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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel a bit indifferent like I don't know if I'm sad or angry.

Was chatting to a guy for a month with a view to meeting next weekend and get a message this morning saying he's getting back with his ex.

Now he's been honest and deleted his profile and explained rather than ghosting me but I still feel like I've been used a bit to take his mind off or whatever it was. Disappointed cos I thought of him as more than a fuck and that's the tone the conversation was but never mind.

Even though my best friend said I wouldn't have liked him in the flesh anyway cos I was ummin and r'ing about whether I fancied him and he did have a lazy eye and bad crows feet but it was the idea of him that I'm annoyed about.

Like I've had a perfectly good explanation like I can't compete with love and feelings that were there with his ex and like my friend said, I could've met him and then been told he was getting back with his ex so it could be worse. Just I don't like this feeling that I've got, how can I get rid of it quick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't an insult, it's said with affection -you're so lazy

Sometimes it's better for us to work through things rather than look for a quick fix

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

I would be happy to pick you up its where I drop you would be the question. I have an idea but not sure you would be game?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last minute bails suck, whatever the reason. Its the sudden rug-pull after all the build up that leaves you feeling a bit messed up and messed around. What you need is for a charming and selfless guy to step in and offer to take his place...

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I feel a bit indifferent like I don't know if I'm sad or angry.

Was chatting to a guy for a month with a view to meeting next weekend and get a message this morning saying he's getting back with his ex.

Now he's been honest and deleted his profile and explained rather than ghosting me but I still feel like I've been used a bit to take his mind off or whatever it was. Disappointed cos I thought of him as more than a fuck and that's the tone the conversation was but never mind.

Even though my best friend said I wouldn't have liked him in the flesh anyway cos I was ummin and r'ing about whether I fancied him and he did have a lazy eye and bad crows feet but it was the idea of him that I'm annoyed about.

Like I've had a perfectly good explanation like I can't compete with love and feelings that were there with his ex and like my friend said, I could've met him and then been told he was getting back with his ex so it could be worse. Just I don't like this feeling that I've got, how can I get rid of it quick?"

I know the feeling!

When you’re looking for more than just a fuck on here it’s difficult. People say all the right things, you begin to get just a teensy bit excited - then they disappear into the ether!

Happened to me loads of times and I’m guessing it’ll happen again!

Just be kind to yourself, give yourself a hug (I have the best kids in the world for hugs - and a great teddy when they’re not around!)

You’re friend could be right - had you met him he could have been hugely disappointing - or he could have been someone special to you - it’s the not knowing that’s frustrating and a little upsetting!

Sending a hug! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But I dunno why I feel bad. It's a perfectly valid reason to not want to meet but feel like I've been used a bit which again on here is fine, nobody owes anyone anything and it's what I would do if I was getting over someone I had feelings for, I'd speak to someone else but if the one I loved and had feelings for got back in Touch I'd go for that option instead. I dunno, get ghosted and you want an explanation, have an explanation and it's still shit.

Think I have issues dealing with any type of rejection.

Just puts me off even wanting to speak to any guys again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you are stunning, it's that guys loss and I'm sure guys will be beating a path to your door chin up gorgeous xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you are stunning, it's that guys loss and I'm sure guys will be beating a path to your door chin up gorgeous xx"

It’s not his loss he’s getting back with his ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you are stunning, it's that guys loss and I'm sure guys will be beating a path to your door chin up gorgeous xx

It’s not his loss he’s getting back with his ex "
losing out on meeting the OP is definitely his loss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you are stunning, it's that guys loss and I'm sure guys will be beating a path to your door chin up gorgeous xx

It’s not his loss he’s getting back with his ex "

Exactly it's my loss. He'll be skipping off into the sunset!

Doesn't stop me secretly hoping it fails and that they should be ex's for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dunno why I feel bad. It's a perfectly valid reason to not want to meet but feel like I've been used a bit which again on here is fine, nobody owes anyone anything and it's what I would do if I was getting over someone I had feelings for, I'd speak to someone else but if the one I loved and had feelings for got back in Touch I'd go for that option instead. I dunno, get ghosted and you want an explanation, have an explanation and it's still shit.

Think I have issues dealing with any type of rejection.

Just puts me off even wanting to speak to any guys again. "

To be honest, I think you've hit the nail in the head, "issues dealing with any type of rejection", you need to get over yourself, sorry, but you come across as far too self absorbed and immature at times.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"OP you are stunning, it's that guys loss and I'm sure guys will be beating a path to your door chin up gorgeous xx

It’s not his loss he’s getting back with his ex "

Aw come on! You know Fab Law

(Article 69 sub-section 8) - it’s ALWAYS the guy’s loss!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But I dunno why I feel bad. It's a perfectly valid reason to not want to meet but feel like I've been used a bit which again on here is fine, nobody owes anyone anything and it's what I would do if I was getting over someone I had feelings for, I'd speak to someone else but if the one I loved and had feelings for got back in Touch I'd go for that option instead. I dunno, get ghosted and you want an explanation, have an explanation and it's still shit.

Think I have issues dealing with any type of rejection.

Just puts me off even wanting to speak to any guys again.

To be honest, I think you've hit the nail in the head, "issues dealing with any type of rejection", you need to get over yourself, sorry, but you come across as far too self absorbed and immature at times."

My rejection issues come from childhood when my mother would leave me with any family member for her to go out and then having a child with another guy when I was 11 and them being a family and me being left with my grandparents or at 15 years old being battered and put in hospital by my step father and my mother choosing to stay with him. But yeah thanks, need to get over myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s funny how attached you can feel to the idea of someone. I don’t think he used you, more a case of being on the rebound with unfinished business with his ex. He was probably trying to get over her originally but his feelings for her had remained strong enough for reconciliation to happen, when another opportunity arose.

Letting go of something you really fancied the idea of, can be as difficult at times as a relationship. Especially when you are longing for the right relationship. This too will pass though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These things happen. It's not a personal rejection of you, his heart and cock just have feelings elsewhere.

Nothing you can do about it. No point dwelling. Pick yourself up, dust yourself down, chalk it up to experience and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dunno why I feel bad. It's a perfectly valid reason to not want to meet but feel like I've been used a bit which again on here is fine, nobody owes anyone anything and it's what I would do if I was getting over someone I had feelings for, I'd speak to someone else but if the one I loved and had feelings for got back in Touch I'd go for that option instead. I dunno, get ghosted and you want an explanation, have an explanation and it's still shit.

Think I have issues dealing with any type of rejection.

Just puts me off even wanting to speak to any guys again.

To be honest, I think you've hit the nail in the head, "issues dealing with any type of rejection", you need to get over yourself, sorry, but you come across as far too self absorbed and immature at times.

My rejection issues come from childhood when my mother would leave me with any family member for her to go out and then having a child with another guy when I was 11 and them being a family and me being left with my grandparents or at 15 years old being battered and put in hospital by my step father and my mother choosing to stay with him. But yeah thanks, need to get over myself. "

That explains the intensity of your feelings- have you had any help dealing with the emotions that are associated with this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm gonna eat my arse off now tonight. Already got the 14 inch pizza with double meat and I'm gonna fly right into that and eat a whole attic roll on the head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna eat my arse off now tonight. Already got the 14 inch pizza with double meat and I'm gonna fly right into that and eat a whole attic roll on the head. "

That’s not the sort of help I meant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm gonna eat my arse off now tonight. Already got the 14 inch pizza with double meat and I'm gonna fly right into that and eat a whole attic roll on the head.

That’s not the sort of help I meant "

I know what you mean. I did a diploma in psychotherapy and counselling and I understand where my issues come from but whilst doing it the consultant psychiatrist picked up on my ability to recall and done tests on me and said that I'm one of the lucky few people in the world that have hyperthymesia I'm in medical books! It's a highly superior autobiographical memory, can remember every day of my life from the age of 9.

Said I'm immune to counselling cos as soon as I'm counselled or 'cured' literally anything can put my mind back to any traumatic event in my life and I feel it with the same intensity as if it was happening now.

I'm fucked basically, fucked up and fucked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

skirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr pop pop man is hot always hot

why do women fell in ¥¥¥¥ very easily

already seen

around 12 women in the same situation crying about

we all know say things we don't mean just to get under ur pantis ffs don't take anyone serous on here wooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"skirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr pop pop man is hot always hot

why do women fell in ¥¥¥¥ very easily

already seen

around 12 women in the same situation crying about

we all know say things we don't mean just to get under ur pantis ffs don't take anyone serous on here wooo

"

I'm sure thats helped OP enormously. If she can understand what the hell youre on about, that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna eat my arse off now tonight. Already got the 14 inch pizza with double meat and I'm gonna fly right into that and eat a whole attic roll on the head.

That’s not the sort of help I meant

I know what you mean. I did a diploma in psychotherapy and counselling and I understand where my issues come from but whilst doing it the consultant psychiatrist picked up on my ability to recall and done tests on me and said that I'm one of the lucky few people in the world that have hyperthymesia I'm in medical books! It's a highly superior autobiographical memory, can remember every day of my life from the age of 9.

Said I'm immune to counselling cos as soon as I'm counselled or 'cured' literally anything can put my mind back to any traumatic event in my life and I feel it with the same intensity as if it was happening now.

I'm fucked basically, fucked up and fucked! "

Eek. Have you tried regular cathartic work?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Meet someone in the real world.

I found here was good for a quick sexual fix and met some nice people along the way.

But you can’t beat making a connection in person.

I know you op from another forum and you have clear issues that you need to address or find someone to accept them.

Give it some time and Pizza.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"OP you are stunning, it's that guys loss and I'm sure guys will be beating a path to your door chin up gorgeous xx

It’s not his loss he’s getting back with his ex

Exactly it's my loss. He'll be skipping off into the sunset!

Doesn't stop me secretly hoping it fails and that they should be ex's for a reason.

"

Or he was just leading you on and had no intention to meet..

Plus a lazy eye and crows feet!

Sounds like you had a lucky miss there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's too easy to live in your mind in here.

Get out in the real world and engage, experience and enjoy real wholesome things.

Sometimes life isn't the problem, it's our expectation of what it should look like that is.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"skirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr pop pop man is hot always hot

why do women fell in ¥¥¥¥ very easily

already seen

around 12 women in the same situation crying about

we all know say things we don't mean just to get under ur pantis ffs don't take anyone serous on here wooo

"

What a gem you are.

We all say things just to get under your panties! You are one of the reasons people have trust issues.

How's about not being so damn selfish trying to get your dick wet, that you remember the person who by being yourself apparently wouldn't touch you win a barge pole so you need to lie, is a human being, with feelings.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"But I dunno why I feel bad. It's a perfectly valid reason to not want to meet but feel like I've been used a bit which again on here is fine, nobody owes anyone anything and it's what I would do if I was getting over someone I had feelings for, I'd speak to someone else but if the one I loved and had feelings for got back in Touch I'd go for that option instead. I dunno, get ghosted and you want an explanation, have an explanation and it's still shit.

Think I have issues dealing with any type of rejection.

Just puts me off even wanting to speak to any guys again.

To be honest, I think you've hit the nail in the head, "issues dealing with any type of rejection", you need to get over yourself, sorry, but you come across as far too self absorbed and immature at times."

Blimey that’s a bit harsh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" It's too easy to live in your mind in here.

Get out in the real world and engage, experience and enjoy real wholesome things.

Sometimes life isn't the problem, it's our expectation of what it should look like that is."

Yes!

I read this the other day : Blaming others removes our power to change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna eat my arse off now tonight. Already got the 14 inch pizza with double meat and I'm gonna fly right into that and eat a whole attic roll on the head.

That’s not the sort of help I meant

I know what you mean. I did a diploma in psychotherapy and counselling and I understand where my issues come from but whilst doing it the consultant psychiatrist picked up on my ability to recall and done tests on me and said that I'm one of the lucky few people in the world that have hyperthymesia I'm in medical books! It's a highly superior autobiographical memory, can remember every day of my life from the age of 9.

Said I'm immune to counselling cos as soon as I'm counselled or 'cured' literally anything can put my mind back to any traumatic event in my life and I feel it with the same intensity as if it was happening now.

I'm fucked basically, fucked up and fucked! "

I don't doubt you have some mental anguish but hyperthermesia has only 6 confirmed cases in the world and one in the UK that was the young lad the doc on ch4 was about, I don't know you but I'd say that you're seeking out to be seen as unique or special in some way due to your abandonment issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit does indeed happen..his heart and Willy ruled over you and chose someone else with whom he had history.

You won't always be everyone's number one choice in life and that's pretty much that. Sometimes rejection happens and we all have to learn to suck it up and crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pathetic

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Maybe the problem is that you want the hurt to stop straight away and it won't? The reality is that once you've invested some emotion into someone you can't just shut it off straight away - that's what makes you human.

Smile at the things that are going well and give yourself time to feel better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meet someone in the real world.

I found here was good for a quick sexual fix and met some nice people along the way.

But you can’t beat making a connection in person.

I know you op from another forum and you have clear issues that you need to address or find someone to accept them.

Give it some time and Pizza. "

What one, ukmuscle or the one where all the banned members went, Tdf?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"Meet someone in the real world.

I found here was good for a quick sexual fix and met some nice people along the way.

But you can’t beat making a connection in person.

I know you op from another forum and you have clear issues that you need to address or find someone to accept them.

Give it some time and Pizza.

What one, ukmuscle or the one where all the banned members went, Tdf?"

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna eat my arse off now tonight. Already got the 14 inch pizza with double meat and I'm gonna fly right into that and eat a whole attic roll on the head. "

works for me everytime. chin up tho its saturday hope your ok soon

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Meet someone in the real world.

I found here was good for a quick sexual fix and met some nice people along the way.

But you can’t beat making a connection in person.

I know you op from another forum and you have clear issues that you need to address or find someone to accept them.

Give it some time and Pizza.

What one, ukmuscle or the one where all the banned members went, Tdf?

Jesus, a bit over the top with the criticism here . If you liked the guy you're perfectly entitled to feel pissed off right now , and probably for a few days , but while you don't think it now, it will get better , but if you're looking for a guy to have these feelings about , here is definitely the wrong place to be looking, take fab for what it is

Both "

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By *loveyourassMan
over a year ago

Newport

You are absolutely beautiful, I would never in a million years bail out on you, in fact I'd be more than happy to take his place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dunno why I feel bad. It's a perfectly valid reason to not want to meet but feel like I've been used a bit which again on here is fine, nobody owes anyone anything and it's what I would do if I was getting over someone I had feelings for, I'd speak to someone else but if the one I loved and had feelings for got back in Touch I'd go for that option instead. I dunno, get ghosted and you want an explanation, have an explanation and it's still shit.

Think I have issues dealing with any type of rejection.

Just puts me off even wanting to speak to any guys again. "

Are you just sad because of 'what could have been'? Not really with him as such.

I've had the same this year and it was utterly shit. He did nothing wrong but I still felt crap. We had lots we planned to do, we're compatible in some ways but not others. Try and focus on the positives- that he gave you an explanation and didn't leave you hanging, and that you found someone so it's possible you'll find someone again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message me, I’ll help you forget all about him... nothing a bottle of vodka and a top class fuck can’t sort out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna eat my arse off now tonight. Already got the 14 inch pizza with double meat and I'm gonna fly right into that and eat a whole attic roll on the head.

That’s not the sort of help I meant

I know what you mean. I did a diploma in psychotherapy and counselling and I understand where my issues come from but whilst doing it the consultant psychiatrist picked up on my ability to recall and done tests on me and said that I'm one of the lucky few people in the world that have hyperthymesia I'm in medical books! It's a highly superior autobiographical memory, can remember every day of my life from the age of 9.

Said I'm immune to counselling cos as soon as I'm counselled or 'cured' literally anything can put my mind back to any traumatic event in my life and I feel it with the same intensity as if it was happening now.

I'm fucked basically, fucked up and fucked! "

Can you force yourself to remember the good days instead? Pick some really amazingly happy days and focus on those. I think you can change how you think. I overthink a lot but it helps me to come up with a 'new reality'. I focus on the good stuff so that it drowns the bad. There's good in everything if you look hard enough.

But some days you just need to wallow and feel crap. If you don't feel bad sometimes, you won't appreciate feeling good.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Well at least he told you OP..He could have been back with his ex and being with yourself at the same time and never said..I know it's hard but that's what life throws at us sometimes xxx....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are absolutely beautiful, I would never in a million years bail out on you, in fact I'd be more than happy to take his place"

What's the circumference on that penis? Are you one million percent single and do you like 80's power ballads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worries me on here because I'm Heart on my sleeve kind of guy.

They say, Nothing gets you over the last one like the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna eat my arse off now tonight. Already got the 14 inch pizza with double meat and I'm gonna fly right into that and eat a whole attic roll on the head.

That’s not the sort of help I meant

I know what you mean. I did a diploma in psychotherapy and counselling and I understand where my issues come from but whilst doing it the consultant psychiatrist picked up on my ability to recall and done tests on me and said that I'm one of the lucky few people in the world that have hyperthymesia I'm in medical books! It's a highly superior autobiographical memory, can remember every day of my life from the age of 9.

Said I'm immune to counselling cos as soon as I'm counselled or 'cured' literally anything can put my mind back to any traumatic event in my life and I feel it with the same intensity as if it was happening now.

I'm fucked basically, fucked up and fucked! "

I'm sorry to hear how you have been treated through your life OP. I've only really seen your posts on forums but I have the impression of a strong, honest person. Life sucks and it's also tough that counselling will only work so far for you. I don't know what else to suggest but think highly of you for being honest and talking about your feelings even though you know part of them may not seem logical. Chin up and enjoy yourself in whatever way you can. I'm sure out of the blue someone may surprise you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sucks but you're better than that. Not all guys are like that. You're gorgeous and i know you'll never need to look back when you see how awesome things are ahead of you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel a bit indifferent like I don't know if I'm sad or angry.

Was chatting to a guy for a month with a view to meeting next weekend and get a message this morning saying he's getting back with his ex.

Now he's been honest and deleted his profile and explained rather than ghosting me but I still feel like I've been used a bit to take his mind off or whatever it was. Disappointed cos I thought of him as more than a fuck and that's the tone the conversation was but never mind.

Even though my best friend said I wouldn't have liked him in the flesh anyway cos I was ummin and r'ing about whether I fancied him and he did have a lazy eye and bad crows feet but it was the idea of him that I'm annoyed about.

Like I've had a perfectly good explanation like I can't compete with love and feelings that were there with his ex and like my friend said, I could've met him and then been told he was getting back with his ex so it could be worse. Just I don't like this feeling that I've got, how can I get rid of it quick?"

Bet your bottom dollar he'll be back, i've had a number of guys leave when they find 'love', only to return (often still attached). It's whether you rekindle anything that is the question x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is swinging nsa

he was honest with you, and not stringing you along once he decided so whats the problem

and u said u wasnt sure anyway, so u may have been stringing him along, just incase u didnt get a better offer maybe!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Do you think you were using him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think you were using him?"

I liked the idea of him, the few times we spoke it was easy and funny and the conversation flowed, I was looking forward to using his penis.

In an ideal world I'd have a guy exclusive to me as I would be to him, and we could see each other every other weekend and eat, watch films and fuck. That's all I want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think you were using him?

I liked the idea of him, the few times we spoke it was easy and funny and the conversation flowed, I was looking forward to using his penis.

In an ideal world I'd have a guy exclusive to me as I would be to him, and we could see each other every other weekend and eat, watch films and fuck. That's all I want!"

but did you fancy him, as you said you wasnt sure

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

You invested time and effort, just take a little but more time now to work through feelings and understand them then you'll be reet again.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

That sucks. Sucks less than all the other ways it could have played out. But sucks nonetheless.

I believe the answer is B&J.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think you were using him?

I liked the idea of him, the few times we spoke it was easy and funny and the conversation flowed, I was looking forward to using his penis.

In an ideal world I'd have a guy exclusive to me as I would be to him, and we could see each other every other weekend and eat, watch films and fuck. That's all I want!"

Sounds perfect...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wonder how this thread would have played out if the man said " i wasn't sure i fancied her"

devil's advocate i know but i wonder

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Onward and upward.

I humbly enter my name into the running.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think you were using him?

I liked the idea of him, the few times we spoke it was easy and funny and the conversation flowed, I was looking forward to using his penis.

In an ideal world I'd have a guy exclusive to me as I would be to him, and we could see each other every other weekend and eat, watch films and fuck. That's all I want!

Sounds perfect... "

Haha stop lying, that doesn’t sound perfect to anyone, she said exclusively!! Sex every other week? God you might as well get married

Some people will agree to anything to get laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wonder how this thread would have played out if the man said " i wasn't sure i fancied her"

devil's advocate i know but i wonder "

You have posted so many negative posts here I’m starting to wonder if your actually the guys ex girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wonder how this thread would have played out if the man said " i wasn't sure i fancied her"

devil's advocate i know but i wonder

You have posted so many negative posts here I’m starting to wonder if your actually the guys ex girlfriend "

no im all woman x

and im just wondering

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Op..u should just use fab as a pen pal option for a while..dont look for anything but communication with guys untill you feel you can trust them again..

.if you need a shag it aint hard really..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wonder how this thread would have played out if the man said " i wasn't sure i fancied her"

devil's advocate i know but i wonder

You have posted so many negative posts here I’m starting to wonder if your actually the guys ex girlfriend

no im all woman x

and im just wondering "

I would have to assume the guys ex girlfriend is a woman too

There’s a difference between wondering and chasing the girl round with a pitch fork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wonder how this thread would have played out if the man said " i wasn't sure i fancied her"

devil's advocate i know but i wonder

You have posted so many negative posts here I’m starting to wonder if your actually the guys ex girlfriend

no im all woman x

and im just wondering

I would have to assume the guys ex girlfriend is a woman too

There’s a difference between wondering and chasing the girl round with a pitch fork "

its an open forum where i can put my 10 pence worth and its not personal,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wonder how this thread would have played out if the man said " i wasn't sure i fancied her"

devil's advocate i know but i wonder

You have posted so many negative posts here I’m starting to wonder if your actually the guys ex girlfriend

no im all woman x

and im just wondering

I would have to assume the guys ex girlfriend is a woman too

There’s a difference between wondering and chasing the girl round with a pitch fork

its an open forum where i can put my 10 pence worth and its not personal,"

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Obviously I don't know you but from previous posts I'm guessing you'd put everyone else you've been chatting to 'on hold' thinking you'd see how it went with this one?

Well now that's been taken away from you and you're miffed about that, and rightly so.

Don't think too much just get 'out there' again on here, or real life.

As someone said if you need sex it's easy really on here until someone more relationshippy comes along. I fucking hate that attitude myself but needs must for some I guess.

Enjoy your artic roll....did'nt know they still made them

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Obviously I don't know you but from previous posts I'm guessing you'd put everyone else you've been chatting to 'on hold' thinking you'd see how it went with this one?

Well now that's been taken away from you and you're miffed about that, and rightly so.

Don't think too much just get 'out there' again on here, or real life.

As someone said if you need sex it's easy really on here until someone more relationshippy comes along. I fucking hate that attitude myself but needs must for some I guess.

Enjoy your artic roll....did'nt know they still made them "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm alright now. I did have fingers in other pies and I have one pie coming over later but just for me to massage him and lick his arse hole, can't handle anything else at the moment

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"I'm alright now. I did have fingers in other pies and I have one pie coming over later but just for me to massage him and lick his arse hole, can't handle anything else at the moment "
thats the spirit !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op..u should just use fab as a pen pal option for a while..dont look for anything but communication with guys untill you feel you can trust them again..

.if you need a shag it aint hard really.. "

I wouldn't use fab to trust guys again.... If anything it's made me realise that 90% of guys will say what they need to say and I have less trust in men than I did before I joined, us woman like that connection, men like any wet hole

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

This life thing is a complicated business at time's isn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm alright now. I did have fingers in other pies and I have one pie coming over later but just for me to massage him and lick his arse hole, can't handle anything else at the moment "

Wonder how he likes being called a pie

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"This life thing is a complicated business at time's isn't it!"
definitly not what i signed up to !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op..u should just use fab as a pen pal option for a while..dont look for anything but communication with guys untill you feel you can trust them again..

.if you need a shag it aint hard really..

I wouldn't use fab to trust guys again.... If anything it's made me realise that 90% of guys will say what they need to say and I have less trust in men than I did before I joined, us woman like that connection, men like any wet hole "

Not all men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op..u should just use fab as a pen pal option for a while..dont look for anything but communication with guys untill you feel you can trust them again..

.if you need a shag it aint hard really..

I wouldn't use fab to trust guys again.... If anything it's made me realise that 90% of guys will say what they need to say and I have less trust in men than I did before I joined, us woman like that connection, men like any wet hole "

Hate being tarred with the same brush as everyone else.

Nothing more irritating.

Generalisation is ok to some degree but as a species we are diverse and individual. x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'm alright now. I did have fingers in other pies and I have one pie coming over later but just for me to massage him and lick his arse hole, can't handle anything else at the moment "

Doesn't take much does it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm alright now. I did have fingers in other pies and I have one pie coming over later but just for me to massage him and lick his arse hole, can't handle anything else at the moment

Wonder how he likes being called a pie"

Was a joke, he's a handsome gentleman with a big handsome penis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweetie pie or honey pie??

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Last minute bails suck, whatever the reason. Its the sudden rug-pull after all the build up that leaves you feeling a bit messed up and messed around. What you need is for a charming and selfless guy to step in and offer to take his place... "
quite frankly that's the last thing she needs right now

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I'm alright now. I did have fingers in other pies and I have one pie coming over later but just for me to massage him and lick his arse hole, can't handle anything else at the moment

Wonder how he likes being called a pie

Was a joke, he's a handsome gentleman with a big handsome penis!"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Cake

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Ms. Wilks

We hear you... it's deflating when our anticipation bubble is burst or when the meet isn't what you anticipated. Chin up and head high, don't let others steal your thunder despite feeling iffy about it.

Hugs

Madame Boo

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

MissWilkes. Shit happens. You know this and you know in time you will get over this bump. You know there is no quick fix.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Op..u should just use fab as a pen pal option for a while..dont look for anything but communication with guys untill you feel you can trust them again..

.if you need a shag it aint hard really..

I wouldn't use fab to trust guys again.... If anything it's made me realise that 90% of guys will say what they need to say and I have less trust in men than I did before I joined, us woman like that connection, men like any wet hole "

Sigh

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By *loveyourassMan
over a year ago

Newport


"You are absolutely beautiful, I would never in a million years bail out on you, in fact I'd be more than happy to take his place

What's the circumference on that penis? Are you one million percent single and do you like 80's power ballads?"

Yes I'm one million percent single, and like 80's power ballads, and as for the circumference, you're going to have to find that out yourself x

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Don’t mind me. I’m just waiting for Michael Jackson arriving with popcorn.

PS: Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op..u should just use fab as a pen pal option for a while..dont look for anything but communication with guys untill you feel you can trust them again..

.if you need a shag it aint hard really..

I wouldn't use fab to trust guys again.... If anything it's made me realise that 90% of guys will say what they need to say and I have less trust in men than I did before I joined, us woman like that connection, men like any wet hole

Hate being tarred with the same brush as everyone else.

Nothing more irritating.

Generalisation is ok to some degree but as a species we are diverse and individual. x"

It doesn’t bother me the generalisation just gives me invaluable information on the generaliser

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Every time ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it's wise to feel the disappointment of this guy's bailing now, to the extent that you are comfortable with it -as well as ensuring you are looking after yourself and get some balance into your life.

You can learn whatever there may be from it in coming days - you'll be able to know what the important lessons are for you, in addition to the disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna eat my arse off now tonight. Already got the 14 inch pizza with double meat and I'm gonna fly right into that and eat a whole attic roll on the head. "
go get em you are beautiful and everyone has down times just come back fighting you have so much going for you.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3


"I'm alright now. I did have fingers in other pies and I have one pie coming over later but just for me to massage him and lick his arse hole, can't handle anything else at the moment "

You crack me up everytime with your posts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last minute bails suck, whatever the reason. Its the sudden rug-pull after all the build up that leaves you feeling a bit messed up and messed around. What you need is for a charming and selfless guy to step in and offer to take his place...

quite frankly that's the last thing she needs right now"

And yet that's exactly what she's doing. Not with me, I'll grant you, but the principle holds. I hope she has an awesome time and puts the other guy right out of her mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last minute bails suck, whatever the reason. Its the sudden rug-pull after all the build up that leaves you feeling a bit messed up and messed around. What you need is for a charming and selfless guy to step in and offer to take his place...

quite frankly that's the last thing she needs right now

And yet that's exactly what she's doing. Not with me, I'll grant you, but the principle holds. I hope she has an awesome time and puts the other guy right out of her mind."

Oh yeah he's long gone, didn't even kick off at him via text. Just said this was unexpected and said I'm all for love and hope it works out between you both and I wish you all the best with your endeavours. I sent him that when I was still angry so I'm quite proud of myself there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on you. Onwards and upwards, eh?

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