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By *appy squirrel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

so lovely people, help me out. I seem to struggle to know what I am dealing with here...

what is the difference between a meet and a date? some clear guidance is needed to help my poor little soul...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

A meet means sexual contact is likely, a date implies no such thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A meet means sexual contact is likely, a date implies no such thing"

Perfectly summed up

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By *appy squirrel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

yeah but what if you have had a couple of meets already with that person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a social meet then?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"What's a social meet then?"

A waste of time.

Joke! Its a different ball game, just a way to suss out if you want to get jiggy with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meet is a form of date. It could be purely social, purely sexual or a social potentially leading up to sexual.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

To me a meet whether a repeat or not is when you get together with someone for some great sex. Then go back to real life.

A date is when you do the above except you're hoping to have a relationship with them at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dates, are sweet

Meets are the treats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would class a date as going somewhere like a meal or trip out, and as much sexiness as was wanted. A meet would be getting down to things straight away without having been to the cinema etc first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A meet means sexual contact is likely, a date implies no such thing"

Wrong on both accounts - *blows a raspberry *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would class a date as going somewhere like a meal or trip out, and as much sexiness as was wanted. A meet would be getting down to things straight away without having been to the cinema etc first "

Agree

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

How many ladies meet someone again if you like them, but are not sure on first meeting if you want to get jiggy with them??

I often know I don't, but sometimes I'm not sure if I do, and then I feel awkward for asking them to take some time and be a bit 'datey' with me lol??

I guess some guys are happy to go for that and some are not.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"A meet means sexual contact is likely, a date implies no such thing

Wrong on both accounts - *blows a raspberry * "

OK, using your logic then, fancy a date?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've given up meeting on here, I don't know if it is my area but I have been told NO man respects women on here! This was from a guy I had already met, I am now practicing celibacy

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"To me a meet whether a repeat or not is when you get together with someone for some great sex. Then go back to real life.

A date is when you do the above except you're hoping to have a relationship with them at some point.

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Yes, that's how I define it - date is always 'with a view to' a possible relationship. But a meet can be very social too, spending nights out or weekends away together or whatever.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"How many ladies meet someone again if you like them, but are not sure on first meeting if you want to get jiggy with them??

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I always have a social first and I know literally straight away if I want to shag them or not!

I don't date but I'm more than happy for repeat meets with the right kind of guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dates are part of the plum family

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By *appy squirrel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

well I am glad to see that the lines can be very blurred... and its not only me who is at times a bit confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A meet means sexual contact is likely, a date implies no such thing

Wrong on both accounts - *blows a raspberry *

OK, using your logic then, fancy a date? "

Yes please

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"How many ladies meet someone again if you like them, but are not sure on first meeting if you want to get jiggy with them??

I always have a social first and I know literally straight away if I want to shag them or not!

I don't date but I'm more than happy for repeat meets with the right kind of guys "

I'm up for either! Some I know before we even meet, but increasingly, especially with guys over 50, I'm really not sure, just willing to take a bit more time and meet again if they are.

I guess because I only really looking for fwb I'm needing to warm to them as a friend before I start to feel I want more. I very rarely feel like nsa nowadays.

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