FabSwingers.com forum: Women's opinion on men's threads

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

....when we complain how women on here?

When a thread or post pops up...

...Women demand too much on your profiles/women don't read messages/you only want gym fit guys/woman only want an ego boost/woman have it easy here etc...

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

***I was going to ask this yesterday, but I got side tracked defending my man honour in another thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh yes, and the frequent...

What am I doing wrong? I can't get a meet thread.

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

I think oh no not another one!!

The problem is most guys (maybe 85%) think that the ladies on here are looking for sex 24/7.. there is far more choice for us.. I think the ratio is about 250/1 maybe more. therefore when a female gets a 100 messages plus a day, she will only ask the ones that stand out, and delete the rest of the mindless “hi “ Or “fancy a fuck” messages we get with no pics etc on profiles!!

Please correct me if I’m wrong!!

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Great pics on yr profile by the way MisterBee

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

My first thought is 'Oh, it's the same few posters rushing to defend the honour of men whilst bitching about women'.

Just to clarify, you're not one of them OP!

Sometimes I feel a bit sorry for the poster - you can read and easily imagine how frustrated it must be at times on here. Other times I think 'why have you not left if it makes you so unhappy?'.

There can be truth in what has been typed, sometimes people don't know how to express themselves well and that's when they get torn a new one more often than not.

I don't know. I hate body shaming and am fairly vocal about that. Same way I dislike the slut shaming attitude that is rife.

I was a bit of a vocal gobshite about it before but I've learnt that people rarely change their viewpoints in those scenarios (and also I tend to have better, happier things to do with my time)- more often than not the 'nice guys' are the ones who will actually slut shame without any trace of awareness. Women can bw just as bad as it on certain threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, now I just avoid these threads, along with a lot of the other repetitive ones. The people bashing, shape shaming,comparison threads, they can make me feel quite sad which is not an emotion I want to be feeling on here.

So op, my opinion is bash away cos I'm more than capable of logging out...and with that I'm outta this thread

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So op, my opinion is bash away cos I'm more than capable of logging out...and with that I'm outta this thread

Peach x"

I don't bash! Unless you want me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think there they go again blah blah blah

And just don't bother commenting anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel bad for them. Some may not understand the point of the site and think it's free prostitutes galore and all they have to say is 'sit on my cock'. Some may be trying to communicate and find a connection with someone to have mutual fun with. They usually all get treated the same and slagged off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So op, my opinion is bash away cos I'm more than capable of logging out...and with that I'm outta this thread

Peach x

I don't bash! Unless you want me too.

Are you flirting with me

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sorry for the OP. I think they dont know the question has been asked a million times before and that the comments they get probably arent gonna be as friends as they like because of that.

I tend not to reply though. As you said, its not my problem, I come here for mostly happy times!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So op, my opinion is bash away cos I'm more than capable of logging out...and with that I'm outta this thread

Peach x

I don't bash! Unless you want me too.

Are you flirting with me

Peach x"

Maybe.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

A lot depends on my mood and the attitude of the poster to other replies. If they are courteous then I'll offer my good side, if they aren't then they'll get other.

I don't respond to all by a long shot, but I don't like to see threads with zero replies. I think that's the worst.

Anything with 'all/actually/genuine' really fuck me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally scroll past, they never ho well. There are a small minority that like to put people down and instantly join in the bashing. It feels like a sport to some. I've nothing that it's the same people joining in the threads and bemoaning the opposite gender, it does make me wonder what they're in here for if things are so bad. But I don't join in anymore as you know the minute a thread is started how it's going to go x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I get bored of them, I look at their profile and shake my head most of the time, as they have barely made any effort but expect women to be throwing their knickers at them.

I would often love to know how the site was described to them by 'the friend' who recommended the site to them

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