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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all love orgasms and we all love sex, masterbating is going to give you the a climax so why do you need someone for the big O?

If your enjoying sex with a partner how much are you doing it for them? How much do you doing it to get yourself off?

If your having sex in a ffm/mmf (call me?

) are you giving them as much attention as they are giving you?

How selfish are you during sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me seeing a woman enjoying sex and having orgasms is very erotic, and the intimate contact is what does it for me. It also prolongs my own arousal to orgasm and just makes me feel satisfied when we are finished.

Masturbating is just clinical to scratch an itch, and over, done, no feeling of satisfaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't cum at all. Never have.

I love my partners pleasure.

If it's multiple partners the same goes. I get turned on turning them on.

Of course I want things done to me too, I'm a bit selfish.

But yes for me their pleasure is paramount x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been very lucky and the gents I've been with get pleasure from seeing me get pleasure. But at the same time I like giving pleasure. Teasing them. Making them get close to the edge and stopping to tease some more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have been very lucky and the gents I've been with get pleasure from seeing me get pleasure. But at the same time I like giving pleasure. Teasing them. Making them get close to the edge and stopping to tease some more.

The moment building someone's tension up for a while, playing with them taking them to the edge until they beg for you to make them cum.

I like that, I get a lot of pleasure from that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Donna you tease....!!!

OP - not selfish at all. I’m all about mutual master.. sorry enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh Donna you tease....!!!

OP - not selfish at all. I’m all about mutual master.. sorry enjoyment

Are there not times during when you thought a little selfishness creeps in?

Like tying her hands behind her back, asking her to get in her knees as you fuck her face and then finishing on her tits?

Just an example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Donna you tease....!!!

OP - not selfish at all. I’m all about mutual master.. sorry enjoyment

Are there not times during when you thought a little selfishness creeps in?

Like tying her hands behind her back, asking her to get in her knees as you fuck her face and then finishing on her tits?

Just an example.

Only if she enjoyed such enjoyable activities too Mr B!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Are there not times during when you thought a little selfishness creeps in?

Like tying her hands behind her back, asking her to get in her knees as you fuck her face and then finishing on her tits?

Just an example.

I'll get me coat.....

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I don't cum at all. Never have.

I love my partners pleasure.

If it's multiple partners the same goes. I get turned on turning them on.

Of course I want things done to me too, I'm a bit selfish.

But yes for me their pleasure is paramount x "

Could you check back in later and let us know how many messages you get today guaranteeing to make you cum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies pleasure always comes first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there not times during when you thought a little selfishness creeps in?

Like tying her hands behind her back, asking her to get in her knees as you fuck her face and then finishing on her tits?

Just an example.

Good grief Bee, I've only just woke up.....can I get a coffee first?

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Donna you tease....!!!

OP - not selfish at all. I’m all about mutual master.. sorry enjoyment

Are there not times during when you thought a little selfishness creeps in?

Like tying her hands behind her back, asking her to get in her knees as you fuck her face and then finishing on her tits?

Just an example.

So whens the next available slot with you ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are there not times during when you thought a little selfishness creeps in?

Like tying her hands behind her back, asking her to get in her knees as you fuck her face and then finishing on her tits?

Just an example.

Good grief Bee, I've only just woke up.....can I get a coffee first?

Peach x"

That would warm your lips up wouldn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there not times during when you thought a little selfishness creeps in?

Like tying her hands behind her back, asking her to get in her knees as you fuck her face and then finishing on her tits?

Just an example.

Good grief Bee, I've only just woke up.....can I get a coffee first?

Peach x

That would warm your lips up wouldn't it?

Just a little I'm counting on you to set me on fire

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love making a man hard, and i love making a man cum, and i particularly enjoy sucking cock.

But i expect my pussy to get fucked, and fucked well.

That's as demanding as i get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't cum at all. Never have.

I love my partners pleasure.

If it's multiple partners the same goes. I get turned on turning them on.

Of course I want things done to me too, I'm a bit selfish.

But yes for me their pleasure is paramount x

Could you check back in later and let us know how many messages you get today guaranteeing to make you cum?

I've been told this so many times and I'm disappointed every time! When will I learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I'd say 50/50 obviously I have sex for myself and I want to enjoy it as much as possible but I like to know the other person is enjoying it as well.

I love love love pleasuring a man during oral, I get so turned on know that I'm giving a man so much pleasure.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's all about mutual pleasure for me, in whatever shape that takes - in fact I actually get quite down if ever I feel I've not satisfied my partner as much as they have pleasured me to the point I lose my own sense of satisfaction if that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love making a man hard, and i love making a man cum, and i particularly enjoy sucking cock.

But i expect my pussy to get fucked, and fucked well.

That's as demanding as i get."

The equivalent would be me licking a woman, my head resting on her leg, licking slowly to make her wet. Them more intense with my lips on her clit, when I see her eyes grow hungry for my to push in deep and make her cum into my mouth.

So yes, I agree, being more giving can lead to being rewarded.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't cum at all. Never have.

I love my partners pleasure.

If it's multiple partners the same goes. I get turned on turning them on.

Of course I want things done to me too, I'm a bit selfish.

But yes for me their pleasure is paramount x

Could you check back in later and let us know how many messages you get today guaranteeing to make you cum?

I've been told this so many times and I'm disappointed every time! When will I learn

Keep practising

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's all about mutual pleasure for me, in whatever shape that takes - in fact I actually get quite down if ever I feel I've not satisfied my partner as much as they have pleasured me to the point I lose my own sense of satisfaction if that makes sense?"

2 women I was never sure about. I don't know why, I blame myself.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Ms - sometimes I am greedy other times, he is so excited I think he goes to another zone. It all equales out and I love seeing him very very horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not selfish at all, mutual pleasure is where I come from, pardon the pun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I can give pleasure , I love when they say no women made me cum just by BJ- then oops

I did it against Lol

Giving BJ gives me loads of pleasure

But sometimes I'm just selfishly Rider the Guy till I will squirt on him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can climax very quickly alone but I'm more into edging along and reaching that euphoric state when with playmates. The kind of play that takes hours and not minutes.

I'd like to think I'm a very giving partner when it comes to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Donna you tease....!!!

OP - not selfish at all. I’m all about mutual master.. sorry enjoyment

Are there not times during when you thought a little selfishness creeps in?

Like tying her hands behind her back, asking her to get in her knees as you fuck her face and then finishing on her tits?

Just an example.

Only if she enjoyed such enjoyable activities too Mr B!

And most men will make sure that they know she enjoys that.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Purely for an orgasm... My wand can take care of that

But spending time with someone satisfies all the senses... a meeting of minds that allows you to enjoy their scent, the taste of their kisses and skin, their touch sending shivers of pleasure through your body, the sound of their voice, their laughter, soft moans, the catch in their breath, the delight of seeing, hearing and feeling their body react to yours... that's what makes it all worthwhile

I guess I'm quite selfish... Because its the pleasure of completely satisfying someone that does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't cum at all. Never have.

I love my partners pleasure.

If it's multiple partners the same goes. I get turned on turning them on.

Of course I want things done to me too, I'm a bit selfish.

But yes for me their pleasure is paramount x

Could you check back in later and let us know how many messages you get today guaranteeing to make you cum?

I've been told this so many times and I'm disappointed every time! When will I learn

Haha. I always let a partner know so they don't expect it.

The amount of challenge accepted or similar replies always makes me laugh.

Still it's generally fun to try x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very giving during sex. If the man isn't I will eventually bore of him and wind down the relationship. Some men start off giving a lot, but slowly do less and less, until I feel like I should be looking for a £20 left on the bedside cabinet. That's when I stop seeing them.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's all about mutual satisfaction for me, I get off on satisfying others but I do want to be satisfied myself too! In group situations there's even more fun to be had

Bun

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Fuckinel I need to meet the lady's on this thread

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By *igerlilycubWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I love to give pleasure it turns me on more and more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never met anyone who can bring me to orgasm in minutes like a vibrator can, but that's usually just to scratch an itch unless I'm doing for someone...

Watching a partner, listening to their breaths, seeing the climax build in their eyes can sometimes be enough to tip me, cumming together being sooo hot

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need sex, I can give myself great orgasms whenever I need to. I have sex more for them. I get off on getting them off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've never met anyone who can bring me to orgasm in minutes like a vibrator can, but that's usually just to scratch an itch unless I'm doing for someone...

Watching a partner, listening to their breaths, seeing the climax build in their eyes can sometimes be enough to tip me, cumming together being sooo hot

Peach x"

A shared orgasm, Cumming together is where I think your both giving 100% to the other person, your both completely in tune with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex isn't just about orgasms for me, though of course it's great when it happens. It's an entirely different experience from masturbating; the difference between fast food and a three-course gourmet meal with matching wines!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"We all love orgasms and we all love sex, masterbating is going to give you the a climax so why do you need someone for the big O?

If your enjoying sex with a partner how much are you doing it for them? How much do you doing it to get yourself off?

If your having sex in a ffm/mmf (call me?

) are you giving them as much attention as they are giving you?

How selfish are you during sex? "

Not sure I understand ? As an empath my partners orgasm becomes mine x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all love orgasms and we all love sex, masterbating is going to give you the a climax so why do you need someone for the big O?

If your enjoying sex with a partner how much are you doing it for them? How much do you doing it to get yourself off?

If your having sex in a ffm/mmf (call me?

) are you giving them as much attention as they are giving you?

How selfish are you during sex?

Not sure I understand ? As an empath my partners orgasm becomes mine x"

did you want them to orgasm first? Do you hold back?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"We all love orgasms and we all love sex, masterbating is going to give you the a climax so why do you need someone for the big O?

If your enjoying sex with a partner how much are you doing it for them? How much do you doing it to get yourself off?

If your having sex in a ffm/mmf (call me?

) are you giving them as much attention as they are giving you?

How selfish are you during sex?

Not sure I understand ? As an empath my partners orgasm becomes mine x

did you want them to orgasm first? Do you hold back? "

There is no formula ? Depends upon the lady or situation . I rarely ejaculate it's more a circle of orgasmic energy between two people , who orgasms first is not particularly relevant as it's only a beginning ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all love orgasms and we all love sex, masterbating is going to give you the a climax so why do you need someone for the big O?

If your enjoying sex with a partner how much are you doing it for them? How much do you doing it to get yourself off?

If your having sex in a ffm/mmf (call me?

) are you giving them as much attention as they are giving you?

How selfish are you during sex?

Not sure I understand ? As an empath my partners orgasm becomes mine x

did you want them to orgasm first? Do you hold back?

So what do you think? Are you a selfish lover?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"We all love orgasms and we all love sex, masterbating is going to give you the a climax so why do you need someone for the big O?

If your enjoying sex with a partner how much are you doing it for them? How much do you doing it to get yourself off?

If your having sex in a ffm/mmf (call me?

) are you giving them as much attention as they are giving you?

How selfish are you during sex?

Not sure I understand ? As an empath my partners orgasm becomes mine x

did you want them to orgasm first? Do you hold back?

So what do you think? Are you a selfish lover? "

Are you heading towards the philosophical concept that apparent altruism is only a symptom of the self needing to pacify itself thus regardless of how positive an act may be or seem to be the ultimate motive will always be the well being of the self ? The concept of empathy adds the dimension that the self and it's well being can only be satisfied or gratified by the empathic knowledge that another is in the same state

Selfish will always have negative overtones remove those and I'd suggest of course pacifying the self is the motivator at a subconscious level regardless of the method x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all love orgasms and we all love sex, masterbating is going to give you the a climax so why do you need someone for the big O?

If your enjoying sex with a partner how much are you doing it for them? How much do you doing it to get yourself off?

If your having sex in a ffm/mmf (call me?

) are you giving them as much attention as they are giving you?

How selfish are you during sex?

Not sure I understand ? As an empath my partners orgasm becomes mine x

did you want them to orgasm first? Do you hold back?

So what do you think? Are you a selfish lover?

Selfish will always have negative overtones remove those and I'd suggest of course pacifying the self is the motivator at a subconscious level regardless of the method x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im so selfish I rarely involve anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Im so selfish I rarely involve anyone else."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a giver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it works best when its equal. If youre both so keen to make sure the other is happy then it evens out.

Ive always been a giver but I realise that relaxing and just receiving sometimes is good too, other people love giving as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all love orgasms and we all love sex, masterbating is going to give you the a climax so why do you need someone for the big O?

If your enjoying sex with a partner how much are you doing it for them? How much do you doing it to get yourself off?

If your having sex in a ffm/mmf (call me?

) are you giving them as much attention as they are giving you?

How selfish are you during sex?

Not sure I understand ? As an empath my partners orgasm becomes mine x

did you want them to orgasm first? Do you hold back?

So what do you think? Are you a selfish lover?

Selfish will always have negative overtones remove those and I'd suggest of course pacifying the self is the motivator at a subconscious level regardless of the method x"

This sentence really turned me on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all love orgasms and we all love sex, masterbating is going to give you the a climax so why do you need someone for the big O?

If your enjoying sex with a partner how much are you doing it for them? How much do you doing it to get yourself off?

If your having sex in a ffm/mmf (call me?

) are you giving them as much attention as they are giving you?

How selfish are you during sex?

Not sure I understand ? As an empath my partners orgasm becomes mine x

did you want them to orgasm first? Do you hold back?

So what do you think? Are you a selfish lover?

Selfish will always have negative overtones remove those and I'd suggest of course pacifying the self is the motivator at a subconscious level regardless of the method x

This sentence really turned me on

Your bum turns me on. (Not as eloquently put as above, but you know?

)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all love orgasms and we all love sex, masterbating is going to give you the a climax so why do you need someone for the big O?

If your enjoying sex with a partner how much are you doing it for them? How much do you doing it to get yourself off?

If your having sex in a ffm/mmf (call me?

) are you giving them as much attention as they are giving you?

How selfish are you during sex?

Not sure I understand ? As an empath my partners orgasm becomes mine x

did you want them to orgasm first? Do you hold back?

So what do you think? Are you a selfish lover?

Selfish will always have negative overtones remove those and I'd suggest of course pacifying the self is the motivator at a subconscious level regardless of the method x

This sentence really turned me on

Your bum turns me on. (Not as eloquently put as above, but you know?

Your squirty cream turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't cum at all. Never have.

I love my partners pleasure.

If it's multiple partners the same goes. I get turned on turning them on.

Of course I want things done to me too, I'm a bit selfish.

But yes for me their pleasure is paramount x

Could you check back in later and let us know how many messages you get today guaranteeing to make you cum?

I've been told this so many times and I'm disappointed every time! When will I learn

Haha. I always let a partner know so they don't expect it.

The amount of challenge accepted or similar replies always makes me laugh.

Still it's generally fun to try x

All of this ...

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We’re both pleasers so getting the other off is the goal, except for them steamy quickies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all love orgasms and we all love sex, masterbating is going to give you the a climax so why do you need someone for the big O?

If your enjoying sex with a partner how much are you doing it for them? How much do you doing it to get yourself off?

If your having sex in a ffm/mmf (call me?

) are you giving them as much attention as they are giving you?

How selfish are you during sex?

Not sure I understand ? As an empath my partners orgasm becomes mine x

did you want them to orgasm first? Do you hold back?

So what do you think? Are you a selfish lover?

Selfish will always have negative overtones remove those and I'd suggest of course pacifying the self is the motivator at a subconscious level regardless of the method x

This sentence really turned me on

Your bum turns me on. (Not as eloquently put as above, but you know?

)

Your squirty cream turns me on

Shame you couldn't stick around

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

I’m a giver - very rarely cum from sex - dryhumping / grinding however ... though it’s a bit of a weird thing to ask for ( it’s not the weirdest I’m sure)

I love hearing and feeling them get soooooo excited! It’s the best thing! X

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