FabSwingers.com forum: Who loves their life?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or do you feel like you're just bumbling along and getting on with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like I am just wandering aimlessly around. Put things in place to change things but it's not am over night fix although I wish it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my life, I just hate my house XXX

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Bit of both really, Bumbling along but to our own tune when it suits.

H hands in her notice tomorrow so we will see what pans out after Xmas.

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill

I love my life right now, have a good job, I’m healthy and with the best man in the world. It hasn’t always been this way so I count my self lucky and thankful every day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel like I am just wandering aimlessly around. Put things in place to change things but it's not am over night fix although I wish it was "

But don't you think that we all need things to look forward to and hope for and that's the point?

Or do you just want everything to be the way you want it right now!?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We love our life

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

I used to, a lot, one day I will again

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bit of both really, Bumbling along but to our own tune when it suits.

H hands in her notice tomorrow so we will see what pans out after Xmas.

I'm so envious of what you both have!

I'd love to bumble along with someone I adore

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

Just wake up and wonder what’s going to happen today

And glad I’m alive

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By *isarrayTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

As much as things could be better, overall, I think my life's going quite well.

My only complaint is that it took me too long to get to this point, and it feels like there's never enough time to do everything I want to do.

I guess I just wish I knew myself better when I was younger, but at least I know my life is going in the right direction.

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

It’s currently a bit meh but I’ll get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. I love life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm healthy so anything else is additional ... I wouldn't say I'm happy with my life tho ... I just aimlessly bumble through it.

Shame really ... it could be so much more

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

This life is probably the only one I have, so often I take what comes my way and I am grateful for it..

Happy some of the time..

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Or do you feel like you're just bumbling along and getting on with it?

Yes generally bumbling along and getting on with it,there are times I do love it though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm healthy so anything else is additional ... I wouldn't say I'm happy with my life tho ... I just aimlessly bumble through it.

Shame really ... it could be so much more

I feel like this too!

But I'm not doing anything about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to love my life. (About 2 years ago although money was tight)

Right now I’m seriously unhappy but that’s due to bereavement, relationship breakdowns and moving house. Looking forward to one day feeling happy again

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I was bumbling. Now I am blossoming.

I am being me again and whilst I don't love my life I am in love with where I am now.

It's too short to be unhappy, miserable and not grab anything you want.

Take a jump.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I think I’m finally about to again after a tough year.

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

"I was bumbling. Now I am blossoming.

I am being me again and whilst I don't love my life I am in love with where I am now.

It's too short to be unhappy, miserable and not grab anything you want.

Take a jump. "

I like that

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Bit of a low at the moment but will snap out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m trying to find my way after being in a relationship for 33 years.

It’s taking time to adjust

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

I work too hard..but otherwise i would change very little..

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

So loving my life right now. Have been so low at one point never going there again. Kaz

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I just bumble along, my boys are grow men now and it makes me feel a bit redundant as we did so much together, I haven’t got any holidays or anything to look forward to planned so yeah I’m mostly on the bumble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really love my life op. It does try to skip away from me now and again, but I keep a close eye on when I need to enjoy myself. Friends help me have fun, and I enjoy learning new things, it mixes it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my life and I'm very contented

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life has thrown so much at me over the last 10 years but I always try to make the best of it. I live in a beautiful house, in a very pretty village, have an American Fridge Freezer stocked to the max, a nice warm bed, plenty of money, loving family and very special friends. I actually count myself very lucky.

There are a few things that need fixing but on the whole "mustn't grumble"

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

I'm loving mine atm xx

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I was bumbling. Now I am blossoming.

I am being me again and whilst I don't love my life I am in love with where I am now.

It's too short to be unhappy, miserable and not grab anything you want.

Take a jump.

I like that

It's not about the material things for me. I have a shitty car, no money in the bank but finally I am happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm healthy so anything else is additional ... I wouldn't say I'm happy with my life tho ... I just aimlessly bumble through it.

Shame really ... it could be so much more

I feel like this too!

But I'm not doing anything about it

I'm not sure WHAT to do about it at the moment to be honest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do

Not everything in it is exactly how we’d like it but we’re very thankful for it all.

Besides, the alternative to life doesn’t hold much appeal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m getting to the point where I’m ‘very fond’ of it.

This marks progress

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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

When I was 21 I bought a book called

HOW TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE IN 7 DAYS

By Paul McKenna

I didn’t want to

But my life was sooo shit... i had nothing to lose...

Since then, I have never thought I was just existing...

There are lots of Scientific personal development book out there.., and I’d get one that best matches the type of person you are...

And always read with an open mind...

But if you are happy just living day to day, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that...

Just try to find fun in everything you do x

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I plod along. Sometimes I really struggle and its far from easy. I don't have my parents or extended family and there are times when I don't feel like I have anyone in my corner. Life continues to throw stuff at me. However I get through each one. I portray a strong independent woman and have for many years. As such people don't seem to accept I might actually not be. I have my 3 amazing sons, I enjoy my job and I love where we live. Compared to a few years ago thats great. Sadly now I face health challenges and its scary. So its a slightly different struggle. My mantra in life is that " its always ok in the end and if its not ok, it's not the end."

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

All in all I'm pretty happy with my lot in life. Considering the start I had in life I've done quite well for myself....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I'm pretty happy with life.

If I don't like something about my life I do my best to change it and if I can't change it then I I don't worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or do you feel like you're just bumbling along and getting on with it?

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I enjoy life and look forward to everyday and you have to think positive and get on with it before your time is up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living the dream but could certainly do with more fab fun times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my life, doing good for myself, holidays 3 times a year swinging every weekend, love my job, just need a regular fb to make it better

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Or do you feel like you're just bumbling along and getting on with it?

Certain parts we all have to get on with, but overall have plenty I still want to do , so work in progress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like I am just wandering aimlessly around. Put things in place to change things but it's not am over night fix although I wish it was

But don't you think that we all need things to look forward to and hope for and that's the point?

Or do you just want everything to be the way you want it right now!?

A bit of both. Just this year has been really shit for me. Never thought at 37 I would be in a marriage that I don't want to be in, in love with a bloke who I thought was great who turns out to be a complete bastard but I still love him after he's hurt me. And living in a house that I absolutely hate.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I feel like I am just wandering aimlessly around. Put things in place to change things but it's not am over night fix although I wish it was

But don't you think that we all need things to look forward to and hope for and that's the point?

Or do you just want everything to be the way you want it right now!?

Oh we have things to aim for, we need a bigger house but not in a position to afford one where & with the outlook we currently have, the answer was to buy a bit into the field, sell what we have & then build next door. To do all that we had to save & also wait till I was 55 to release some pension funds.

So now we are finally going through the motions

So we had a target, the bumbling part is that we are not really that bothered about when we reach it, as long as we do

S&H

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I felt like I was bumbling for years in all honesty. I moved often with uni and work and never really settled or felt like I was doing anything more than playing the expected part of me.

I'm truly happy now for far too many reasons to list without sounding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bumbling along most of the time.

I have an amazing life with my hubby but I'm never truly happy! Basically I'm a miserable cow at times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be better but self determination helps.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We actually chatted about this earlier today.

We love our life as it is at the moment and hope that it stays that way.

Have been together forever and will only stop when one of us goes into the ground.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I love my life, don't enjoy my job but as I only work 3 days a week's it's bearable, everything else about my life stimulates and excites me

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Some bits are good. Some are difficult. Some are gorgeous.

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By *ak777Man
over a year ago

shaw

ups and downs ,down at the moment i was in Manchester last week seeing lots of homeless people sleeping in door ways,upset me i.v got a lot going for me i pray they will get the help they need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking for someone to bumble with me, that would be heartwarmingly splendid. But I bumble well on my own meanwhile and I don’t expect there to be someone who wants me, it’d just be a bonus.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

It fils like i just survive and not nuthing els.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't, but there's nothing wrong with my life. So then I feel kinda guilty for being unhappy when others are worse off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t complain everything’s pretty perfect, just missing that freak in the sheets for something regular.. don’t hsve to stick around to make the bed after ... ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok for some of us our lives might not Bed perfect or a bed of roses

But I always say there are people out there far worse off than most of us

When you watch children in need, stand up to cancer, comic relief etc, or walk past the homeless in the streets

Makes you think how lucky you are really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said, people always concentrate or the things they don’t have and forget what they do have and are lucky to have..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving my life right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It ticks along ok really,in a fairly unoriginal manner. A lot to be thankful for so I won't complain.

Its Not perfect but what is in this world. X

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well said, people always concentrate or the things they don’t have and forget what they do have and are lucky to have.."

Exactly

Many won't haveca warm bed to sleep in tonight

Many will be fighting a loosing battle against illnesses

I'm just happy and grateful for the life I have

It's far from perfect but I have a roof over my head, good health and a loving family

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Me, I love my life. Sometimes I'm fed up or bored but mostly I love it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's not bad and I love life, even if bits suck. I augment the more mundane aspects with my own tranquility and fun as well as keep things at my pace and heading in the right direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been as happy and content as I have been the past few years. I'm always planning something and always have something to look forward to. Have the best friends and love my crazy family. I love being me

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

"Or do you feel like you're just bumbling along and getting on with it?

Can't say I love it but I wouldn't change it.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Me

And me too

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I'm just bored with my life. Nothing to complain about but nothing exciting really.

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

I love my life I get to help people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bored of mine but list is too long lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say I’m very happy with how it is right now. I’ve had worse times but it’s best to make the most of the times you’re in. It’s the good memories you’ll cherish and you’ll only regret the opportunities you never took.

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Loving life! I don’t know exactly what direction it’s gonna go just yet but I’m having a fucking great time figuring it out!

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

live throws some things at you but so far I always managed. the more I find myself again the more I enjoy being me.

and there are so many small things that can give pleasure and can easily be overlooked. I also work with people who are chronically ill so that puts my worries into perspective a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love my life I get to help people

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life's good.

S**t happens occasionally but I put on a smile and be positive and never let stuff get me down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life's good.

S**t happens occasionally but I put on a smile and be positive and never let stuff get me down.

That’s spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life has ups and downs, but generally, I'm in profit...figuratively,not financially

Write down three small positives at the end of each day, as big or as small as you can find...things like a good cup of coffee, going to bathroom without your space being invaded by marauding children or smiling at a stranger.

Happiness is a change of mindset xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely love my life. I have had good times and bad times but always try to stay positive and appreciate how life treats me and what it gives.

There are people around the world that wish they had a life like I or we do.

We should all be nice and appreciate life more.

We only realise what you have when it’s gone. So love yourself

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

The reason we like be our lives now is because we were both the kids with the poor background.

Alchohol, poverty etc.

That’s why we don’t agree when people use it for an excuse today to cover up for society, “the bad upbringing”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my life and try to make the most of it. Yes life is a rollercoaster ride but that's what keeps it interesting. Fight your way through the bad times and you'll come out stronger, and embrace the good times. If you're unhappy about something in your life then try and find ways to change it, or change your attitude towards it.

You can't change the past so no point overthinking it and still living there, the future will happen regardless so just deal with things as and when they happen, the best thing to do is live life a day at a time.

Don't worry and be happy

Angel

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over a year ago

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

Just bumbling I suspect, but life’s not been too unkind to me so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has just made Monday morning feel like a Friday night. That's how good the posts are in here. Loved reading them.

"I love my life and try to make the most of it. Yes life is a rollercoaster ride but that's what keeps it interesting. Fight your way through the bad times and you'll come out stronger, and embrace the good times. If you're unhappy about something in your life then try and find ways to change it, or change your attitude towards it.

Don't worry and be happy

Angel "

It's all about the:

#rollercoaster

Well said and thank you for sharing Angel.

As for me...

I have a confession to make and it can't wait till Sunday so I am off to figure out if Monday morning confession is frowned upon.

Better not be

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I've done a lot with my life so far, seen and done some awesome things, I'm financially secure, I've got some great hobbies and a lot of good friends. But underneath all that I've never quite been able to shake off that feeling that I'm not 100% happy and that I'm looking for something that may or may not exist whether it's the girl I'd fall hopelessly in love with or a job I'm passionate about rather than just doing for money. I'll probably still feel the same in 20 years time...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I have fulfilled all I set out to achieve in my life and more.

I don't have any problems or worries and financially secure enough to be retired at 57. Yet, there was something missing: purpose and direction I think.

That's why I'm looking to move out of London, buy a big old run down Victorian and do it up. The other half can and has built a house from scratch so we're planning on renovating our dream home in the country.

I feel excited about life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a great healthy active life . More money would be nice but more sex would be the only thing I'd wish for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread has just made Monday morning feel like a Friday night. That's how good the posts are in here. Loved reading them.

Don't worry and be happy

Angel

It's all about the:

#rollercoaster

Well said and thank you for sharing Angel.

You're most welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or do you feel like you're just bumbling along and getting on with it?

Just plodding along waiting for the final day

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

This is hard to answer for me . I'm reasonably intelligent but I've never quite known what i wanted out of life . As Robbie Williams sings " my head speaks a language i don't understand "

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

My life is generally great. I'm fit and healthy, my wife is gorgeous, son isn't too annoying, I've got a great job and spend loads of time making music... so YES, my life truly rocks.

Cal

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yes I do now, a few months ago, maybe not so much.

Got an awesome Fab man, working again, not completely poor, got some fun things to look forward to, kids aren’t totally driving me mental so there’s definitely been worse periods.

Only negative thing is being so damn tired because of all of the above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life is good and I'm happy and back to work soon after being off after accident .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should be happy with what I have. Compared to many, I am lucky with where I am. But, I still feel unfulfilled. So therefore, at the moment I am bumbling along and getting on with it. I stay hopeful that things will change for the better

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By *hreesumguysCouple
over a year ago

leicester

"Or do you feel like you're just bumbling along and getting on with it?

Love it. Love my girl love my job and love my wood

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"Or do you feel like you're just bumbling along and getting on with it?

Bumbling along but we always have something to look forward to. Having plans always make the bumbling less of a bumble.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"Or do you feel like you're just bumbling along and getting on with it?

Life although pretty good, is in a bit of a limbo at the moment.

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Sometimes I feel like I'm just going through it, but there are bright days and I know things don't stay the same forever.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I love my life.

I have my health, fantastic (if slightly bonkers) kids, jobs I enjoy doing, the best of friends & some very special people to share it all with.

Life is good

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I m hating my life right now. Lonely depressed im just existing. If i had not fucked up again i could have been in fun relationship with someone who loved me and having great sex. Instead i threw it away. Only good thing in my life is my son and me being this negative is shit for our relationship.??well you did ask

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over a year ago

"I m hating my life right now. Lonely depressed im just existing. If i had not fucked up again i could have been in fun relationship with someone who loved me and having great sex. Instead i threw it away. Only good thing in my life is my son and me being this negative is shit for our relationship.??well you did ask"

I have a gorgeous girlfriend, home, family and lots to look forward to, and not many worries.. But I still struggle a little with the black dog as Churchill called it..

The future is certainly looking brighter for me but its been a tough ride.. Chin up fella, time is a great healer and it will get easier..

Harry..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is great at the moment.

My plans are really starting to take shape and the future is bright. Just need to find the right girl (or hareem) to enjoy it with.

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over a year ago

Im pretty happy with how mines going at the moment. Kids doing well. I feel like myself again for the first time in ages. Spending some time with someone i like a lot. There are obviously shit parts but the good out weighs the bad xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life in general is great, I find there’s always things to be thankful for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is so good.

I'm so lucky to be cherished by my man, have wonderful children and still manage a bit of sexy outdoor fun now and again...

Only blip is work's a drag. Wish I could retire

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over a year ago

"I used to love my life. (About 2 years ago although money was tight)

Right now I’m seriously unhappy but that’s due to bereavement, relationship breakdowns and moving house. Looking forward to one day feeling happy again"

Been there still a little there now , it's not easy but I'm trying to get along with it , and feeling hopefull about the future , a new beginning xx wish u all the best chick xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much everything is perfect. Even the man I'm dating is a racehorse trainer. Right now, there's nothing I would change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is truly extraordinary. It’s a most beautiful sunny, cold, crisp day, the trees are the most incredible colours on my drive to work and the music blasting makes me smile.

Things can be very tough for people but there are so many things to be thankful for

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I like most of it most days. Some things could be improved but will take time.

Money, house, relationships, etc. The good days outweigh the bad though. Fab friends keep me going as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment? It’s a ballache in parts and wonderful in others.

I just need a few things sorted and I’ll be able to move forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On balance, my life is good. Sex would make it great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I more and more come to the conclusion that I want someone different to who I have.

Yes I love my life but I have a wife who thinks it’s ok for me to be celibate as she has zero sex drive (I’m only 46 and quite young and fit and healthy)

I only come to Fabswingers to use it as porn and look at and read the profiles. Never met anyone though I have messaged a few.

Hardly ever go to the forums so.....HI

North Tyneside area (just saying??)

Best regs

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

With a few exceptions, I love my life.

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By *otchillicoupleCouple
over a year ago

all over

Loving life, living the dream with my truly wonderful hubby after both having health scares totally reevaluated our lives stopped working, moved to the most beautiful part of the country and got on with enjoying every day together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or do you feel like you're just bumbling along and getting on with it?

Its at best ok I wouldn't say I'm happy or with the one I love but doing the right thing. ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the comments - what a fantastic read

I feel pretty good today and appreciate my health and the roof over my head and money each month from a job that's bearable ( sometimes lol )

I'm trying to make other areas of my life better so I don't just bumble along.

It's exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the comments - what a fantastic read

I feel pretty good today and appreciate my health and the roof over my head and money each month from a job that's bearable ( sometimes lol )

I'm trying to make other areas of my life better so I don't just bumble along.

It's exciting

That’s a good read, long may you continue to be excited

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

If things are ok and you can see a way to make it better, that’s an excellent position to be in.

Go for it

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By *itandSteveCouple
over a year ago

Stroud

We drifted along aimlessly for a few years.. Money was OK (ish) and we liked where we lived, a few ups and downs but nothing major.. then we lost two friends our age within weeks of each other!!

Major wake up call.. firstly to be grateful for what we had, and secondly to squeeze every bit of joy out of each day..

sounds easy right?

So we sat down one weekend and decided that we needed more time, and as whilst we didn't have loads of cash, but no debt either, we could "take the air out of the tyres" so to speak.

We sold up, and now live most of the year (mortgage free) in France. Not for everyone I know, as we also considered a canal boat live aboard in the UK.

Thing was, once we took that out of the equation, what we needed to earn each month was drastically reduced. So we can do what we like (within reason). And have a bit more time (in our case) to stand and stare.

We work on line retail sites, etc with stuff we enjoy. the odd "antiques road trip' from the french markets to the UK.

We manage to only have to come back here once every 3 months or so now, but quality of life is so much better!!

Now we have just re-read this and it sounds a bit boastful I guess, but I hope it re-enforces that you can make changes (small or big) to improve your life..key is in the recognising it first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We drifted along aimlessly for a few years.. Money was OK (ish) and we liked where we lived, a few ups and downs but nothing major.. then we lost two friends our age within weeks of each other!!

Major wake up call.. firstly to be grateful for what we had, and secondly to squeeze every bit of joy out of each day..

sounds easy right?

So we sat down one weekend and decided that we needed more time, and as whilst we didn't have loads of cash, but no debt either, we could "take the air out of the tyres" so to speak.

We sold up, and now live most of the year (mortgage free) in France. Not for everyone I know, as we also considered a canal boat live aboard in the UK.

We work on line retail sites, etc with stuff we enjoy. the odd "antiques road trip' from the french markets to the UK.

We manage to only have to come back here once every 3 months or so now, but quality of life is so much better!!

Now we have just re-read this and it sounds a bit boastful I guess, but I hope it re-enforces that you can make changes (small or big) to improve your life..key is in the recognising it first x"

Not boastful at all. You're amazing!

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By *itandSteveCouple
over a year ago

Stroud

Thanks

as are you !! and we love malmesbury

we sometimes sell stuf to the shops in Tetbury.. beautiful part of the UK x

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Just cruising along through it..If something happens it happens that's just the way life goes xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the comments - what a fantastic read

I feel pretty good today and appreciate my health and the roof over my head and money each month from a job that's bearable ( sometimes lol )

I'm trying to make other areas of my life better so I don't just bumble along.

It's exciting

That’s a good read, long may you continue to be excited

Thankyou lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If things are ok and you can see a way to make it better, that’s an excellent position to be in.

Go for it

Im trying my best - that's all I can do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or do you feel like you're just bumbling along and getting on with it?

I feel the same. I was suicidal at one point years ago, there's people worse off than me. I Still feel I'm worthless nowadays but comfortable with it.

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