FabSwingers.com forum: Relationship

By *.A.MGUY55 OP Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

A relationship with out sex is a friendship

Am I right or wrong

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

I would say wrong , sex is only part of a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong

Sex is a part of a relationship not everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d agree.

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By *.A.MGUY55 OP Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

So I only have friendship

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Depends, do you just sex or all aspects of intimacy too? Kissing cuddling etc all counts for me.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

A relationship depends on several things, sex is not always present, eg in the elderly.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

"So I only have friendship "

Do you both partake in the forums because that would be pretty mean to talk about it on here.

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By *olly gMan
over a year ago

dudley

"Wrong

Sex is a part of a relationship not everything "

I totally agree sex is only part of a relationship

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Lots of couples have relationships but go years without sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, I wouldn't stay in a sexless relationship

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Of course you can have a relationship without sex. If one of you were seriously and long term ill I’m pretty sure you would expect the other to stay by you and not decide because you aren’t getting laid there’s no relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationships take all forms. Sex is only a small part.

Scenario..

You have been married to your husband/wife for many years.

Something changes, illness, accident, etc. So you no longer have sex. Maybe just cuddles..

Is it no longer a relationship after so many years?

AND..

Please define "SEX", in your view?

Sex does not need to involve penetration or even touching each other sexualy. I have had countless very sexy times with previous partners, just kissing and either one or both of us masturbating. Or not touching at all and one of us masturbating. Then there is fantasy phone sex/texts...

I have worked away from home when with previous partner. I would message her pretending to be an imaginary lover, telling her what I was going to do to her whilst her boyfriend was working away..

She admitted, she would walk around the house, her knickers dripping wet, playing with herself all the time, just because of the sexy thoughts.

When at home I would send her out to the supermarket, in a short dress and heels. She would have a butt plug in and a remote control love egg in her pussy. I followed from a distance in my car, then followed her around the supermarket, switching her love egg on and off. But would leave on when she was at the checkout. I enjoyed watching her squirm as she was trying her best to pay without giving anything away.

Sex ain't all about the act itself. Sex starts in the mind. Main reason a lot of relationship fail sexualy is because "the magic and keeping it in the mind disappears.

Find ways of keeping the magic alive.

Either way, if you are with someone you love, who loves you and you are both open and honest with each other. Then yes it's a relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And forgot to mention..

The constant feeling of sexual arousal and trying to control it by being locked in chastity for weeks on end.

A total sexy head fuck

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Wrong - relationships come in many guises and can themselves transform and evolve forms. Don't seek rigidity but a more organic style to your connections with others - and shag what you fancy.

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By *ussexjackMan
over a year ago

Sussex

You can have a bad relationship with good sex but not a good relationship with bad sex! True story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wrong

Sex is a part of a relationship not everything "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Friendship is part of a relationship and more important and longer lasting than sex. However I do think that being physically affectionate is a very important part of a romantic relationship. I don't necessarily mean constant hugging and touching but a hand on the arm, holding hands in the street etc.

I think most people enter a romantic relationship expecting it to be sexual and will be disappointed, upset, feel rejected and hurt if it turns out not to be. This is when the frienship bit kicks in and you talk about it to try and resolve the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friendship is part of a relationship and more important and longer lasting than sex. However I do think that being physically affectionate is a very important part of a romantic relationship. I don't necessarily mean constant hugging and touching but a hand on the arm, holding hands in the street etc.

So true.

When my previous relationship ended I was more hurt that I had lost my best friend, not because I had lost a great sexual partner.

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