FabSwingers.com forum: First meet sex or no sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Men folk, if you were looking to date someone with the view to a relationship, taking into account you met that person off here so you may already have preconceived ideas about the woman. Would sex the first time you meet make you not want to take things any further? Should I hold back, just suck him off and stick my tongue his bum, would that leave him gagging for more or not.

Opinions please...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it all comes down to chemistry, it it all goes well then he should want to keep in touch regardless if you did anything or not

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

If he gets freaked by your sexual appetite then is he the right guy for you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If he gets freaked by your sexual appetite then is he the right guy for you ? "

My friend reckons that I shouldn't give it up and if he gets pissed because he didn't get sex then he's not the one for me. Need to make sure we both fancy each other first, not even met the poor guy yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i was dating someone and it went well then I’d have no issue with sex on th first date.

I’d also have no issue with not sex on the first date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he gets freaked by your sexual appetite then is he the right guy for you ?

It’s never an expectation. It goes through your mind to wonder if it might happen, but I just go with the flow. As for being freaked out by your sexual appetite. It would be a turn on ! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a way with words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had sex on the first date, granted I didn’t meet him on here but I went on to marry him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it depends on how long you've been talking and what that talk has consisted off. I wouldn't go into any 1st me expecting sex, because that spark just might not be there for it. Do id say of it feel right do it, if it doesn't then don't. Either way you'll find out if he was the right or wrong guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're thinking of sucking him off, sticking your tongue up his arsehole & you're wondering if having sex on a 1st date is a turn off....

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"If he gets freaked by your sexual appetite then is he the right guy for you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All down to chemistry.

I slept with hubs within 2 hrs of setting eyes on him and we have been together 14 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try talking to him seeing as compatibility in interests and outlook will cement a relationship far better than sex alone ?

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Men don’t give a fuck as long as they get to cum!

Any date if I fancy them I always try to shag the girl. I quite like it when they don’t let me shag them straight away.

The way I see it, is however Long it takes you to shag a girl is the same amount of time it will take anyone else.

For example if she doesn’t sleep with you for a month you can be fairly sure she wouldn’t cheat on you if she’s away for a few days.

If she shags immediately then she could shag anyone else immediately too.

Guess fabs a bit different cos we’re all here to get our rocks off!

I’d be well happy getting sucked off on a first date! One day I’m taking you on a date ms Wilkes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My sexual appetite isn't that big, I've done almost two years with no sex before. It's already been 3 and bit months since I last had sex or any contact with a man.

See it's the preconceived idea that women on here are all sex hungry vulva vultures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're thinking of sucking him off, sticking your tongue up his arsehole & you're wondering if having sex on a 1st date is a turn off....

Maybe in time to come the “come in for coffee” will switch from code for sex to....I’m going to tongue fuck your bullet hole

Touch ya toes sunshine

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Miss Wilkes, do whatever you feel like doing on the day. Chaste kiss on the cheek, curtsey and a hair flick or ruining him for the rest of the week.

Enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha I do like your posts Miss W.

Do what you want to do, don't worry about his preconceived ideas. If he's the type to fuck you and forget you then making him wait isn't going to make any difference to that.

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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

Love how you worded your question...

I will always go with the flow... and I have no problem waiting for sex to happen... even if it’s 10 dates in... but equally... if it happens on the first date... I never judge...

I personally don’t think there should be any rules when it comes to stuff like that...

Don’t think, just let the wind take you, and see where you end up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're thinking of sucking him off, sticking your tongue up his arsehole & you're wondering if having sex on a 1st date is a turn off....

* and the best comment award goes to ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haha I do like your posts Miss W.

Do what you want to do, don't worry about his preconceived ideas. If he's the type to fuck you and forget you then making him wait isn't going to make any difference to that. "

Ahhh I do bloody like you as well, you've got a lovely face on you, humour me, you would marry me if you lived close? I cook and clean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men don’t give a fuck as long as they get to cum!

Any date if I fancy them I always try to shag the girl. I quite like it when they don’t let me shag them straight away.

The way I see it, is however Long it takes you to shag a girl is the same amount of time it will take anyone else.

For example if she doesn’t sleep with you for a month you can be fairly sure she wouldn’t cheat on you if she’s away for a few days.

If she shags immediately then she could shag anyone else immediately too.

Guess fabs a bit different cos we’re all here to get our rocks off!

I’d be well happy getting sucked off on a first date! One day I’m taking you on a date ms Wilkes!

That's clever with the time it takes to fuck thing. He's away a lot with work as well so would be good for him to know I can keep my clit in my tent.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"My sexual appetite isn't that big, I've done almost two years with no sex before. It's already been 3 and bit months since I last had sex or any contact with a man.

See it's the preconceived idea that women on here are all sex hungry vulva vultures. "
oops

*slinks off, tail between legs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha I do like your posts Miss W.

Do what you want to do, don't worry about his preconceived ideas. If he's the type to fuck you and forget you then making him wait isn't going to make any difference to that.

Ahhh I do bloody like you as well, you've got a lovely face on you, humour me, you would marry me if you lived close? I cook and clean. "

Marry? Unlikely. But that's due more to my previous marriage and not a reflection on you. I do t think I'd marry again at this stage.

Date? Yeah, probably. Depends how we got on in the real life. Plus you're hot and a bit of a freak, so that's always a bonus.

Ps, I can also cook and clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he gets freaked by your sexual appetite then is he the right guy for you ?

This

is the way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 5 year relationship with someone I hooked up with on a night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a 5 year relationship with someone I hooked up with on a night out.

why rules are worthless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see if I wanted more I certainly wouldn’t give away the goodies on the first date and to be fair even if I was meeting on here I want a social first so they don’t get anything on the social meet and in a club I don’t fuck others I will only soft play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haha I do like your posts Miss W.

Do what you want to do, don't worry about his preconceived ideas. If he's the type to fuck you and forget you then making him wait isn't going to make any difference to that.

Ahhh I do bloody like you as well, you've got a lovely face on you, humour me, you would marry me if you lived close? I cook and clean.

Marry? Unlikely. But that's due more to my previous marriage and not a reflection on you. I do t think I'd marry again at this stage.

Date? Yeah, probably. Depends how we got on in the real life. Plus you're hot and a bit of a freak, so that's always a bonus.

Ps, I can also cook and clean.

Yes, you could do all the cooking, I'd be fit as a flea in no time, I'd be able to help with the dirty bulk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i was dating someone and it went well then I’d have no issue with sex on th first date.

I’d also have no issue with not sex on the first date

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Once went on a date with a girl and at the end of the night she gave me the option to sleep with her that night and we wouldn’t see each other again or I could not sleep with her and date her instead.

I wanted to fuck her immediately then date her. I fucked her that night and true to her word that was it! I’m still friends with her kind of but she won’t go on a date with me again!

Little head controlled the big head! Defo made the wrong choice!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

All the people I've ended up dating long term/marrying, I've slept with before any dating took place.....

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

"Once went on a date with a girl and at the end of the night she gave me the option to sleep with her that night and we wouldn’t see each other again or I could not sleep with her and date her instead.

I wanted to fuck her immediately then date her. I fucked her that night and true to her word that was it! I’m still friends with her kind of but she won’t go on a date with me again!

Little head controlled the big head! Defo made the wrong choice! "

To be honest, I'd have fucked her off when she said that and not bothered doing either. She sounds like she'd be a proper pain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wanted to fuck her immediately then date her. I fucked her that night and true to her word that was it! I’m still friends with her kind of but she won’t go on a date with me again!

Little head controlled the big head! Defo made the wrong choice! "

That's not really fair. That's putting you under massive pressure to perform.

I hate the thought of having only one shot to impress.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Miss Wilkes

Go with the flow, tease him and leave him wanting more. No sex first night. He will be back..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha I do like your posts Miss W.

Do what you want to do, don't worry about his preconceived ideas. If he's the type to fuck you and forget you then making him wait isn't going to make any difference to that.

Ahhh I do bloody like you as well, you've got a lovely face on you, humour me, you would marry me if you lived close? I cook and clean.

Marry? Unlikely. But that's due more to my previous marriage and not a reflection on you. I do t think I'd marry again at this stage.

Date? Yeah, probably. Depends how we got on in the real life. Plus you're hot and a bit of a freak, so that's always a bonus.

Ps, I can also cook and clean.

Yes, you could do all the cooking, I'd be fit as a flea in no time, I'd be able to help with the dirty bulk!"

Deal!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haha I do like your posts Miss W.

Do what you want to do, don't worry about his preconceived ideas. If he's the type to fuck you and forget you then making him wait isn't going to make any difference to that.

Ahhh I do bloody like you as well, you've got a lovely face on you, humour me, you would marry me if you lived close? I cook and clean.

Marry? Unlikely. But that's due more to my previous marriage and not a reflection on you. I do t think I'd marry again at this stage.

Date? Yeah, probably. Depends how we got on in the real life. Plus you're hot and a bit of a freak, so that's always a bonus.

Ps, I can also cook and clean.

Yes, you could do all the cooking, I'd be fit as a flea in no time, I'd be able to help with the dirty bulk!

Deal! "

Be like having my own personal Kahl Drogo, fuck your face is so pleasant to look it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted to fuck her immediately then date her. I fucked her that night and true to her word that was it! I’m still friends with her kind of but she won’t go on a date with me again!

Little head controlled the big head! Defo made the wrong choice! "

Sounds like a control freak, least you got a fuck..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha I do like your posts Miss W.

Do what you want to do, don't worry about his preconceived ideas. If he's the type to fuck you and forget you then making him wait isn't going to make any difference to that.

Ahhh I do bloody like you as well, you've got a lovely face on you, humour me, you would marry me if you lived close? I cook and clean.

Marry? Unlikely. But that's due more to my previous marriage and not a reflection on you. I do t think I'd marry again at this stage.

Date? Yeah, probably. Depends how we got on in the real life. Plus you're hot and a bit of a freak, so that's always a bonus.

Ps, I can also cook and clean.

Yes, you could do all the cooking, I'd be fit as a flea in no time, I'd be able to help with the dirty bulk!

Deal!

Be like having my own personal Kahl Drogo, fuck your face is so pleasant to look it!"

Oh you sweet talker!

Stop looking at my face anyway. You've got a potential man on the scene

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haha I do like your posts Miss W.

Do what you want to do, don't worry about his preconceived ideas. If he's the type to fuck you and forget you then making him wait isn't going to make any difference to that.

Ahhh I do bloody like you as well, you've got a lovely face on you, humour me, you would marry me if you lived close? I cook and clean.

Marry? Unlikely. But that's due more to my previous marriage and not a reflection on you. I do t think I'd marry again at this stage.

Date? Yeah, probably. Depends how we got on in the real life. Plus you're hot and a bit of a freak, so that's always a bonus.

Ps, I can also cook and clean.

Yes, you could do all the cooking, I'd be fit as a flea in no time, I'd be able to help with the dirty bulk!

Deal!

Be like having my own personal Kahl Drogo, fuck your face is so pleasant to look it!

Oh you sweet talker!

Stop looking at my face anyway. You've got a potential man on the scene"

I did date a guy from hull for 18 months a few years ago, I like going on a train with a picnic and a puzzle.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Crawley Down

"Men folk, if you were looking to date someone with the view to a relationship, taking into account you met that person off here so you may already have preconceived ideas about the woman. Would sex the first time you meet make you not want to take things any further? Should I hold back, just suck him off and stick my tongue his bum, would that leave him gagging for more or not.

Opinions please..."

Personally I would say No, unless it as hinted at before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was a woman I’d tease the fuck out of him but not allow him to touch except for a full on kiss at the end of the date if I really fancied him

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By *cot611Man
over a year ago

carterton

Opinions please..."

Go with what feels right. Nothing worse than stopping when you know you will anyway. But try to convince him he's the first to bypass your very strict 3 date rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t give it up on first meet:......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I was a woman I’d tease the fuck out of him but not allow him to touch except for a full on kiss at the end of the date if I really fancied him"

How can you tease without allowing him to touch?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

All men are different. Should do what you think his best and not ask on the forum in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted to fuck her immediately then date her. I fucked her that night and true to her word that was it! I’m still friends with her kind of but she won’t go on a date with me again!

Little head controlled the big head! Defo made the wrong choice!

Sounds like a control freak, least you got a fuck..

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my thoughts exactly, - that had wham bam thank you mam written all over it, - or Hobson's choice (or whatever it's called)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're thinking of sucking him off, sticking your tongue up his arsehole & you're wondering if having sex on a 1st date is a turn off....

* and the best comment award goes to ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be you girl. Don't pretend then there are no surprises later if a relationship does develop.

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

Dnt think it matters if u have sex first time u meet.if he likes ya he likes ya and if he does get freaked out then he probably not for you

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