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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When I get a message from a man that is tall, good-looking, (of course that’s subjective), great body... and he’s been on Fab over a year.. no verification tick?

I just say no automatically. To me.. it says.. fake profile, time-waster/fantasist, or someone who no-one has anything good to say about...

What are your thoughts?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm I’d be interested to know too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I get a message from a man that is tall, good-looking, (of course that’s subjective), great body... and he’s been on Fab over a year.. no verification tick?

I just say no automatically. To me.. it says.. fake profile, time-waster/fantasist, or someone who no-one has anything good to say about...

What are your thoughts? "

I’m the same, I know guys find it hard to get a meet but there’s lots of ways to get that first meet. I don’t meet anyone that hasn’t been verified by a meet in the last year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be suspicious too

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

I try to stay away from people that have no verifications after a year.

I know everyone's situation is different but to me it shows no effort as there are many ways to get verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are newbies supposd to get meet-verified in the face of this reasoning?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean I know that first meet for a man could be a challenge with all the competition on here...

But anything over 3-4months is suspect isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are newbies supposd to get meet-verified in the face of this reasoning? "

New Hot bisexual single woman can meet us if they like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How are newbies supposd to get meet-verified in the face of this reasoning? "

Newbies... I don’t expect to be verified right away..

What would you say is a reasonable time frame?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm automatically suspicious, and I have asked them why.

The most common answer has been they've had a regular FB, and not bothered meeting since.

2nd most common, created profile, but then got in a steady elationship never bothered using it.. But they're now single again.

Why not just create a new profile, if that's actually the case

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

Not everyone wants to or feels the need to have or display them though.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"When I get a message from a man that is tall, good-looking, (of course that’s subjective), great body... and he’s been on Fab over a year.. no verification tick?

I just say no automatically. To me.. it says.. fake profile, time-waster/fantasist, or someone who no-one has anything good to say about...

What are your thoughts?

I’m the same, I know guys find it hard to get a meet but there’s lots of ways to get that first meet. I don’t meet anyone that hasn’t been verified by a meet in the last year "

I think labeling as fake as no meet in a year is wrong to discount, there are a few forum posters in this category, not forgetting the obvious ratio between the sexes. So don't go out of your way for a social you may be pleasantly surprised.

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By *rownsugar80Man
over a year ago

London / East Midlands

I beg to differ .Sometimes people who have verified you may no longer be members or perhaps only prefer quality meets or could be using other sites.

Always best to meet for a social and see if there’s any proof in the pudding!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"How are newbies supposd to get meet-verified in the face of this reasoning? "

Clubs, organised socials or informal socials.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd be slightly suspicious but if he ticked my boxes I'd be happy to give him the benefit of the doubt. I'd still think if we arranged something that he wouldn't show up but that's the chance you take with anyone on here!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not everyone wants to or feels the need to have or display them though. "

You may not wish to display all your verifications... but maybe 1or2?

Or the summary?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be slightly suspicious but if he ticked my boxes I'd be happy to give him the benefit of the doubt. I'd still think if we arranged something that he wouldn't show up but that's the chance you take with anyone on here!!!"

i agree with you...i'd rely on the impression and info i got from actually chatting before completely dismissing them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the same about women with a long history and no verifications or summery. Not that many message but still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take every profile on their own merit. We've been on a year with no veri's but we are quite particular about what we're looking for and 'The boss' isn't quite over her meeting up nerves yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I beg to differ .Sometimes people who have verified you may no longer be members or perhaps only prefer quality meets or could be using other sites.

Always best to meet for a social and see if there’s any proof in the pudding!"

It’s true... you’d love the written verification if the person left the site

but not the green tick..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone wants to or feels the need to have or display them though.

"

Some don’t even have the tick though which means no veris at all

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Not everyone wants to or feels the need to have or display them though. "

That's their choice of course, and the choice of other people to meet verified people instead.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Not everyone wants to or feels the need to have or display them though. "

They don't have to be displayed! They can be private but still shows up that you have them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to stay away from people that have no verifications after a year.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Not everyone wants to or feels the need to have or display them though.

You may not wish to display all your verifications... but maybe 1or2?

Or the summary?

"

I think regardless of whether you display the verifications themselves or the summary, the green tick to indicate verified still remains visible

I think I'd be inclined to ask anyone why they're not verified where that is the case - could be a valid reason as suggested above.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I beg to differ .Sometimes people who have verified you may no longer be members or perhaps only prefer quality meets or could be using other sites.

Always best to meet for a social and see if there’s any proof in the pudding!

It’s true... you’d love the written verification if the person left the site

but not the green tick.."

*loose*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are newbies supposd to get meet-verified in the face of this reasoning?

Newbies... I don’t expect to be verified right away..

What would you say is a reasonable time frame?"

Well, in my case I've sent mumerous polite and well written mesaages to many ladies and have been active (although largely ignored) on the forum, witj no real results, so it can be a real challenge despite the effort, and I most certainly am not fake.

I am, however married, so no doubt that counts against me big time. I'm open about this on my profile though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much hope for me then.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I try to stay away from people that have no verifications after a year.

I know everyone's situation is different but to me it shows no effort as there are many ways to get verified."

If I had been on for over a year with no verifications I would start a new profile so people didn't know.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I would assume that he's a timewaster and not reply

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I understand why you say that. But just until a few wks ago I was exactly who just described lol I opened an account but almost 5-8 months after was when I decided to get active and it was hard to get meets, privately. No one didn't trust me cause I had no veri's so I decided to go to a club. After that, it's safe to say life has changed lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not much hope for me then. "

I hope you don’t mind my asking... but, what’s the reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not much hope for me then.

I hope you don’t mind my asking... but, what’s the reason? "

Was thinking the same thing myself. Decent profile, decent pics. Although that pout mate? Really? I bet it's the pout haha (jk)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And for all the doubters like me....

How long would you accept ‘newbie’ status for?

Before you start eyeing the profile suspiciously...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not much hope for me then. "

Why so long without a meet then? Your hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And for all the doubters like me....

How long would you accept ‘newbie’ status for?

Before you start eyeing the profile suspiciously... "

Women can get a meet on here in about 3.2 seconds if so desired.

Men? 3-6 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not much hope for me then.

I hope you don’t mind my asking... but, what’s the reason?

Was thinking the same thing myself. Decent profile, decent pics. Although that pout mate? Really? I bet it's the pout haha (jk) "

You've got it in one. That pout has ruined any chance of a meet . Honestly though I've had meets arranged with singles and couples and they've cancelled at the last minute and I'll admit that I cancelled one meet. Never had the bottle to go to a club alone and it's just sort of gone on for ages and snowballed to the point where it's a big black mark against me. I enjoy the forums and chatting and I'll persevere so it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’ve got an example of just this I didn’t want to post in case he saw it but stuff it

When I joined a guy message me hes been on here 7 months by then gave him the benefit of the doubt plus i was new so didn’t know all the tips and hints. We eventually swapped numbers 4months later as he was so insistent we’ve been chatting since most days my text or phone calls. He won’t meet me. So I’ve given up and cut all contact

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I have one veri but I seem to be failing in most angles.

I can’t help looking like an Easter egg with arms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And for all the doubters like me....

How long would you accept ‘newbie’ status for?

Before you start eyeing the profile suspiciously...

Women can get a meet on here in about 3.2 seconds if so desired.

Men? 3-6 months "

When I first rejoined i didn’t have my first meet for over 5 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t entertain people that are not verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not much hope for me then.

I hope you don’t mind my asking... but, what’s the reason?

Was thinking the same thing myself. Decent profile, decent pics. Although that pout mate? Really? I bet it's the pout haha (jk)

You've got it in one. That pout has ruined any chance of a meet . Honestly though I've had meets arranged with singles and couples and they've cancelled at the last minute and I'll admit that I cancelled one meet. Never had the bottle to go to a club alone and it's just sort of gone on for ages and snowballed to the point where it's a big black mark against me. I enjoy the forums and chatting and I'll persevere so it's all good. "

Get yourself to a social mate. Sure there will be one in your area at some point. They're good fun! Nerves will be gone once your inside.

Unfortunately I feel your pain re cancellations. Happens a lot.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are newbies supposd to get meet-verified in the face of this reasoning?

New Hot bisexual single woman can meet us if they like "

Damn, I’m old and cold. So near and yet so far...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I’ve got an example of just this I didn’t want to post in case he saw it but stuff it

When I joined a guy message me hes been on here 7 months by then gave him the benefit of the doubt plus i was new so didn’t know all the tips and hints. We eventually swapped numbers 4months later as he was so insistent we’ve been chatting since most days my text or phone calls. He won’t meet me. So I’ve given up and cut all contact "

Too right stuff it! so right... after all that back and forth..no in and out.. shake it all about!

You gave it a long time though, I wouldn’t have been so patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And for all the doubters like me....

How long would you accept ‘newbie’ status for?

Before you start eyeing the profile suspiciously...

Women can get a meet on here in about 3.2 seconds if so desired.

Men? 3-6 months

When I first rejoined i didn’t have my first meet for over 5 weeks "

I said "can"

I think I was on here about 3 months the first time before I met anyone.

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By *ork10Man
over a year ago

York


"When I get a message from a man that is tall, good-looking, (of course that’s subjective), great body... and he’s been on Fab over a year.. no verification tick?

I just say no automatically. To me.. it says.. fake profile, time-waster/fantasist, or someone who no-one has anything good to say about...

What are your thoughts? "

Get him to take a selfie with a code word you've given him written on a piece of paper with the date that way you will at least know it's him in his pictures

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have one veri but I seem to be failing in most angles.

I can’t help looking like an Easter egg with arms... "

Aww.. that was such a cute description. I checked you out.. you’ve got some sex appeal!

You just wanted the ladies to check you out didn’t ya?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I’ve got an example of just this I didn’t want to post in case he saw it but stuff it

When I joined a guy message me hes been on here 7 months by then gave him the benefit of the doubt plus i was new so didn’t know all the tips and hints. We eventually swapped numbers 4months later as he was so insistent we’ve been chatting since most days my text or phone calls. He won’t meet me. So I’ve given up and cut all contact

Too right stuff it! so right... after all that back and forth..no in and out.. shake it all about!

You gave it a long time though, I wouldn’t have been so patient "

Well I was young and naive FAB has now made me cynical and jaded lol’

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I have one veri but I seem to be failing in most angles.

I can’t help looking like an Easter egg with arms...

Aww.. that was such a cute description. I checked you out.. you’ve got some sex appeal!

You just wanted the ladies to check you out didn’t ya?! "

Me? Never

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I’ve got an example of just this I didn’t want to post in case he saw it but stuff it

When I joined a guy message me hes been on here 7 months by then gave him the benefit of the doubt plus i was new so didn’t know all the tips and hints. We eventually swapped numbers 4months later as he was so insistent we’ve been chatting since most days my text or phone calls. He won’t meet me. So I’ve given up and cut all contact

Too right stuff it! so right... after all that back and forth..no in and out.. shake it all about!

You gave it a long time though, I wouldn’t have been so patient

Well I was young and naive FAB has now made me cynical and jaded lol’"

There’s a wee bit of truth in that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone wants to or feels the need to have or display them though.

You may not wish to display all your verifications... but maybe 1or2?

Or the summary?

"

There's a green tick for verified regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the guy is super choosy.

After a year on fab, dipping his toes in, perusing the forums and sizing up everyone, he has decided that you are the person he trusts to be his first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the guy is super choosy.

After a year on fab, dipping his toes in, perusing the forums and sizing up everyone, he has decided that you are the person he trusts to be his first meet.

"

Who me? Well it’s a bit late now I’ve been in his home’ town 5 times this year and he hasn’t even wanted to meet for coffee/drink (I don’t do sex on a first meet)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends really, I've been on and off here for about 2 years now and this profile is about 3months without that lil tick.

Yes people I'm on of them , but I'm not! Ive met with people on older profile and after we met the thought of that lil tick hadn't crossed my mind lol. Im not part of the swinging club world 'Yet' so no chance of veris there. However as we all know a lil too well about those fake profiles I too am bias to profiles without the tick so its a catch 22.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the guy is super choosy.

After a year on fab, dipping his toes in, perusing the forums and sizing up everyone, he has decided that you are the person he trusts to be his first meet.

Who me? Well it’s a bit late now I’ve been in his home’ town 5 times this year and he hasn’t even wanted to meet for coffee/drink (I don’t do sex on a first meet) "

Sorry,should have specified the OP.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I chose not to meet for a year x

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"Not much hope for me then. "

Why don’t you keep your eye on the Forums for a local Social hunkimunki?

It’s not a nerve wracking as attending a Club on your own, it’s just a bunch of local Forumites having a get together usually in a pub or community club, & you get to put names to faces of folk you chat with.

I don’t know about your area but we have loads in Glasgow & it’s a good way to increase your Veri’s.

Just a suggestion.

On the original post of the thread though I’d tend to be cautious of a profile that’s a year old, moreso if there’s no pics or little info on the profile.

It could be they just want to view cams, collect pics, or as others say, a fake profile with no intention of ever meeting.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I mean I know that first meet for a man could be a challenge with all the competition on here...

But anything over 3-4months is suspect isn’t it?"

It’s very suspect , and shows a complete lack of effort on their part .

I would suggest that no veri in a over a year indicates a fantasist .

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By *ittle earsMan
over a year ago

south oxfordshire


"When I get a message from a man that is tall, good-looking, (of course that’s subjective), great body... and he’s been on Fab over a year.. no verification tick?

I just say no automatically. To me.. it says.. fake profile, time-waster/fantasist, or someone who no-one has anything good to say about...

What are your thoughts? "

And there lies the Male’s Problem - the women won’t reply or meet without veri’s And without a meet the guys can’t get verified- catch 22

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about when they also pay for site supporter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I get a message from a man that is tall, good-looking, (of course that’s subjective), great body... and he’s been on Fab over a year.. no verification tick?

I just say no automatically. To me.. it says.. fake profile, time-waster/fantasist, or someone who no-one has anything good to say about...

What are your thoughts?

And there lies the Male’s Problem - the women won’t reply or meet without veri’s And without a meet the guys can’t get verified- catch 22"

That’s not true I meet people I think I’m attracted to for a coffeeabd would give a veri. Some men won’t do that they just want sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about if he doesnt take fab too serious? it's some peoples be all and end all whilst others dont care....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I chose not to meet for a year x"

Why? If you don’t mind me asking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe the guy is super choosy.

After a year on fab, dipping his toes in, perusing the forums and sizing up everyone, he has decided that you are the person he trusts to be his first meet.

Who me? Well it’s a bit late now I’ve been in his home’ town 5 times this year and he hasn’t even wanted to meet for coffee/drink (I don’t do sex on a first meet)

Sorry,should have specified the OP."

When I challenged him about it, and explained how it might be perceived (also explaining that ‘I don’t know you..’)

He got defensive, and said he doesn’t have to explain to me..?! and ended with ‘Take care’

So.... I’ve blocked him, so he can’t message again in a couple of months. Thought he was probably a tool..

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I'd be flattered.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"what about if he doesnt take fab too serious? it's some peoples be all and end all whilst others dont care....

"

To be honest if it’s the case that he doesn’t care , nor would we , and he can waste someone else’s time instead of ours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about when they also pay for site supporter? "

What does have to with it?

I never look for that on someone’s profile! What's it supposed to infer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what about if he doesnt take fab too serious? it's some peoples be all and end all whilst others dont care....

To be honest if it’s the case that he doesn’t care , nor would we , and he can waste someone else’s time instead of ours "

like i said some peoples lives ^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be flattered."

Really? You wouldn’t be the least bit suspicious?!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

As with all non verified profiles we start with the assumption that it is fake and ask certain questions etc to see if they are genuine. Ultimately we always go on gut instinct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chose not to meet for a year. But spent copious amounts of time on the forums and chat.

I didn't want to meet for that time because I wasn't ready. But got to know lots of people on here anyway.

I understand your misgivings though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I get a message from a man that is tall, good-looking, (of course that’s subjective), great body... and he’s been on Fab over a year.. no verification tick?

I just say no automatically. To me.. it says.. fake profile, time-waster/fantasist, or someone who no-one has anything good to say about...

What are your thoughts?

And there lies the Male’s Problem - the women won’t reply or meet without veri’s And without a meet the guys can’t get verified- catch 22"

Women do and there's more than one way to get verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about when they also pay for site supporter?

What does have to with it?

I never look for that on someone’s profile! What's it supposed to infer?"

No I mean in addition to what you’re saying they have been on a year and paid for site support why would guys do that with no intention to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about when they also pay for site supporter?

What does have to with it?

I never look for that on someone’s profile! What's it supposed to infer?

No I mean in addition to what you’re saying they have been on a year and paid for site support why would guys do that with no intention to meet "

Never under estimate what a horny man will do to get his kicks.

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By *evonmail41Man
over a year ago

Yeovil

Or you could be married and living in Yeovil and no one will give you a chance.

Not everyone with no veries are time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about when they also pay for site supporter?

What does have to with it?

I never look for that on someone’s profile! What's it supposed to infer?

No I mean in addition to what you’re saying they have been on a year and paid for site support why would guys do that with no intention to meet

Never under estimate what a horny man will do to get his kicks. "

Lol true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about when they also pay for site supporter?

What does have to with it?

I never look for that on someone’s profile! What's it supposed to infer?

No I mean in addition to what you’re saying they have been on a year and paid for site support why would guys do that with no intention to meet "

I think.. it’s possible to look at pics, live cams.. and if you can interact with the lady you’re looking at pics of.. getting attention in return, it’s brilliant wank fodder!

And if the man is nothing like he claims to be (catfish), your interest, compliments etc may make him feel good?!

Have you ever watched that program on tv? I’m sure there are some catfish on here too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about when they also pay for site supporter?

What does have to with it?

I never look for that on someone’s profile! What's it supposed to infer?

No I mean in addition to what you’re saying they have been on a year and paid for site support why would guys do that with no intention to meet

I think.. it’s possible to look at pics, live cams.. and if you can interact with the lady you’re looking at pics of.. getting attention in return, it’s brilliant wank fodder!

And if the man is nothing like he claims to be (catfish), your interest, compliments etc may make him feel good?!

Have you ever watched that program on tv? I’m sure there are some catfish on here too! "

Ahhh good point. No I haven’t but have heard of it

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I'd be slightly suspicious but if he ticked my boxes I'd be happy to give him the benefit of the doubt. I'd still think if we arranged something that he wouldn't show up but that's the chance you take with anyone on here!!!"

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"When I get a message from a man that is tall, good-looking, (of course that’s subjective), great body... and he’s been on Fab over a year.. no verification tick?

I just say no automatically. To me.. it says.. fake profile, time-waster/fantasist, or someone who no-one has anything good to say about...

What are your thoughts? "

Maybe everyone else has decided to do the same to him that's why he's not got any verification's. Its not always obvious as to all people on how to go about getting meet verification's especially when they are new. He could be a fake or a very nice bloke but you'd never know if you don't give him that chance.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"what about if he doesnt take fab too serious? it's some peoples be all and end all whilst others dont care....

To be honest if it’s the case that he doesn’t care , nor would we , and he can waste someone else’s time instead of ours

like i said some peoples lives ^"

There are parts of fab we care about and other parts we don’t care about at all . Your opinion certainly comes in the latter

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm generally slow to meet, so could give him another year and see how he's progressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are newbies supposd to get meet-verified in the face of this reasoning?

New Hot bisexual single woman can meet us if they like "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been picture varified but wont be varified by meet till we are ready to meet, due to being new to this.

We have been on a cam for hours over a few sessions but still havent been cam varified by anyone.

If this hinders our experience on here then so be it. We are happy to do whatever we are asked to prove we are genuine.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I best get cracking then! To be honest I've been enjoying the forums more than anything else but I'll have to make more effort for that elusive green tick...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I have been on this awhile but I can't get verified I can't get any one don't no why I'm tall good looking so just give us a chance you don't no you might actually like one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to keep my private life private - but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I get a message from a man that is tall, good-looking, (of course that’s subjective), great body... and he’s been on Fab over a year.. no verification tick?

I just say no automatically. To me.. it says.. fake profile, time-waster/fantasist, or someone who no-one has anything good to say about...

What are your thoughts? "

I’d question whether the pics where actually of him but otherwise I’d agree with you, over a year an no veri? Fake or fantasist. Regardless of the excuse for no verification (been away, took a break etc)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I best get cracking then! To be honest I've been enjoying the forums more than anything else but I'll have to make more effort for that elusive green tick..."

G’wan! Go on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have been picture varified but wont be varified by meet till we are ready to meet, due to being new to this.

We have been on a cam for hours over a few sessions but still havent been cam varified by anyone.

If this hinders our experience on here then so be it. We are happy to do whatever we are asked to prove we are genuine."

Only been on 5weeks, that’s still newbie territory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the guy is super choosy.

After a year on fab, dipping his toes in, perusing the forums and sizing up everyone, he has decided that you are the person he trusts to be his first meet.

Who me? Well it’s a bit late now I’ve been in his home’ town 5 times this year and he hasn’t even wanted to meet for coffee/drink (I don’t do sex on a first meet)

Sorry,should have specified the OP.

When I challenged him about it, and explained how it might be perceived (also explaining that ‘I don’t know you..’)

He got defensive, and said he doesn’t have to explain to me..?! and ended with ‘Take care’

So.... I’ve blocked him, so he can’t message again in a couple of months. Thought he was probably a tool..

"

That is fair enough then.

You are probably bang on the money.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Could it be possible he created his account then remained inactive for a long period of time?

This was my case. I opened it early last year but left it dormant for a long period of time and only really came back 3 months ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could it be possible he created his account then remained inactive for a long period of time?

This was my case. I opened it early last year but left it dormant for a long period of time and only really came back 3 months ago."

Interesting...

And wow, good going! 9people in 3months?! I haven’t done 9 in a year and 3months! Lol

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