FabSwingers.com forum: "So up yourself"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now I'm not 100% sure exactly what's meant by that...but it's a statement that gets thrown around a lot in my experience...

Usually after I've said no thanks...sometimes I'm told "you're up yourself for a fatty" or "you women are so up yourself".

Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?

My profile is very clear, but also very tongue in cheek...always amazes me how many people these things rub up the wrong way...

It's not just us fatties or women that are selective is it?!

Feel free to share your rantings..this is all this is...and I do block, report and delete when it happens before those comments fly in...after I've had a little fun with them

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Blokes like this shouldn't be allowed on fab Ffs !! Makes me mad as it ruins it for the geniune ones . Twats!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a boring, go to 'insult' the butthurt use.

I can't be arsed to rant, I'm deliriously happy lately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Blokes like this shouldn't be allowed on fab Ffs !! Makes me mad as it ruins it for the geniune ones . Twats!!"

It's is a shame...it's not just men though, more often single guys but couples and women can be assholes too.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Blokes like this shouldn't be allowed on fab Ffs !! Makes me mad as it ruins it for the geniune ones . Twats!!"

No, they ruin it for themselves, you make your own luck on fab, don't blame others for lack of success.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's just a boring, go to 'insult' the butthurt use.

I can't be arsed to rant, I'm deliriously happy lately. "

Gloating is allowed too

Yay for happiness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a higher opinion of yourself than they have of you. Something to be ignored.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Blokes like this shouldn't be allowed on fab Ffs !! Makes me mad as it ruins it for the geniune ones . Twats!!

It's is a shame...it's not just men though, more often single guys but couples and women can be assholes too.

Interestingly I've actually found couples to be far worse than single men.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?"

THIS ^^^^

Now bend over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not received that reply yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?

THIS ^^^^

Now bend over.

For you...I only need to be told once...

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

I see it as a compliment. It means I have standards, value my own self worth and know what I want. Shame those who try to throw it about as an insult don't have the intelligence to work that one out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see it as a compliment. It means I have standards, value my own self worth and know what I want. Shame those who try to throw it about as an insult don't have the intelligence to work that one out. "

Yes!!!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Blokes like this shouldn't be allowed on fab Ffs !! Makes me mad as it ruins it for the geniune ones . Twats!!

It's is a shame...it's not just men though, more often single guys but couples and women can be assholes too.

Interestingly I've actually found couples to be far worse than single men. "
I must be lucky then as I do receive polite answers ( even it it's usually no ) . Politeness goes a long way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t waste time being up yourself. Allow me to be up you instead xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t waste time being up yourself. Allow me to be up you instead xxx"

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?

THIS ^^^^

Now bend over.

For you...I only need to be told once...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon being 'up yourself' would be more enjoyable than being with men like that, if you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?

THIS ^^^^

Now bend over.

For you...I only need to be told once...

You've reminded me of an addition I need to make to my profile...

"All male applicants must have an arse like funky's"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I reckon being 'up yourself' would be more enjoyable than being with men like that, if you know what I mean

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had that 'insult' along with entitled, arrogant and egotistical.

Amazing they got all that from either a no thanks or deleting their usually poorly worded messages

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Blokes like this shouldn't be allowed on fab Ffs !! Makes me mad as it ruins it for the geniune ones . Twats!!

It's is a shame...it's not just men though, more often single guys but couples and women can be assholes too.

Interestingly I've actually found couples to be far worse than single men. "

In our experience of receiving messages from couples most might just as well be single men! The only "Couple" part is that you are looking at pics of her but talking to him.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?

THIS ^^^^

Now bend over.

For you...I only need to be told once...

You've reminded me of an addition I need to make to my profile...

"All male applicants must have an arse like funky's"

And you have just made me think of another revenue stream for Funky Monkey Enterprises Ltd.

I am now offering my services as an arse double to all Fab members (for a small fee)

PM for price list and shades of orange available.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?

THIS ^^^^

Now bend over.

For you...I only need to be told once...

You've reminded me of an addition I need to make to my profile...

"All male applicants must have an arse like funky's"

And you have just made me think of another revenue stream for Funky Monkey Enterprises Ltd.

I am now offering my services as an arse double to all Fab members (for a small fee)

PM for price list and shades of orange available."

A small fee?! You could make a fortune with that tushie!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Blokes like this shouldn't be allowed on fab Ffs !! Makes me mad as it ruins it for the geniune ones . Twats!!

It's is a shame...it's not just men though, more often single guys but couples and women can be assholes too.

Interestingly I've actually found couples to be far worse than single men. "

I've had some very nasty messages from couples in the past.

Several occasions the initial message has come from the female, so I'm assuming the subsequent rant also was.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"You have a higher opinion of yourself than they have of you. Something to be ignored. "

Don't think this is anything to do with their opinion. They don't know you and shouldn't have an opinion. And them getting in touch clearly shows that's really not how they feel. These people are incredibly sad to feel they have to insult you (or anyone else who'll decline). Insults that aren't even true and just shows what pathetic losers they are. They're not worth a single second of your time OP x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Blokes like this shouldn't be allowed on fab Ffs !! Makes me mad as it ruins it for the geniune ones . Twats!!

It's is a shame...it's not just men though, more often single guys but couples and women can be assholes too.

Interestingly I've actually found couples to be far worse than single men.

I've had some very nasty messages from couples in the past.

Several occasions the initial message has come from the female, so I'm assuming the subsequent rant also was. "
exactly, had the same thing to when saying no thanks lol

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

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Interestingly I've actually found couples to be far worse than single men.

I've had some very nasty messages from couples in the past.

Several occasions the initial message has come from the female, so I'm assuming the subsequent rant also was.

exactly, had the same thing to when saying no thanks lol"

Getting a rude reply from a man, well it rather amuses me, but from a couple, another female - it actually upsets me.

I'd always sort of assumed that another woman would know what it likes to get inundated with messages & have a bit more understanding & tact.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I to had a similar story with a similar outcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never underatood the need to rude or insulting when you get a rejection but it does seem to be more the norm than politeness is arround here at times.

I try not to rely too heavily on fab and prefer clubs for meets due to the ratios of men vs women being so different and out of proportion but when I am communicating through Fab I do remain polite and show respect.

Anyone doing otherwise simply doesn't have the personality I am attracted to anyway so I wouldn't miss a meeting with them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Interestingly I've actually found couples to be far worse than single men.

I've had some very nasty messages from couples in the past.

Several occasions the initial message has come from the female, so I'm assuming the subsequent rant also was.

exactly, had the same thing to when saying no thanks lol

Getting a rude reply from a man, well it rather amuses me, but from a couple, another female - it actually upsets me.

I'd always sort of assumed that another woman would know what it likes to get inundated with messages & have a bit more understanding & tact. "

Simple fact is that they don't as they are part of a couple and less likely to get rude messages as there is a man on the profile with them. I've had singles and couples accounts on here, people who have been shitty with me on my single profile have been very polite on the couples one. To which my response is to point this out to them followed by no chance of ever meeting and block on both profiles.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

without reading whole section....

replies received along vein in OP indicates signs of inmaturity don't let them bother you.....if they do we need to mature a bit ourselves

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Now I'm not 100% sure exactly what's meant by that...but it's a statement that gets thrown around a lot in my experience...

Usually after I've said no thanks...sometimes I'm told "you're up yourself for a fatty" or "you women are so up yourself".

Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?

My profile is very clear, but also very tongue in cheek...always amazes me how many people these things rub up the wrong way...

It's not just us fatties or women that are selective is it?!

Feel free to share your rantings..this is all this is...and I do block, report and delete when it happens before those comments fly in...after I've had a little fun with them

I don't understand these rants

Fab makes it easy no need to ever reply just

Block and move on

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"without reading whole section....

replies received along vein in OP indicates signs of inmaturity don't let them bother you.....if they do we need to mature a bit ourselves"
??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah men should be like me.. polite

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now I'm not 100% sure exactly what's meant by that...but it's a statement that gets thrown around a lot in my experience...

Usually after I've said no thanks...sometimes I'm told "you're up yourself for a fatty" or "you women are so up yourself".

Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?

My profile is very clear, but also very tongue in cheek...always amazes me how many people these things rub up the wrong way...

It's not just us fatties or women that are selective is it?!

Feel free to share your rantings..this is all this is...and I do block, report and delete when it happens before those comments fly in...after I've had a little fun with them

I don't understand these rants

Fab makes it easy no need to ever reply just

Block and move on

I think it's good to rant and get things off your chest

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

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To which my response is to point this out to them followed by no chance of ever meeting and block on both profiles. "

Oh that last bit has amused me! XxX

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

To which my response is to point this out to them followed by no chance of ever meeting and block on both profiles.

Oh that last bit has amused me! XxX"

Very simple solution hun x

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By *xperience huntingMan
over a year ago

where

If they can’t be up you surely you must be up yourself!!!

Fuckwits comes to mind !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Low intelligence permeates everything.

Strongest sperm made them.... Lol

Dumbasses often don't realise how thick they are.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

"Blokes like this shouldn't be allowed on fab Ffs !! Makes me mad as it ruins it for the geniune ones . Twats!!"

Nope if anything it makes the good ones stand out even more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally it means that one has an ego where they think they are above everyone else. To be honest, with the way that most men act on here, that isn't entirely untrue, just down to a fact that most of the men trawling this site are dregs anyway

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"You're so up yourself" appears to be the motto of the entitled residents of Fab who wrongly assume that just by signing up to the site they are entitled to be knee deep in sexual encounters within minutes of doing so.

Always makes me laugh that the insults usually fly in a message that was preceded by one telling the recipient how wonderful and gorgeous they are - do these people not see the hypocrisy and contradiction in that?

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

"Now I'm not 100% sure exactly what's meant by that...but it's a statement that gets thrown around a lot in my experience...

Usually after I've said no thanks...sometimes I'm told "you're up yourself for a fatty" or "you women are so up yourself".

Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?

My profile is very clear, but also very tongue in cheek...always amazes me how many people these things rub up the wrong way...

It's not just us fatties or women that are selective is it?!

Feel free to share your rantings..this is all this is...and I do block, report and delete when it happens before those comments fly in...after I've had a little fun with them

To be honest this sites got loads of idiots on it.

A gentle FOOK OFF,seems to work lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think men,women and couples are all guilty of getting arsey,when you tell them something they dont like.

Or they become evasive,for example we chatted to a couple,for a while.They added us as friends and talked about attending a club near us/with us.As soon as we asked for a face pic,delete.

We just blocked them.

On my single profile ,i was called frigid for saying no thanks

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think men,women and couples are all guilty of getting arsey,when you tell them something they dont like.

Or they become evasive,for example we chatted to a couple,for a while.They added us as friends and talked about attending a club near us/with us.As soon as we asked for a face pic,delete.

We just blocked them.

On my single profile ,i was called frigid for saying no thanks

Miss"

Sounds about right....

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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OP. You may be up yourself you may not. You don't come across that you are. Good enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm sure it's not just women who are selective however there does seem to be a select "type" who will take exception to being rejected and start with the abuse.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We get this a lot too OP.

You aren't allowed to say no to some.

In fairness 99.9% have been gracious but its always the tosser that sticks in your mind for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I've heard the phrase 'up yourself' I took it to mean someone who likes to talk about themselves all the time, it's all about them, they could literally be fucking themselves, i.e. 'Shit up, your so up yourself'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP. You may be up yourself you may not. You don't come across that you are. Good enough for me."

I certainly don't think I am...definitely don't consider myself better than or too good for someone else...I like what I like and that's it...I don't fuck people I'm not sexually attracted to and I don't reply to boring or unappealing messages because I don't have time to reply to every one I get so stick to responding to those I'm actually interested in...

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"OP. You may be up yourself you may not. You don't come across that you are. Good enough for me.

Can't argue with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a random insult thrown at me (it's not a common occurrence) it will be that I'm either "up myself" or "up my own arse".

Do I come across that way, maybe I do ~ do I care, nope.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"If I get a random insult thrown at me (it's not a common occurrence) it will be that I'm either "up myself" or "up my own arse".

Do I come across that way, maybe I do ~ do I care, nope.

Not you..never..say it ain't so!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just can't handle rejection. Nowt wrong with having boundaries & high standards. I think your FAQs are brilliant lol I was contemplating putting some on my profile..

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Now I'm not 100% sure exactly what's meant by that...but it's a statement that gets thrown around a lot in my experience...

Usually after I've said no thanks...sometimes I'm told "you're up yourself for a fatty" or "you women are so up yourself".

Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?

My profile is very clear, but also very tongue in cheek...always amazes me how many people these things rub up the wrong way...

It's not just us fatties or women that are selective is it?!

Feel free to share your rantings..this is all this is...and I do block, report and delete when it happens before those comments fly in...after I've had a little fun with them

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Judging by your profile and frequent contris here you're outgoing, can do joined up speaking and have a sense of humour that doesn't involve looking straight at the camera while doing fart jokes.

That pretty much guarantees you'll get your share of dingbats, headtheballs and people who like fart jokes trying to drag you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now I'm not 100% sure exactly what's meant by that...but it's a statement that gets thrown around a lot in my experience...

Usually after I've said no thanks...sometimes I'm told "you're up yourself for a fatty" or "you women are so up yourself".

Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?

My profile is very clear, but also very tongue in cheek...always amazes me how many people these things rub up the wrong way...

It's not just us fatties or women that are selective is it?!

Feel free to share your rantings..this is all this is...and I do block, report and delete when it happens before those comments fly in...after I've had a little fun with them

"
HAHA we call the ‘having a bit of fun with them’ beaver baiting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now I'm not 100% sure exactly what's meant by that...but it's a statement that gets thrown around a lot in my experience...

Usually after I've said no thanks...sometimes I'm told "you're up yourself for a fatty" or "you women are so up yourself".

Now I'm not being funny...but in order to not be "up yourself" Do you have to fuck anyone who asks and not list any preferences on your profile?

My profile is very clear, but also very tongue in cheek...always amazes me how many people these things rub up the wrong way...

It's not just us fatties or women that are selective is it?!

Feel free to share your rantings..this is all this is...and I do block, report and delete when it happens before those comments fly in...after I've had a little fun with them

Judging by your profile and frequent contris here you're outgoing, can do joined up speaking and have a sense of humour that doesn't involve looking straight at the camera while doing fart jokes.

That pretty much guarantees you'll get your share of dingbats, headtheballs and people who like fart jokes trying to drag you down. "

Thank you! I'm still learning when it comes to cursive writing though...

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