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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are here more single guys than girls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no scientist. But I think it's because men are able to use google search More effectively for what they're looking for.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Do you mean single or just single profiles ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean single or just single profiles ?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean single or just single profiles ?"

I should’ve said just guys.. I’m making that correction now

Why are here more guys than girls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On Fab? I reckon many women open a profile, get inundated with mad mails from desperate men before they've even managed to complete their profile, feel nauseous and leave the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On Fab? I reckon many women open a profile, get inundated with mad mails from desperate men before they've even managed to complete their profile, feel nauseous and leave the site."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean single or just single profiles ?

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Defo just single profiles. FAB single

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On Fab? I reckon many women open a profile, get inundated with mad mails from desperate men before they've even managed to complete their profile, feel nauseous and leave the site.

This

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One would say you two are still here

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

In seriousness (though I think you may be being ironic) because seeking nsa sex is seen as socially acceptable for men to do, but women doing it are stigmatised and so less likely to risk the likelihood of criticism/nasty comments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In seriousness (though I think you may be being ironic) because seeking nsa sex is seen as socially acceptable for men to do, but women doing it are stigmatised and so less likely to risk the likelihood of criticism/nasty comments.

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Would you not regard fab as an escape from the social life?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"On Fab? I reckon many women open a profile, get inundated with mad mails from desperate men before they've even managed to complete their profile, feel nauseous and leave the site."

This happened first time I joined not even learnt how to put a pic up and I’d got loads of messages within mere minutes of joining I spent about an hour on the site and deleted my account took me 6months after that before I rejoined

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"In seriousness (though I think you may be being ironic) because seeking nsa sex is seen as socially acceptable for men to do, but women doing it are stigmatised and so less likely to risk the likelihood of criticism/nasty comments.

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Yes and its very evident on fab after a women has so many veris she’s “shagged the whole site” and therefore a “whore”

Seen That attitude displayed in profile write ups and forums posted too many times to count, mostly from men and then they wonder why more women are here or they have no luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still here on the 4th profile a variety of filters and a cynical jaded outlook on FAB life lol

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Do you mean single or just single profiles ?

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Now see without any form of emoticon you detected the underlying sarcasm

Dunno OP. Maybe some are actually women

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"On Fab? I reckon many women open a profile, get inundated with mad mails from desperate men before they've even managed to complete their profile, feel nauseous and leave the site."

This definitely does contribute to the gender imbalance. When I first joined I received hundreds of messages in the first hour despite having a totally blank profile and no pictures. I navigated away from the site and didn't come back for over a week. When I came back I didn't show up as a newbie so things calmed down somewhat. I deleted everything and started again.

Every time I do a status update or add a new photo I am once again inundated with messages so I rarely do it.

Another big factor is that it is still more socially acceptable for men to be looking for nsa casual sex than it is for women. A man is seen as a stud whereas a woman is seen as a slut! For generations women have been told nice girls don't sleep around and sex is something that should happen only in a relationship.

It is also often the case that far more men are looking for extra marital sex than women do. Women are often more inclined to try and work things out with a partner and men will go looking elsewhere for what is lacking in their relationship.

Obviously these are generalisations and there are always exceptions to this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some very good concerns for single male students on here and for Fab owners in order to create gender balance.

Females shouldn’t be bombarded with messages and fab should create a guide so they feel in control on the site when new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some very good concerns for single male students on here and for Fab owners in order to create gender balance.

Females shouldn’t be bombarded with messages and fab should create a guide so they feel in control on the site when new.

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We've asked many times for new female profiles to automatically have mail filters on so no-one can mail them until they're ready.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some very good concerns for single male students on here and for Fab owners in order to create gender balance.

Females shouldn’t be bombarded with messages and fab should create a guide so they feel in control on the site when new.

We've asked many times for new female profiles to automatically have mail filters on so no-one can mail them until they're ready. "

Maybe fab doesn’t want the site to become gender balanced

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Some very good concerns for single male students on here and for Fab owners in order to create gender balance.

Females shouldn’t be bombarded with messages and fab should create a guide so they feel in control on the site when new.

We've asked many times for new female profiles to automatically have mail filters on so no-one can mail them until they're ready.

Maybe fab doesn’t want the site to become gender balanced "

I think it would be a better expeience for all if it was. Not the only thing that would help mind.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"In seriousness (though I think you may be being ironic) because seeking nsa sex is seen as socially acceptable for men to do, but women doing it are stigmatised and so less likely to risk the likelihood of criticism/nasty comments.

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Only from other women!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"In seriousness (though I think you may be being ironic) because seeking nsa sex is seen as socially acceptable for men to do, but women doing it are stigmatised and so less likely to risk the likelihood of criticism/nasty comments.

Only from other women!"

Nope! Far more likely to be men, see upthread - many male profiles state they won't meet women with "X amount of veris" even if they have more than that number veris themselves!

Even more the case in the vanilla world! Hell I had guys who thought my number was too high when it was 6!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because even though we’re in 2017, we still slut shame women who happen to enjoy sex openly and, god forbid, choose to be promiscuous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a guess but I think it may be due to men generally have a basic instinct to spread there seed as far and wide as possible, women are programmed to care and spend a long time with there offspring therefore have a lot more investment in the act of sex so even if society has moved on genetically humans have not! Like I said only a guess so don't shoot me lol

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Perhaps it's because women have sites such as mumsnet they can subscribe to and all guys have is fab?

Just a theory...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Maybe men are just generally more sex mad than women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe men are just generally more sex mad than women."

I think it's this too. I think the pill and life dulls most women's sex drives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because even though we’re in 2017, we still slut shame women who happen to enjoy sex openly and, god forbid, choose to be promiscuous."

This!

And I think a lot of women want a few "strings".

The appeal of NSA wears thin after a while.

Where as a lot of men I've spoken to already have "strings" in the vanilla world and come on here for an emotionless fuck.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


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And I think a lot of women want a few "strings".

The appeal of NSA wears thin after a while.

Where as a lot of men I've spoken to already have "strings" in the vanilla world and come on here for an emotionless fuck.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Why are here more single guys than girls? "

Don't no but its sumthing like 1500 guys to 1 ladey.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe men are just generally more sex mad than women."

Women need sex too

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Maybe men are just generally more sex mad than women.

Women need sex too, gigardey "

Sorry coodount resist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe men are just generally more sex mad than women.

Women need sex too, gigardey

Sorry coodount resist "

Lol

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