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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would you do if one of your closest friends told you he knows about you being on a swingers site... and also knows about your darkest secrets?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Is this theoretical or is it happening to you lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My closest friend knows I'm on here so I'd proabably ask him what the hell hes going on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ask him his user name!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On a round about way a friend has spoken to me.

I don't give a fuck personally, as Mrs marmite knows I'm bi, and also buys the knickers for me

Just got me wondering though, can he keep it to himself or are ALL my friends gonna know soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing really, don’t care who’s knows what about me, wouldn’t make front page news that’s for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 2 closest friend know and I have zero worries about them telling anyone or they wouldn't be my closest friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run for the hills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if one of your closest friends told you he knows about you being on a swingers site... and also knows about your darkest secrets?

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Depends. Could be threats and violence, could be a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a true friend then they should respect your life choices x

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Tackle it head on. Tell him you don’t mind him knowing but he should not tell anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say so? The missus knows and she's the only person it affects. Then i'd probably ditch him as a mate cos it sounds a bit in your face.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

is he on here too then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never divulge my darkest or lightest secrets or friends for that matter!

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

What's he doing on the same site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's my closest friend it wouldn't matter. No-one knows my darkest secrets..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps asking how the friend knows this may make him question his actions

If he is a real friend then perhaps he will understand the concepts of loyalty and discretion.

If not you may find out. But there is little you can do to control the situation beyond either talking with and trusting the friend or just taking what may come your way.

Good luck with this i hope your friend proves to be just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a round about way a friend has spoken to me.

I don't give a fuck personally, as Mrs marmite knows I'm bi, and also buys the knickers for me

Just got me wondering though, can he keep it to himself or are ALL my friends gonna know soon."

I guess there isn't anything you can do if he knows and does tell all your friends.

Your Mrs knows that's all that matters, hold your head up high and be proud of who you are.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I'd ask what he was doing looking at mens profiles on Fab!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It depends on what your dark secrets are I susppose.

If my friend Mark (who is a ninja) discovered I like making lamp shades out of human skin he'd be very dissapointed in me.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I would probably say it’s a swingers site and I do more chatting then anything else don’t worry about it, It’s nothing compared to some of the stuff you have done in the past

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wonders what I've done in the past now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem for me, I don't have any friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing really, don’t care who’s knows what about me, wouldn’t make front page news that’s for sure. "

This....most of my friends know, work all know. I told them in interview when they asked about my “interests”.

Anyone who doesn’t it’s only because it hasn’t come up in conversation (yet).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on what your dark secrets are I susppose.

If my friend Mark (who is a ninja) discovered I like making lamp shades out of human skin he'd be very dissapointed in me."

Because you hadn't made him one too?

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Many of my closest friends know I’m on Fab, so I’d be ok.

It might help to know what your “friend” might do with your deepest secrets, or if they are maybe “reaching out” in the hope you’ll hook up, or can help them with their secret.

I suggest you don’t make a big fuss about it, act cool but caring Incase they are reaching out, & be nonchalant about it.

Good luck.

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