FabSwingers.com forum: Guys Messaging Guys

By *emini Man OP Man
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

So off the back of the thread about ladies messaging other ladies - it got me thinking about when guys message guys and specifically with a view to meeting.

As an openly bi male I welcome messages from other openly bi guys but invariably any messages I get are of the FAF/meet now variety that the ladies bemoan so much, or turn to "sex chat" within a couple of messages - neither of which are of any interest to me either.

Now this may be a gender thing, or perhaps it's individual, but personally I apply the same values of wanting to get to know someone a little and establish a connection and chemistry, before considering meeting, regardless of the gender of the person.

So, and this is aimed at guys looking for guys obviously, what's your approach/preference?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just so many bi guys want instant gratification and fun. I'm with you love to get to know what someone's into and have some light hearted fun first. Even if it's someone who you carnt meet for whatever reason but you both get on. X

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm I a polyamorous relationship with two guys wee meet separately and together they message each other as well

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Before I worked out how to set message filters to block out guys, I used to receive things like "Wank/suck fun?"