FabSwingers.com forum: Hot or sexy....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When I see meets advertised for 'hot' fabbers, I often wonder what constitutes 'hot'?

I class myself as 'sexy', but not as 'hot'...what do you class yourself as?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m Hot sexy and everything in between

Nah seriously I don’t think I’m either, I think I am pretty but I don’t think I fit under hot as that to me is what media portrayals as the perfect person. Sexy is a little more difficult, as sexy has many layers, someone your not attracted to can still be sexy by their mannerisms and the way they hold themselves

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Normal x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither

Sometimes I feel sexy but it usually involves wine

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'm just me, and therefore I'm whatever others see me as for better or worse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think im decent looking to a degree but not so hot women stop me in tbe street to give phone numbers out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just me. I have my moments where I feel sexy but Im not sure id ever say I was hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im just me. I have my moments where I feel sexy but Im not sure id ever say I was hot. "

Ive had a few moments in nightclubs but alcohol is involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im just me. I have my moments where I feel sexy but Im not sure id ever say I was hot.

Ive had a few moments in nightclubs but alcohol is involved"

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Neither

Sometimes I feel sexy but it usually involves wine

Haha love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I am not self centred enough to say things like that about me...but I can sing it:

I'm too sexy for my shirt

Too sexy for my shirt

So sexy it hurts

And I'm too sexy for Milan

Too sexy for Milan

New York, and Japan

I'm too sexy for your party

Too sexy for your party

No way I'm disco dancing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm adorable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honestly I am not self centred enough to say things like that about me...but I can sing it:

I'm too sexy for my shirt

Too sexy for my shirt

So sexy it hurts

And I'm too sexy for Milan

Too sexy for Milan

New York, and Japan

I'm too sexy for your party

Too sexy for your party

No way I'm disco dancing"

For me having the confidence to say i feel sexy isn't about being self centred, it's about confidence. That confidence has been a long time coming. I really hope it doesn't come across as self centred.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im just me. I have my moments where I feel sexy but Im not sure id ever say I was hot. "

This...

You are definitely hot though Miss Rubidoux

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I consider myself to be pretty average. Would never call myself sexy or hot. Leave that for others to decide

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’m far too ‘Mirandish’ to feel sexy

For example ... if I had to do a lap dance or a sexy striptease for someone I would be awkward as bambi on ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m far too ‘Mirandish’ to feel sexy

For example ... if I had to do a lap dance or a sexy striptease for someone I would be awkward as bambi on ice

You are totally sexy!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I’m far too ‘Mirandish’ to feel sexy

For example ... if I had to do a lap dance or a sexy striptease for someone I would be awkward as bambi on ice

You are totally sexy! "

Lol thank you my dear but Sexy comes within and in reality not quite do confident as when chatting and flirting on here

Very much envy girls (in a positive way) that can ooze sex on a pole in a club

I just feel like a firefighter pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m far too ‘Mirandish’ to feel sexy

For example ... if I had to do a lap dance or a sexy striptease for someone I would be awkward as bambi on ice

You are totally sexy!

Lol thank you my dear but Sexy comes within and in reality not quite do confident as when chatting and flirting on here

Very much envy girls (in a positive way) that can ooze sex on a pole in a club

I just feel like a firefighter pmsl

Sometimes the sexiest people are those who have no idea they're sexy...

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I’m far too ‘Mirandish’ to feel sexy

For example ... if I had to do a lap dance or a sexy striptease for someone I would be awkward as bambi on ice

You are totally sexy!

Lol thank you my dear but Sexy comes within and in reality not quite do confident as when chatting and flirting on here

Very much envy girls (in a positive way) that can ooze sex on a pole in a club

I just feel like a firefighter pmsl

Sometimes the sexiest people are those who have no idea they're sexy...

I do have to agree with that .. I’m fact most times that’s the appeal

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I'm hot.

Unfortunately that's more to do with my age these days than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just about right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm neither, I have moments when I can act sexy but I think most of the time I'm just me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly I am not self centred enough to say things like that about me...but I can sing it:

I'm too sexy for my shirt

Too sexy for my shirt

So sexy it hurts

And I'm too sexy for Milan

Too sexy for Milan

New York, and Japan

I'm too sexy for your party

Too sexy for your party

No way I'm disco dancing

Not at all I am taking the same journey, I don't feel confident using words like this about me, don't know if I ever will, but I am trying to love myself more non the less.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I always thought hot was a term fdenoting sexy

I am now much befuddled

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I do not have the confidence to say I’m either hot or sexy. It makes my toes curl just contemplating it. I wish i was more confident, I’m working on it but it does make me cringe when I even try to be sexy.

I’m better with people that I know which is why I prefer regular meets. I’m always amazed when anyone comes back for more though.

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By *ooshMan
over a year ago

elgin

id defo say u were both _iss sj

. im just nice really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree fully curves are so much more sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss Punchd*unk you look amazing and have killer cures so I would say hot and you should be confident x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is all subjective...

An observation on the daily hot or not threads, how many guys see it as just fun or just a way to curry favour with the laydees

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By *4gnumprMan
over a year ago

telford

Average

But Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gilli age is but a label I'd say you were very hot after just checking your profile pics VERY HOT x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm hot most days, but more in a 'I've worked my arse off' sweaty hot, than sexy hot.

Currently sat here in my trackies looking like I've been dragged through a hedge backwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bloody freezing at the moment. I need warming up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m far too ‘Mirandish’ to feel sexy

For example ... if I had to do a lap dance or a sexy striptease for someone I would be awkward as bambi on ice

You are totally sexy!

Lol thank you my dear but Sexy comes within and in reality not quite do confident as when chatting and flirting on here

Very much envy girls (in a positive way) that can ooze sex on a pole in a club

I just feel like a firefighter pmsl

Sometimes the sexiest people are those who have no idea they're sexy...

I do have to agree with that .. I’m fact most times that’s the appeal "

I agree with this!

I think sexy is more a feeling, an adjective describing more than just looks whereas hot is just looks, if that makes sense..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm hot most days, but more in a 'I've worked my arse off' sweaty hot, than sexy hot.

Currently sat here in my trackies looking like I've been dragged through a hedge backwards! "

I'd imagine being hot comes with the territory for a phoenix.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I’m far too ‘Mirandish’ to feel sexy

For example ... if I had to do a lap dance or a sexy striptease for someone I would be awkward as bambi on ice

You are totally sexy!

Lol thank you my dear but Sexy comes within and in reality not quite do confident as when chatting and flirting on here

Very much envy girls (in a positive way) that can ooze sex on a pole in a club

I just feel like a firefighter pmsl

Sometimes the sexiest people are those who have no idea they're sexy...

I do have to agree with that .. I’m fact most times that’s the appeal

I agree with this!

I think sexy is more a feeling, an adjective describing more than just looks whereas hot is just looks, if that makes sense.."

Absolutely .. can look hot and be as dull as dishwater or do in live with themselves there’s no room for anyone else !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m far too ‘Mirandish’ to feel sexy

For example ... if I had to do a lap dance or a sexy striptease for someone I would be awkward as bambi on ice

You are totally sexy!

Lol thank you my dear but Sexy comes within and in reality not quite do confident as when chatting and flirting on here

Very much envy girls (in a positive way) that can ooze sex on a pole in a club

I just feel like a firefighter pmsl

Sometimes the sexiest people are those who have no idea they're sexy...

I do have to agree with that .. I’m fact most times that’s the appeal

I agree with this!

I think sexy is more a feeling, an adjective describing more than just looks whereas hot is just looks, if that makes sense..

Absolutely .. can look hot and be as dull as dishwater or do in live with themselves there’s no room for anyone else ! "

Yes!!! Sexy is so much more!

I feeeeeel sexy at times, but would never call myself sexy or hot, unless, as others have said, when talking about temperature.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Neither

Sometimes I feel sexy but it usually involves wine

Grins

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I'm hot most days, but more in a 'I've worked my arse off' sweaty hot, than sexy hot.

Currently sat here in my trackies looking like I've been dragged through a hedge backwards!

I'd imagine being hot comes with the territory for a phoenix.

It can get a bit fiery at times

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

"I'm hot most days, but more in a 'I've worked my arse off' sweaty hot, than sexy hot.

Currently sat here in my trackies looking like I've been dragged through a hedge backwards! "

I bet you still look hot

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By *hythmic DriverMan
over a year ago

Croydon

I'm confortable in how i look but i don't feel i necessarily need to class myself as sexy or hot. I feel good looking when im ready to go out.

Nice to be told you look hot or sexy though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m Hot sexy and everything in between

you are most definitely sexy

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I'm hot most days, but more in a 'I've worked my arse off' sweaty hot, than sexy hot.

Currently sat here in my trackies looking like I've been dragged through a hedge backwards!

I bet you still look hot

Well, you'd know

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To me, I'm neither hot nor sexy...how others see me I really couldn't say..

...as for people looking for hot or sexy people it's all a bit subjective really

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"To me, I'm neither hot nor sexy...how others see me I really couldn't say..

...as for people looking for hot or sexy people it's all a bit subjective really "

Well I would say you were quite hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am just me

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I'd say I'm just average.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

The only time I’d class myself as “hot” is when I’ve forgotten to take my evening primrose capsule

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