FabSwingers.com forum: What more can you do

By *lwaysdiscreet OP Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

Well i have been here for good few years now.

Always show manners and were its a couple say hi to the guy to.

Never just talk to the lady and leave the guy feeling like the gooseberry.

But no matter how nice you are to people they never reply.

Or if they its a few words or messages and thats it.

Just seems like if your a arse on here you get the golden crowd.

So don't no one like manners no more.

I sent out 20 good morning message to people and not 1 reply.

And people say its us guys that are the rude one's on here.

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By *rCurious1Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I think we all go through a similar path. Well most of us. I just enjiy a chat sometimes. They is some lovely people on here. But alot say if they dont reply they are not interested. Im also getting the swing of it. Mind the punt haha

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Youre totally right there bro!

For instance I'm a complete twat and the chicks always reply to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean. When people say they wont reply to one line messages or messages without substance and then you write a well thought out message to no reply. Can be frustrating though best take it as a not interested and move on.

I've pretty much stopped sending messages now and im just riding the wave. The forums are fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Youre totally right there bro!

For instance I'm a complete twat and the chicks always reply to me!"

Hahaha. Fair fucks man

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Sorry to say I’d delete a good morning without even checking who it was from. If you get 10 of those every morning it is very tedious and you’re not going to reply to any. Sorry chaps but that’s the reality here. Instead of 20 copy and paste one liners, why not send 3 well crafted targeted messages to profiles that are specifically seeking what you’re offering?

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By *adyLucknGamblersCouple
over a year ago

Harwich / Colchester

"Well i have been here for good few years now.

Always show manners and were its a couple say hi to the guy to.

Never just talk to the lady and leave the guy feeling like the gooseberry.

But no matter how nice you are to people they never reply.

Or if they its a few words or messages and thats it.

Just seems like if your a arse on here you get the golden crowd.

So don't no one like manners no more.

I sent out 20 good morning message to people and not 1 reply.

And people say its us guys that are the rude one's on here.

Depends on the good morning message? Its not all about manners.

If its an unique message to the recipients profile or is it just a copy&paste job? - it also depends if you match their likes & wants. Pointless sending message to a couple where the fem dont do single meets or doesn't do threesomes etc

Some copied messages can stand out; hence why we don't normally respond to them unless something on profile attracts us.

Don't give up thou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile clearly states I'm not looking for meets, I explain that I'm happy to chat in the forums but messages will be deleted. Yet I still get messages and abuse when I delete, I've lost count of the shitty names I've been called today alone.

Its hard work and it should be fun so I suggest stuff sending out messages, chat in the forums and have some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/701675

Read some reactions to this guy today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to not get drawn into conversation with people I am not attracted to anymore (when I am meeting). I have found that it ends up with them assuming you are up for playing, even when it was not that kind of initial message, so this could be why you had no replies this morning, maybe

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By *lwaysdiscreet OP Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

When i sent out the good morning messages they were to people i had spoken to before.

It was not just a few words i said to them to it was a message.

I cant be the only guy in this boat that having this trouble.

That your nice and show manners and then get nothing back.

But then you here about guys not turning up and being rude to people.

But they get the meetings.

So you think maybe its time to be more like them.

Because kindness dont work and manners.

Being a arsehole does

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I've never sent a "good morning" message to anyone.

Clearly, that's where you are going wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i sent out the good morning messages they were to people i had spoken to before.

It was not just a few words i said to them to it was a message.

I cant be the only guy in this boat that having this trouble.

That your nice and show manners and then get nothing back.

But then you here about guys not turning up and being rude to people.

But they get the meetings.

So you think maybe its time to be more like them.

Because kindness dont work and manners.

Being a arsehole does "

Well have a little experiment. Be an arsehole for a while and see how it makes a difference?

Please do report back and let us know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i sent out the good morning messages they were to people i had spoken to before.

It was not just a few words i said to them to it was a message.

I cant be the only guy in this boat that having this trouble.

That your nice and show manners and then get nothing back.

But then you here about guys not turning up and being rude to people.

But they get the meetings.

So you think maybe its time to be more like them.

Because kindness dont work and manners.

Being a arsehole does

Well have a little experiment. Be an arsehole for a while and see how it makes a difference?

Please do report back and let us know. "

But we all know now hahaha

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Maybe be positive and not join the ranks of the whining?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i sent out the good morning messages they were to people i had spoken to before.

It was not just a few words i said to them to it was a message.

I cant be the only guy in this boat that having this trouble.

That your nice and show manners and then get nothing back.

But then you here about guys not turning up and being rude to people.

But they get the meetings.

So you think maybe its time to be more like them.

Because kindness dont work and manners.

Being a arsehole does

Well have a little experiment. Be an arsehole for a while and see how it makes a difference?

Please do report back and let us know.

But we all know now hahaha

Well he repeated it twice so obviously thinks that way has merit.

Crack on I say

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