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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Drive a long distance for a meet? So many guys message me who are 100+ miles away and say they don't mind driving the distance! To me it seems pointless to drive all that way for sex......

Opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I clicked with them then yeah. I travelled from Edinburgh to London to spend a weekend with someone before. It was very much worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it depends on how well you've know the person, if it's someone who I've been speaking to for a decent period of time and I felt like there was a genuine connection I would happily drive 100+ miles

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No and we won't let anyone drive a long distance to us either.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

For someone worth it yes

For some I wouldn’t even drive 10 mins down the road for

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Personally I meet for a social initially with no expectation apart from social. I wouldnt expect someone to drive tgat distance purely for a social meet. So no I wouldnt meet someone so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live so far from anywhere that 100 miles is almost a local trip.

And for the right person then the distance doesn't matter...

It's all about the girl...

After all they even allow trogladytes on Easyjet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm talking about first message!! I have children so can't accommodate over night or do evenings yet they will happily drive just for a leg over without even knowing them first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not after a few messages but once we’ve connected then yes.

And I am very soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and I have. Only for certain people though that I get on with. Wouldn’t drive cross country just for a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm talking about first message!! I have children so can't accommodate over night or do evenings yet they will happily drive just for a leg over without even knowing them first "

Oh. In that case no. I wouldn't do it nor would I meet someone willing to do that just for sex with a stranger.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Once you get to know them yes

100 miles isn’t that far in Ireland though, that’s like going from Belfast to Dublin

Well worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t just for a casual meet, but someone I’ve connected with and spent time getting to know then yes. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm talking about first message!! I have children so can't accommodate over night or do evenings yet they will happily drive just for a leg over without even knowing them first "

I think you'll find they won't really but will agree to anything you get chatting. I can't believe anyone would actually believe or continue chatting with someone who comes out with shit like that in a first message.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

If we get on then yes (except I don't drive so would need to take the train)

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I have for a regular guy (8 hour drive, there and back) Would i do it again....im not sure. If they were willing to travel half way maybe

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Nope. 30 miles max - I've got stuff to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't reply because shows they haven't bothered reading my profile

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't travel more than 45 mins for anyone, end of. I wouldn't let anyone travel miles to see me either 1. Because it would just be a social and 2. I think if they had travelled for miles they might be a little bit expectant for more than just a coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, im a Long distance tramper, so 100 clicks is nothing,.....We often used to go from Cleethorpes to London on a sat to Rios,Ive lost my lady friend so havnt been for a while,(she moved abroad)...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm talking about first message!! I have children so can't accommodate over night or do evenings yet they will happily drive just for a leg over without even knowing them first

Oh. In that case no. I wouldn't do it nor would I meet someone willing to do that just for sex with a stranger. "

Not for a stranger, but I’ve travelled 300 or so miles to spend an afternoon with someone I shouldn’t be doing that with. It was great and I’d do it again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm talking about first message!! I have children so can't accommodate over night or do evenings yet they will happily drive just for a leg over without even knowing them first "

The chances of me going anywhere to meet anyone after a first message are 0. But then as I've said before maybe I do this wrong.

I like the man cave and it's hard to prise me out of it.

I know others have a different approach but then that's their choice and I'm not going to criticise it. Just not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do it off the back of one message, but then I wouldn't meet if they were down the road either after not talking.

Happy enough to travel for someone I want to meet and have been chatting to.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yeah I'd have no problems doing that. I like driving. I like visiting new cities.

I wouldn't drive there, have sex, then drive back.

But I'd spend some time there, get a hotel etc.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

I used to leave home at 4am to drive to Sennelager in Germany for a 12 noon meeting on s faitly regular basis.

I’m happy to travel, even if it’s just for a coffee. No expectations of anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled 4 hours once, don't mind it to be honest

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've driven over that when I first started meeting. Still would if I thought it was worth it XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get men who complain if they have to come from gateshead or newcastle. A 40min journey.am in county durham.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is someone I'd travel significantly for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drive a long distance for a meet? So many guys message me who are 100+ miles away and say they don't mind driving the distance! To me it seems pointless to drive all that way for sex......

Opinions? "

You look worth it...bjt the again a hindred miles for two and a half mins lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I got to get on with the School run so my fanny is on the clock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I got on and there was a click and had spoken on phone and swapped recent pics yes I would .

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By *lwaysdiscreetMan
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

I am a lorry driver so distance is no trouble for me.

I live on the road so this silly rule saying that the person got to be at the bottom of your street or else.

Well it dont work like that when you go on the www the world wide web now

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I get men who complain if they have to come from gateshead or newcastle. A 40min journey.am in county durham."

Seems reasonable. I have travelled more than 45 minutes before, but it's rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see what the big deal is about driving a distance for a meet ...

Some people drive or commute 2 hours to work and then again to get home .

Most meets are outside the rush hours so less traffic on the roads

You do about a miLe a minute on a motorway so a hundred miles is 100 minutes one hour 40 minutes.

Some people take that long to go shopping .

No idea why travel is an issue especially as it's not even the traveller complaining about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as recently as last week I travelled 206 miles each way to meet up with someone who I felt we had a staggeringly strong chemistry with and so much in common with, so yes I would... lol

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