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"I attempt to bedazzle with pretentious verbiage whereupon my intended invariably runs a mile on account that I am a pompous arsehole " Twat | |||
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"When writing a message do you put much thought into it? Do you think about how it might come across, do you try to impress people with wit or charm or eloquent words? Do you go back and proof read or do you send without checking? I guess it also depends on what you receive? " I overthink it to hell. How the other person perceives you in this case matters more than any other time. As the saying goes you only get one chance to make a first impression. I don't go out to impress in any form. I want the reciever to think I am a genuinely normal nice person. Take me as I am attitude and get across that I am all those things. I proof read as I am going then at the end. | |||
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"When writing a message do you put much thought into it? Do you think about how it might come across, do you try to impress people with wit or charm or eloquent words? Do you go back and proof read or do you send without checking? I guess it also depends on what you receive? " I put quite an effort into my messaging, particularly when making first contact. I do check for grammar and sentence structure, but i'll admit to being slightly ocd in that department. I'd say I receive a reply back a good 75% of the time, though sometimes the response is so short and cryptic i'm left scratching my head | |||
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"I just say the first thing that comes into my head, or I like to tell them the first thing I thought when I saw their profile...doesn't always work out though Peach x" This is me. I figure I want them to like me for me so I should write as I think. | |||
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"I just do a stream of consciousness now. I do try and rein it in slightly but I realised when I thought too much about things it became stilted and odd sounding, so yeah. I do apologise in advance though but they will have to deal with my atypical behaviour when we meet so fuck it." Exactly. | |||
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"I just do a stream of consciousness now. I do try and rein it in slightly but I realised when I thought too much about things it became stilted and odd sounding, so yeah. I do apologise in advance though but they will have to deal with my atypical behaviour when we meet so fuck it." this is actually where this topic popped up from. I was telling someone about a conversation I was having with someone who wrote much more eloquently and concise than me and it was making me think about my replies, I felt like it was making me lose myself a bit as I wanted to impress them. | |||
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