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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Happy International Men's Day.

Look after your head, heart and bodies.

Check those balls when you next have a fiddle, stop being with people who make you miserable, spend time on your mind and find your peaceful place.

Please share your tips for being a tip top man in this often difficult world.

Men, whatever it can feel like on here at times, know that most of us love and even like men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy International Men's Day.

Look after your head, heart and bodies.

Check those balls when you next have a fiddle, stop being with people who make you miserable, spend time on your mind and find your peaceful place.

Please share your tips for being a tip top man in this often difficult world.

Men, whatever it can feel like on here at times, know that most of us love and even like men.

"

Is it, does it mean, we get offers from ladies for a meet today with out having to send 'fancy a fuck' message?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good message, especially considering what happened to lil peep the other day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy International Richard Herring Day!

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Good message, especially considering what happened to lil peep the other day"

We all die but men do seem to manage this in ways that sadden the world.

I was counting up the people who had killed themselves in my life and then I added in alcohol, substances and those who just didn't go to the doctor when they had a persistent pain or cough. Men are in the majority.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Happy International Men's Day.

Look after your head, heart and bodies.

Check those balls when you next have a fiddle, stop being with people who make you miserable, spend time on your mind and find your peaceful place.

Please share your tips for being a tip top man in this often difficult world.

Men, whatever it can feel like on here at times, know that most of us love and even like men.

Is it, does it mean, we get offers from ladies for a meet today with out having to send 'fancy a fuck' message?. "

I can't promise that but I hope you get one.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Happy International Richard Herring Day!"

The comedian?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy International Richard Herring Day!

The comedian? "

Yeah, he spends International Women's day telling wankpuffins when International Men's Day is on Twitter ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good message, especially considering what happened to lil peep the other day"

If anyone is sad and needs someone to talk to I have no mail filters. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a fuck, men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy a fuck, men? "

Stop sending us Flapchats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy a fuck, men?

Stop sending us Flapchats!

"

That’s not me! I send flapjacks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy a fuck, men?

Stop sending us Flapchats!

That’s not me! I send flapjacks..."

Oh, now flapjacks I quite enjoy. Especially when they're nicely golden honeyed and dipped in chocolate ^_^

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Fancy a fuck, men?

Stop sending us Flapchats!

"

Is that a new social media thing?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Good message, especially considering what happened to lil peep the other day

If anyone is sad and needs someone to talk to I have no mail filters. x"

That's a very generous offer. She's a good listener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top tip.... be honest

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Top tip.... be honest "

With yourself and others.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Sometimes being a bloke is tough.

I mean being a woman can be tough all the time, but when men have troubles we're not used to it and usually deal with them badly.

Men: Being a bit crap for 200,000 years and getting no better at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good message, especially considering what happened to lil peep the other day

If anyone is sad and needs someone to talk to I have no mail filters. x

That's a very generous offer. She's a good listener.

"

Thank you, that really means a lot.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Sometimes being a bloke is tough.

I mean being a woman can be tough all the time, but when men have troubles we're not used to it and usually deal with them badly.

Men: Being a bit crap for 200,000 years and getting no better at it "

It's true, being a man can be tough. The way we think about, relate to, talk about being a man is ingrained early. If you're not comfortable in that mould then you're accused of not being enough of a man. We all have to address this.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"stop being with people who make you miserable"

I would love to but there are so few opportunities for "professional" hermits these days.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"stop being with people who make you miserable

I would love to but there are so few opportunities for "professional" hermits these days. "

Carve out time to be the hermit you want to be. Reducing toxicity is good for you.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Sometimes being a bloke is tough.

I mean being a woman can be tough all the time, but when men have troubles we're not used to it and usually deal with them badly.

Men: Being a bit crap for 200,000 years and getting no better at it "

speak for yourself... I’m great at being crap.

Piece of advice tho. Not one to put under strengths on your Cv.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes being a bloke is tough.

I mean being a woman can be tough all the time, but when men have troubles we're not used to it and usually deal with them badly.

Men: Being a bit crap for 200,000 years and getting no better at it

It's true, being a man can be tough. The way we think about, relate to, talk about being a man is ingrained early. If you're not comfortable in that mould then you're accused of not being enough of a man. We all have to address this.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

200000 years

Oh am I way behind the evolutionary curve.

What it doesn't get any better...

Digs hole at back of man cave to curl up and sleep for 199999 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you, Lickety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been dealing with depression and anxiety for a few years now.

Only a few weeks ago I had the bottle to go and seek help, i was completely rock bottom and couldnt see a way out.

speaking with a therapist really helped me out, I still have really bad days, but I'm certainly feeling a lot better, but have a long way to go.

To guys out there in the same boat, don't bottle it up, go out and get the help you need.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I've been dealing with depression and anxiety for a few years now.

Only a few weeks ago I had the bottle to go and seek help, i was completely rock bottom and couldnt see a way out.

speaking with a therapist really helped me out, I still have really bad days, but I'm certainly feeling a lot better, but have a long way to go.

To guys out there in the same boat, don't bottle it up, go out and get the help you need.

"

The best thing about rock bottom is that you can only go up or sideways (unless you want to make things even harder for yourself). I'm glad you found a way to go up. Thank you for sharing.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Nice post lickety

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"stop being with people who make you miserable

I would love to but there are so few opportunities for "professional" hermits these days. "

Oh, I beg to differ.

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

for Christmas..........it's good to go along to one of the many Charities and shelters that help the less fortunate.........and when you see what some people have to go though and most of them are still quite upbeat.......it would probably make you think that maybe your problems are not as bad as you thought they were.........and by helping others it would make you feel good about yourself.....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've missed it.... Bugger

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