FabSwingers.com forum: Suggest to partner

By *ornd OP Man
over a year ago

All over

How would you go about suggesting to a partner you would like to bring another guy into the bedroom suation she doesn't know im bi

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'd suggest a straight mmf, tell her you had a really horny dream and you think it would be hot to see her with another guy, and gauge her reaction from there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"How would you go about suggesting to a partner you would like to bring another guy into the bedroom suation she doesn't know im bi"

establish open and honest sexual communication which will mean telling her you're bi to begin with and build from there. Once you can be honest sexually with each other it becomes possible to say what your fantasies are. This doesn't mean either of you has to act on them though.

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By *ornd OP Man
over a year ago

All over

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd suggest a straight mmf, tell her you had a really horny dream and you think it would be hot to see her with another guy, and gauge her reaction from there. "

Possibly watch a film together that has some way of you introducing the question 'what would you think to doing that' kind of thing.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Talk to her about keeping your sex life fresh and exciting, offer a comfortable evening on the sofa watching porn together, taking turns to choose which clips to watch, explore new ideas and discuss what's on screen, she might surprise you with her hidden tastes, or she might just say no ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest to her. She may already have an idea with out you even knowing. You cant beat being honest and upfront. It will make for heightened experiences. Avoids the shock if you just get stuck in if a mmf is set up

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"How would you go about suggesting to a partner you would like to bring another guy into the bedroom suation she doesn't know im bi"

Don't suggest bringing another guy into the 'bedroom situation' ( quaint )

She hasn't dealt with the fact that her partner is bi yet.

Deal with the bi part first.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Be a freak out of the gate.

(This is info for future relationships, btw. No fucking use to you at the moment, I'm afraid).

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