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"since we started swinging sex has been amazing between us...its the fact that he is part of it that makes it such a huge turn on for me...it wouldnt be the same without him x" cheers hun ,you are both lucky to have that rob is a lucky guy .. | |||
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"If one didn’t know better one could take offence at this post having green eyes my self." ya daft bugger i have green eyes too ...but no jealous monster here ...in fact i find it a massive turn on to see rob giving another woman the same pleasure he gives me | |||
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"We have little if any jealousy between us.. we had more before we decided to swing. Its something we do together, we both enjoy seeing each other give and recieve.. No issues between us and if anything we enjoy a better sex life between us too... " well said that man | |||
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out strange game innit " I never thought of that ...i suppose that iconic image of sitting on another guys lap signifies a level of intimacy or even ownership ...but then doesn't it make the sex less intimate and your right human sexuality is bizarre | |||
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out strange game innit I never thought of that ...i suppose that iconic image of sitting on another guys lap signifies a level of intimacy or even ownership ...but then doesn't it make the sex less intimate and your right human sexuality is bizarre " I don't think the sex is less intimate as thats a big part of why we play but I always have utmost respect for the female half of the couple and would'nt want her to feel in any way that I was being territorial with her man You hear stories ya know | |||
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out strange game innit I never thought of that ...i suppose that iconic image of sitting on another guys lap signifies a level of intimacy or even ownership ...but then doesn't it make the sex less intimate and your right human sexuality is bizarre I don't think the sex is less intimate as thats a big part of why we play but I always have utmost respect for the female half of the couple and would'nt want her to feel in any way that I was being territorial with her man You hear stories ya know " Thats interesting as i always try to be like that with the guy too especially with first encounters where there is there is a male who lives by his androcentric view of what swinging should be like ...its very very territorial ... | |||
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out strange game innit " That's the difference between intimacy and affection. You can fancy someone rotten and fuck their brains out without jealousy rearing its ugly head but if you then take that further and start doing everyday things with other men outside of sex that you enjoy with your one and only then that's where I can see jealousy becoming an issue. | |||
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"we are just not the jealous type,we love meeting people ,having a good laugh n lotsa fun ,we just go with the flow,lifes great xx" thumbs up ...lovely to hear .. x | |||
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"blimey Kaz Freddie and me - all got green eyes - wonder if its the most popular colour amongst swingers " I think you'll find that this is a common occurence amongst the swinging community brought on slowly by lengthy periods of time spent in dimly lit clubs, grope boxes etc... my eyes started off blue!!! hehehe | |||
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"blimey Kaz Freddie and me - all got green eyes - wonder if its the most popular colour amongst swingers I think you'll find that this is a common occurence amongst the swinging community brought on slowly by lengthy periods of time spent in dimly lit clubs, grope boxes etc... my eyes started off blue!!! hehehe " oops! | |||
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"blimey Kaz Freddie and me - all got green eyes - wonder if its the most popular colour amongst swingers I think you'll find that this is a common occurence amongst the swinging community brought on slowly by lengthy periods of time spent in dimly lit clubs, grope boxes etc... my eyes started off blue!!! hehehe " Mine are blue....Ill look forward to the day they become green | |||
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"Well reading this thread and as ive never played with or as a cpl (as if id be so lucky )i have always wondered about the jealousy thing but seems you all have none which is great but i do now cos your all lucky F@@kers lol " oi young man!!! what have i told you? | |||
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"Well reading this thread and as ive never played with or as a cpl (as if id be so lucky )i have always wondered about the jealousy thing but seems you all have none which is great but i do now cos your all lucky F@@kers lol oi young man!!! what have i told you? " I was just saying it has always crossed my mind the whole couples thing young lady ! | |||
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"well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left " We had a few rules but as our swinging experiences evolves so the rules bend and change depending on different situations and comfort levels Some rules will never change though and thas something we're both happy about | |||
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"well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left " goes to look at your two rules | |||
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"well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left " Ah i get ya.....must kiss wearing a johnny | |||
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"well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left Ah i get ya.....must kiss wearing a johnny " Was they aiming that at you cos they have heard where your mouth has been? lol | |||
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"well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left Ah i get ya.....must kiss wearing a johnny Was they aiming that at you cos they have heard where your mouth has been? lol" yeah most prob so its just as well they dont know where my arse has been | |||
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"well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left Ah i get ya.....must kiss wearing a johnny Was they aiming that at you cos they have heard where your mouth has been? lol yeah most prob so its just as well they dont know where my arse has been " Ah, this was on the other thread about chat up lines. So you got a mouth like a bird cage huh? | |||
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"am I supposed to tell you what the rules are? opps silly me They are that K has to be happy in any situation (and she says i have to be) and penatrative sex has to be safe sex " what you mean no strapping explosives to the dick ...cus a condom helps but it dont make you safe . | |||
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"am I supposed to tell you what the rules are? opps silly me They are that K has to be happy in any situation (and she says i have to be) and penatrative sex has to be safe sex what you mean no strapping explosives to the dick ...cus a condom helps but it dont make you safe ." does that mean you would climax with a bang | |||
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"am I supposed to tell you what the rules are? opps silly me They are that K has to be happy in any situation (and she says i have to be) and penatrative sex has to be safe sex what you mean no strapping explosives to the dick ...cus a condom helps but it dont make you safe . does that mean you would climax with a bang " well you've heard about the explosive orgasm ... | |||
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"people ....get this back to the point xxxxx " why... are you jealous lol.. | |||
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out strange game innit That's the difference between intimacy and affection. You can fancy someone rotten and fuck their brains out without jealousy rearing its ugly head but if you then take that further and start doing everyday things with other men outside of sex that you enjoy with your one and only then that's where I can see jealousy becoming an issue." i agree ...but i assume you mean women as well rather than just men ? | |||
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out strange game innit That's the difference between intimacy and affection. You can fancy someone rotten and fuck their brains out without jealousy rearing its ugly head but if you then take that further and start doing everyday things with other men outside of sex that you enjoy with your one and only then that's where I can see jealousy becoming an issue. i agree ...but i assume you mean women as well rather than just men ?" I should hope, this is an equal opportunities organisation | |||
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out strange game innit That's the difference between intimacy and affection. You can fancy someone rotten and fuck their brains out without jealousy rearing its ugly head but if you then take that further and start doing everyday things with other men outside of sex that you enjoy with your one and only then that's where I can see jealousy becoming an issue. i agree ...but i assume you mean women as well rather than just men ? I should hope, this is an equal opportunities organisation " sure is | |||
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out strange game innit That's the difference between intimacy and affection. You can fancy someone rotten and fuck their brains out without jealousy rearing its ugly head but if you then take that further and start doing everyday things with other men outside of sex that you enjoy with your one and only then that's where I can see jealousy becoming an issue. i agree ...but i assume you mean women as well rather than just men ? I should hope, this is an equal opportunities organisation sure is " can we see the policy please? | |||
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"If one didn’t know better one could take offence at this post having green eyes my self.ya daft bugger i have green eyes too ...but no jealous monster here ...in fact i find it a massive turn on to see rob giving another woman the same pleasure he gives me " I so whole-heartedly agree... nothing to do with jealousy or green eyes... just emphasising the depth your own relationship has ...that is why there is no room for jealousy and possessiveness in swinging... | |||
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"people ....get this back to the point xxxxx " that was pd's fault he side tracked the whole bloody thing, it wasnt me. i am never guilty of doing anything like that. i stick to the topic and never ever stray from it....honest...cross me heart hope to die | |||
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"getting back to the topic i think its pd's fault coz he is a jealous swinger and forumnite and he just hates it when i put my intellectual point on things" aint got a jealous bone in my body love , ....simple x | |||
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"getting back to the topic i think its pd's fault coz he is a jealous swinger and forumnite and he just hates it when i put my intellectual point on things aint got a jealous bone in my body love , ....simple x" yeah ya are, its when i put my intelligent view across | |||
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"getting back to the topic i think its pd's fault coz he is a jealous swinger and forumnite and he just hates it when i put my intellectual point on things aint got a jealous bone in my body love , ....simple x yeah ya are, its when i put my intelligent view across" but all your views are intelligent arent they ?? | |||
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"getting back to the topic i think its pd's fault coz he is a jealous swinger and forumnite and he just hates it when i put my intellectual point on things aint got a jealous bone in my body love , ....simple x yeah ya are, its when i put my intelligent view across but all your views are intelligent arent they ?? " of course they are....arnt they | |||
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"Swingers claim sex is more rather than less intimate because they are with a partner who encourages their fantasies; therefore, the partner is so confident that jealousy is not an issue True or false ?" It is not an issue with us we love eachother to bits xx | |||
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"Swingers claim sex is more rather than less intimate because they are with a partner who encourages their fantasies; therefore, the partner is so confident that jealousy is not an issue True or false ? It is not an issue with us we love eachother to bits xx " same here | |||
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"Swingers claim sex is more rather than less intimate because they are with a partner who encourages their fantasies; therefore, the partner is so confident that jealousy is not an issue True or false ? It is not an issue with us we love eachother to bits xx same here " Good morning friend three days to early morning raid lol xx | |||
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"Im never jealous of me am I gran. No im not. " wots the weather out gran. am still in bed with the curtains closed. cannot hear any rain, so i dont think its wet outside. my nipples are not super hard so i dont think its cold. just cant be bothered getting out of my bed. | |||
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"Im never jealous of me am I gran. No im not. wots the weather out gran. am still in bed with the curtains closed. cannot hear any rain, so i dont think its wet outside. my nipples are not super hard so i dont think its cold. just cant be bothered getting out of my bed." ffs ! lazy git! Wincey Willis says..... it's mild but grey and overcast. Low but wide expanse of cloud cover AND sticking my head out of the velux for you ... it looks like it could rain .....OR clear up n give a bit of sun ... Could go either way ( bit like a bi at a group session ) Get up you lazy mare ! Dee xx | |||
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"Im never jealous of me am I gran. No im not. wots the weather out gran. am still in bed with the curtains closed. cannot hear any rain, so i dont think its wet outside. my nipples are not super hard so i dont think its cold. just cant be bothered getting out of my bed. ffs ! lazy git! Wincey Willis says..... it's mild but grey and overcast. Low but wide expanse of cloud cover AND sticking my head out of the velux for you ... it looks like it could rain .....OR clear up n give a bit of sun ... Could go either way ( bit like a bi at a group session ) Get up you lazy mare ! Dee xx " who said you were not a scouser when you come out with that expression "lazy mare". would love to know the weather conditions for saturday as going to a wedding. any chance you could ask wincey for me what its going to be like for then janxx | |||
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"Im never jealous of me am I gran. No im not. wots the weather out gran. am still in bed with the curtains closed. cannot hear any rain, so i dont think its wet outside. my nipples are not super hard so i dont think its cold. just cant be bothered getting out of my bed. ffs ! lazy git! Wincey Willis says..... it's mild but grey and overcast. Low but wide expanse of cloud cover AND sticking my head out of the velux for you ... it looks like it could rain .....OR clear up n give a bit of sun ... Could go either way ( bit like a bi at a group session ) Get up you lazy mare ! Dee xx who said you were not a scouser when you come out with that expression "lazy mare". would love to know the weather conditions for saturday as going to a wedding. any chance you could ask wincey for me what its going to be like for then janxx" Wincey says no .... Wincey says put the area of the wedding into your sodding computer and look for it yourself. I'd have done it for you but Wincey is a bitch. P.S. I'm not a scouser..... i've only lived here for 52 years | |||
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