FabSwingers.com forum: The trials of the singleton

By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Got a date this afternoon... Date no 5 in fact with a non swinger.

Things are being taken rather slow, or perhaps I'm just used to the wham bang of fab meets lol a few little picks if kisses but no full on snogs yet.

We are off to the cinema today then back to his and he is cooking for me. I'm hoping things might move on as need to see if we are compatible sexually before getting too committed lol

Now.... I haven't had any for a while so just spent the last 20 minutes shaving my legs

hope it's not time wasted haha

How many dates do you give it before making a move and should the move be made by the man or the woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dates make me shudder. The risk is too great of the man being horrified that I like sex with the lights on and him then telling everyone. I'd rather just stay single.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Dates make me shudder. The risk is too great of the man being horrified that I like sex with the lights on and him then telling everyone. I'd rather just stay single.

With the lights on?! Weirdo

I worry it's too soon but I do feel the need to be special to someone and have someone to love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dates make me shudder. The risk is too great of the man being horrified that I like sex with the lights on and him then telling everyone. I'd rather just stay single.

With the lights on?! Weirdo

I worry it's too soon but I do feel the need to be special to someone and have someone to love."

It's difficult. He might be a raging kinkster and desperate to tie you to his kitchen table. Or he might be happy with sex on birthdays and xmas.

Lights on and socks on! I'm well weird.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Date number 5 and you're going back to his? Is say if you don't end up in bed there's something wierd going on!

If you like him make a move, I would. Have a nice evening

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Do whatever feels right on the night.

Have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He does seem a little backward in coming forward.

Maybe its better to take charge?

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

Date number 5 I say get your knickers off girl and attack the man and go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Date 5 is, I would say, an acceptable point at which to start the kinky fuckery

Having said that however, I'm shit at dating so 5 dates could take me anywhere between a week and 6 months to achieve

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

So we're saying I should pack my toothbrush then?!

What about the strap on?!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"So we're saying I should pack my toothbrush then?!

What about the strap on?!

Both!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we're saying I should pack my toothbrush then?!

What about the strap on?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we're saying I should pack my toothbrush then?!

What about the strap on?!

Just tie him to the bed... he can't run then

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Not been on a date in years so pass...... I would say go with what feels right and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Date 5... Wow fair play... Patience is a virtue. Unfortunately not one of mine...

Have a lovely evening either way x

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Played the dating game quite well this summer.

One girl I met made it clear that she does not do sex until the fifth date and I found that put undue pressure on the fifth date.

I think just go with the flow see where you end up. Good luck.

What’s he cooking?

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I think this is lovely! I'd also imagine he must quite like you because he's taking his time and being a gent.

Enjoy the day, dont over think. If it feels right, then make a move. Maybe hes shy!

Pack toothbrush, maybe a bit too soon for the strap on..

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear your nice lingerie Evie and pack your condoms and some "gentle" toys..... leave the 14 inch strap on for when/if you know he's into that

Go have an amazing date! And let us know how you get on

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Who makes a move? I usually ask if they'd like to do something and then the move is mutual... I don't think it 'should' be made by any particular gender, but I do think consent is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind waiting if there are lots of snogs and groping to be getting on with. It builds it all up to passionate sex.

Enjoy, and play it ear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck OP!

Hope if you do have sex today it’s nice and full of potential

I’d say no rules about when, just do things when it feels right for both of you. A little anticipation is lovely most times.

That said, I’ve dated, taking my time... and I’m both cases where it stretched to over 2 months no nookie... it wasn’t all because the man was a gentleman.. it was because he had penis problems!

One would always come in under 2mins and was really puritanical about it. The other was impotent, and when he could get it up, was still weak.

So now.. I don’t wait anything longer than a month, just in case it’s a waste of my time.

But, I’d say.., come over I’ll cook a meal for you is usually a good sign that he’d like dessert

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By *uriousgirl85Woman
over a year ago

Lincs

I’m shocking, have a terrible habit of fucking on first dates... hats off to you for waiting so long... having said that if he doesn’t attempt to get in your knickers tonight after inviting you to his for dinner I would say time to move along. Either way have a lovely evening x

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By *uriousgirl85Woman
over a year ago

Lincs

Still keen to know how you got on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ave given up dating and finding love. Last man i tried to have a relationship wit was only intrested in hes friend and would only come and see me if hes mate wasnt in.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"Still keen to know how you got on

He is currently feeling her love... all 9 inches of lady cock.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Well I'm back after staying the night

all is good except he snores quote badly haha

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm back after staying the night

all is good except he snores quote badly haha "

But did you shag him?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Well I'm back after staying the night

all is good except he snores quote badly haha

But did you shag him?

Yep.... Twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm back after staying the night

all is good except he snores quote badly haha

But did you shag him?

Yep.... Twice

Ooh lovely

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"Well I'm back after staying the night

all is good except he snores quote badly haha

But did you shag him?

Yep.... Twice

well that's the strap on question answered

now did he shag you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we're saying I should pack my toothbrush then?!

What about the strap on?!

Both!!!

Strap on vibrating toothbrush for some oral hygiene action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm back after staying the night

all is good except he snores quote badly haha

But did you shag him?

Yep.... Twice

we need picture proof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got a date this afternoon... Date no 5 in fact with a non swinger.

Things are being taken rather slow, or perhaps I'm just used to the wham bang of fab meets lol a few little picks if kisses but no full on snogs yet.

We are off to the cinema today then back to his and he is cooking for me. I'm hoping things might move on as need to see if we are compatible sexually before getting too committed lol

Now.... I haven't had any for a while so just spent the last 20 minutes shaving my legs

hope it's not time wasted haha

How many dates do you give it before making a move and should the move be made by the man or the woman? "

If a women made me wait because of some pre-decided number of dates.....I wouldn't.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Got a date this afternoon... Date no 5 in fact with a non swinger.

Things are being taken rather slow, or perhaps I'm just used to the wham bang of fab meets lol a few little picks if kisses but no full on snogs yet.

We are off to the cinema today then back to his and he is cooking for me. I'm hoping things might move on as need to see if we are compatible sexually before getting too committed lol

Now.... I haven't had any for a while so just spent the last 20 minutes shaving my legs

hope it's not time wasted haha

How many dates do you give it before making a move and should the move be made by the man or the woman?

If a women made me wait because of some pre-decided number of dates.....I wouldn't. "

Lucky escape for her then. I haven't made him wait for any amount of dates it just hasn't happened before the 5th one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got a date this afternoon... Date no 5 in fact with a non swinger.

Things are being taken rather slow, or perhaps I'm just used to the wham bang of fab meets lol a few little picks if kisses but no full on snogs yet.

We are off to the cinema today then back to his and he is cooking for me. I'm hoping things might move on as need to see if we are compatible sexually before getting too committed lol

Now.... I haven't had any for a while so just spent the last 20 minutes shaving my legs

hope it's not time wasted haha

How many dates do you give it before making a move and should the move be made by the man or the woman?

If a women made me wait because of some pre-decided number of dates.....I wouldn't.

Lucky escape for her then. I haven't made him wait for any amount of dates it just hasn't happened before the 5th one. "

It's not a pre-decided number then is it?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Got a date this afternoon... Date no 5 in fact with a non swinger.

Things are being taken rather slow, or perhaps I'm just used to the wham bang of fab meets lol a few little picks if kisses but no full on snogs yet.

We are off to the cinema today then back to his and he is cooking for me. I'm hoping things might move on as need to see if we are compatible sexually before getting too committed lol

Now.... I haven't had any for a while so just spent the last 20 minutes shaving my legs

hope it's not time wasted haha

How many dates do you give it before making a move and should the move be made by the man or the woman?

If a women made me wait because of some pre-decided number of dates.....I wouldn't.

Lucky escape for her then. I haven't made him wait for any amount of dates it just hasn't happened before the 5th one.

It's not a pre-decided number then is it?"

No...thats what I said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got a date this afternoon... Date no 5 in fact with a non swinger.

Things are being taken rather slow, or perhaps I'm just used to the wham bang of fab meets lol a few little picks if kisses but no full on snogs yet.

We are off to the cinema today then back to his and he is cooking for me. I'm hoping things might move on as need to see if we are compatible sexually before getting too committed lol

Now.... I haven't had any for a while so just spent the last 20 minutes shaving my legs

hope it's not time wasted haha

How many dates do you give it before making a move and should the move be made by the man or the woman?

If a women made me wait because of some pre-decided number of dates.....I wouldn't.

Lucky escape for her then. I haven't made him wait for any amount of dates it just hasn't happened before the 5th one.

It's not a pre-decided number then is it?

No...thats what I said

I know what you said. I was answering your original question. 'How many dates do you.....'.

If I sense a women has a structured pre determined amount then she's not for me. I want a women who is confident enough in herself to go with the flow however long or short that may be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm back after staying the night

all is good except he snores quote badly haha

But did you shag him?

Yep.... Twice

Good stuff

glad it went well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dates make me shudder. The risk is too great of the man being horrified that I like sex with the lights on and him then telling everyone. I'd rather just stay single.

Love sex with the lights on here also.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I had a date last year. Forgot it was a date and had sex

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I can 100% guarantee every time I shave my balls I wont get laid.

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Ok I'll ask then.....how was the food!?

Glad the dating is going well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My rule of thumb is: if he doesn't want to rip your clothes off by date three, it's not worth the effort!

Hope you get lucky...

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"My rule of thumb is: if he doesn't want to rip your clothes off by date three, it's not worth the effort!

Hope you get lucky..."

I have completely the opposite view. It's really offputting for a girl to want to sleep with me after seeing a movie and having a meal, and be my girlfriend after having sex.

I mean I still dont know the girl. Why bother.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

"I can 100% guarantee every time I shave my balls I wont get laid."

Damn, knew I should have stayed with the gooseberry look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I would of dropped some very heavy hints on the 5th date that I wanted sex with him.

Hope you had a fabulous night, whatever happened

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Ok I'll ask then.....how was the food!?

Glad the dating is going well

Food was lovely too x home made lasagne and not home made cheesecake.

He even took me to perve on aquaman before hand as we went to see justice league lol

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