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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a meet doesn't show up on time, how long would you normally wait?

I've been known to wait for over an hour for fear of just missing them if they're running late, but always feel stupid!

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Never had one not turn up but depending on who and where it was, 15-30 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 mins then I'm gone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they contact me to let me know they're running late I can be pretty flexible as I don't meet far from home...without contacting me...15 mins at a push, and I'd be pissed off. Takes 30 seconds to send a text. (Dire emergencies excluded obviously)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always hope that anyone who was going to be late would at least get in contact...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow, sounds like I give people far too much leeway! I'd always expect a text or something if they were running late and I think in future I'll cap it at half an hour!

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

We waited 25 minutes lastnight for someone with no verifications and we had never spoke to on the phone. We drove 45minutes to the agreed meeting place and had a couple of drinks in the bar. We chatted about how they must of been a fake and how we could avoid getting caught out again next time. Then the blonde bombshell walked through the door and 30 minutes later we booked a room and had a wicked night.

All good things come to those who wait.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I always ask them to contact me 1 hr before the meet.

If they didnt I wont bother changing.

If they say they are coming late and in constant contact, I'll wait .

If you suspect the guy is a timewaster, ask them to share their location.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

one time i waited about 2hours,

never again wait 10-20mins if nothing im gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finish my drink usually.

I once finished 3 whilst she kept delaying... I went home tipsy not horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a meet doesn't show up on time, how long would you normally wait?

I've been known to wait for over an hour for fear of just missing them if they're running late, but always feel stupid!"

never had a no show but id wait as long takes to finish my drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they can't contact me to tell ne they're running late - then about 15 mins

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I usually make sure where I'm meeting is somewhere in don't mind being, so if it is a no show, at least it's not a total waste..

My last no show, I stayed there for quite a few hours enjoying the band playing in the bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever arranged two meets on here (the male half) I've waited around 20-30 minutes both times and neither turned up.

Perhaps I'm only smols type?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually make sure where I'm meeting is somewhere in don't mind being, so if it is a no show, at least it's not a total waste..

My last no show, I stayed there for quite a few hours enjoying the band playing in the bar."

I did this today, I'd already planned to meet a friend from work at a local shopping centre for coffee so I arranged my meet for a couple of hours after that since I was there anyway!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If there's been no contact long enough to finish our drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wud wait 30mins. I have on two occasions arranged another meet thinking the first guy isnt coming.then he tells me he on way got held up. Can be awkward wen the other meet is on way also. Ave had to fess up when that happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there’s been a message saying ‘I’m running late’ I’ll wait. But if not, and I don’t get any response when I enquirie the e.t.a. Then 15-20mins max.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

5 minute's unless I've heard from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15/20 min. Id have a drink then leave.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I don't, if they haven't let me know then I'm gone. I hate waiting around for people, no matter who they are, so someone I've never met before has 0 chance of me hovering around waiting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m contacted before hand to say they are running late then I’ll wait an extra 30/45 mins if I’m not contacted and your a no show (happened many of times btw) I’ll wait 10/15 mins then I’m gone, if meeting in a coffee bar and I’ve ordered my coffee and your late I’ll drink my coffee then off I go, been known to show up just as I’m getting ready to leave the coffee shop, guess what I still walked out alone, fact is you could of let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a meet doesn't show up on time, how long would you normally wait?

I've been known to wait for over an hour for fear of just missing them if they're running late, but always feel stupid!"

I would always want to wait a bit too, what if they're driving and running late they wouldn't be able to contact until they'd arrived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the person(s) don't have the curtsy to let me know if there running late 15 ... At the same time if you do let me know & are delaying them meet for example by an hour I'm gone; but by 20-30mins I'll wait with priory notice

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

20 mins if they don't give me any warning.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


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I would always want to wait a bit too, what if they're driving and running late they wouldn't be able to contact until they'd arrived. "

If I'm driving and running late I always try and pull over into a side road or a service station to send a text or something. If I'm at a standstill on the motorway I'll take the risk and send a message.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I always ask them to contact me 1 hr before the meet.

If they didnt I wont bother changing.

If they say they are coming late and in constant contact, I'll wait .

If you suspect the guy is a timewaster, ask them to share their location.

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This is what I do and I'd wait a maximum of 30 minutes then report as a no show

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Sadly, I will wait for up to 2 hours.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

..untill the viagra wears off..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I would always want to wait a bit too, what if they're driving and running late they wouldn't be able to contact until they'd arrived.

If I'm driving and running late I always try and pull over into a side road or a service station to send a text or something. If I'm at a standstill on the motorway I'll take the risk and send a message."

Yes probably what I would do actually, although it cocks up the maps setting on my phone and I'd then be lost too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a meet doesn't show up on time, how long would you normally wait?

I've been known to wait for over an hour for fear of just missing them if they're running late, but always feel stupid!"

15 minutes late counts as a 'no show' as far as I'm concerned.That goes for meets off fab,dates,meeting up with friends,having lunch with my mum,,,anything.

If I can put in the effort to be 10 minutes late then they can at least do me the courtesy of being on time.

If someone's going to be waiting around it's not going to be me.

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens


"I usually make sure where I'm meeting is somewhere in don't mind being, so if it is a no show, at least it's not a total waste..

My last no show, I stayed there for quite a few hours enjoying the band playing in the bar."

Luckily being a couple makes a no show much easier i imagine.

I don't envy singles being stood up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how desperate to meet that person..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how desperate to meet that person.. "

You've waited a while then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how many "how longs"threads are there

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"how many "how longs"threads are there"

How long's a piece of string?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never had a no show but once id finished my drink id go

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends if I've met them before, do I class them as mates etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many "how longs"threads are there

How long's a piece of string?"

i cant consentrate whilst lookin at that arse.....sorry

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