FabSwingers.com forum: Do You Know Someone's Got A Crush On You?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The "Crush On" thread got me thinking, as someone who wouldn't noticed flirting if it slapped him in the face, do you think someone has a crush on you?

Maybe you're unsure and afraid to broach the subject with them incase you've misread the signals?

So, why don't we try here?

Good luck.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I must admit, I to am lamentably inept at reading such signals; It usually will require the flirter to wear a bright neon tee shirt with large print on it stating their intent before I (may just about) twig it

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I want some crusha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want some crusha "

Me too. Strawberry would be lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt it..the shite I talk in here in combo with this face! Nah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want some crusha "

Strawberry or banana?

Peach x

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"I want some crusha "
same here hellos!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want some crusha

Me too. Strawberry would be lovely. "

I got a crush on yooouuu

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want some crusha

Me too. Strawberry would be lovely.

I got a crush on yooouuu

Peach x "

Peach I think we all have a crush on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know no one has a crush on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone has a crush.. probably just want sex but I wouldn't count that as a crush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want some crusha

Me too. Strawberry would be lovely.

I got a crush on yooouuu

Peach x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad it's not just me OP.

I wouldn't know if someone was flirting with me unless they beat me over the head with a stick...

Even then I'd probably still not get the message

But then what is this flirting anyway...

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over a year ago

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"I want some crusha "

I had that last night. Offt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want some crusha

Me too. Strawberry would be lovely.

I got a crush on yooouuu

Peach x

Peach I think we all have a crush on you"

Yay! I have a crushee

Peach x

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I'm useless at reading signals so I'd rather someone be direct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want some crusha

Me too. Strawberry would be lovely.

I got a crush on yooouuu

Peach x

Oh cute, I made you blush

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not really crush material. So would be very surprised if someone did x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I doubt it..the shite I talk in here in combo with this face! Nah."

Think you've posted my problems!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"I don't think anyone has a crush.. probably just want sex but I wouldn't count that as a crush. "

Fab crush?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes get a hint but its generally only the ones I don't fancy back.

If its someone I like I think I convince myself they're not into me so I can hide in my shell.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

No ... I've never known anybody to have a crush on me .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know no one has a crush on me "

I've got a real soft spot for you, ever since you posted a sweet message about me!

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

Doubt anyone has a crush on me, if they do then they are certainly keeping it extremely well hidden.

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I doubt it as well but if I'm wrong get in my inbox ladies

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I have absolutely no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is having a crush different to wanting to get jiggy with?

I kind of think having a crush on someone is a bit more than just fancying them.

I could be way off the mark though of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubtful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is having a crush different to wanting to get jiggy with?

I kind of think having a crush on someone is a bit more than just fancying them.

I could be way off the mark though of course.

We have the same idea about what a crush is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doubtful."

Ahem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a crush on someone

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Is having a crush different to wanting to get jiggy with?

I kind of think having a crush on someone is a bit more than just fancying them.

I could be way off the mark though of course.

That's the way I view it too...so nope right on the mark I'd say

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Oh and to answer the OP's question, I'm generally oblivious unless someone makes it blatantly clear they're interested in me but do occasionally recognise more subtle signals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really know. I get a few fafs but never get told im anyone's crush.....

I have one major crush on a guy right now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No-one has a crush on me....

The only time I'll have a "crush" is to get to the front of a Heaven 17 concert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yup

mind you - do fab crushes count -

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I want some crusha "

Crusha Crusha Crusha coming your way.

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By *neeyedpirateMan
over a year ago

ask!

Nope

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I’m soooooo rubbish at flirting on here! But soooooooo good at it face to face

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Pretty doubtful

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I sometimes get a hint but its generally only the ones I don't fancy back.

If its someone I like I think I convince myself they're not into me so I can hide in my shell. "

How would you show someone that you fancy them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god i wish :P

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I have absolutely no idea

Those lips.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I’m soooooo rubbish at flirting on here! But soooooooo good at it face to face

Roll on Saturday.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I want some crusha

Strawberry or banana?

Peach x"

Banana please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want some crusha

Strawberry or banana?

Peach x

Banana please x"

Offt! Of course

I really fancy a milkshake now...

Peach x

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"I want some crusha "

Mmmmm I want some Crusha too!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

A crush on me

perrleasseee

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I wouldn’t have a clue if someone had a crush unless they said “Babs, I have a crush on you”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m useless at signals, and I always get them wrong. I’m also terrible at flirting, so I usually end up launching a manic sarcastic tirade at someone, hoping that the influx of abuse shows I Like them to make the effort. (This always backfires)

I much prefer the old fashioned method of sending your friend to tell their friend etc.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I wouldn't have a clue if someone did have a crush on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have a clue if someone did have a crush on me. "

You're on my hotlist but I don't have a "crush" on you

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

I expect no one has a crush on me and I'm not on any hotlist.

Have you noticed I'm feeling pretty positive today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not to worried if some.one has or hasn't. What I do know is that I have made some splendid friends here

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I want some crusha

Me too. Strawberry would be lovely. "

I'll rustle some up.

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By *iffler 2019Woman
over a year ago

Saltash aka Fraggle Rock

I wouldn't know if anyone was flirting with me unless they had a neon sign above them but saying that I am not very observant so probably wouldn't notice it. I don't think anyone has a crush on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try what? Do I have to tell them again?

Trust me, they know.

. Honestly, if she hasn't got the message (several I've sent) I've nothing else in my bag to try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only know if he told me outright .these days my does he or doesn't he fancy me rador is crap

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

So i just post in this thread asking the fab population if they have a crush in me or have i missread what op said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

If someone walked up to me with a flashing badge which had written on it “I fancy you, Adam” and when you press it, a little voice comes out saying “yes you, I fancy you, Adam” then I’d be like “yeah, where did you get that cool badge”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know if a guy fancy me. He'd nearly have to spell it out

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

I am shockingly bad at copping if someone has or not , they'd need it tattooed on their heads

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Unless they flat out tell me/us, no.

I just assume its banter or jokey flirting.

I prefer it when people don't beat around the bush.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sure everyone who contributed has someone who has a crush on them, or whatever you'd like to define or call it, and that they'd love a little message or wink. After all it doesn't have to be a sexual crush, what's wrong with just "liking" someone?

Go on, makes someone's night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is really hard to judge on-line if someone has a crush on you. You can't see the eye contact, the smiles or the teasing. I guess if you have a crush on someone, you need to be brave and tell them

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"If someone walked up to me with a flashing badge which had written on it “I fancy you, Adam” and when you press it, a little voice comes out saying “yes you, I fancy you, Adam” then I’d be like “yeah, where did you get that cool badge”

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Don't have any major problem in telling someone I have a crush on them but when it comes to recognising they've a crush on me I'm painfully dim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is really hard to judge on-line if someone has a crush on you. You can't see the eye contact, the smiles or the teasing. I guess if you have a crush on someone, you need to be brave and tell them

As it's almost Christmas this Tin Man would quite like to be that brave...

But it's probably a trip up the yellow brick road too far for me and probably many others here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until somebody told me I would have said: no chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want some crusha

Me too. Strawberry would be lovely.

I got a crush on yooouuu

Peach x

Peach I think we all have a crush on you"

Yeah, I'll agree with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want some crusha

Me too. Strawberry would be lovely.

I got a crush on yooouuu

Peach x

Peach I think we all have a crush on you

Yeah, I'll agree with that

Disagreeing would be futile... it’s like a scientific law.

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

My boss has a thing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want some crusha

Me too. Strawberry would be lovely.

I got a crush on yooouuu

Peach x

Peach I think we all have a crush on you

Yeah, I'll agree with that

Disagreeing would be futile... it’s like a scientific law. "

You lot..

kisses all round xx

Peach x

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Oh my word, and entire thread about getting those feelings out there and telling complete strangers that you actually like them and have a bit of a softy for them and all you can talk about it milkshake... and a nasty premixed one at that..

Well I am gonna tell ya my crush.. I'm gonna lay my balls on the line and leave my tallywhacker flapping in the wind..

Here it goes...

Peanut butter and chocolate milkshake made with proper peanut butter and chocolate icecream.. so there it is.. it's out there

Pah, you and your powdered milkshakes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh my word, and entire thread about getting those feelings out there and telling complete strangers that you actually like them and have a bit of a softy for them and all you can talk about it milkshake... and a nasty premixed one at that..

Well I am gonna tell ya my crush.. I'm gonna lay my balls on the line and leave my tallywhacker flapping in the wind..

Here it goes...

Peanut butter and chocolate milkshake made with proper peanut butter and chocolate icecream.. so there it is.. it's out there

Pah, you and your powdered milkshakes...

Peanut butter now your talking

Licks my lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am gonna tell ya my crush.. I'm gonna lay my balls on the line and leave my tallywhacker flapping in the wind..

Here it goes...

Peanut butter and chocolate milkshake made with proper peanut butter and chocolate icecream.. so there it is.. it's out there

Pah, you and your powdered milkshakes...

Sexiest thing on fab today

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am gonna tell ya my crush.. I'm gonna lay my balls on the line and leave my tallywhacker flapping in the wind..

Here it goes...

Peanut butter and chocolate milkshake made with proper peanut butter and chocolate icecream.. so there it is.. it's out there

Pah, you and your powdered milkshakes...

Can I invite myself round for one please, I'm drooling here....

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Not a clue

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By *r on the EdgeMan
over a year ago

accrington

Iv a crush on one particular sexy lady and she posted in here! Wonder if she can guess it’s her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No crushes given or received. Desire, that's another matter......

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

Nah but I’m fairly happy with myself at the mo so all’s good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few in here that o have been looking longingly at... but alas they are way too FAR away and I am way out of their league

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I very much doubt it but I live in hope!

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"Probably not "

Hello sexyspecs

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By *ngel clawsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I think I'm crushless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said it's a bit hard to tell online really.

Easier in person when you might get a cheeky smile and a blush

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

You don’t cos they all lie and tell you a load of crap in order to get what they want

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"As others have said it's a bit hard to tell online really.

Easier in person when you might get a cheeky smile and a blush

Hello Autumn76,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I have no real idea, it's hard to read between the fickle lines.

I'd prefer someone to say they like me than have a crush, seems a tad immature behaviour wise.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

I very much doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As others have said it's a bit hard to tell online really.

Easier in person when you might get a cheeky smile and a blush

Hello Autumn76,

Oh, do I see a cheeky smile and a blush

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Goodness knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A male friend of mine has told me he has a crush on me but he knows I’m not available so he doesn’t pursue it x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've always been rubbish at reading those sort of signs, I much prefer just being told!

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

As someone else has said probably easier to tell in person but even then I'm not great at reading the signs!

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"A male friend of mine has told me he has a crush on me but he knows I’m not available so he doesn’t pursue it x "

I have a crush on you , but I know you're not available, so I won't pursue it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'd need to be told and then get them to take a lie detector test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a good idea when people like me, but reading whether they like me enough to bump uglies is more of a challenge

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Nope no one has a crush on me

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

I wouldnt have a clue if someone likes me unless they jump on me and snog my face off. Even then i would look for an alternative explanation

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Nah..very much doubt it...mainly here for the forums

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire

Don’t think anyone has a crush on me? Can be useless at reading things sometimes! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a good idea when people like me, but reading whether they like me enough to bump uglies is more of a challenge"

And I don’t think anyone is mad enough to have a crush on me, they have to be pretty crazy to even like me

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

In person in fairness it's far easier to tell , online they could be as likely to kill you as kiss you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just you OP I wouldn't know unless someone told me I was never very good st reading the signs Although I'm sure I can still make Mr Quiver

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure none of the women on here have a crush on me

If i did, id have at least one pm...... I guess I'm not that likable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm pretty sure none of the women on here have a crush on me

If i did, id have at least one pm...... I guess I'm not that likable

I think I may have inadvertently chosen international shy day for this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty sure none of the women on here have a crush on me

If i did, id have at least one pm...... I guess I'm not that likable

I think I may have inadvertently chosen international shy day for this thread!

It would seem so!

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By *harmanMan
over a year ago

Living Abroad

Let’s see if someone is interest on me

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

"I wouldn't know if a guy fancy me. He'd nearly have to spell it out

I F A N C Y. Y O U.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

I very much doubt anyone has a crush on me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope no one has a crush on me "

I've got a crush on your lips. There, I said it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean doc, I’m always amazed when I meet people and once in a blue moon it actually comes out that they haven’t got a crush on me.

Thankfully as I say, it’s very rare.

I usually just put it down to them thinking I’m way out of their league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I've got more chance of winning the lottery on two consecutive weekends using the same numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know someone who has a crush on me... She told me so

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somehow I doubt it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell if I see them in person, or perhaps I'm just optimistic? Via the internet, no chance whatsoever.

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I highly doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I highly doubt it

*ahem*

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

"I highly doubt it

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

"I'd say I've got more chance of winning the lottery on two consecutive weekends using the same numbers.

I think you’d have more luck on Friday !

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I normally dont know a girl has a crush on me until she tells me she has to stop talking to me because she has a new boyfriend and its not fair on him..

and I'm like "

umm ok "

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Got a what on me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m useless at signals, and I always get them wrong. I’m also terrible at flirting, so I usually end up launching a manic sarcastic tirade at someone, hoping that the influx of abuse shows I Like them to make the effort. (This always backfires)

I much prefer the old fashioned method of sending your friend to tell their friend etc. "

Or give them a note saying will you go out with me? With boxes to tick yes or no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt it..the shite I talk in here in combo with this face! Nah."

I might know someone that has a crush on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The "Crush On" thread got me thinking, as someone who wouldn't noticed flirting if it slapped him in the face, do you think someone has a crush on you?

Maybe you're unsure and afraid to broach the subject with them incase you've misread the signals?

So, why don't we try here?

Good luck.

Generally speaking I find fellas don't do hints so straightforward is the way to go

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If you say hi to a woman at work and she looks at you and then looks down without saying a word.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know what you mean doc, I’m always amazed when I meet people and once in a blue moon it actually comes out that they haven’t got a crush on me.

Thankfully as I say, it’s very rare.

I usually just put it down to them thinking I’m way out of their league

Is that tash ingrowing in to your brain as well?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Got a what on me?

You've no need to worry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is, I'll never guess so if you do fancy me just message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is, I'll never guess so if you do fancy me just message me

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think majority if not all already know I fancy them

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"The thing is, I'll never guess so if you do fancy me just message me

Is fancying and having a crush the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be nice to get someone to crush on me for a change lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This was the sole intention, just message the person, get it off your chest, you never know or at worse, you will!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing is, I'll never guess so if you do fancy me just message me

Is fancying and having a crush the same thing?

I would say yes, is that definitive enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This was the sole intention, just message the person, get it off your chest, you never know or at worse, you will!

Can I just send a wink instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would make my day if someone had a crush on me but sadly that's not possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This was the sole intention, just message the person, get it off your chest, you never know or at worse, you will!

Can I just send a wink instead

Yes! Christ, if it's like this all the time, I don't think I want to be popular on the Forum, sod the Clique!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This was the sole intention, just message the person, get it off your chest, you never know or at worse, you will!

Can I just send a wink instead

Yes! Christ, if it's like this all the time, I don't think I want to be popular on the Foru

m, sod the Clique!

Well just my luck I'm only allowed to send one wink in 30 days il just keep on admiring him from afar

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I'd love it if someone had a crush on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm rubbish, I can never tell. There's even been times when I thought someone hasn't enjoyed a meet with me much then been shocked when they've wanted repeats.

Even if someone outright tells me I'll just get all embarrassed and make a twat of myself anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s a crush ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm kind of guessing that most of us would know if the crush had lasted a few weeks. We all like being sought after.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"The thing is, I'll never guess so if you do fancy me just message me

Is fancying and having a crush the same thing?

I would say yes, is that definitive enough?

In that case I fancy plenty of guys and I tell them too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This was the sole intention, just message the person, get it off your chest, you never know or at worse, you will!

Can I just send a wink instead

Yes! Christ, if it's like this all the time, I don't think I want to be popular on the Foru

m, sod the Clique!

Well just my luck I'm only allowed to send one wink in 30 days il just keep on admiring him from afar

There's a limit, how many do you send?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing is, I'll never guess so if you do fancy me just message me

Is fancying and having a crush the same thing?

I would say yes, is that definitive enough?

In that case I fancy plenty of guys and I tell them too

Absolutely lovely!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm rubbish, I can never tell. There's even been times when I thought someone hasn't enjoyed a meet with me much then been shocked when they've wanted repeats.

Even if someone outright tells me I'll just get all embarrassed and make a twat of myself anyway. "

Until miss red came along

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

There'll be a blizzard in hell before someone has a crush on me

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"The thing is, I'll never guess so if you do fancy me just message me

Is fancying and having a crush the same thing?

I would say yes, is that definitive enough?

In that case I fancy plenty of guys and I tell them too

Absolutely lovely!

No point faffnig about with all that coy stuff.

The worst that's going to happen is it's not mutual

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

But I can't help thinking a crush is a bit more than just fancying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think anyone has a crush on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" No, I'm kind of guessing that most of us would know if the crush had lasted a few weeks. We all like being sought after."

What does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This was the sole intention, just message the person, get it off your chest, you never know or at worse, you will!

Can I just send a wink instead

Yes! Christ, if it's like this all the time, I don't think I want to be popular on the Foru

m, sod the Clique!

Well just my luck I'm only allowed to send one wink in 30 days il just keep on admiring him from afar

There's a limit, how many do you send?

Not many and I meant I can't send the guy another wink because I've recently sent him on so grrrr

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

To be honest, I wouldn't have any clue if they did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This was the sole intention, just message the person, get it off your chest, you never know or at worse, you will!

Can I just send a wink instead

Yes! Christ, if it's like this all the time, I don't think I want to be popular on the Foru

m, sod the Clique!

Well just my luck I'm only allowed to send one wink in 30 days il just keep on admiring him from afar

There's a limit, how many do you send?

Not many and I meant I can't send the guy another wink because I've recently sent him on so grrrr "

Grow a pair..err you know what I mean. Message him. Tell him.

It does work.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"Don’t think anyone has a crush on me

That’s where you’re wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing is, I'll never guess so if you do fancy me just message me

Is fancying and having a crush the same thing?

I would say yes, is that definitive enough?

In that case I fancy plenty of guys and I tell them too

Absolutely lovely!

No point faffnig about with all that coy stuff.

The worst that's going to happen is it's not mutual

Yay! Finally, someone gets it! At least this thread'll shut soon!

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By *OOM696969Man
over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

Chance be a fine thing!

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"I'm rubbish, I can never tell. There's even been times when I thought someone hasn't enjoyed a meet with me much then been shocked when they've wanted repeats.

Even if someone outright tells me I'll just get all embarrassed and make a twat of myself anyway.

Until miss red came along

Oh I don't know, he can still make a twat of himself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This was the sole intention, just message the person, get it off your chest, you never know or at worse, you will!

Can I just send a wink instead

Yes! Christ, if it's like this all the time, I don't think I want to be popular on the Foru

m, sod the Clique!

Well just my luck I'm only allowed to send one wink in 30 days il just keep on admiring him from afar

There's a limit, how many do you send?

Not many and I meant I can't send the guy another wink because I've recently sent him on so grrrr "

Okay, sorry.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm rubbish, I can never tell. There's even been times when I thought someone hasn't enjoyed a meet with me much then been shocked when they've wanted repeats.

Even if someone outright tells me I'll just get all embarrassed and make a twat of myself anyway.

Until miss red came along

Oh I don't know, he can still make a twat of himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t think anyone has a crush on me

That’s where you’re wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This was the sole intention, just message the person, get it off your chest, you never know or at worse, you will!

Can I just send a wink instead

Yes! Christ, if it's like this all the time, I don't think I want to be popular on the Foru

m, sod the Clique!

Well just my luck I'm only allowed to send one wink in 30 days il just keep on admiring him from afar

There's a limit, how many do you send?

Not many and I meant I can't send the guy another wink because I've recently sent him on so grrrr

Grow a pair..err you know what I mean. Message him. Tell

him.

It does work."

Okay I will do here go's nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know what you mean doc, I’m always amazed when I meet people and once in a blue moon it actually comes out that they haven’t got a crush on me.

Thankfully as I say, it’s very rare.

I usually just put it down to them thinking I’m way out of their league

Is that tash ingrowing in to your brain as well?

Brain... you’re assuming a lot !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This was the sole intention, just message the person, get it off your chest, you never know or at worse, you will!

Can I just send a wink instead

Yes! Christ, if it's like this all the time, I don't think I want to be popular on the Foru

m, sod the Clique!

Well just my luck I'm only allowed to send one wink in 30 days il just keep on admiring him from afar

There's a limit, how many do you send?

Not many and I meant I can't send the guy another wink because I've recently sent him on so grrrr

Grow a pair..err you know what I mean. Message him. Tell

him.

It does work.

Okay I will do here go's nothing

Good luck. May the dreams be with you.

But you have to come back and tell us what happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm rubbish, I can never tell. There's even been times when I thought someone hasn't enjoyed a meet with me much then been shocked when they've wanted repeats.

Even if someone outright tells me I'll just get all embarrassed and make a twat of myself anyway.

Until miss red came along

Oh she doesn't have a crush on me, she just wants the penis.

Doesn't she?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I'm rubbish, I can never tell. There's even been times when I thought someone hasn't enjoyed a meet with me much then been shocked when they've wanted repeats.

Even if someone outright tells me I'll just get all embarrassed and make a twat of myself anyway.

Until miss red came along

Oh she doesn't have a crush on me, she just wants the penis.

Doesn't she? "

I’d say so pal

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