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Would anyone ever admit to giving someone a sympathy shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You see the comments on a daily basis, looking or hoping to get a sympathy shag, and I just wondered has anyone ever met someone cause they felt sorry for them? I can seeing this being a string of “no’s” but wonder if anyone has and would actually admit it.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I did once! Or rather I went through with it for fear of him thinking I was shallow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure I've been in receipt of at least one

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

If I choose to have sex, it's because I want to, and with someone I like, not because I feel sorry for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure I've been in receipt of at least one "

Me too!

I’ve been in the position where I had the choice to make but felt it was more compassionate not to blur the boundaries of how we both felt. They may have disagreed with that decision but I felt it was more respectful and honestly, I’d hope to have been treated the same way in the circumstances. But feels were involved in this case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If I choose to have sex, it's because I want to, and with someone I like, not because I feel sorry for them.

"
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us would ever do it.

If we get naked with you it’s because we’re into you on every level.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Hey I'll take whatever my wife will give me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of times.

It's a stupid thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met someone because I've felt sorry for them but I have gone through with sex knowing I probably wasn't doing it for the right reason, I just didn't want to hurt their feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In what context? On here? If so then no I wouldn't, it opens things up to a whole load of complications! I have with ex's over the years though and that usually goes the same way.. damn them feelings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chance would be a fine thing.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure I've been in receipt of at least one

Me too!

I’ve been in the position where I had the choice to make but felt it was more compassionate not to blur the boundaries of how we both felt. They may have disagreed with that decision but I felt it was more respectful and honestly, I’d hope to have been treated the same way in the circumstances. But feels were involved in this case. "

Estella, did you misread my post? Or am I not understanding yours? I'd be amazed if anyone had shagged you out of sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but the ones I receive must be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure I've been in receipt of at least one

Me too!

I’ve been in the position where I had the choice to make but felt it was more compassionate not to blur the boundaries of how we both felt. They may have disagreed with that decision but I felt it was more respectful and honestly, I’d hope to have been treated the same way in the circumstances. But feels were involved in this case.

Estella, did you misread my post? Or am I not understanding yours? I'd be amazed if anyone had shagged you out of sympathy."

On the same basis why one earth would you think anyone had done that to you either Elpis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure I've been in receipt of at least one

Me too!

I’ve been in the position where I had the choice to make but felt it was more compassionate not to blur the boundaries of how we both felt. They may have disagreed with that decision but I felt it was more respectful and honestly, I’d hope to have been treated the same way in the circumstances. But feels were involved in this case.

Estella, did you misread my post? Or am I not understanding yours? I'd be amazed if anyone had shagged you out of sympathy."

Good lord, you’d be wrong!! That’s a lovely thing to say though, thank you. I can name one person for sure who did, and told me!! Charmer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure I've been in receipt of at least one

Me too!

I’ve been in the position where I had the choice to make but felt it was more compassionate not to blur the boundaries of how we both felt. They may have disagreed with that decision but I felt it was more respectful and honestly, I’d hope to have been treated the same way in the circumstances. But feels were involved in this case.

Estella, did you misread my post? Or am I not understanding yours? I'd be amazed if anyone had shagged you out of sympathy.

On the same basis why one earth would you think anyone had done that to you either Elpis"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I have to find them attractive or I just won’t get hard

If someone’s shagged me out of sympathy then that’s fine with me

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"

If I choose to have sex, it's because I want to, and with someone I like, not because I feel sorry for them.

"

Yep , agree , can't say I ever have ,heartless fucker

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

If anyone wants to bang hip bones I can let you know if I have received one after the weekend...

Ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I met a guy a few years ago (not off here). Didn't fancy him at all but ended up having a sex meet anyway. It was amazing, I had a brilliant time. Happy ending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I met a guy a few years ago (not off here). Didn't fancy him at all but ended up having a sex meet anyway. It was amazing, I had a brilliant time. Happy ending. "

Yes, I actually get quite turned on fantasising about fucking a guy I’m not attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I met a guy a few years ago (not off here). Didn't fancy him at all but ended up having a sex meet anyway. It was amazing, I had a brilliant time. Happy ending.

Yes, I actually get quite turned on fantasising about fucking a guy I’m not attracted to. "

That explains it

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By *ady-LoverMan
over a year ago

swindon

Never done and never would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure I've been in receipt of at least one

Me too!

I’ve been in the position where I had the choice to make but felt it was more compassionate not to blur the boundaries of how we both felt. They may have disagreed with that decision but I felt it was more respectful and honestly, I’d hope to have been treated the same way in the circumstances. But feels were involved in this case.

Estella, did you misread my post? Or am I not understanding yours? I'd be amazed if anyone had shagged you out of sympathy.

On the same basis why one earth would you think anyone had done that to you either Elpis"

Because I'm a complete bitch cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure I've been in receipt of at least one

Me too!

I’ve been in the position where I had the choice to make but felt it was more compassionate not to blur the boundaries of how we both felt. They may have disagreed with that decision but I felt it was more respectful and honestly, I’d hope to have been treated the same way in the circumstances. But feels were involved in this case.

Estella, did you misread my post? Or am I not understanding yours? I'd be amazed if anyone had shagged you out of sympathy.

Good lord, you’d be wrong!! That’s a lovely thing to say though, thank you. I can name one person for sure who did, and told me!! Charmer! "

And told you. Words fail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I met a guy a few years ago (not off here). Didn't fancy him at all but ended up having a sex meet anyway. It was amazing, I had a brilliant time. Happy ending.

Yes, I actually get quite turned on fantasising about fucking a guy I’m not attracted to. "

Me too. So much. Is it a power thing? Or the fact there's absolutely zero pressure? Or maybe the aphrodisiac of knowing they're going to be completely bowled over?

I'm pissed BTW.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure I've been in receipt of at least one "

I was thinking the same.

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By *ady-LoverMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I'm sure I've been in receipt of at least one

Me too!

I’ve been in the position where I had the choice to make but felt it was more compassionate not to blur the boundaries of how we both felt. They may have disagreed with that decision but I felt it was more respectful and honestly, I’d hope to have been treated the same way in the circumstances. But feels were involved in this case.

Estella, did you misread my post? Or am I not understanding yours? I'd be amazed if anyone had shagged you out of sympathy.

Good lord, you’d be wrong!! That’s a lovely thing to say though, thank you. I can name one person for sure who did, and told me!! Charmer!

And told you. Words fail. "

Wow that's crazy horrible. That person needs to have a good look at them self and get a life * shocked *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I met a guy a few years ago (not off here). Didn't fancy him at all but ended up having a sex meet anyway. It was amazing, I had a brilliant time. Happy ending.

Yes, I actually get quite turned on fantasising about fucking a guy I’m not attracted to.

Me too. So much. Is it a power thing? Or the fact there's absolutely zero pressure? Or maybe the aphrodisiac of knowing they're going to be completely bowled over?

I'm pissed BTW. "

You're not properly pissed until you can't punctuate properly.

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By *appyhumper123Man
over a year ago

hull

Any sympathy shags this way please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I met a guy a few years ago (not off here). Didn't fancy him at all but ended up having a sex meet anyway. It was amazing, I had a brilliant time. Happy ending.

Yes, I actually get quite turned on fantasising about fucking a guy I’m not attracted to.

Me too. So much. Is it a power thing? Or the fact there's absolutely zero pressure? Or maybe the aphrodisiac of knowing they're going to be completely bowled over?

I'm pissed BTW. "

I'm also on the getting pissed wagon! Great pics by the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had sex with someone who I wasn't sexually attracted to. He was a virgin who I had been talking to online and by phone for a couple of years before we met. He was 28 and wanted to experience a woman. I thought I would be a good woman for him to have as a first experience. It was a sympathy fuck; it was a job well done fuck.

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By *ady-LoverMan
over a year ago

swindon

Can't wait to finish work and join this piss party lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I met a guy a few years ago (not off here). Didn't fancy him at all but ended up having a sex meet anyway. It was amazing, I had a brilliant time. Happy ending.

Yes, I actually get quite turned on fantasising about fucking a guy I’m not attracted to.

Me too. So much. Is it a power thing? Or the fact there's absolutely zero pressure? Or maybe the aphrodisiac of knowing they're going to be completely bowled over?

I'm pissed BTW. "

I really don’t know. In my head, it’s the idea that I’m being used and enjoying it.

I’m on cough and cold meds and probably getting slightly intoxicated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I met a guy a few years ago (not off here). Didn't fancy him at all but ended up having a sex meet anyway. It was amazing, I had a brilliant time. Happy ending.

Yes, I actually get quite turned on fantasising about fucking a guy I’m not attracted to.

Me too. So much. Is it a power thing? Or the fact there's absolutely zero pressure? Or maybe the aphrodisiac of knowing they're going to be completely bowled over?

I'm pissed BTW.

You're not properly pissed until you can't punctuate properly. "

So long as my quoting is within approved guidelines I'm happy. Also iphone is v good at picking up full stops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any sympathy shags this way please "

Why can't women ever post comments like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any sympathy shags this way please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure I've been in receipt of at least one "

Never. You have to be kidding xxx

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Yes, I actually get quite turned on fantasising about fucking a guy I’m not attracted to. "

Excellent news, shall I pop over?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Hey I'll take whatever my wife will give me "

Me too; I’ll take whatever Clem’s wife will give me

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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ll hold my hands up and admit that have. Not from here. From another site. And as another poster said, I’ve probably had a few myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wouldn’t bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I met a guy a few years ago (not off here). Didn't fancy him at all but ended up having a sex meet anyway. It was amazing, I had a brilliant time. Happy ending.

Yes, I actually get quite turned on fantasising about fucking a guy I’m not attracted to. "

Same here . It must be a 'thing'

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