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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this might strike some of you as lazy, but surely there has to be an easier way to meet people on here than spending ages searching for single women and then messaging them only for the message to go unnoticed in their mail box due to being buried by the barrage of messages that follow your own

So figured I’d give this a go, it can’t hurt my chances can it..

I’m a single male looking to meet with single women, I’m very open minded so there really is no limit to the amount of fun that can be achieved here..

Feel free to reply here if your interested, or message me directly..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair mate, your just another male in the sea of males here. Sometimes you get lucky, sometimes you don't! Best way to convince a woman you aren't a nutcase/stalker/ total freak and all things in between is just be yourself and lay all your cards on the table when engaging in messages. I can imagine being a woman on here can be a bit daunting at times, they are hounded by the minute with messages. Gotta stand out. Being a good match is key too, no point messaging someone who wants totally different things to you but saying you can do whatever they like, it's not what they like at all. Gotta match up!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair mate, your just another male in the sea of males here. "

Just trying something I haven’t already tried, thanks for the advice but I think my message already shows I understand what you said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair mate, your just another male in the sea of males here.

Just trying something I haven’t already tried, thanks for the advice but I think my message already shows I understand what you said

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Fair enough, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play op.

I like your endeavour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting women on here is a piece of piss. I don’t understand why men find it so hard.

You’re on here for sex, they’re on here for sex. What’s the problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fair play op.

I like your endeavour

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I never do anything be halved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meeting women on here is a piece of piss. I don’t understand why men find it so hard.

You’re on here for sex, they’re on here for sex. What’s the problem "

Iv not been here long and met some very nice women, just think the method I was using left my reach limited... trying something different, just to see how it goes

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

Only a small percentage of females use the forums though, so still need to put the leg work in but good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only a small percentage of females use the forums though, so still need to put the leg work in but good luck "

I feel like some of you comment just for the sake of it to point out obvious things I hope you don’t go out side in the morning and tell strangers it light because the sun came up

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London


"Only a small percentage of females use the forums though, so still need to put the leg work in but good luck

I feel like some of you comment just for the sake of it to point out obvious things I hope you don’t go out side in the morning and tell strangers it light because the sun came up "

Well sorry about that, I’ll keep my big mouth shut in future. You’ve obviously been here long enough to know it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only a small percentage of females use the forums though, so still need to put the leg work in but good luck

I feel like some of you comment just for the sake of it to point out obvious things I hope you don’t go out side in the morning and tell strangers it light because the sun came up

Well sorry about that, I’ll keep my big mouth shut in future. You’ve obviously been here long enough to know it all. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair mate, your just another male in the sea of males here.

Just trying something I haven’t already tried, thanks for the advice but I think my message already shows I understand what you said

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Your trying what hundreds (I'm making that number up) have tried before you. But in fairness, I'm unsure if it's ever worked.

Good luck op.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair mate, your just another male in the sea of males here.

Just trying something I haven’t already tried, thanks for the advice but I think my message already shows I understand what you said

Your trying what hundreds (I'm making that number up) have tried before you. But in fairness, I'm unsure if it's ever worked.

Good luck op. "

I appreciate I won’t be the first person to try this method, only been here a short time and figured i wasn’t doing anything after work today so I had time to monitor the post and reply

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well sorry about that, I’ll keep my big mouth shut in future. You’ve obviously been here long enough to know it all. "

There’s no need to spit your dummy out, even forums with no websites don’t have a 100% active member rate, so I find it pretty reasonable to expect not all the girls use the forum, although to be fair we have no way of knowing if they do or don’t lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Only a small percentage of females use the forums though, so still need to put the leg work in but good luck

I feel like some of you comment just for the sake of it to point out obvious things I hope you don’t go out side in the morning and tell strangers it light because the sun came up "

What's obvious to some just isn't to others - and most forum users don't know you, nor your experience etc. Their input has cost them more than the cost to you op, so perhaps consider how you can optimise all your input here, so that it helps to improve things and help you achieve what you deserve.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP I've seen it said on here that only 1-2% of the site members actively use the forums.

That said it is a great way to get to know people and meets do happen. The same goes for using the chat rooms.

Take a look at the meet requests section of the forums. There are often organised group socials advertised on there which are another way to meet people and make connections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I love the forums, you get to see a person's real character. Even after a very short while sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I've seen it said on here that only 1-2% of the site members actively use the forums.

That said it is a great way to get to know people and meets do happen. The same goes for using the chat rooms.

Take a look at the meet requests section of the forums. There are often organised group socials advertised on there which are another way to meet people and make connections."

You mean like speed dating for fabbers?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"OP I've seen it said on here that only 1-2% of the site members actively use the forums.

That said it is a great way to get to know people and meets do happen. The same goes for using the chat rooms.

Take a look at the meet requests section of the forums. There are often organised group socials advertised on there which are another way to meet people and make connections.

You mean like speed dating for fabbers? "

Haha more like a large group of fabbers meet up for a drink and chat. Lots of future meets and maybe invites to house parties if you are lucky.

I have seen some clubs hold speed dating type events though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why I love the forums, you get to see a person's real character. Even after a very short while sometimes "

You sure do

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