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Oral- to give or to receive

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By *liny OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London

Being the consummate connoisseur of cunnilingus, I always enjoy giving oral pleasure more so than receiving. Although a blow job is pleasurable I much prefer and am turned on more by giving. Feeling, hearing and tasting a woman reaching the dizzying and fingers crossed knee trembling orgasm. Do you prefer to give than receive?

Secondly, would you arrange a meet that was purely to receive oral pleasure? Or once you’ve been licked/ sucked etc do you NEED penetrative sex? Personally for me, I don’t need it but there has been on occasion when I have NEEDED it. It’s over to you girls and guys.

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By *amelhunterMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Give while receiving

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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Don’t get enough oral but if I cum from it I crave penetration. I love to give oral and have done so on occasion without sex but would honestly prefer the whole package

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give and receive but love a good hard fuck afterwards

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By *amelhunterMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"I like to give and receive but love a good hard fuck afterwards "

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Wouldn't meet if there wasn't going to be giving AND receiving.

I can think of three guys who we won't meet again who've gladly took head from xx but wouldn't give it to her.

As for penetration - yes please. We've had soft play only (not a specific meet just how the club night panned out) but that's cool as we've got each other if no one else wants us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving as much as receiving

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Both but not at the same time. I like to full concentrate and great oral isn’t something you multitask

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Both but not at the same time. I like to full concentrate and great oral isn’t something you multitask "

Giving whilst receiving oral sex is about the only bit of multitasking I can manage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a first meet with someone new I'd be more comfortable doing stuff to them then have them do stuff to me, I dunno why that is but I'd much rather suck a guys dick and stick my tongue up his arse than for him to lick me out (yeah I said it, keep it old skool) It's quite a personal private thing, I need to know the guy a bit for him to go down on me.

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By *liny OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London

I did have a meet once with the female of a couple with hubby aware at work where I only gave her oral pleasure and once she came I left! As she wanted more, she had to wait for our FMM meet a week later, before she got any cock. To say she was frustrated is a slight understatement! Hubby and myself willingly quenched her hunger!!

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By *liny OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London


"For a first meet with someone new I'd be more comfortable doing stuff to them then have them do stuff to me, I dunno why that is but I'd much rather suck a guys dick and stick my tongue up his arse than for him to lick me out (yeah I said it, keep it old skool) It's quite a personal private thing, I need to know the guy a bit for him to go down on me. "

I’ve had that experience with another lady before. Always play to your own comfort level. If they’re a good playmate they’ll fully understand.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a first meet with someone new I'd be more comfortable doing stuff to them then have them do stuff to me, I dunno why that is but I'd much rather suck a guys dick and stick my tongue up his arse than for him to lick me out (yeah I said it, keep it old skool) It's quite a personal private thing, I need to know the guy a bit for him to go down on me.

I’ve had that experience with another lady before. Always play to your own comfort level. If they’re a good playmate they’ll fully understand."
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Looking at your pictures (even though there's birds in them) you've made me put my age limit up a year!

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Birds ? The politically correct term is totty.

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By *homas1923Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Definitely with you OP...tease the inside leg at the same time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving oral to a lady while I'm receiving oral myself is a huge turn on for me.

I also love giving oral to men too, sometimes in a 69, but often while he just lies back and enjoys the pleasure, without him having to think about pleasuring me. He can do that later.

I do actually crave penetration after oral, and H is always happy to fulfill my cravings.

Angel

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Love both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely with you OP...tease the inside leg at the same time.. "

Haha 'Fab straight' are you?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Definitely prefer recieving, I'm selfish like that

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Giving is great if she is happy to relax, but I’ve never received bad oral sex either so wouldn’t turn it down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer to give, and yes in the past I've done 'blow n go' and found it very satisfying

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Have refused blow n go but only with re-meets...sounds counter intuitive but if i am re-meeting then we obviously get on well and i dont like leaving a friend feeling somewhat selfish..and crass tho it sounds its easier with a stranger..

.to the op question..much prefer a blow job but they are best for me when a soft cock worked up and toyed with ...nice slow and sloppy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how good the guy giving is, there are a few where I'd rather receive than give but is unusual. As for an oral only meet, no ta.

Tx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as I love a good BJ I definitly prefer to give rather than receive

As for the oral meeting only I don't think that would work for me as I do prefer penetrative sex to oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give and receive.

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

leicestershire

luv to give

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By *homas1923Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

very straight ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not in to oral sex at all.

Neither giving nor receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to give and receive but love a good hard fuck afterwards "

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I prefer to give, oral does nothing for me, so I definitely wouldn't have a meet that was just based on oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love both ways, but definitely not at the same time- I like to give my full attention to either enjoying the licking, or focusing on the cock worshipping - so no 69ing here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both. I like giving and knowing the effect Im having. I like making them feel good.

I like receiving, I like how it feels when someone is keen to taste me and make me feel good.

I wouldn't meet for oral alone unless it was maybe someone I met regularly and it was a prelude for further meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my clit can take it for hours, I also like to spend ages giving if time allows, but on a quick meet I'd say skip on some of the oral and let's fuck!

Peach x

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By *liny OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London


"I like both. I like giving and knowing the effect Im having. I like making them feel good.

I like receiving, I like how it feels when someone is keen to taste me and make me feel good.

I wouldn't meet for oral alone unless it was maybe someone I met regularly and it was a prelude for further meets. "

I do enjoy a brief pre-meet that teases and sometimes edges in readiness for the full meet. Best if you’ve met a few times before as we all know as everyone is more relaxed and more excited!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today was a give day. (That's what I was craving) It's a shame the day will go by like any other day.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I find oral is much like Christmas, it is always better to give than receive..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find oral is much like Christmas, it is always better to give than receive.."

I much prefer oral to Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, I love recieving a BJ, but I enjoy licking a lady more, I like to spend time building up the tension before diving in though, no one likes an eager beaver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find oral is much like Christmas, it is always better to give than receive..

I much prefer oral to Christmas "

i can promise you'll get a much nicer surprise in your stockings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too adore giving a lady a good licking/eating, could spend a very long time in that position! I love hearing her groans of pleasure and then the legs kicking out when orgasm is reached! Very, very satusfying. Of course I love a blow job, but giving gives ME more pleasure than receiving.

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By *liny OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London

And edging a woman over and over again, then her nails dig a little into your ass cheeks pulling you in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find oral is much like Christmas, it is always better to give than receive..

I much prefer oral to Christmas

i can promise you'll get a much nicer surprise in your stockings!"

Well I certainly hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being the consummate connoisseur of cunnilingus, I always enjoy giving oral pleasure more so than receiving. Although a blow job is pleasurable I much prefer and am turned on more by giving. Feeling, hearing and tasting a woman reaching the dizzying and fingers crossed knee trembling orgasm. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do luv to give more

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By *liny OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London


"I find oral is much like Christmas, it is always better to give than receive..

I much prefer oral to Christmas

i can promise you'll get a much nicer surprise in your stockings!

Well I certainly hope so

And a whole different helping of stuffing!!!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find oral is much like Christmas, it is always better to give than receive..

I much prefer oral to Christmas

i can promise you'll get a much nicer surprise in your stockings!

Well I certainly hope so

And a whole different helping of stuffing!!!

"

Much more preferable

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I like both, receiving head for me feels great for obvious reasons.

And I like giving cause the reactions I get from women when they feel what that tongue do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more of a giver than a reciever. That's not to say I don't enjoy receiving..I really do, except I have only met one or two guys who have been really good and made me cum. Then I have needed a good fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a first meet with someone new I'd be more comfortable doing stuff to them then have them do stuff to me, I dunno why that is but I'd much rather suck a guys dick and stick my tongue up his arse than for him to lick me out (yeah I said it, keep it old skool) It's quite a personal private thing, I need to know the guy a bit for him to go down on me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with both . It's how comfortable you feel with the person your with which makes it really special. Although a one night stand is a great way to show what you can do .

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By *raspireMan
over a year ago

Nr Weymouth

Simple both, one of the best parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to give, don't really like receiving, prefer penetration xx

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