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Memory of a goldfish.....?

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By *razysexysingle OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Is it too much to expect people to remember who they have contacted on here?!

Seems to be a recurrent theme at the moment, I’ll be chatting to someone for a bit, either they don’t met my criteria or the timing is off so the messages fade to a natural end. Then around two weeks later I get the same opening patter again!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Yes it happens all the time which is odd when you can see if you've messaged someone before.

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By *razysexysingle OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Yes it happens all the time which is odd when you can see if you've messaged someone before."

I know right! That’s what I don’t get

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Its not remembering who I have contacted that I have a issue with as it tells you on their profile,

It usually what I contacted them about,

I have said it before, Where it tells you how long ago it was when you messaged them why not put the subject there as well

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Is it too much to expect people to remember who they have contacted on here?!

Seems to be a recurrent theme at the moment, I’ll be chatting to someone for a bit, either they don’t met my criteria or the timing is off so the messages fade to a natural end. Then around two weeks later I get the same opening patter again! "

??

Be proactive just block ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it too much to expect people to remember who they have contacted on here?!

Seems to be a recurrent theme at the moment, I’ll be chatting to someone for a bit, either they don’t met my criteria or the timing is off so the messages fade to a natural end. Then around two weeks later I get the same opening patter again! "

It’s ridiculous tbh, fab even tells you that you’ve messaged them 3 weeks ago

Goes to show men don’t read diddly squat

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By *razysexysingle OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

The latest I was also chatting to on WhatsApp, exchanged photos but decided logistically with distance it was going to be a bit of a nightmare to organise so left it at that.

Get a message today on Fab, didn’t think anything of it as he may have deleted my number only to be asked what I was into and did I have any face pics!

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By *razysexysingle OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


" ??

Be proactive just block ?"

Familiar with delete and block

Just musing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only site supporters can see if they mailed you before. A lot of women have similar pics so they may not remember mailing you. See it as a compliment that they were attracted to your profile enough to mail you more than once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it too much to expect people to remember who they have contacted on here?!

Seems to be a recurrent theme at the moment, I’ll be chatting to someone for a bit, either they don’t met my criteria or the timing is off so the messages fade to a natural end. Then around two weeks later I get the same opening patter again! "

This happens all the time, there is one guy who I have so many blocked profiles of his, his girlfriends and his couple profiles that defies belief. It's always the same granitic ally punchooatedly badly massage, and all his profiles are the same. Hope grammatically and punctuated made sense their... Oops my spalling is atrooshish sometymes.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

This is why I block people once I've said no thanks

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"The latest I was also chatting to on WhatsApp, exchanged photos but decided logistically with distance it was going to be a bit of a nightmare to organise so left it at that.

Get a message today on Fab, didn’t think anything of it as he may have deleted my number only to be asked what I was into and did I have any face pics! "

I'm laughing... Had this recently.

He totaly denied ever having messaged me before.

Sent screen shot of WhatsApp.... Still in denial!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Oh I've got a great memory, even if they message me again after a year. Had one today!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll hold my hand up to forgetting everything that was said, read, written and spoken more than 3 seconds ago. I can't help it, don't shoot me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I change my name and profile pic often, which is confusing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happens all the time, there is one guy who I have so many blocked profiles of his, his girlfriends and his couple profiles that defies belief. It's always the same granitic ally punchooatedly badly massage, and all his profiles are the same. Hope grammatically and punctuated made sense their... Oops my spalling is atrooshish sometymes. "

Sounds more like a stalker tbh ! all those profiles blocked and he still manages to contact you.

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

I’m the other side on the spectrum here, I tend to have several conversations going on at once while I get to know guys before meeting and I always muddle up who’s who so have to keep asking for them to send a face picture to referesh my memory

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