FabSwingers.com forum: Argh.. awkward!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You know those meets? It's all perfect, you've chatted, for all excited and worked up, you get to the door and all you can hear is them screaming at their kids to go to bed :/ I know life is life and all that but it is incredibly off putting! Anyone else had similar experiences? I'm now sat in the car wondering wether I should wait a bit and knock the door or not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd scarper mate!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

If that was me I would just leave, I'm not up for playing while their children are at home. I would send them a message to explain why.

If they don't like it, tough luck. They should have said their children were at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not good for you but I would leg it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez, would you seriously consider going into a strangers house and shagging her in the front room whilst the kids are asleep upstairs?! Do you really want one of the, to wander in and see your naked arse shagging their mum if they have woken up or are feeling poorly and come to find her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*one of THEM (that should say)

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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Gooooo. Can just see you going in then the kids coming down every 5 mins cos they are clearly not sleepy yet lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmmm my thoughts exactly! I've no problem meeting people with kids at home as long as they are positive they aren't going to walk in or anything like that lol! Never mind I guess it's just me and my hand tonight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run for the hills mate

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Jesus.....run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know those meets? It's all perfect, you've chatted, for all excited and worked up, you get to the door and all you can hear is them screaming at their kids to go to bed :/ I know life is life and all that but it is incredibly off putting! Anyone else had similar experiences? I'm now sat in the car wondering wether I should wait a bit and knock the door or not.."

Honestly I'd just go home, why wouldn't she arrange the meet for later when she knows kids will defo be asleep or better still a hotel meet ?

I wouldn't and haven't had any meets in my home where my children have to live

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

TBH I would never invite anyone round to meet when my kids are home .. in fact to date I e never had anyone round for a meet when they aren’t here either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and is she on here ?

Maybe reading this and your status ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I reckon I'm gonna head home, grab an 8 pack and play some forza 7! Maybe later I'll treat myself to a steamy night of passion with my friend palm..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Umm sod that! I don't meet with my kids at home and certainly wouldn't meet with his kids at home. Too weird!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh and is she on here ?

Maybe reading this and your status ?? "

No she's not on here Kay

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Why on earth would anyone invite someone over for a meet with their children in the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I reckon I'm gonna head home, grab an 8 pack and play some forza 7! Maybe later I'll treat myself to a steamy night of passion with my friend palm.."

Least you can relax with your friend palm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and is she on here ?

Maybe reading this and your status ??

No she's not on here Kay"

Phew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt you know the lady had children OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Palm knows exactly what she's doing and all the right spots! Lol!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Depends on the type of meet.

Plus if the kids are in the West wing and your in the dungeon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Palm knows exactly what she's doing and all the right spots! Lol!! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Didnt you know the lady had children OP?"

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah drive off mate to be honest it's sound really dodgy

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Why on earth would anyone invite someone over for a meet with their children in the house"

Yup I'm with you. I know people have kids and may struggle with sitters etc but no way would I play knowing there were children in the house.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yeah drive off mate to be honest it's sound really dodgy

Not dodgy just bloody awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah drive off mate to be honest it's sound really dodgy

Not dodgy just bloody awkward "

Pity you weren't closer OP, you could have played with me

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Personally.. I'd knock and let her know that you're not comfortable playing when there's kids in the house... Maybe she can a range an alternate date.

Cal

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

Fucking leg it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me to mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politely explain that you’re uncomfortable attending whilst the kids are there (making assumptions that you are), don’t just leave her high and dry. Then maybe re-arrange a more mutually agreeable rendezvous.

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

"Politely explain that you’re uncomfortable attending whilst the kids are there (making assumptions that you are), don’t just leave her high and dry. Then maybe re-arrange a more mutually agreeable rendezvous. "

Na just leg it

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

"Hmmm my thoughts exactly! I've no problem meeting people with kids at home as long as they are positive they aren't going to walk in or anything like that lol! Never mind I guess it's just me and my hand tonight!"

No one can be positive that their kids won't walk in. You can't predict bad dreams, illness etc.

I'd just go without if my only option was to meet with my kids around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gooooo. Can just see you going in then the kids coming down every 5 mins cos they are clearly not sleepy yet lol"

Naughty, you two! But funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't imagine for one minute bringing anyone home for sex with kids in the house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in a million years would I enter that house let alone play! It's one thing popping over to see a fab friend socially when kids are tucked up in bed...but to have a total stranger over to fuck you when your kids are in the house let alone still awake is just wrong if you ask me...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Bit of a no brainer really. But do send her a polite message saying why you left etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that what hotels are for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of a no brainer really. But do send her a polite message saying why you left etc

Yes. This. Give her a bell and try to rearrange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't imagine for one minute bringing anyone home for sex with kids in the house.

This is my thought too. You could be letting anyone into your house for Christ's sake and what should be the most important, special people in your life are lying in bed upstairs listening to Mummy get pumped on the sofa.

Wrong. Wrong. Wrong.

Leg it.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Why on earth would anyone invite someone over for a meet with their children in the house"

Im 100% with you. What's wrong with people. Thats wrong on so many levels

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Why on earth would anyone invite someone over for a meet with their children in the house"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm invite a stranger into the house with your kids there. I know I'm bad but that would be a line I couldn't cross. Wouldn't out her in danger like that.

I don't blame you for backing out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chalk it up to experience, laugh about it and move on.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Speechless!

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Speechless! "

Snap

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Well like you that is definitely not something I would be comfortable with. Text and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't imagine for one minute bringing anyone home for sex with kids in the house.

Wrong. Wrong. Wrong.

Leg it."

Although the way you wrote it made me chortle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have children, but if I did, their protection would be paramount. No way should she have invited you over plus she should have mentioned that fact to you!

I'm lost for words!

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

+1 for this

It would be rude to just not turn up without any explanation.

What I like to do is bring a bottle of the host's hostess preferred tipple or a little something to snack. That way you can break the ice/ settle the nerves/ gauge the vibe of the meeting. At worst you take it all home because your date is not in the mood now. You might have a pleasant wine and cheese evening and you will probably meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

+1 for this

It would be rude to just not turn up without any explanation.

I think you're the only person that thinks he should have gone in .........

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Loving all the assumptions that this is a woman/mother/she..

Welcome to the 21st century..

Dad's look after kids too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't imagine for one minute bringing anyone home for sex with kids in the house.

Wrong. Wrong. Wrong.

Leg it.

Although the way you wrote it made me chortle

Been told I have a way with words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We would go too op.

Totally inappropriate to invite strangers into your childrens home.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would to a runner without hesitation OP would never invite a meet with our kids about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loving all the assumptions that this is a woman/mother/she..

Welcome to the 21st century..

Dad's look after kids too! "

Dads do look after their kids too but the OP a few comments down has said she

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've realised I'm very cynical and not very trusting, how do you now the woman in the house was actually the woman you were talking to online and not just a wind up?

It's bad enough inviting a stranger round when your children are home, but not telling said stranger you have children or that they would be home seems even more bizarre.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yeah drive off mate to be honest it's sound really dodgy

Not dodgy just bloody awkward

Pity you weren't closer OP, you could have played with me

Oh that is a shame indeed!!

Anyway, I left it and didn't meet but did text her and said that I could hear you were having trouble with the kids so thought it best to leave it for another time. Cheers for the replies! Still horny though!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"yeah drive off mate to be honest it's sound really dodgy

Not dodgy just bloody awkward "

It’s not awkward. Swinging and kids don’t mix - the end - no awkwardness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, I left it and didn't meet but did text her and said that I could hear you were having trouble with the kids so thought it best to leave it for another time. "

Nice one!

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

She sounds classy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TBH I would never invite anyone round to meet when my kids are home .. in fact to date I e never had anyone round for a meet when they aren’t here either

This

Haven't some people got no shame????

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

TBH I would never invite anyone round to meet when my kids are home .. in fact to date I e never had anyone round for a meet when they aren’t here either

This

Haven't some people got no shame????

Hotels or clubs only

Like most clues up parents we endeavour to keep our homes as a safe sanctuary for them and I am very careful as to who actually knows where I live especially with some random meet

Bad enough with fb sharing info with their ‘people you might know’ bullshit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It was all a bit "WTF" I'm I'm honest! 20 odd mile drive each way too! Never mind, plenty more fish in the sea and all that

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