FabSwingers.com forum: Men's opinions on Women's threads.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

Men, stop sending dick pics / men are timewasters / men can't string 2 sentences together in a message / men can't put a profile together / men think every hole is a hole / men don't read profiles.... etc.

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up. "

That's not true. It's only 47.3 % of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up. "

Most of the statements they make are valid points, but some and I must emphasise some women are worse than blokes. I’ve had a woman message me asking how old I am for christ sake, it’s not like it’s written on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kind of wonder what's making them so bitter and angry, and I'm a little puzzled why they would be on a site like this if that's their generalization of men based on experiences. It's only them holding into the anger, no-one else.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Of course there's some truth in it as well you know,I just cling onto the believe there's good guy's out there as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it goes both ways... alot of men posting they can't meet ... people have to winge... complain ... human nature... no ??

I am not complaining... I've had some bad pms... still here still smiling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up. "

Sadly there is some men like that as I’m sure there is woman as well. However there is also the men that are normal, can read bla bla bla. Those ones are the ones we hold out hope of messaging us. As for the crude/ vile opening messages, well delete and look in the forum. They’re usually the ones who come in here and moan about getting no where.

Not restricted to men. Woman can be equally as bad we know, we just don’t see the messages thay send.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing I find most frustrating is the women who state “no 1 liners” or “need a guy who can string a sentence together” are usually the women who reply with “1 liners” or simply give closed replies and can’t string a sentence together.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

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It's because people lue about age on here

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

Not restricted to men. Woman can be equally as bad we know, we just don’t see the messages thay send."
and don't get me started on couples..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are both men and women that tick some or all of those boxes. I just move on. It's a waste of time trying to have a rational discussion with anyone hiding behind a keyboard. I might still perve her pics though......

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m sure they don’t mean all men, but if a woman has had 20 messages that day and they’re all shit, it’s easy to make a generalisation.

Women are only human too, well some of them

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

It's not just men who look at those threads and "roll their eyes". If they were that bothered there are several things they could do to change it, but they choose not to so clearly like the attention coming from all directions regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think some single women are just as bad as some of the single guys.

We get rude messages from both. However, I feel like the women think it's perfectly acceptable to ignore our profile and we should be grateful that she wants to fuck us..or Adam.

We have had plenty of very respectable and decent messages from guys though!

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think some single women are just as bad as some of the single guys.

We get rude messages from both. However, I feel like the women think it's perfectly acceptable to ignore our profile and we should be grateful that she wants to fuck us..or Adam.

We have had plenty of very respectable and decent messages from guys though!

Eve. X"

Oh and some couples suck too! The amount of messages we receive with lots of naked pics of the female and face pics of the female.. with zero or one of the male.

I am expected to fuck a guy I have never seen because the woman thinks she's hot enough that Adam will expect me to.

I'm good thanks.

Eve. X

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up. "

My first thought is the OP has been jilted and is drinking lemons, needs some attention, is blatantly lying, or sadly telling the truth. Sometimes it's a com I nation but I always think 'thanks for telling us, you ain't all that though'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

That's not true. It's only 47.3 % of the time"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing I find most frustrating is the women who state “no 1 liners” or “need a guy who can string a sentence together” are usually the women who reply with “1 liners” or simply give closed replies and can’t string a sentence together."

A very good point. Hypocrisy is a funny thing to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often think that the similar accusations can be levelled at SOME women, and SOME couples. SOME men can be wallies, but they're easy to avoid with filters, etc. Complaining about them here seems pointless. What are the chances that they'll read the thread and think 'do you know what, I think these people have a valid point and I shall henceforth cease to be a cockwomble'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to agree with them

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Not restricted to men. Woman can be equally as bad we know, we just don’t see the messages thay send.and don't get me started on couples..

Very true.

Due to the simple ratios on here, we obviously get way more messages from men.

But some of the ones I've had from women & couples are, tbh, far worse!

I'm always confused, irritated & occasionally amused by messages regardless of sender gender.

If you're looking to meet someone, surely your opening message should be promoting yourself, sparking the readers interest, not making them think "Eeeeeew"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea it's true both sides but woman need to be more forward honest less mind games at least with a guy you know where you stand

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I know you were asking for men’s opinions but I’m a woman and that means I’ll still have my say. I HATE men bashing on the forum. Men can be knobs on Fab and in the real world. Yes I have encountered a few here and in the real world, but let’s keep some perspective here. That’s a very small minority of men. The only thing the constant posting of men bashing threads achieves is to strip them of their confidence. Does anyone want to meet a guy who lacks confidence and self belief? I know I didn’t, where would the fun in that be? I think half the problems ppl have with either sex on this site are self inflicted, know your audience and read the signals. There are some wonderful folk on this site and they aren’t necessarily those with the best pics or that match your preferences. Not all the guys I’ve encountered are for me and I doubt very much I’m for them. However I’ve really enjoyed getting to know some of the guys and I don’t mean because I’ve met them for sex, the OP included. Stop bashing the minority and appreciate the good ones, you never know it might encourage the others to follow suit instead of them thinking what’s the point

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I know you were asking for men’s opinions but I’m a woman and that means I’ll still have my say. I HATE men bashing on the forum. Men can be knobs on Fab and in the real world. Yes I have encountered a few here and in the real world, but let’s keep some perspective here. That’s a very small minority of men. The only thing the constant posting of men bashing threads achieves is to strip them of their confidence. Does anyone want to meet a guy who lacks confidence and self belief? I know I didn’t, where would the fun in that be? I think half the problems ppl have with either sex on this site are self inflicted, know your audience and read the signals. There are some wonderful folk on this site and they aren’t necessarily those with the best pics or that match your preferences. Not all the guys I’ve encountered are for me and I doubt very much I’m for them. However I’ve really enjoyed getting to know some of the guys and I don’t mean because I’ve met them for sex, the OP included. Stop bashing the minority and appreciate the good ones, you never know it might encourage the others to follow suit instead of them thinking what’s the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can do as they please really....numbers are in thier favour....so why not be picky....in fact i love those profiles....makes me chuckle and you get a real insight into what she/they want...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I often think that the similar accusations can be levelled at SOME women, and SOME couples. SOME men can be wallies, but they're easy to avoid with filters, etc. Complaining about them here seems pointless. What are the chances that they'll read the thread and think 'do you know what, I think these people have a valid point and I shall henceforth cease to be a cockwomble' "

That's right. We can moan all we want, but it's ranting to the people probably not involved. I find it very unproductive if it was to try and change something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit annoying to be judged by others behaviour and to get tarred with the same brush. It's always a mistake to generalise on any issue or gender specific personality trait.

There's always a few regulars that like to start or get stuck into those types of threads. Not all women join in though. And visa versa.

If people feel the need to get something off their chest, it's important that they feel they can. I don't Have to read them, though I often do. I'm the big 50 in just over a week and I'd like to think I'd almost mastered the art of biting my tongue. It's not always important to get ones point across or to defend ones self. Some times it's important to let others have their say or opinions.

If I can say something that might make someone realise that all men aren't jerks just because some are, I will. But I'm not going to argue...probably end up reinforcing their opinion.

Do the threads bother me? Most of the time I'll shrug and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes indeed, I would concur with this statement whole heartedly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first thought is why don't they put man bashing into the thread search and read all the replies already received. It's usually the same women on them all the time giving it blah blah blah.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My opinion is shurrup moaning and get on with it, I’ve been stood up, called names, received cock pics and one line mails but I have never started or ever felt the need to start a thread about it.

Just stop being moaning whingers jeeeeez

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

There is definitely a lot of truth in these threads unfortunately

it saddens me they feel the need to post these threads but some (not all) guys seriously need to have a look at themselves

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I don't begrudge anyone a good old rant once in a while, it's good for the soul. It doesn't come across, to me, that these posts are directed at "all men" particularly, rather they're directed at the avalanche of idiots cluttering up their inbox. I sometimes get the same sort of crap from blokes too, despite being very clear that I'm not into chaps, so I can say first hand their grumbles are valid.

What does bother me is becoming more prevalent recently with more conversation around gender issues in the public eye, is the seemingly widespread attitude that all men are sexual predators that can't be trusted. With discussions around de-gendered toilets or unisex fitting rooms, it ALWAYS comes down to "I don't want some strange man using the same facility as my children." As though the sight of a kid washing their hands after going for a piss is going to turn every bloke into a sexual deviant kiddy fiddler, or that we simply can't be trusted to try on a jumper without sticking our heads under the next cubicle to perv on somebody's daughter.

It's like the automatic assumption is that if you let men anywhere near kids (or even grown women) they're definitely going to behave in an inappropriate manner. THIS attitude concerns me much more.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

From my experience, I completely agree with this. On several occasions i've put real effort into messaging women that state this in their profile who reply back with one sentence befitting a 7 year old. This is both amusing and annoying. When it happens, I don't bother replying back and just move on.

On two occasions, I was berated by the person for not replying to their one liner. Seriously??

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

On two occasions, I was berated by the person for not replying to their one liner. Seriously??

"Good morning dear lady! I've observed from your profile that you've a notable fondness for literature and the arts, these are most certainly mutual interests and I'd be most delighted to spend some time debating the merits of Harper Lee's take on prejudice and mob mentality and it's relevance in a modern society witnessing a worrying resurgence of the far right and a somewhat rabid sensationalist media, if you'd do me the honour?"

"Lol thanks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very good point. Hypocrisy is a funny thing to read.

I don’t think that’s hypocritical actually. If someone is replying to a message out of politeness but doesn’t wish to continue the message exchange, then it necessary to leave a closed response. The alternative is to ignore, and we all know what men think of messages being ignored.

Mrs

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't tend to think anything other than "Does the thread make a valid point and have I got something valid to add to it?" to be honest and that's regardless of the gender of the OP or that of those being "bashed"

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

There ... fixed it for you ..might have got a longer reply

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Not *all* men.

Just *enough* men. Enough men to make it feel like a regular pattern.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's easy to get confused.

Show me your arse - as a thread title is ok

Show me your arse - as a message title is not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up. "

I think the above are complaints about some men, not all men. There’s no need for a man to get defensive if he doesn’t send dick pics, isn’t a timewasters, has an informative profile etc etc. In the same way there is no need for me to get defensive about various atrocities couples commit, because I know we are not guilty of them.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't begrudge anyone a good old rant once in a while, it's good for the soul. It doesn't come across, to me, that these posts are directed at "all men" particularly, rather they're directed at the avalanche of idiots cluttering up their inbox. I sometimes get the same sort of crap from blokes too, despite being very clear that I'm not into chaps, so I can say first hand their grumbles are valid.

It's like the automatic assumption is that if you let men anywhere near kids (or even grown women) they're definitely going to behave in an inappropriate manner. THIS attitude concerns me much more."

I very much agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

Mrs"

This too.

I find it weird when people get defensive when it doesn't mean them. Although I do think that the group of men sending rude mail and dick pics does have an effect on people on here. If you get 100 crap messages, at what point do you still believe the next will be a good one?

However it works both ways. Mail filters, profile text, pics, attitude, are all things that women and couples can change for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't tend to think anything other than "Does the thread make a valid point and have I got something valid to add to it?" to be honest and that's regardless of the gender of the OP or that of those being "bashed"

Very diplomatic. A gold star.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's easy to get confused.

Show me your arse - as a thread title is ok

Show me your arse - as a message title is not"

brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just tend to think.

Stop moaning, the site gives you every tool needed to filter messages, but generally the ones moaning don’t set them.

I think they would miss the attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and don't get me started on couples..

Bloody humans, this place would be so much better if it was only Google bots were members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

Mrs

This too.

However it works both ways. Mail filters, profile text, pics, attitude, are all things that women and couples can change for themselves. "

We find it quite easy to filter out what we don’t want. We get very few messages now, and most of the profiles that are full of cock don’t message us because it says not to right at the top of our profile.

Mrs

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"I just tend to think.

Stop moaning, the site gives you every tool needed to filter messages, but generally the ones moaning don’t set them.

I think they would miss the attention

Yep. Block all men. Problem solved.

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just tend to think.

Stop moaning, the site gives you every tool needed to filter messages, but generally the ones moaning don’t set them.

I think they would miss the attention

Yep. Block all men. Problem solved."

We tried that, and found we couldn’t see which men looked at our profile. We find the ‘looked at me’ page is invaluable in our searches as meets have been generated from using that. It even blocked us from seeing if men on our friends list had looked at us, and we certainly want to know if our friends have looked at us.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up. "

You're right, every hole is a hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I've asked men their ages. Why? Cos they look damn older than what they've stated

. I'd imagine you look younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I kind of wonder what's making them so bitter and angry, and I'm a little puzzled why they would be on a site like this if that's their generalization of men based on experiences. It's only them holding into the anger, no-one else."

Pretty much hits the nail on the head for me. The negativity can be draining and is prevalent on fab from both sexes. It just makes me think avoid them at all costs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they are simply venting so that they don't hold onto their anger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just tend to think.

Stop moaning, the site gives you every tool needed to filter messages, but generally the ones moaning don’t set them.

I think they would miss the attention

Yep. Block all men. Problem solved."

I have a great set of filters. A profile longer than war and peace and being across the Irish Sea. Oh and a face only a mother could love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

You're right, every hole is a hole

Except the ACME portable ones are only sometimes a hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

You're right, every hole is a hole

Except the ACME portable ones are only sometimes a hole

beep beep

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

First thought woo hoo that old chestnut again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

You're right, every hole is a hole

. Opinions expressed by my phone is not really those of my own.

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"I just tend to think.

Stop moaning, the site gives you every tool needed to filter messages, but generally the ones moaning don’t set them.

I think they would miss the attention

Yep. Block all men. Problem solved.

Mrs"

Thats a fair point if you have male friends on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

You're right, every hole is a hole

. Opinions expressed by my phone is not really those of my own.

But it's not wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just tend to think.

Stop moaning, the site gives you every tool needed to filter messages, but generally the ones moaning don’t set them.

I think they would miss the attention

Yep. Block all men. Problem solved.

Mrs

Thats a fair point if you have male friends on here. "

I'd just like to add....I've looked at all of yours.

I do often think why they don't block if it's got that bad they had to rant.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I just tend to think.

Stop moaning, the site gives you every tool needed to filter messages, but generally the ones moaning don’t set them.

I think they would miss the attention

Yep. Block all men. Problem solved.

Mrs"

If you remove the filter, they pop back up on your who's looked at me. Soon as you put the filter back on they disappear again.

You could still look to help in your search but not be messaged.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Sadly with filters they don't apply to forums.

I'd block people a lot more that way and filter them out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sadly with filters they don't apply to forums.

I'd block people a lot more that way and filter them out."

You'd block a woman for ranting about guys? That's your first reaction?

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"I just tend to think.

Stop moaning, the site gives you every tool needed to filter messages, but generally the ones moaning don’t set them.

I think they would miss the attention

Yep. Block all men. Problem solved.

Mrs

Thats a fair point if you have male friends on here.

I'd just like to add....I've looked at all of yours.

I do often think why they don't block if it's got that bad they had to rant. "

We don't have a problem with you or any other man seeing our profile (although we didn't realise you could when blocked) It was more about the fact we're not looking for men. Maybe we've only blocked men from messaging us. If thats possible. Can't remember as it was some time ago when we set the filters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just tend to think.

Stop moaning, the site gives you every tool needed to filter messages, but generally the ones moaning don’t set them.

I think they would miss the attention

Yep. Block all men. Problem solved.

Mrs

Thats a fair point if you have male friends on here.

I'd just like to add....I've looked at all of yours.

I do often think why they don't block if it's got that bad they had to rant.

I think it stops men from messaging you if you 'block all men.' In your filters.

I got the hint.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up. "

Considering the amount of messages I get, I can see their point.

I get messages of one or two words, the majority of the time. I get sent cock pictures, ok but what about the rest of you, is that your best profile, this usually ends with me deleting the post.

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

That's not true. It's only 47.3 % of the time"

73.3% of statistics are made up.

Except this one....

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over a year ago

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

That's not true. It's only 47.3 % of the time

73.3% of statistics are made up.

Except this one....

1/3 of the time, that would be true.

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"I just tend to think.

Stop moaning, the site gives you every tool needed to filter messages, but generally the ones moaning don’t set them.

I think they would miss the attention

Yep. Block all men. Problem solved.

Mrs

Thats a fair point if you have male friends on here.

I'd just like to add....I've looked at all of yours.

I do often think why they don't block if it's got that bad they had to rant.

I think it stops men from messaging you if you 'block all men.' In your filters.

I got the hint.

No hint intended

We may well change our filters to allow messages from men. I'm sure there are one or two out there that don't need blocking

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over a year ago

"I just tend to think.

Stop moaning, the site gives you every tool needed to filter messages, but generally the ones moaning don’t set them.

I think they would miss the attention

Yep. Block all men. Problem solved.

Mrs

If you remove the filter, they pop back up on your who's looked at me. Soon as you put the filter back on they disappear again.

You could still look to help in your search but not be messaged.

We enjoy the function of seeing who has looked as and when we feel like it, and it would be a nuisance to have to switch the men back on just to see who has looked. It’s a design flaw of Fab, especially as we can’t even see our own Male friends looking, when they are not blocked from messaging us. We’ve found other ways of reducing our messages anyway

Mrs

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"I just tend to think.

Stop moaning, the site gives you every tool needed to filter messages, but generally the ones moaning don’t set them.

I think they would miss the attention

Yep. Block all men. Problem solved.

Mrs

Thats a fair point if you have male friends on here.

I'd just like to add....I've looked at all of yours.

I do often think why they don't block if it's got that bad they had to rant.

I think it stops men from messaging you if you 'block all men.' In your filters.

I got the hint.

No hint intended

We may well change our filters to allow messages from men. I'm sure there are one or two out there that don't need blocking

May be worth unblocking just for the comedy value

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Or the classic; "Lol xx"

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it? "

I usually think "Wow, only 6 hours since the last men-bashing thread!"

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I don’t care for those types of threads. I’m not sure I see the point of them. Every one of us on here could start a thread bashing someone... how boring and what’s the point?

There are good and bad on here, we all know it. My personal experience has been a good one, guys are lovely with me. A couple of things have happened that have bothered me but you put it down to experience and forget it.

The green arrow and daily moaning status updates tells you a lot about a person and clearly who to avoid. Some ladies make it a daily activity and I just don’t get it. If you’re unhappy do something differently, because you’re clearly not getting what you want from it and it’s not going to change. I’m sure men and couples must do it on occasion as well. Life is just too short to get caught up in all that nonsense.

It must be absolutely draining to focus on the negative all the time. There are some funny, entertaining, witty, gorgeous, happy, lovely people on here. Let’s enjoy them!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Sadly with filters they don't apply to forums.

I'd block people a lot more that way and filter them out.

You'd block a woman for ranting about guys? That's your first reaction? "

If it's Consistant yes or just a stupid attention seeking rant yes with no purpose

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say. "

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?"

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

No I don’t want to do that. It would be more interesting for the forum if some of you guys told us a bit about the uncalled for rudeness from women and couples. Maybe then we’d all understand that it’s not just women who are subject to rudeness.

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over a year ago

I think it stops men from messaging you if you 'block all men.' In your filters.

I got the hint.

No hint intended

We may well change our filters to allow messages from men. I'm sure there are one or two out there that don't need blocking

May be worth unblocking just for the comedy value

Do it, I dare you!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

I usually think "Wow, only 6 hours since the last men-bashing thread!"

Haha.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

I’m not going to set up a fake profile any more so that you probably won’t be setting up a fake profile to research the plight of women on Fab. If men don’t speak out against the abuse they suffer they way women speak out then nobody will know the truth.

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over a year ago

I don't generally read any thread that is obviously a whinging one whether it's a man or woman or couple posting.

I have enough whinging fuckwits to deal with, I don't need to subject myself to more.

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man."

You reckon?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I don't generally read any thread that is obviously a whinging one whether it's a man or woman or couple posting.

I have enough whinging fuckwits to deal with, I don't need to subject myself to more."

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon? "

The vast majority of the time, yes.

I think any rude response is the result of exasperation, frustration, hurt, offense etc etc. Men act like cunts on the whole. As katlovescum so rightly pointed out, in order to live with that, women need to lower their expectations.

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over a year ago

"I don't generally read any thread that is obviously a whinging one whether it's a man or woman or couple posting.

I have enough whinging fuckwits to deal with, I don't need to subject myself to more."

Best avoided eh? It's that old 'nothing nice to say, don't say anything I suppose'

Sometimes, I just can't help myself.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

You need to post a generalisation alert before making comments

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Men act like cunts on the whole? A bit strong.

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here."

Where was the alert?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here."

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience.

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over a year ago

Preston

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience. "

I get sent poetry

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience. "

Yes. I broke it down a week or so ago. In my experience probably 95% are rubbish. Not forgetting that I never message first. However, I fully accept my expectations have clearly been too high.

So let's see the rude messages from women and what they were in response to.

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over a year ago

st helens

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience. "

We have men blocked but some women are that bad we assume they are men and must of paid people for their veris

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"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience.

I get sent poetry

I don't call

Roses are red

Violets are blue

I fancy some head

So where are you?

Poetry.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience.

I get sent poetry

I don't call

Roses are red

Violets are blue

I fancy some head

So where are you?

Poetry.

That’s code for FAF, thankfully that’s not what I receive

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience.

I get sent poetry

I don't call

Roses are red

Violets are blue

I fancy some head

So where are you?

Poetry.

That’s code for FAF, thankfully that’s not what I receive

Not much codification there

As I say, I accept my expectations are too high

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience.

I get sent poetry

I don't call

Roses are red

Violets are blue

I fancy some head

So where are you?

Poetry.

That’s code for FAF, thankfully that’s not what I receive

Not much codification there

As I say, I accept my expectations are too high "

If you’re looking for Prince Charming then yes they are, because I’m keeping him to myself

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I don't really care about anti men threads.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Of course there's some truth in it as well you know,I just cling onto the believe there's good guy's out there as well

Hurrah for 'The White Knights'

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience.

I get sent poetry

I don't call

Roses are red

Violets are blue

I fancy some head

So where are you?

Poetry.

That’s code for FAF, thankfully that’s not what I receive

Not much codification there

As I say, I accept my expectations are too high

If you’re looking for Prince Charming then yes they are, because I’m keeping him to myself

No. No man on here is good enough for me

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience.

I get sent poetry

I don't call

Roses are red

Violets are blue

I fancy some head

So where are you?

Poetry.

That’s code for FAF, thankfully that’s not what I receive

Not much codification there

As I say, I accept my expectations are too high

If you’re looking for Prince Charming then yes they are, because I’m keeping him to myself

No. No man on here is good enough for me"

Or anywhere else. We're all cunts remember. Try a woman.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Just block the hag and move on.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up. "

Just block the hag and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just block the hag and move on. "

It's as simple as that then.

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By *appyhumper123Man
over a year ago

hull

Sorry, I don't get the rude/ bad message thing, no means no if you can't take the rejection then why give someone grief for it, too much time on their hands I think, l haven't had any messages good or bad but I certainly wouldn't send vile messages just because I got knocked back

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over a year ago

"Of course there's some truth in it as well you know,I just cling onto the believe there's good guy's out there as well

There are, but I couldn’t help direct you to them

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over a year ago

I like men, wouldn't get very far looking for sex if I didn't. Ignore the ones I don't like and flutter my eyelashes at the ones I do. Simples

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over a year ago

"I like men, wouldn't get very far looking for sex if I didn't. Ignore the ones I don't like and flutter my eyelashes at the ones I do. Simples

Does it work the other way round too?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I like men, wouldn't get very far looking for sex if I didn't. Ignore the ones I don't like and flutter my eyelashes at the ones I do. Simples

Does it work the other way round too?

Switch the light on in your cave we can’t see you

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up. "

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

The bigger point is those who do the things that are being complained about are in the main unlikely to change their behaviour. That's if they even see the thread in the first place. I know I should remember that the post is not aimed at me specifically but I can't help that they still make me feel like shit sometimes.

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over a year ago

"I like men, wouldn't get very far looking for sex if I didn't. Ignore the ones I don't like and flutter my eyelashes at the ones I do. Simples

Does it work the other way round too?

Switch the light on in your cave we can’t see you

Just have to feel your way around in the dark...

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I like men, wouldn't get very far looking for sex if I didn't. Ignore the ones I don't like and flutter my eyelashes at the ones I do. Simples

Well it's not rocket science is it.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I like men, wouldn't get very far looking for sex if I didn't. Ignore the ones I don't like and flutter my eyelashes at the ones I do. Simples

Does it work the other way round too?

Switch the light on in your cave we can’t see you

Just have to feel your way around in the dark...

I might get a surprise like Amir Khan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like men, wouldn't get very far looking for sex if I didn't. Ignore the ones I don't like and flutter my eyelashes at the ones I do. Simples

Well it's not rocket science is it."

Seems easy enough to me

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over a year ago

"I like men, wouldn't get very far looking for sex if I didn't. Ignore the ones I don't like and flutter my eyelashes at the ones I do. Simples

Does it work the other way round too?

Switch the light on in your cave we can’t see you

Just have to feel your way around in the dark...

Somehow I don't think that is the door handle

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to be that guy who is like 'yes men are so bad please have sex with me'

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over a year ago

"I like men, wouldn't get very far looking for sex if I didn't. Ignore the ones I don't like and flutter my eyelashes at the ones I do. Simples

Does it work the other way round too?

Switch the light on in your cave we can’t see you

Just have to feel your way around in the dark...

Somehow I don't think that is the door handle "

No door handles in a man cave

But if you pull it ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like men, wouldn't get very far looking for sex if I didn't. Ignore the ones I don't like and flutter my eyelashes at the ones I do. Simples

Does it work the other way round too?

Switch the light on in your cave we can’t see you

Just have to feel your way around in the dark...

I might get a surprise like Amir Khan

Had to Google that

Did he get a man in

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

What am I supposed to think you implied by that Elpis?

I could say what I think your beginning to behave like, but like you, I'd like to avoid a time out.

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

What am I supposed to think you implied by that Elpis?

I could say what I think your beginning to behave like, but like you, I'd like to avoid a time out.

I think the word ‘some’ was missing. It jarred with me in another thread when a generalisation about women was made. If the word ‘some’ or even ‘most’ had been used it wouldn’t have bothered me because I would have known it didn’t include me. I will say none of the men we have met via Fab are cunts so it can’t be all men.

Mrs

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

What am I supposed to think you implied by that Elpis?

I could say what I think your beginning to behave like, but like you, I'd like to avoid a time out.

The difference being, you clearly care about my opinion of you

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

What am I supposed to think you implied by that Elpis?

I could say what I think your beginning to behave like, but like you, I'd like to avoid a time out.

Mrs"

I used 'the vast majority'. Some are taking that personally, if the cap fits and all that

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

What am I supposed to think you implied by that Elpis?

I could say what I think your beginning to behave like, but like you, I'd like to avoid a time out.

Mrs

I used 'the vast majority'. Some are taking that personally, if the cap fits and all that"

My appologies

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

What am I supposed to think you implied by that Elpis?

I could say what I think your beginning to behave like, but like you, I'd like to avoid a time out.

Mrs

I used 'the vast majority'. Some are taking that personally, if the cap fits and all that"

It's fine. Thanks for joining in and giving your opinion about men bashing, or just took the opportunity to bash men. Whichever cap fits...you know.

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

What am I supposed to think you implied by that Elpis?

I could say what I think your beginning to behave like, but like you, I'd like to avoid a time out.

Mrs

I used 'the vast majority'. Some are taking that personally, if the cap fits and all that

It's fine. Thanks for joining in and giving your opinion about men bashing, or just took the opportunity to bash men. Whichever cap fits...you know.

I don't have a problem admitting I gave my opinion of the vast majority of men here.

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

What am I supposed to think you implied by that Elpis?

I could say what I think your beginning to behave like, but like you, I'd like to avoid a time out.

Mrs

I used 'the vast majority'. Some are taking that personally, if the cap fits and all that

It's fine. Thanks for joining in and giving your opinion about men bashing, or just took the opportunity to bash men. Whichever cap fits...you know.

I don't have a problem admitting I gave my opinion of the vast majority of men here."

I know. And I said thanks on behalf of the majority of men.

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

What am I supposed to think you implied by that Elpis?

I could say what I think your beginning to behave like, but like you, I'd like to avoid a time out.

Mrs

I used 'the vast majority'. Some are taking that personally, if the cap fits and all that

It's fine. Thanks for joining in and giving your opinion about men bashing, or just took the opportunity to bash men. Whichever cap fits...you know.

I don't have a problem admitting I gave my opinion of the vast majority of men here.

I know. And I said thanks on behalf of the majority of men.

Jolly good *sigh*

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over a year ago

Elpis. If it's alright with you, can we get back to my original question?

Catch up for everyone.

I'm a nutshell- What do people think when women take the quickest opportunity to start a thread or post to bash men.? Is it called for?

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over a year ago

"Elpis. If it's alright with you, can we get back to my original question?

Catch up for everyone.

I'm a nutshell- What do people think when women take the quickest opportunity to start a thread or post to bash men.? Is it called for? "

No it isn’t. Admittedly, some men here are pillocks and deserve a bashing now and then.

Some are non entities as they sign up and do nothing at all

A small number seem to make the right effort as they are meeting people

Generalising about a whole group of people based on a small number of experiences is just lazy.

But help is at hand, don’t feed the trolls and ignore the threads

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over a year ago

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Elpis. If it's alright with you, can we get back to my original question?

Catch up for everyone.

I'm a nutshell- What do people think when women take the quickest opportunity to start a thread or post to bash men.? Is it called for?

No it isn’t. Admittedly, some men here are pillocks and deserve a bashing now and then.

Some are non entities as they sign up and do nothing at all

A small number seem to make the right effort as they are meeting people

Generalising about a whole group of people based on a small number of experiences is just lazy.

But help is at hand, don’t feed the trolls and ignore the threads

I was expecting your poem

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Elpis. If it's alright with you, can we get back to my original question?

Catch up for everyone.

I'm a nutshell- What do people think when women take the quickest opportunity to start a thread or post to bash men.? Is it called for? "

No. But I feel the same about most bashing threads regardless of which gender starts them. I understand the frustration on both sides but I don't think they do anyone any favours.

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over a year ago

"Elpis. If it's alright with you, can we get back to my original question?

Catch up for everyone.

I'm a nutshell- What do people think when women take the quickest opportunity to start a thread or post to bash men.? Is it called for?

No. But I feel the same about most bashing threads regardless of which gender starts them. I understand the frustration on both sides but I don't think they do anyone any favours."

Hear, hear, just leads to increased vitriol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand that stupid messages are deleted without being replied and I find it right, and I see that many people are bored by one-liners here and it's affecting "good guys" on very bad way. But I don't think it's as important as it is spoken here, I mean what's the rate of replying to a decent message from someone you don't find handsome/beautiful?

Everyone's time is important, no one wants to wasting time but I think it is really rude not to reply to decent messages. At least it can be replied like "Thanks, you're not my type".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Elpis. If it's alright with you, can we get back to my original question?

Catch up for everyone.

I'm a nutshell- What do people think when women take the quickest opportunity to start a thread or post to bash men.? Is it called for? "

No, I think somedays we all have our days that some fabbers has annoyed us. But bashing whole groups of people serves no purpose and doesn't stop the behaviour of the minority that act like twunts. X

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over a year ago

"Elpis. If it's alright with you, can we get back to my original question?

Catch up for everyone.

I'm a nutshell- What do people think when women take the quickest opportunity to start a thread or post to bash men.? Is it called for?

No it isn’t. Admittedly, some men here are pillocks and deserve a bashing now and then.

Some are non entities as they sign up and do nothing at all

A small number seem to make the right effort as they are meeting people

Generalising about a whole group of people based on a small number of experiences is just lazy.

But help is at hand, don’t feed the trolls and ignore the threads

I was expecting your poem

Saving that one

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

What am I supposed to think you implied by that Elpis?

I could say what I think your beginning to behave like, but like you, I'd like to avoid a time out.

Mrs

I used 'the vast majority'. Some are taking that personally, if the cap fits and all that

It's fine. Thanks for joining in and giving your opinion about men bashing, or just took the opportunity to bash men. Whichever cap fits...you know.

I don't have a problem admitting I gave my opinion of the vast majority of men here."

No need to admit it. I think most people know your views on people in general. You had a go at me previously when I made an honest comment which you took to be patronising. And didn't let up when I tried to clarify what I meant. You made me feel like crap for a little while. I have never done you any harm so I am not sure what warranted your bitterness towards me. You won't care what I think, say or do of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not my cup of tea, but I would look fantastic in women's clothes.

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Just bugs me when men can't be bothered to read profiles. I answer everyone except the ' fancy a shag tonight' I could be a 25 stone toothless dwarf. God they'd have a shock

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

I usually think "Wow, only 6 hours since the last men-bashing thread!"

I just want to bash POF men cos they're a breed apart

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over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience.

I get sent poetry

Fancy a fuck?

My cock, will you suck?

I am trying my luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be getting bashed by women, beats my hand any day

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

Men act like vaginas? Sounds like a Woody Allen film to me

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over a year ago

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

What am I supposed to think you implied by that Elpis?

I could say what I think your beginning to behave like, but like you, I'd like to avoid a time out.

Mrs

I used 'the vast majority'. Some are taking that personally, if the cap fits and all that

It's fine. Thanks for joining in and giving your opinion about men bashing, or just took the opportunity to bash men. Whichever cap fits...you know.

I don't have a problem admitting I gave my opinion of the vast majority of men here.

Oh no! A man feels hurt when called out by a woman!

I think mrb wants to keep the thread on track, BTW. Despite derailing it himself

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience.

I get sent poetry

Fancy a fuck?

My cock, will you suck?

I am trying my luck

Omg you’re a man?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

P.s. We dont like stats, because half the time your making it up.

I get defensive.

There is some truth in what they say. The issue is it's a bashing men thread.

I get that feeling. It does feel personal when they say 'men are cunts'. I'm a men!

Why rant to the heavens, send that bad vibe back to where it came from, don't pass it to those that are having a good time.

I said they behave like Cunts. I separated the behavior from the person. But hey, missing that proves the point

What am I supposed to think you implied by that Elpis?

I could say what I think your beginning to behave like, but like you, I'd like to avoid a time out.

Mrs

I used 'the vast majority'. Some are taking that personally, if the cap fits and all that

It's fine. Thanks for joining in and giving your opinion about men bashing, or just took the opportunity to bash men. Whichever cap fits...you know.

I don't have a problem admitting I gave my opinion of the vast majority of men here.

I know the feeling.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"...that start bashing men?

When a post pops up with

What's your first thoughts when you see a post like that? Do we get defensive? Is there some truth in it?

I usually think "Wow, only 6 hours since the last men-bashing thread!"

I just want to bash POF men cos they're a breed apart

I’ve not used POF, so can easily distance myself from that bashing at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women and couples hold the power on here. Just how it is which is understandable. Think I’d get a bit annoyed too if I was getting sent 100s of dick pics daily.

Although there is never a need to be rude. An attractive woman can quickly become very unattractive due to her manner. Just stick with people who are cool and ignore the negative minded people I say.

Are women frequently rude in response to a polite message?

Open yourselves a single male profile, and go message a few women, then report back your findings. Could be interesting

You would understand better if you experienced it for yourself

Yes. Of course this is right.

There's a lot of conjecture here. Much like on married fucking around, the replies are all meant to be 'string him up by his balls' etc, when I haven't seen one reply remotely like that.

I'm sure there are rude replies by women, I've made a few myself, but I doubt they haven't been inspired by an equally, if not moreso, rude message from a man.

You reckon?

The vast majority of the time, yes.

Thanks,"men act like cunts on the whole," i like how you made that clear.

I can tell you, the only time I've ever ever been attacked in here, it was unwarranted, do you think I send out abuse? Do you think I'm not polite when sending mail?

And I'm not unique.

I can understand frustration, but unless you agree to drop a bomb on a country to kill one man, I think the moaning is wrong.

I'm sorry to doubt you, but I do know that whenever I have a message that is actually decent, I'm so surprised by it that I'm completely over the top with how polite my response is.

Nah. Men are terrible at messaging women on here.

Not all men, not most men but some men and the same goes for ladies and couples in my experience.

I get sent poetry

Fancy a fuck?

My cock, will you suck?

I am trying my luck

Omg you’re a man?

Bugger, I'm busted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do men really still message Women, That's a bit old school isn't it?

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

An excellent opportunity to see a bit of “mansplaining“ going on.

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