
over a year ago

Milnrow

How can it possible be your fault if people don’t show. I always show for meets, as you will do too xx

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Glad you’ve not had a no show. As for guys. They don’t deserve it either. I’m not stupid or desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the hell is it any of some randoms business how many meets you may, or may not have had??

What a knob.

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"What the hell is it any of some randoms business how many meets you may, or may not have had??

What a knob.

"
xxxx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

You're a 100% responsible for 50% of the interactions between you, your share.

You have no control over how somebody else behaves or if they are everything they say they are going to be.

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"You're a 100% responsible for 50% of the interactions between you, your share.

You have no control over how somebody else behaves or if they are everything they say they are going to be.

"
true. And I only arrange meets after chatting to see if we would get on. Luckily met a few nice people and continue to meet them. So those who cancel are losing out

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By *oreverHorny69Man
over a year ago

Milnrow


"Glad you’ve not had a no show. As for guys. They don’t deserve it either. I’m not stupid or desperate. "

I have had a no show and rearranged an appointment to meet them. She messaged and said to get stiff as she was minutes away. I’m still waiting 12 months later no longer stiff though. They left fab 10 mins later

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Glad you’ve not had a no show. As for guys. They don’t deserve it either. I’m not stupid or desperate.

I have had a no show and rearranged an appointment to meet them. She messaged and said to get stiff as she was minutes away. I’m still waiting 12 months later no longer stiff though. They left fab 10 mins later"
ouch. Yeah I had a guy tell me he was in the Taxi. See you soon. Never turned up but was online on fab posting for meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman or couple has opened and answered over 50 pm's this year????

Is nobody questioning the authenticity of this idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not your fault at all, we've all had them.

Problem is with some men on here is that they have a lot of talk but when it comes down to it they don't have the balls to do what they say they're going to.

I've had 3 cancelled in the past week, all guys I've been speaking to for quite some time.

1 had a legit reason, 1 was honest and said he forgot and 1 said he fell asleep cause it was planned to be a late one.

Just dust your self off and keep going

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"A woman or couple has opened and answered over 50 pm's this year????

Is nobody questioning the authenticity of this idea? "
cheeky! I try my best to read and reply

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Not your fault at all, we've all had them.

Problem is with some men on here is that they have a lot of talk but when it comes down to it they don't have the balls to do what they say they're going to.

I've had 3 cancelled in the past week, all guys I've been speaking to for quite some time.

1 had a legit reason, 1 was honest and said he forgot and 1 said he fell asleep cause it was planned to be a late one.

Just dust your self off and keep going

"
i dont mind if im given an excuse, just vanish is rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

and thanks for the nice replies, but excue the pic, it was for another thread lol

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

In situations like this, try to remember that in every bunch of roses you will inevitably find a prick...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just had a guy rip into me cos I’ve had 50 people cancel meets this year. Said it’s my fault cos I didn’t plan properly. I must have hundreds of meets to get that many cancellations. It puts people off to have hundreds of meets etcetc

If he looked at me veris he would see I’ve had 6 this year lol. I plan. I chat. I arrange meets. I know I’m not the only one who’s been let down but is it really my fault every time?"

Bet he blocked you too like a coward .. The eeejot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and thanks for the nice replies, but excue the pic, it was for another thread lol"

Never apologize for that view!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another cock womble, fooking loads on here. I always found it best to not give them any ammunition. The slightest weakness or bit of negativity on here and some dumb ass will jump on you to try and make their feeble existance more bearable. Don't let it get to you

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"In situations like this, try to remember that in every bunch of roses you will inevitably find a prick... "
love it

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I’ve just had a guy rip into me cos I’ve had 50 people cancel meets this year. Said it’s my fault cos I didn’t plan properly. I must have hundreds of meets to get that many cancellations. It puts people off to have hundreds of meets etcetc

If he looked at me veris he would see I’ve had 6 this year lol. I plan. I chat. I arrange meets. I know I’m not the only one who’s been let down but is it really my fault every time?

Bet he blocked you too like a coward .. The eeejot! "
yup lol

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By *ancduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Just another cock womble, fooking loads on here. I always found it best to not give them any ammunition. The slightest weakness or bit of negativity on here and some dumb ass will jump on you to try and make their feeble existance more bearable. Don't let it get to you "

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