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By *inzi L OP TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

How many people will you be single this Christmas, will you spend it here in the UK or abroad?

No ulterior motives, just looking for ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be single but surrounded by family at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm working ... kids are at their dad's... when I get home I'll be too knackered to care what day of the week it is let alone day of the year

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By *inzi L OP TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I've been thinking about sodding off abroad... or even Edinburgh maybe.... or somewhere nice and quiet in Cornwall?

Ideas and advice most welcome....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single and loving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single,working over Christmas,will probably have Lamb curry for xmas dinner like I did last year. Absolutely loved it,totally stress free. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m single, no cock for me for Christmas XXX

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Single.

3 days off at Christmas.

3 days off at New Year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look round any shopping centre at all those crowds of people doing their christmas shopping.Do they look particularly happy and full of christmas cheer? I always feel better off out of it.

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By *inzi L OP TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

"Single and loving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single and happy

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Look round any shopping centre at all those crowds of people doing their christmas shopping.Do they look particularly happy and full of christmas cheer? I always feel better off out of it."

The lady doth protest too much, methinks.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm single and home, my Daughter lives with me. I do Christmas for her, I can't be arsed with it for me and way past the 'oh fuck single at Crimbo' mindset.

Fuck that I save a fortune and dont have to put up with people I don't click with.

It has its ups and down. I do miss Crimbo eve sex. Unwrapping my present the night before.

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

"I,m single, no cock for me for Christmas XXX"

You’re supposed to have turkey anyway

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By *inzi L OP TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

"Single,working over Christmas,will probably have Lamb curry for xmas dinner like I did last year. Absolutely loved it,totally stress free. X"

Luv the tattoo.... I had beans on toast a few years back with cheese on top... Bloody lovely!

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Single n working Xmas day so least I’ll be spending it with my crazy work mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy just being at home with my puppy, no stress, no bother, and eat, watch and do what i want.

Its just another day, i spend every other day alone !

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Single, kids with their dad this Christmas.

I'll be working all week

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

My third year in a row single, my kids are off to their Dad’s at 11am on Christmas Day and as yet I haven’t decided what to do (no other family local).

I’m thinking leftovers (we’re having our Christmas dinner on Christmas Eve), sofa, blanket, tv remote and champagne

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

On my own most of my family are dead and my mums in a nursing home

Happy Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be single but my ex will be here for Christmas Day with our boy.

Would love some Christmas fuckery though

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By *inzi L OP TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

"I,m single, no cock for me for Christmas XXX"

Traditional turkey and cranberry then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my first year of being single at Christmas in 13 years! If I'm honest...I'm dreading it! Wanted to go away on my own somewhere hot and sunny but can't this year now! Will do next year for sure! X

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By *inzi L OP TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

"Single.

3 days off at Christmas.

3 days off at New Year. "

And the 3 in between...

9 days?

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By *inzi L OP TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

"Look round any shopping centre at all those crowds of people doing their christmas shopping.Do they look particularly happy and full of christmas cheer? I always feel better off out of it."

I'll drink to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look round any shopping centre at all those crowds of people doing their christmas shopping.Do they look particularly happy and full of christmas cheer? I always feel better off out of it.

The lady doth protest too much, methinks. "

A small part of me acknowledges that one of the reasons I hate Christmas is that it's just a reminder of how lonely my bleak,sad existence really is.

But that's just one of the reasons,,,I actually do hate that hectic scramble round the shops as well.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Single. Will probably do something with my housemate if she's here.

Maybe throw a bit of a party, invite fabbers who are on their own.

Bring a bottle and a plate and we can get a buffet going. Who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m single and I’ll be with my family.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I'll be single but surrounded by family at home

Same here!

There’ll be about 10 of us around the table. Family is the best thing about Christmas. Without it it’s just a whole lot of expense and hype! X

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

single.....

will be on my own this crimbo (by choice, due to reasons I dont wish to say really).

But look forward to a fresh new year and who knows! might get lucky in 2018

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single, I'll be with the parents and the cat. I tend to sleep over at theirs on Christmas Eve at least.

Though I'll be working a lot around the Christmas period.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Single. Perfect.

Means I can get wankered

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Single. Will probably do something with my housemate if she's here.

Maybe throw a bit of a party, invite fabbers who are on their own.

Bring a bottle and a plate and we can get a buffet going. Who knows."

Until the 27th then you are with me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single

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By *-Little-Mz-Minx-xWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I won't be alone....as will be with family for most of Christmas.....however I will be single.... so no special stuffing for me.... but thank goodness for Ann Summers and Lovehoney hey...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single... will be with family for the actual day, but thinking about buggering off somewhere for the rest of my time off

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Single and lonely. I'll obviously be with my boys but as its just us it feels like any other day . Only its worse with all the expectations and the being force fed how wonderful and happy the whole thing is meant to be.

I make sure they enjoy it though, so thats all that matters

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By *-Little-Mz-Minx-xWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Single... will be with family for the actual day, but thinking about buggering off somewhere for the rest of my time off"

Now that sounds like a plan..... I might consider that myself....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single... will be with family for the actual day, but thinking about buggering off somewhere for the rest of my time off

Now that sounds like a plan..... I might consider that myself....

The question is where to go though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single , not sure what to do

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By *cedHoneyWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Single this year. Probably will see family.

Hardest time of year to be single IMO! Harder then Valentine's Day imo. Plus loads of people get engaged over xmas so Ive always got mates "making announcements".

Oh well, I'll try and enjoy it anyway!

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

"Single this year. Probably will see family.

Hardest time of year to be single IMO! Harder then Valentine's Day imo. Plus loads of people get engaged over xmas so Ive always got mates "making announcements".

Oh well, I'll try and enjoy it anyway!"

It will be all over Facebook oh look I’ve got engaged gets on my nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Plus loads of people get engaged over xmas so Ive always got mates "making announcements".

This is why I send out 'Merry xmas' messages on Crimbo eve and then avoid all social media for the next few days

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"Single this year. Probably will see family.

Hardest time of year to be single IMO! Harder then Valentine's Day imo. Plus loads of people get engaged over xmas so Ive always got mates "making announcements".

Oh well, I'll try and enjoy it anyway!

It will be all over Facebook oh look I’ve got engaged gets on my nerves

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I deactivated my Facebook last weekend as I was so fed up of the I'm so perfect contests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad I don’t do social media

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the first year in a good while that I won't be single at Christmas but tbh it never bothered me before as I spend it with family and friends regardless

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

Darlaston

Single and working all over Christmas but on the bright side I get New Year's Eve and New Year's Day of x

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

"Single this year. Probably will see family.

Hardest time of year to be single IMO! Harder then Valentine's Day imo. Plus loads of people get engaged over xmas so Ive always got mates "making announcements".

Oh well, I'll try and enjoy it anyway!

It will be all over Facebook oh look I’ve got engaged gets on my nerves

I deactivated my Facebook last weekend as I was so fed up of the I'm so perfect contests. "

We are so happy posts for 6 months or so then nothing does this mean they split up and now hate each other

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By *-Little-Mz-Minx-xWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Single... will be with family for the actual day, but thinking about buggering off somewhere for the rest of my time off

Now that sounds like a plan..... I might consider that myself....

The question is where to go though

Anywhere lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single & will be spending it at home, out in the countryside & alone .......... Bliss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't be alone....as will be with family for most of Christmas.....however I will be single.... so no special stuffing for me.... but thank goodness for Ann Summers and Lovehoney hey...

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my sage & onion is to die for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single here, but only because i'm a widow. For the first xmas since she died i'm not going to mum & dad's, not going to my sisters and not going to a friends.......................i'm fucking off to Morocco and fully intend to have a bloody good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda single, but will have close family around me for a few days.

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

"Single here, but only because i'm a widow. For the first xmas since she died i'm not going to mum & dad's, not going to my sisters and not going to a friends.......................i'm fucking off to Morocco and fully intend to have a bloody good time

Nice

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By *inzi L OP TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I've been thinking about Gran Canaria for xmas and new year.... if not, I think it'll be Cornwall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single....finish work on 9th Dec for 3 weeks, fuck off to Fuerteventura on the 9th for 10 days, home just in time for my 40th

then Xmas with family.

I need to get myself off this shelf it's bloody lonely!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Single but not alone this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t be alone this year

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

I love being single I can go visit my family and mine alone for as long as I want

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Thank fuck I am not the only one who works over Christmas I thought I was weird doing that, as I have no family my mates usually invite me round at Christmas and by working it spares their feelings by not having to tell them their families do my head in

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'll be single again, for the 4'th year running, last year ma mate from across the hall cooked dinner (I bought it and he slaved over the stove), I think the rolls are reversed this year though

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Single for Christmas and I’m ok with that

I’ll be home having a quiet one with the kids

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

I’ll probably still be single.. and I’m working Christmas so it doesn’t really matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m single for the second Christmas, the morning with my kids and parents then the afternoon is all mine to fall into my usual food coma... absolute bliss

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'll be waking up again by myself xmas day as I have done for the last good few year's,then my youngest will be here mid morning,open her presents then off to my sister and her family til Boxing day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I plan to spend a splendid solitary Christmas like last year, bar the odd compulsory short visit to nearby relations, eating, drinking, reading and watching what I like. Bliss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single for the 7th year but not alone. Have my daughter to do all the xmas stuff with, the xmas eve box, watching films, xmas day my mum and sister come up early to watch her opening presents, do the rounds for an hour around our grandparents then dinner and over to my friends where our daughters run wild and I eat homemade shortbread dipped in melted galaxy!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Single for the 7th year but not alone. Have my daughter to do all the xmas stuff with, the xmas eve box, watching films, xmas day my mum and sister come up early to watch her opening presents, do the rounds for an hour around our grandparents then dinner and over to my friends where our daughters run wild and I eat homemade shortbread dipped in melted galaxy! "

That last bit sounds the absolute shit. (That's a good thing).

Is the shortbread thin and snappy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That last bit sounds the absolute shit. (That's a good thing).

Is the shortbread thin and snappy?"

Nah her auntie makes it for me every year and they're in the shape of xmas trees, it's quite thick actually but it's stunning and my friend melts galaxy in a bowl for me to dip!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

That last bit sounds the absolute shit. (That's a good thing).

Is the shortbread thin and snappy?

Nah her auntie makes it for me every year and they're in the shape of xmas trees, it's quite thick actually but it's stunning and my friend melts galaxy in a bowl for me to dip!"

I use Christmas for cooking new things. This sounds amazing for crimbo night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will be single this Christmas, first time since 2010.

Will be with family this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single for ten years so why change it, spending it with my kids and then my mum and dad, I’ve also done all my Xmas shopping, did it all online in one hour, I hope you are all proud of me

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Hopeing ill be working.

If not don't no.

Just wotch tv i gess

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Seems a lot of lonely bitter people around. Why should other people's happiness reflect on you?

I remember going back to work after my son died. Three of us had gone on maternity leave together. I found out my boss had told them not to visit with their babies: assuming I'd be upset. I was very upset...for them!

Their babies weren't mine! The hundred of babies I'd seen since he died weren't mine. I could care less about babies that weren't mine. My partner loathes Christmas, my children have families of their own and my closest relative lives abroad.

I will spend Christmas with a man who will be glued to his computer ordering boiler parts. I will reminisce on joyous Christmas pasts without envy of others, bitterness or rancour and strive to see how I can improve my lot!

Find your own Christmas cheer you miserable buggers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newly single....

I hate Shitmas anyway for the most part...family are all over the place this year so spending it with one of my best mates, few drinks, some decent food (cooked by moi) and a movie or 4...actually looking forward to it being a non event and just getting to chill with my buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many people will you be single this Christmas, will you spend it here in the UK or abroad?

No ulterior motives, just looking for ideas.

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yes single at Xmas and not a problem at all and will see family over the Xmas period with lots of sports and no alcohol Haha!

lots of shopping thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single for the 4th year.. i usually work and let my child spend it with his dad - he has family so makes more sense i guess.

Very depressing time of year for me would rather sleep through it.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

" Why should other people's happiness reflect on you?

Find your own Christmas cheer you miserable buggers!"

Say what?

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By *ittle earsMan
over a year ago

south oxfordshire

"Single for the 4th year.. i usually work and let my child spend it with his dad - he has family so makes more sense i guess.

Very depressing time of year for me would rather sleep through it."

9th single year for me - I’d love to sleep through it all to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single and childless and couldn't be happier! Christmas is a time to be grateful for what we do have, not what we don't. I'm be spending Christmas in Budapest, visiting a friend. Then back Boxing Day to spend with family.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Single and childless and couldn't be happier! Christmas is a time to be grateful for what we do have, not what we don't. I'm be spending Christmas in Budapest, visiting a friend. Then back Boxing Day to spend with family.

I spend everyday grateful for what I have rather than what I don't.

It never used to be that way.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

After a miserable Christmas last year that stemmed from a break up. I have given my head a wobble I have a new partner who will be going big at Christmas this year with her family down south. I am invited but have to work so I’m staying at home for Xmas day and Boxing Day it’s gonna suck but life is on the up.

I’m thankful for the way my life has changed and thankful I’m not eating turkey.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Thank you!!! What I was getting at!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I spend everyday grateful for what I have rather than what I don't.

It never used to be that way."

I can understand that.

I nearly died giving birth to my son. When we both survived I'd never known such happiness. Eight weeks after his birth I woke up: he didn't.

I've wasted many years bemoaning what I didn't have instead of being thankful for what I do have. It makes life so much more enjoyable.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"After a miserable Christmas last year that stemmed from a break up. I have given my head a wobble I have a new partner who will be going big at Christmas this year with her family down south. I am invited but have to work so I’m staying at home for Xmas day and Boxing Day it’s gonna suck but life is on the up.

I’m thankful for the way my life has changed and thankful I’m not eating turkey. "

With your positive attitude I wish you a good one!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I spend everyday grateful for what I have rather than what I don't.

It never used to be that way.

I can understand that.

I nearly died giving birth to my son. When we both survived I'd never known such happiness. Eight weeks after his birth I woke up: he didn't.

I've wasted many years bemoaning what I didn't have instead of being thankful for what I do have. It makes life so much more enjoyable. "

My Daughter is a miracle and wasn't expected to survive. She did and I saw other babies die in scbu. I spent the first 3 weeks thinking why me but it changed at a click of a finger. 10 days later I took her home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not single but other than first thing in the morning won't see my girlfriend probably until late on boxing day. I've spent a few xhristmases abroad previously and also volunteered, I've also woeked boxing day in recent years to take pressure off myself amd my colleagues when we go back in.

I'm an aethiest amd don't celebrate Christmas. I'm also estranged from my family (and general wisdom is that Christmas should really highlight that) and my views on the gross festival of greed and consumerism that are the weeks and months approaching Christmas are well documented. But I am very glad that I always enjoy Christmas day (this year, I'll run, I'll cook and ill enjoy Dr Who!) and am also glad it doesn't prompt the same feelings of loneliness and bitterness that appear in some of these comments. I enjoy nothibg more than seeing other people's happiness and for that reason alone Christmas day can be pretty ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend everyday grateful for what I have rather than what I don't.

It never used to be that way.

I can understand that.

I nearly died giving birth to my son. When we both survived I'd never known such happiness. Eight weeks after his birth I woke up: he didn't.

I've wasted many years bemoaning what I didn't have instead of being thankful for what I do have. It makes life so much more enjoyable. "

I'm sorry about your loss. My mum lost my brother when he was 1 year old (before I was born). She always said to me when I've been sad, just put a smile on your face and walk out the door, one day you realise you're not faking it anymore.

The world needs more happier people. If you're unhappy being single, I don't believe that's a healthy mind to be in when meeting someone. I'm not looking for another half of me, I am whole already and falling for someone will just enhance my happiness.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It is about the kids really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single, but will be a mad day of running around.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm not single but other than first thing in the morning won't see my girlfriend probably until late on boxing day. I've spent a few xhristmases abroad previously and also volunteered, I've also woeked boxing day in recent years to take pressure off myself amd my colleagues when we go back in.

My sentiments exactly!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I am whole already and falling for someone will just enhance my happiness. "

Thank you: this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be single

Spending it with family members which I love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single and on my one for most of Christmas, so I'm going to watch all the Die Hard films.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single and on my one for most of Christmas, so I'm going to watch all the Die Hard films. "

You should have organised a Christmas tea party

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I am going to sob into my mince pies or go for a walk on the beach. Undecided.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

First Christmas alone when daughter was 3 was tough. But it's got better over the years. This will be my 14th single Christmas.

Daughter is working in the evening but it doesn't bother me.

We've got into our own routine of Christmas Eve coziness, long lie Christmas morning, exchange gifts (don't go mad in an effort to compete with the ridiculous piles on fb, which usually indicate huge debt), inc a few silly gifts, eg last few years I get daughter a retro board game that we play together sometimes making own daft rules to make it more fun. We watch the tv/films we want to and eat what we want inc some treats.

We love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single,usually work Xmas on rail jobs,try n complete strava festive 500 cycling challenge,fell ill last year,working few days at Xmas allows me most of Jan off

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By *unguyfortiesMan
over a year ago

north east

Single and not sure what to do yet. My little girl is with her mum this year, so it's just me until 27th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been thinking about sodding off abroad... or even Edinburgh maybe.... or somewhere nice and quiet in Cornwall?

Ideas and advice most welcome...."

Isle of Lewis for some spectacular storms

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"My third year in a row single, my kids are off to their Dad’s at 11am on Christmas Day and as yet I haven’t decided what to do (no other family local).

I’m thinking leftovers (we’re having our Christmas dinner on Christmas Eve), sofa, blanket, tv remote and champagne

See now if you are closer we could have spent the day together.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Single and hopefully abroad as I was last year too. Bad enough spending days off on your own without having every advert rubbing your facein it that you're on your for.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Single and hopefully abroad as I was last year too. Bad enough spending days off on your own without having every advert rubbing your facein it that you're on your for."

Is Christmas only celebrated in the UK then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily single. Spending Christmas with my daughter , granddaughter and my son if be gets leave from the army.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Ok some of you need to cheer up and be grateful for what you have.

Life, you have life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’ll avoid the fab forum on Xmas day.

More joy watching the Christmas channel movies

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Seems a lot of lonely bitter people around. Why should other people's happiness reflect on you? !"

Cos sum times you carnt help it.

Wen you see others so happy with that 1 thing you crave to have with all your hart and for so long but for wot ever resoun you don't/carnt have it. But everyone else seems to get/have it so easy, it begins to fill your the Onley one with out.

as a side efect it gets realey quite depressing.

I've always seen Christmas as a famley thing.

For menny years now ive not liked Christmas cos I have no famley at all !

Everyone i no and i meen everyone dus have famley.

Wether its Thar parents or partners. Or its Thar own famley with thar own kids.

Wen your surrounded with people so happy with that 1 thing you crave you just carnt help but fill sorry for your self.

This make sence ??

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Seems a lot of lonely bitter people around. Why should other people's happiness reflect on you? !

Cos sum times you carnt help it.

as a side efect it gets realey quite depressing.

I've always seen Christmas as a famley thing.

For menny years now ive not liked Christmas cos I have no famley at all !

Everyone i no and i meen everyone dus have famley.

Wether its Thar parents or partners. Or its Thar own famley with thar own kids.

Wen your surrounded with people so happy with that 1 thing you crave you just carnt help but fill sorry for your self.

This make sence ??

It certainly does to me _eeside! Hopefully your dream will come true one day for you. I struggled to have my own children the devastation for me was awful,especially when others around you found it easy to achieve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok some of you need to cheer up and be grateful for what you have.

Life, you have life."

And Die hard.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Seems a lot of lonely bitter people around. Why should other people's happiness reflect on you? !

Cos sum times you carnt help it.

as a side efect it gets realey quite depressing.

I've always seen Christmas as a famley thing.

For menny years now ive not liked Christmas cos I have no famley at all !

Everyone i no and i meen everyone dus have famley.

Wether its Thar parents or partners. Or its Thar own famley with thar own kids.

Wen your surrounded with people so happy with that 1 thing you crave you just carnt help but fill sorry for your self.

This make sence ??

I've lost my hair. It was the only part of me I felt was "perfect". I look at shampoo adverts, notice the glossy locks around me. My son-in-laws all have thick flowing locks and I do sigh and think life is unfair.

I don't however feel bitter and jealous and rejoice if I see someone with a bald patch.

My point is it's normal and understandable to sad and long for something you want without wishing ill on others.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Ok some of you need to cheer up and be grateful for what you have.

Life, you have life.

And Die hard.

And food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok some of you need to cheer up and be grateful for what you have.

Life, you have life.

And Die hard.

And food "

And vodka

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Ok some of you need to cheer up and be grateful for what you have.

Life, you have life."

Work

Eat

Sleep

Spend time alown

Repeet.

Wot a grate life that is

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Seems a lot of lonely bitter people around. Why should other people's happiness reflect on you? !

Cos sum times you carnt help it.

as a side efect it gets realey quite depressing.

I've always seen Christmas as a famley thing.

For menny years now ive not liked Christmas cos I have no famley at all !

Everyone i no and i meen everyone dus have famley.

Wether its Thar parents or partners. Or its Thar own famley with thar own kids.

Wen your surrounded with people so happy with that 1 thing you crave you just carnt help but fill sorry for your self.

This make sence ??

I don't however feel bitter and jealous and rejoice if I see someone with a bald patch.

My point is it's normal and understandable to sad and long for something you want without wishing ill on others."

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By *inzi L OP TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I've been thinking about Gran Canaria for xmas and new year.... if not, I think it'll be Cornwall.

... Looks like it's Cornwall and a mini tour of England! South west, south coast, south east, north east, north west and back to normality.

Any offers of a cuppa along the way will all be gratefully received and considered, depending on the route I'm driving... which hasn't been planned!

I'll be filling up my tin tent and sodding off, most things turn to shite when you plan em anyway; So I thought, no plans, no routes, no forward thinking. Just fill it up and off to go, the only choice I have to make is xmas and New Year or from the 26th onwards to the January 1st.... next year?

My life is just so full of complications!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single and apart from dineer with my dad, I spend the rest of xmas alone.

This year I'm jetting off to New Jersey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single, spending the day the same as any other, doing what I like during the day and seeing my fwb in the evening. I am not religious so it means nothing to me and commercialism has pretty much killed any enthusiasm I may have had for it due to being a grandparent. I would hate to see what it would be like if I watched tv!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Single every Christmas lol. Spending the day with my sister and her family this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single.

On call.

Hoping for an emergency.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Single. Will probably do something with my housemate if she's here.

Maybe throw a bit of a party, invite fabbers who are on their own.

Bring a bottle and a plate and we can get a buffet going. Who knows.

Until the 27th then you are with me x"

I can't fucking wait hahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaa

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Single and on my one for most of Christmas, so I'm going to watch all the Die Hard films. "

I think you should come round mine when me n Honey get back from hers. We can have kebab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my mum and my two boys. A crack a lacking dinner and i get to watch cheesy telly whilst my boys play happily.

Perfect.

I work for a care company and so many old folk are left alone at Christmas, makes me sad but makes me count my blessings.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"How many people will you be single this Christmas, will you spend it here in the UK or abroad?

No ulterior motives, just looking for ideas.

I've been single for the past 30 and I either spend them working, lying about working (so I can be on my own) or with family. I adore my children and grandchildren and the time I spend with them is utterly precious but going home to my place and shutting the door behind me is heavenly.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Yep. Will see my boy then the rest of the day...not much. Seaside walk maybe.

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By *inzi L OP TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

So, How did it go?

After watching the weather and trying to make my mind up (there was also quite a lot of trying to sober up going on at this point too), I headed north, Blackpool? I know, that's nowhere near Cornwall but I never said I had a definite plan either

The weather was.... a little cooler than normal and bit more breezy with the occasional rain shower

and if you believe that I'm also looking for donations towards the blind mole society too!

lol

Despite the weather, which let's be honest; What do you expect for the last few days of 2017 in Northwest UK, Indian summer?

All in all, I had a great time and I will be visiting again in the near future... I might even actually stay in my campervan, apparently they're great for dogging!

It's a joke btw, only 1 person will relate to it and grin, if they see it.

Yep, I'll be back... and I can't wait.

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