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By *layfulcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

a kinky mood

Do u ever feel gutted when u see a profile u like and would like to have a least a chat with the people involved but can't because you are a year out of the age range they have specified. Anyone feel the same

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Yes, an age range is a bit arbitrary - when you get to your 40s then a year or two either way makes no difference.

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By *obby931000Man
over a year ago

new york city

Nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well no....cos they don't want people my age so I don't want them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, an age range is a bit arbitrary - when you get to your 40s then a year or two either way makes no difference."

It does to those setting the preference, I’ve been a year out quite a few times when I’ve read a profile and thought I’d be suitable.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Not really if I can't message them then I'm not what they're looking for

I have mine set but I do message people outside of my age preferences if I think we might get on

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No, but I don't really look at random profiles

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By *layfulcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

a kinky mood


"Yes, an age range is a bit arbitrary - when you get to your 40s then a year or two either way makes no difference."

That's what we are trying to say. Surely age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. And every other filter that stops me from talking privately with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope because people usually stretch their age range to the possible highest anyway so even if I was only just in the range I may not be what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't think you could tell how far out of their age range you were, just that you were out of their age range.

Therefore how would you know you are out by a year or two? Because you're only a year or two off their age? Not everyone wants to meet people their own age. I wouldn't meet a man my age, I just don't find them remotely attractive. 15-20 years older or more, yes. Something about old and wrinkly for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, an age range is a bit arbitrary - when you get to your 40s then a year or two either way makes no difference.

That's what we are trying to say. Surely age is just a number"

I'm sure most wouldn't be rude about it. Maybe worth a message and just say you know your just out their range but wanted to say hi. If it's deleted at least you know then.

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By *layfulcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

a kinky mood


"Yes, an age range is a bit arbitrary - when you get to your 40s then a year or two either way makes no difference.

That's what we are trying to say. Surely age is just a number

I'm sure most wouldn't be rude about it. Maybe worth a message and just say you know your just out their range but wanted to say hi. If it's deleted at least you know then."
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If they have a filter in then u can't message, even if u are a year out

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By *layfulcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

a kinky mood


"I didn't think you could tell how far out of their age range you were, just that you were out of their age range.

Therefore how would you know you are out by a year or two? Because you're only a year or two off their age? Not everyone wants to meet people their own age. I wouldn't meet a man my age, I just don't find them remotely attractive. 15-20 years older or more, yes. Something about old and wrinkly for me."

You can see in their profile their age range

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"Not really if I can't message them then I'm not what they're looking for

I have mine set but I do message people outside of my age preferences if I think we might get on "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, an age range is a bit arbitrary - when you get to your 40s then a year or two either way makes no difference.

That's what we are trying to say. Surely age is just a number

I'm sure most wouldn't be rude about it. Maybe worth a message and just say you know your just out their range but wanted to say hi. If it's deleted at least you know then..

If they have a filter in then u can't message, even if u are a year out"

Apologies I thought you were just meaning the preference on the profile. That sucks then

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