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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So i have had a ruff time latly dealing with anxiety depression ptsd and slight agrophobia i have next to no confidence so this is me putting my self out there i no its not normal but iv added some pictures to my page and was just wonfering for thouse people in a good mood or just wana be nice woukd you tell me what you think maybe even leave a fab so i know whats peoples fav again thank you for your time ..p.s any questions people have im glad to answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude...dont be down.... you have put yourself out there by being on here...brave move! So massive pat on the back for that...the forumites here are usually lovely! One step at a time...wish you well bud.

Im straight so my advise on pics is pretty limited...but good to see a male profile with no willies on!

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Chin up, chief! He's not kidding, they seem a decent crowd here, on the whole. One day at a time, yeah?

Btw, loving the hair. Makes me reminisce about my baggy-kecks and Nu-Metal days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dude...dont be down.... you have put yourself out there by being on here...brave move! So massive pat on the back for that...the forumites here are usually lovely! One step at a time...wish you well bud.

Im straight so my advise on pics is pretty limited...but good to see a male profile with no willies on!

"

Thank mate and yer theres to many dick pics on here but thank you for all ur words

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chin up, chief! He's not kidding, they seem a decent crowd here, on the whole. One day at a time, yeah?

Btw, loving the hair. Makes me reminisce about my baggy-kecks and Nu-Metal days. "

Thank you bro it honeslty can make all the difrence just chatting to people thays mostly why i dyed my hair to put my self out there its for mental health awareness i thought it would be a good way to chat to people (convo starter)

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

We all need connection but unless you have good friends on this scene or online, fab can feel superficial and lonely. Take good care of yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all need connection but unless you have good friends on this scene or online, fab can feel superficial and lonely. Take good care of yourself "

Oh i belive that .. but theres alit of friendly people on here who ild love to conect with maybe even talk to people who have been in my shoes and made it throu the other side and maybe even bring me into the fab world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOVE your hair!

Fab can be very superficial, however, I've met some of my best friends through swinging and this site. Some awesome people dwell here!

Good on you for putting yourself out there!

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Just be you lad. Coming on here may not necessarily heighten your confidence but it’s a big step none the less. Great pictures shout out hair too. Be save and stay strong

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Now get out and get yourself some fresh air and exercise. Nothing has been proven to be more effective at making you feel better..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello lovely, your hair is awesome!!

Always happy to chat to nice people xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent you a PM op xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont read these threads anymore,peoples own stories on derpression ironically make me feel depressed,as a poster above said,get into excersise its a great way to beat the blues....good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now get out and get yourself some fresh air and exercise. Nothing has been proven to be more effective at making you feel better.."

Thank you the thing with depression its a vicious circle of being motivationly drained and needing to go out ... doesnt help when u also suffer agoraphobia but i will do my best to try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont read these threads anymore,peoples own stories on derpression ironically make me feel depressed,as a poster above said,get into excersise its a great way to beat the blues....good luck"

Sorry the last thing i want is to upset others i just wanted to put my self out there abit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont read these threads anymore,peoples own stories on derpression ironically make me feel depressed,as a poster above said,get into excersise its a great way to beat the blues....good luck"

Sorry the last thing i want is to upset others i just wanted to put my self out there abit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sent you a PM op xxxx"

Thank you it really does mean alot for ur kind words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont read these threads anymore,peoples own stories on derpression ironically make me feel depressed,as a poster above said,get into excersise its a great way to beat the blues....good luck

Sorry the last thing i want is to upset others i just wanted to put my self out there abit "

Its ok mate its just me,its good to talk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"LOVE your hair!

Fab can be very superficial, however, I've met some of my best friends through swinging and this site. Some awesome people dwell here!

Good on you for putting yourself out there! "

DITTO.. i also love your hair thats my plan maybe make some nive friends along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know your pain my friend!!

I too suffer depression and anxiety with more than a fair hint of agrophobia and know how debilitating it can be!!

Good luck dude we have your back!

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By *iffler 2019Woman
over a year ago

Saltash aka Fraggle Rock

If you ever need to talk my inbox is always open. I suffer with Mental Health problems so know what you're going through xx

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

Me too anxiety and depression

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Hi OP

Welcome to the forums.

Depression and anxiety are cruel.

There are lots of us that have been there, myself included.

All I'm gonna say about your pics is try to do a photo you're proud of, something that gives a sense of your personality perhaps. It's not the rule, but I found pics I was proud of made me feel like I'd accomplished something I wouldn't normally do.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now get out and get yourself some fresh air and exercise. Nothing has been proven to be more effective at making you feel better..

Thank you the thing with depression its a vicious circle of being motivationly drained and needing to go out ... doesnt help when u also suffer agoraphobia but i will do my best to try "
How are you with dogs..? .. I understand the cycle of depression also mild agrophobia at times... walking and interacting with "mans best friend" has proved really therapeutic for me ...be safe x

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