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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In the real world today, how many times were you winked at, liked(received a compliment) or messaged (an expression of interest by text or in person?).

See the real world ain't a lot more productive and fun than fab!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Winked at? Several times more than on here.

'Liked'? Quite a few times, I've had a haircut/only once on here.

Messaged? Two on here. Several conversations ongoing in the real world.

I guess the 'real world' is beating fab for me atm!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I was complimented in the real world today, it was live chat online. I was messaging EE to try to sort out something that had got wrong not once, but 3 times. We sorted the issues after lots to exchanges and at the end he thanked me for making it all so easy, being so polite and for being the nicest person he had chatted to today it made me feel good.

At no point did he show me his penis or talk about what he wanted to do to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, to be honest, and since I work in a near 100% male environment I'm pretty pleased about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today was a good day.

Usually it's balanced out, I get compliments and I give them, on and off fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many times on here none

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I got a little whistle of a guy today. It actually made my day that someone away from Fab, where it’s kind of superficial, fancied me in real life. I feel like I only get told I’m attractive on here as someone basically wants to have sex with me. It made me smile plus the fact he was good looking was a bonus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got a little whistle of a guy today. It actually made my day that someone away from Fab, where it’s kind of superficial, fancied me in real life. I feel like I only get told I’m attractive on here as someone basically wants to have sex with me. It made me smile plus the fact he was good looking was a bonus "

Makes you realise that having no-one look at you or an empty mailbox on here isn't really a reflection if your status in life ...theres a real world out there!

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"I got a little whistle of a guy today. It actually made my day that someone away from Fab, where it’s kind of superficial, fancied me in real life. I feel like I only get told I’m attractive on here as someone basically wants to have sex with me. It made me smile plus the fact he was good looking was a bonus

Makes you realise that having no-one look at you or an empty mailbox on here isn't really a reflection if your status in life ...theres a real world out there!"

A compliment in the real world means a lot more to me than on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got a little whistle of a guy today. It actually made my day that someone away from Fab, where it’s kind of superficial, fancied me in real life. I feel like I only get told I’m attractive on here as someone basically wants to have sex with me. It made me smile plus the fact he was good looking was a bonus

Makes you realise that having no-one look at you or an empty mailbox on here isn't really a reflection if your status in life ...theres a real world out there!

A compliment in the real world means a lot more to me than on here"

Maybe...i guess the problem here is identifying who's complimenting with a motive, and who's just complimenting because they appreciate sincerely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winked at? Several times more than on here.

'Liked'? Quite a few times, I've had a haircut/only once on here.

Messaged? Two on here. Several conversations ongoing in the real world.

I guess the 'real world' is beating fab for me atm!"

Couple more now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am as invisible in the "real world" as I am on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its Monday. I got sssssooo many emails

Someone did actually wink at me too but he said he had something in his eye.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"I got a little whistle of a guy today. It actually made my day that someone away from Fab, where it’s kind of superficial, fancied me in real life. I feel like I only get told I’m attractive on here as someone basically wants to have sex with me. It made me smile plus the fact he was good looking was a bonus

Makes you realise that having no-one look at you or an empty mailbox on here isn't really a reflection if your status in life ...theres a real world out there!

A compliment in the real world means a lot more to me than on here

Maybe...i guess the problem here is identifying who's complimenting with a motive, and who's just complimenting because they appreciate sincerely."

I agree completely. I just assume that the majority of guys have an ulterior motive behind the compliment. Sad really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was out shopping the other day and a man stopped me to give me the "I know you from somewhere line" instead of being flattered as fat old birds like me don't often get chatted up - I could only worry about him recognising me from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get complimented in the real world, unless my kids telling me i smell nice counts?

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Compliments in the real world are few and far between. On here as someone says they have an alternative motive and i take them with a pinch of salt

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill

Nobody in the real world has just say “hey” to me and then expected me to want to sleep with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’ve had winks.

Cat calls is that the same as messaged?

My girly friends complement me.

Had guys complement me before in day

To day life so not much different really

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I got a little whistle of a guy today. It actually made my day that someone away from Fab, where it’s kind of superficial, fancied me in real life. I feel like I only get told I’m attractive on here as someone basically wants to have sex with me. It made me smile plus the fact he was good looking was a bonus

Makes you realise that having no-one look at you or an empty mailbox on here isn't really a reflection if your status in life ...theres a real world out there!

A compliment in the real world means a lot more to me than on here"

Do you know what thats spot on! It feels more real and genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today I had loads of compliments from one man. But that's exceptional. I'm never complimented in the real world.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Quite a bit today, it's been lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a real world?

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

None. But tbf I don’t have my cock out in the real world (as often)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s maybe a tad inappropriate but there is this woman at work.... anyway she likes my shoes... I may have mentioned this before... today she came and sat on my desk to talk to me. There is no real reason for her to do this. She smelled delicious as well. I took all of this as a compliment (as inappropriate as it may have been!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. Nothing.

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