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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So....I recently found out that my boyfriend has been on here without my knowledge. I've been away for a few months, while I was gone he fucked 3 different women from this site.

I offered him the opportunity to have an open relationship but he didn't want that.

I understand the reasons behind cheating are numerous and everybody is individual, what I really struggle with (strangely) is how another woman can come in to my home, have sex with my boyfriend and toddle back off to her little life without a care in the world.

No morals, no scruples, just plain nasty........

What is wrong with people?

Destruction, devastation and family torn apart. To that couple/woman on here.....thanks. I hope it was worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No clue, I would much rather be in a monogamous relationship than here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No clue, I would much rather be in a monogamous relationship than here "

Haha what is that?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No clue, I would much rather be in a monogamous relationship than here

Haha what is that?!"

Exclusive to other half.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No clue, I would much rather be in a monogamous relationship than here

Haha what is that?!

Exclusive to other half."

Sorry, sarcasm. In an ideal world eh.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I understand the reasons behind cheating are numerous and everybody is individual"

You see. I don't know that. Its always selfishness.

There aren't many worse feelings than finding out youve been cheated on. You have my sympathy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You found out that your boyfriend was on here without your knowledge? Did he know that you’re on here too? This kinda sounds like the pot calling the kettle black.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I understand the reasons behind cheating are numerous and everybody is individual

You see. I don't know that. Its always selfishness.

There aren't many worse feelings than finding out youve been cheated on. You have my sympathy

"

Thank you my lovely, I appreciate that. Feeling pretty shit about myself right now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You found out that your boyfriend was on here without your knowledge? Did he know that you’re on here too? This kinda sounds like the pot calling the kettle black. "

No.....I found it on his phone.

He asked me to type a ref number in to his phone, when I pressed f, the site came up in his phone dictionary.

Not kettle, pot in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somme people have no conscious, they think it's his family and his problem if he's caught. It's horrible for you because your home is your sanctuary speaking from experience my ex cheated for years and brought women back while I was at work, I was horrified when I come home from work and caught them. I thought cheating was bad enough but in my own house that really was out of order

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Somme people have no conscious, they think it's his family and his problem if he's caught. It's horrible for you because your home is your sanctuary speaking from experience my ex cheated for years and brought women back while I was at work, I was horrified when I come home from work and caught them. I thought cheating was bad enough but in my own house that really was out of order

Mrs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*some

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Somme people have no conscious, they think it's his family and his problem if he's caught. It's horrible for you because your home is your sanctuary speaking from experience my ex cheated for years and brought women back while I was at work, I was horrified when I come home from work and caught them. I thought cheating was bad enough but in my own house that really was out of order

Mrs "

Oh my god I'm so sorry, that's horrendous.

You're right, your home is your sanctuary and it's an invasion. It's just the lowest of the low.....

I hope you're happy and settled now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You found out that your boyfriend was on here without your knowledge? Did he know that you’re on here too? This kinda sounds like the pot calling the kettle black.

No.....I found it on his phone.

He asked me to type a ref number in to his phone, when I pressed f, the site came up in his phone dictionary.

Not kettle, pot in the slightest."

I'm not on any side at all and it's horrible that u feel the way u do atm. But I'm just trying to get my head around this...your bf had a profile on this site that h didn't tell you about. You have a profile on this site too...did/does he's know?

I do not condone cheating....it ruined my childhood when it happened with my parents!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals? "

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You found out that your boyfriend was on here without your knowledge? Did he know that you’re on here too? This kinda sounds like the pot calling the kettle black.

No.....I found it on his phone.

He asked me to type a ref number in to his phone, when I pressed f, the site came up in his phone dictionary.

Not kettle, pot in the slightest.

I'm not on any side at all and it's horrible that u feel the way u do atm. But I'm just trying to get my head around this...your bf had a profile on this site that h didn't tell you about. You have a profile on this site too...did/does he's know?

I do not condone cheating....it ruined my childhood when it happened with my parents!!!!"

Yes, we met on here and my profile has been hidden for a very long time - since we became exclusive. He knew it was here as I just hadn't deleted it, we were talking about setting up a couple's profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals? "

Yes I suppose I didn't convey my disgust and anger towards him, obviously he is very much to blame but so is she.

I don't understand how anybody can go in to someones family home....it's just beyond me.

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By *heislanderMan
over a year ago

cheshunt


"So....I recently found out that my boyfriend has been on here without my knowledge. I've been away for a few months, while I was gone he fucked 3 different women from this site.

I offered him the opportunity to have an open relationship but he didn't want that.

I understand the reasons behind cheating are numerous and everybody is individual, what I really struggle with (strangely) is how another woman can come in to my home, have sex with my boyfriend and toddle back off to her little life without a care in the world.

No morals, no scruples, just plain nasty........

What is wrong with people?

Destruction, devastation and family torn apart. To that couple/woman on here.....thanks. I hope it was worth it. "

As you say everybody’s got different reasons for cheating, my partner dosen’t know I’m on here however I don’t think the other women is to blame. Your partner decided to cheat and would eventually find someone. I agree it’s horrible that he brought them into your home but what does that say about his morals. Sorry if I sound rude but maybe you’re better of without him. You’ve got no reason to feel shit about yourself, you’re a better person than they’ll ever be

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Gorgeous girl who's happy swinging with him... fuck him he loses xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Yes I suppose I didn't convey my disgust and anger towards him, obviously he is very much to blame but so is she.

I don't understand how anybody can go in to someones family home....it's just beyond me."

Nah it’s more the boyfriends fault. They were both on here looking for sex, they found each other and he invited her back into your home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So....I recently found out that my boyfriend has been on here without my knowledge. I've been away for a few months, while I was gone he fucked 3 different women from this site.

I offered him the opportunity to have an open relationship but he didn't want that.

I understand the reasons behind cheating are numerous and everybody is individual, what I really struggle with (strangely) is how another woman can come in to my home, have sex with my boyfriend and toddle back off to her little life without a care in the world.

No morals, no scruples, just plain nasty........

What is wrong with people?

Destruction, devastation and family torn apart. To that couple/woman on here.....thanks. I hope it was worth it.

As you say everybody’s got different reasons for cheating, my partner dosen’t know I’m on here however I don’t think the other women is to blame. Your partner decided to cheat and would eventually find someone. I agree it’s horrible that he brought them into your home but what does that say about his morals. Sorry if I sound rude but maybe you’re better of without him. You’ve got no reason to feel shit about yourself, you’re a better person than they’ll ever be "

Meh....I think they're both fully to blame.

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gorgeous girl who's happy swinging with him... fuck him he loses xx"

Xxxx

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

That's explains it, I was confused too with you having a profile for over a year too.

He sounds like a bit of an idiot to be fair, he could have had an open relationship, and you were gonna set up a couple's profile and yet he still slept with girls behind your back?!

He could have had it all.

Can't work some people out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Yes I suppose I didn't convey my disgust and anger towards him, obviously he is very much to blame but so is she.

I don't understand how anybody can go in to someones family home....it's just beyond me.

Nah it’s more the boyfriends fault. They were both on here looking for sex, they found each other and he invited her back into your home. "

I'm not saying he's not to blame and everybody (well...lots of people fuck up) but my question was more, could you knowingly go in to somebody's family home. The thought makes me retch......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's explains it, I was confused too with you having a profile for over a year too.

He sounds like a bit of an idiot to be fair, he could have had an open relationship, and you were gonna set up a couple's profile and yet he still slept with girls behind your back?!

He could have had it all.

Can't work some people out. "

It's a huge source of confusion for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So....I recently found out that my boyfriend has been on here without my knowledge. I've been away for a few months, while I was gone he fucked 3 different women from this site.

I offered him the opportunity to have an open relationship but he didn't want that.

I understand the reasons behind cheating are numerous and everybody is individual, what I really struggle with (strangely) is how another woman can come in to my home, have sex with my boyfriend and toddle back off to her little life without a care in the world.

No morals, no scruples, just plain nasty........

What is wrong with people?

Destruction, devastation and family torn apart. To that couple/woman on here.....thanks. I hope it was worth it.

As you say everybody’s got different reasons for cheating, my partner dosen’t know I’m on here however I don’t think the other women is to blame. Your partner decided to cheat and would eventually find someone. I agree it’s horrible that he brought them into your home but what does that say about his morals. Sorry if I sound rude but maybe you’re better of without him. You’ve got no reason to feel shit about yourself, you’re a better person than they’ll ever be "

Completely agree

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

At the end of the day they are both as bad as each other and your better off well shut. Easy to say from the outside I know but after it happening to me to I can honestly say it was the best favour she ever did me it just takes time to see it. Best of luck sweet hope you feel better soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's explains it, I was confused too with you having a profile for over a year too.

He sounds like a bit of an idiot to be fair, he could have had an open relationship, and you were gonna set up a couple's profile and yet he still slept with girls behind your back?!

He could have had it all.

Can't work some people out.

It's a huge source of confusion for me."

Could of had what a lot of people dream of...and he blew it out of selfishness. He's loss, u will have the last laugh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somme people have no conscious, they think it's his family and his problem if he's caught. It's horrible for you because your home is your sanctuary speaking from experience my ex cheated for years and brought women back while I was at work, I was horrified when I come home from work and caught them. I thought cheating was bad enough but in my own house that really was out of order

5 years later I'm happy and settled but I remember how horrified I was. Everything I suspected was confirmed. I can understand your anger towards both parties. It's crap OP sorry you are going through this.

Mrs

Oh my god I'm so sorry, that's horrendous.

You're right, your home is your sanctuary and it's an invasion. It's just the lowest of the low.....

I hope you're happy and settled now."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At the end of the day they are both as bad as each other and your better off well shut. Easy to say from the outside I know but after it happening to me to I can honestly say it was the best favour she ever did me it just takes time to see it. Best of luck sweet hope you feel better soon."

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's explains it, I was confused too with you having a profile for over a year too.

He sounds like a bit of an idiot to be fair, he could have had an open relationship, and you were gonna set up a couple's profile and yet he still slept with girls behind your back?!

He could have had it all.

Can't work some people out.

It's a huge source of confusion for me.

Could of had what a lot of people dream of...and he blew it out of selfishness. He's loss, u will have the last laugh x "

Maybe.....time will tell x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

For what it's worth I can't see you being single for long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's explains it, I was confused too with you having a profile for over a year too.

He sounds like a bit of an idiot to be fair, he could have had an open relationship, and you were gonna set up a couple's profile and yet he still slept with girls behind your back?!

He could have had it all.

Can't work some people out.

It's a huge source of confusion for me.

Could of had what a lot of people dream of...and he blew it out of selfishness. He's loss, u will have the last laugh x

Maybe.....time will tell x"

Well I'm a believer in karma so I'm telling you you will have the last laugh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For what it's worth I can't see you being single for long"

Completely agree

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

How do you know what he told those women to get them into bed, he could easily have told them he was in an open relationship and allowed to take them to the house.

But at the end of the day those women didn't betray you, he did, so the blame isn't equally spread.

I've been there myself (and found out the same way) and psychologically your head wants to blame the other party because you have no feelings for them, but he's the one to blame. Also he's a fucking idiot, he could have had it all but he's blown it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know what he told those women to get them into bed, he could easily have told them he was in an open relationship and allowed to take them to the house.

But at the end of the day those women didn't betray you, he did, so the blame isn't equally spread.

I've been there myself (and found out the same way) and psychologically your head wants to blame the other party because you have no feelings for them, but he's the one to blame. Also he's a fucking idiot, he could have had it all but he's blown it."

There's some wisssseeeee people here atm....this is spot on

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By *heislanderMan
over a year ago

cheshunt


"That's explains it, I was confused too with you having a profile for over a year too.

He sounds like a bit of an idiot to be fair, he could have had an open relationship, and you were gonna set up a couple's profile and yet he still slept with girls behind your back?!

He could have had it all.

Can't work some people out.

It's a huge source of confusion for me.

Could of had what a lot of people dream of...and he blew it out of selfishness. He's loss, u will have the last laugh x

Maybe.....time will tell x"

Someday he’ll realise what he’s lost and see how stupid he’s been.

“If you can cheat on your girl and come home, look her in the eye and tell her you love her then you're the lowest kind of man on the pyramid”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know what he told those women to get them into bed, he could easily have told them he was in an open relationship and allowed to take them to the house.

But at the end of the day those women didn't betray you, he did, so the blame isn't equally spread.

I've been there myself (and found out the same way) and psychologically your head wants to blame the other party because you have no feelings for them, but he's the one to blame. Also he's a fucking idiot, he could have had it all but he's blown it."

Have to kind of agree here.

You have no idea what he told the other women.

You kept your profile on here? If you were exclusive why not delete it?

He wasn't interested in an open relationship but you were thinking of having a couples profile??? Hmmm

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m lost for words really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Homewrecker mentality exists. Or, some women don't give a shit. They don't see it as their problem

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley

So did he know about your two veris?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"So did he know about your two veris?"

Probably from before they got together...quick off the mark with answers this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

"

Thank god some one else brought this up, thought is was only me who had noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will find that most men are liers on here and tell some1 they are single ive had it twice in last few month and took joy in telling the last lads fiance that he had been messaging me i found out on a site that he was attached after 2month ov messaging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

Thank god some one else brought this up, thought is was only me who had noticed "

Me too!! All seems a little iffy to me.

If this was a guy, and we've seen it before, they'd be jumped on (and not in a nice way).

Looks like someone wants their cake and eat it?

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"You found out that your boyfriend was on here without your knowledge? Did he know that you’re on here too? This kinda sounds like the pot calling the kettle black.

No.....I found it on his phone.

He asked me to type a ref number in to his phone, when I pressed f, the site came up in his phone dictionary.

Not kettle, pot in the slightest."

I am confused.....you have been on here over a year....so you are in a relationship yet still on here.....like previous poster has asked, did he know you were on here for at least a year? You did not answer the question.....if the answer is no then it is most definitely hypocritical......please enlighten us as to why it is not......

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

Thank god some one else brought this up, thought is was only me who had noticed

Me too!! All seems a little iffy to me.

If this was a guy, and we've seen it before, they'd be jumped on (and not in a nice way).

Looks like someone wants their cake and eat it? "

It's because of the vagina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

"

You're not really getting this 'a woman has been wronged, all men are bastards' policy are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

Thank god some one else brought this up, thought is was only me who had noticed

Me too!! All seems a little iffy to me.

If this was a guy, and we've seen it before, they'd be jumped on (and not in a nice way).

Looks like someone wants their cake and eat it? "

Yes the comments would be quite different I’m sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No clue, I would much rather be in a monogamous relationship than here "

I would rather have a relationship and be monogous then be a swinger.

My ex husband cheated on me for 10 years. I would never cheat. As why others do it. Something is missing in their lives perhaps. Issues in their relationships obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

Thank god some one else brought this up, thought is was only me who had noticed

Me too!! All seems a little iffy to me.

If this was a guy, and we've seen it before, they'd be jumped on (and not in a nice way).

Looks like someone wants their cake and eat it?

Yes the comments would be quite different I’m sure "

Totally agree here...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

You're not really getting this 'a woman has been wronged, all men are bastards' policy are you? "

Apparently not. I don't get why people feel the need to bullshit either, but hey we all have our ways of attention seeking.

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley


"So did he know about your two veris?

Probably from before they got together...quick off the mark with answers this one "

Well if she didn’t have an answer she does now

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"So did he know about your two veris?

Probably from before they got together...quick off the mark with answers this one

Well if she didn’t have an answer she does now "

I like to help a sister out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't accommodate either!!! Wonder why?

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley


"So did he know about your two veris?

Probably from before they got together...quick off the mark with answers this one

Well if she didn’t have an answer she does now

I like to help a sister out."

Can you help me next lol xxx

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

You're not really getting this 'a woman has been wronged, all men are bastards' policy are you?

Apparently not. I don't get why people feel the need to bullshit either, but hey we all have our ways of attention seeking. "

I'm not getting it either.

Was thinking my brain not fully awake, but after coffee no4 it still makes no sense

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

It sounds like a horrible situation that you have found yourself in. But if he was lying to you he may have lied to her as well, you will have been in an open relationship, you may have been a bitch etc etc. Anything to get his dick wet. Make sure the blame is directed at the right person.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her"

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So....I recently found out that my boyfriend has been on here without my knowledge. I've been away for a few months, while I was gone he fucked 3 different women from this site.

I offered him the opportunity to have an open relationship but he didn't want that.

I understand the reasons behind cheating are numerous and everybody is individual, what I really struggle with (strangely) is how another woman can come in to my home, have sex with my boyfriend and toddle back off to her little life without a care in the world.

No morals, no scruples, just plain nasty........

What is wrong with people?

Destruction, devastation and family torn apart. To that couple/woman on here.....thanks. I hope it was worth it. "

How do you know the women even know about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"since we became exclusive" lol...best you fuk him off most men on here are looking for sex..after all its only sex Mary.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home."

and if it was the other way around and you came home and caught a guy shagging your wife,would you just say to him it's ok mate this is between myself and my wife you tottle off there's a good man?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

"

I was scrolling through to see if anyone had already.

I’m agreeing with the pot kettle post earlier and you bull shit post.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"So....I recently found out that my boyfriend has been on here without my knowledge. I've been away for a few months, while I was gone he fucked 3 different women from this site.

I offered him the opportunity to have an open relationship but he didn't want that.

I understand the reasons behind cheating are numerous and everybody is individual, what I really struggle with (strangely) is how another woman can come in to my home, have sex with my boyfriend and toddle back off to her little life without a care in the world.

No morals, no scruples, just plain nasty........

What is wrong with people?

Destruction, devastation and family torn apart. To that couple/woman on here.....thanks. I hope it was worth it. "

No morals, no scruples, that would be your boyfriend then, the person who betrayed you the most is the one who looks you in the face in a morning

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home."

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

I was scrolling through to see if anyone had already.

I’m agreeing with the pot kettle post earlier and you bull shit post.

"

You know me

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay


"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

I was scrolling through to see if anyone had already.

I’m agreeing with the pot kettle post earlier and you bull shit post.

"

Another vote for the bullshit option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I roll my eyes??

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Can I roll my eyes?? "

Only if you say bullshit at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knew there was something up when I saw you back on here S. sorry to hear your story. X

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they "

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry still slightly asleep, I don't understand why you're p***end off! You have a single's profile, no mention of a partner and your two veris seem to indicate playing alone, am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry still slightly asleep, I don't understand why you're p***end off! You have a single's profile, no mention of a partner and your two veris seem to indicate playing alone, am I missing something? "

She has already explained that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just like to add, for the naysayers. I knew S when she was last here. She left due to this guy and hasn't been back on the the last year or so to my knowledge until very recently. I fully believe her.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Hope you find peace OP. Ignore the bitchy comments on here. You have explained your situation, but some people just love to kick people when they are down. Makes the clique on here feel better.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

OP I have been in your shoes with a former partner, so I totally get how you feel. It’s easy to pint the finger of blame to the other women (in your case, in my case it was men to my knowledge). But ultimately it was your partner that betrayed you. The buck stops with him.

How I wish I’d have left that relationship when I first became aware of the kind of man he was, because the emotional baggage I’ve been left with is not good.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Hope you find peace OP. Ignore the bitchy comments on here. You have explained your situation, but some people just love to kick people when they are down. Makes the clique on here feel better. "

I do agree somewhat,although this subject pisses my boil so I should really stay away from them.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

If the other woman genuinely didn't know he was attached then fair enough,but if she did she's scum.

Can't you tell though I'm sure a single guy home is very different to a couples home,photos,fluffy cushions etc

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Hope you find peace OP. Ignore the bitchy comments on here. You have explained your situation, but some people just love to kick people when they are down. Makes the clique on here feel better. "

Or you know, We just get bored of folk airing their laundry. Like someone said, if this was the man who had said "my girlfriend caught me in bed" he would be slated.

The guy has a profile here, maybe he can come along and share his side of the story being as there generally is one.

Or actually she could have been caught out and is turning the tables. Let's all believe the words of a stranger on the internet.

Oh and your clique comment is cute, don't be jealous of what you aren't part of.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Hope you find peace OP. Ignore the bitchy comments on here. You have explained your situation, but some people just love to kick people when they are down. Makes the clique on here feel better.

Or you know, We just get bored of folk airing their laundry. Like someone said, if this was the man who had said "my girlfriend caught me in bed" he would be slated.

The guy has a profile here, maybe he can come along and share his side of the story being as there generally is one.

Or actually she could have been caught out and is turning the tables. Let's all believe the words of a stranger on the internet.

Oh and your clique comment is cute, don't be jealous of what you aren't part of. "

Bored?? I love people airing their laundry on here

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Hope you find peace OP. Ignore the bitchy comments on here. You have explained your situation, but some people just love to kick people when they are down. Makes the clique on here feel better.

Or you know, We just get bored of folk airing their laundry. Like someone said, if this was the man who had said "my girlfriend caught me in bed" he would be slated.

The guy has a profile here, maybe he can come along and share his side of the story being as there generally is one.

Or actually she could have been caught out and is turning the tables. Let's all believe the words of a stranger on the internet.

Oh and your clique comment is cute, don't be jealous of what you aren't part of.

Bored?? I love people airing their laundry on here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

"

Yeah I'm thing along the same lines. Things aren't measuring up.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Hope you find peace OP. Ignore the bitchy comments on here. You have explained your situation, but some people just love to kick people when they are down. Makes the clique on here feel better.

Or you know, We just get bored of folk airing their laundry. Like someone said, if this was the man who had said "my girlfriend caught me in bed" he would be slated.

The guy has a profile here, maybe he can come along and share his side of the story being as there generally is one.

Or actually she could have been caught out and is turning the tables. Let's all believe the words of a stranger on the internet.

Oh and your clique comment is cute, don't be jealous of what you aren't part of.

Bored?? I love people airing their laundry on here "

But it is so unoriginal. I'm sure someone will be along to offer sympathy sex and "he must be mad to cheat on you" comments...Oh wait

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me "

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd just like to add, for the naysayers. I knew S when she was last here. She left due to this guy and hasn't been back on the the last year or so to my knowledge until very recently. I fully believe her. "

Her posts seemed pretty genuine to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope you find peace OP. Ignore the bitchy comments on here. You have explained your situation, but some people just love to kick people when they are down. Makes the clique on here feel better.

Or you know, We just get bored of folk airing their laundry. Like someone said, if this was the man who had said "my girlfriend caught me in bed" he would be slated.

The guy has a profile here, maybe he can come along and share his side of the story being as there generally is one.

Or actually she could have been caught out and is turning the tables. Let's all believe the words of a stranger on the internet.

Oh and your clique comment is cute, don't be jealous of what you aren't part of.

Bored?? I love people airing their laundry on here

But it is so unoriginal. I'm sure someone will be along to offer sympathy sex and "he must be mad to cheat on you" comments...Oh wait "

Fuck! I didn't know we were here to entertain *you*

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Hope you find peace OP. Ignore the bitchy comments on here. You have explained your situation, but some people just love to kick people when they are down. Makes the clique on here feel better.

Or you know, We just get bored of folk airing their laundry. Like someone said, if this was the man who had said "my girlfriend caught me in bed" he would be slated.

The guy has a profile here, maybe he can come along and share his side of the story being as there generally is one.

Or actually she could have been caught out and is turning the tables. Let's all believe the words of a stranger on the internet.

Oh and your clique comment is cute, don't be jealous of what you aren't part of. "

Your response proved my point beautifully. Jealous? Yeh right. Pleeeeeaase let me join your clique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope you find peace OP. Ignore the bitchy comments on here. You have explained your situation, but some people just love to kick people when they are down. Makes the clique on here feel better.

Or you know, We just get bored of folk airing their laundry. Like someone said, if this was the man who had said "my girlfriend caught me in bed" he would be slated.

The guy has a profile here, maybe he can come along and share his side of the story being as there generally is one.

Or actually she could have been caught out and is turning the tables. Let's all believe the words of a stranger on the internet.

Oh and your clique comment is cute, don't be jealous of what you aren't part of.

Bored?? I love people airing their laundry on here

But it is so unoriginal. I'm sure someone will be along to offer sympathy sex and "he must be mad to cheat on you" comments...Oh wait "

Oh crap, didn't read all the thread, thought that would have already been done, er, is it too late now?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Hope you find peace OP. Ignore the bitchy comments on here. You have explained your situation, but some people just love to kick people when they are down. Makes the clique on here feel better.

Or you know, We just get bored of folk airing their laundry. Like someone said, if this was the man who had said "my girlfriend caught me in bed" he would be slated.

The guy has a profile here, maybe he can come along and share his side of the story being as there generally is one.

Or actually she could have been caught out and is turning the tables. Let's all believe the words of a stranger on the internet.

Oh and your clique comment is cute, don't be jealous of what you aren't part of.

Bored?? I love people airing their laundry on here

But it is so unoriginal. I'm sure someone will be along to offer sympathy sex and "he must be mad to cheat on you" comments...Oh wait

Fuck! I didn't know we were here to entertain *you*"

Me personally? You make me smile a whole lot.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Hope you find peace OP. Ignore the bitchy comments on here. You have explained your situation, but some people just love to kick people when they are down. Makes the clique on here feel better.

Or you know, We just get bored of folk airing their laundry. Like someone said, if this was the man who had said "my girlfriend caught me in bed" he would be slated.

The guy has a profile here, maybe he can come along and share his side of the story being as there generally is one.

Or actually she could have been caught out and is turning the tables. Let's all believe the words of a stranger on the internet.

Oh and your clique comment is cute, don't be jealous of what you aren't part of.

Your response proved my point beautifully. Jealous? Yeh right. Pleeeeeaase let me join your clique. "

Oh it isn't mine, I don't know Who owns it.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating? "

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice "

Tea makes everything better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better."

You should drink more of it

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Hope you find peace OP. Ignore the bitchy comments on here. You have explained your situation, but some people just love to kick people when they are down. Makes the clique on here feel better.

Or you know, We just get bored of folk airing their laundry. Like someone said, if this was the man who had said "my girlfriend caught me in bed" he would be slated.

The guy has a profile here, maybe he can come along and share his side of the story being as there generally is one.

Or actually she could have been caught out and is turning the tables. Let's all believe the words of a stranger on the internet.

Oh and your clique comment is cute, don't be jealous of what you aren't part of.

Bored?? I love people airing their laundry on here

But it is so unoriginal. I'm sure someone will be along to offer sympathy sex and "he must be mad to cheat on you" comments...Oh wait

Oh crap, didn't read all the thread, thought that would have already been done, er, is it too late now? "

No quick get it done.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it "

. I prefer to drink the blood of my victims

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been invited to a blokes house whilst their partner is in work.

A few reasons why i declined:

1. It's a shitty thing to do honestly.

2. How can you relax and enjoy yourself when any minute a woman might enter the room whose life will temporarily crumble because you couldn't say no to an ejit and his cock.

3. The woman will take it out on the naked woman in her bed rather than her bloke, and i value my hair too much to put it through a good tugging session.

But i suppose some folk thrive on the thrill.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better."

Tea is...rank . Give me a mug of hot chocolate with cream and marshmallows any day of the week.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've been invited to a blokes house whilst their partner is in work.

A few reasons why i declined:

1. It's a shitty thing to do honestly.

2. How can you relax and enjoy yourself when any minute a woman might enter the room whose life will temporarily crumble because you couldn't say no to an ejit and his cock.

3. The woman will take it out on the naked woman in her bed rather than her bloke, and i value my hair too much to put it through a good tugging session.

But i suppose some folk thrive on the thrill.

"

I don't really want to be drinking tea on the sofa whilst his family stare at me from the walls

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

Tea is...rank . Give me a mug of hot chocolate with cream and marshmallows any day of the week."

Oh yummy. Grate some chocolate on that too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been invited to a blokes house whilst their partner is in work.

A few reasons why i declined:

1. It's a shitty thing to do honestly.

2. How can you relax and enjoy yourself when any minute a woman might enter the room whose life will temporarily crumble because you couldn't say no to an ejit and his cock.

3. The woman will take it out on the naked woman in her bed rather than her bloke, and i value my hair too much to put it through a good tugging session.

But i suppose some folk thrive on the thrill.

I don't really want to be drinking tea on the sofa whilst his family stare at me from the walls "

Exactly! But then i know it's not just men who do it, some women do it too but i just can't fathom it. The stress and worry would kill my lust stone dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it "

Gin is like a fast track version of a drink that makes things better.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I've been invited to a blokes house whilst their partner is in work.

A few reasons why i declined:

1. It's a shitty thing to do honestly.

2. How can you relax and enjoy yourself when any minute a woman might enter the room whose life will temporarily crumble because you couldn't say no to an ejit and his cock.

3. The woman will take it out on the naked woman in her bed rather than her bloke, and i value my hair too much to put it through a good tugging session.

But i suppose some folk thrive on the thrill.

I don't really want to be drinking tea on the sofa whilst his family stare at me from the walls

Exactly! But then i know it's not just men who do it, some women do it too but i just can't fathom it. The stress and worry would kill my lust stone dead."

Honey I'm home....

Would you let them finish or throw them out the window?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it

Gin is like a fast track version of a drink that makes things better. "

Oh I love gin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been invited to a blokes house whilst their partner is in work.

A few reasons why i declined:

1. It's a shitty thing to do honestly.

2. How can you relax and enjoy yourself when any minute a woman might enter the room whose life will temporarily crumble because you couldn't say no to an ejit and his cock.

3. The woman will take it out on the naked woman in her bed rather than her bloke, and i value my hair too much to put it through a good tugging session.

But i suppose some folk thrive on the thrill.

I don't really want to be drinking tea on the sofa whilst his family stare at me from the walls

Exactly! But then i know it's not just men who do it, some women do it too but i just can't fathom it. The stress and worry would kill my lust stone dead.

Honey I'm home....

Would you let them finish or throw them out the window?"

Throw them out the window. And i wouldn't open the window first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it

Gin is like a fast track version of a drink that makes things better. "

Gin just makes me wallow in my own self pity. And it's rank

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I've been invited to a blokes house whilst their partner is in work.

A few reasons why i declined:

1. It's a shitty thing to do honestly.

2. How can you relax and enjoy yourself when any minute a woman might enter the room whose life will temporarily crumble because you couldn't say no to an ejit and his cock.

3. The woman will take it out on the naked woman in her bed rather than her bloke, and i value my hair too much to put it through a good tugging session.

But i suppose some folk thrive on the thrill.

I don't really want to be drinking tea on the sofa whilst his family stare at me from the walls

Exactly! But then i know it's not just men who do it, some women do it too but i just can't fathom it. The stress and worry would kill my lust stone dead.

Honey I'm home....

Would you let them finish or throw them out the window?

Throw them out the window. And i wouldn't open the window first "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it

Gin is like a fast track version of a drink that makes things better.

Gin just makes me wallow in my own self pity. And it's rank"

Gin is not rank, young man.. you have defective taste buds. Have you been licking too many pp3 batteries again?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it

Gin is like a fast track version of a drink that makes things better.

Gin just makes me wallow in my own self pity. And it's rank"
vodka perhaps?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

Tea is...rank . Give me a mug of hot chocolate with cream and marshmallows any day of the week.

Oh yummy. Grate some chocolate on that too? "

Oh my God yeah your speaking my language!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

Tea is...rank . Give me a mug of hot chocolate with cream and marshmallows any day of the week.

Oh yummy. Grate some chocolate on that too?

Oh my God yeah your speaking my language!"

And some shortbread that melts on your tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it

Gin is like a fast track version of a drink that makes things better.

Gin just makes me wallow in my own self pity. And it's rank

Gin is not rank, young man.. you have defective taste buds. Have you been licking too many pp3 batteries again? "

Not batteries, the odd window perhaps

I just can't get a taste for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it

Gin is like a fast track version of a drink that makes things better.

Gin just makes me wallow in my own self pity. And it's rankvodka perhaps? "

Make it rum and you're on

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it

Gin is like a fast track version of a drink that makes things better.

Gin just makes me wallow in my own self pity. And it's rank

Gin is not rank, young man.. you have defective taste buds. Have you been licking too many pp3 batteries again?

Not batteries, the odd window perhaps

I just can't get a taste for it. "

You haven't tried the right one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it

Gin is like a fast track version of a drink that makes things better.

Gin just makes me wallow in my own self pity. And it's rank

Gin is not rank, young man.. you have defective taste buds. Have you been licking too many pp3 batteries again?

Not batteries, the odd window perhaps

I just can't get a taste for it. "

Ah. A window licker. Explains a lot.

You need to commit to things. I’ve d*unk an awful lot of gin. I’m fully committed.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it

Gin is like a fast track version of a drink that makes things better.

Gin just makes me wallow in my own self pity. And it's rankvodka perhaps?

Make it rum and you're on"

Oh are you a pirate?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"

I'm not saying he's not to blame and everybody (well...lots of people fuck up) but my question was more, could you knowingly go in to somebody's family home. The thought makes me retch......

"

No.

We were offered this once ( on another site )while his wife was out shopping for the afternoon , the very idea of it was a huge turn off.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I've been invited to a blokes house whilst their partner is in work.

A few reasons why i declined:

1. It's a shitty thing to do honestly.

2. How can you relax and enjoy yourself when any minute a woman might enter the room whose life will temporarily crumble because you couldn't say no to an ejit and his cock.

3. The woman will take it out on the naked woman in her bed rather than her bloke, and i value my hair too much to put it through a good tugging session.

But i suppose some folk thrive on the thrill.

I don't really want to be drinking tea on the sofa whilst his family stare at me from the walls

Exactly! But then i know it's not just men who do it, some women do it too but i just can't fathom it. The stress and worry would kill my lust stone dead.

Honey I'm home....

Would you let them finish or throw them out the window?

Throw them out the window. And i wouldn't open the window first "

it's a bit like when a dopey bird doesn't realise it's glass and smacks into your window,leaving it's body imprinted on there and ends up knocking it's self out cold if not dead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it

Gin is like a fast track version of a drink that makes things better.

Gin just makes me wallow in my own self pity. And it's rankvodka perhaps?

Make it rum and you're on

Oh are you a pirate?"

Indeed I am matey. Arrrgh

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"

I'm not saying he's not to blame and everybody (well...lots of people fuck up) but my question was more, could you knowingly go in to somebody's family home. The thought makes me retch......

No.

We were offered this once ( on another site )while his wife was out shopping for the afternoon , the very idea of it was a huge turn off.

"

Wait til they ask you to wear their wife's clothes and make dinner too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm not saying he's not to blame and everybody (well...lots of people fuck up) but my question was more, could you knowingly go in to somebody's family home. The thought makes me retch......

No.

We were offered this once ( on another site )while his wife was out shopping for the afternoon , the very idea of it was a huge turn off.

"

Worse still are when a couple invite you round and the kids are upstairs.

No fuckin way ho say.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I've been invited to a blokes house whilst their partner is in work.

A few reasons why i declined:

1. It's a shitty thing to do honestly.

2. How can you relax and enjoy yourself when any minute a woman might enter the room whose life will temporarily crumble because you couldn't say no to an ejit and his cock.

3. The woman will take it out on the naked woman in her bed rather than her bloke, and i value my hair too much to put it through a good tugging session.

But i suppose some folk thrive on the thrill.

I don't really want to be drinking tea on the sofa whilst his family stare at me from the walls

Exactly! But then i know it's not just men who do it, some women do it too but i just can't fathom it. The stress and worry would kill my lust stone dead.

Honey I'm home....

Would you let them finish or throw them out the window?

Throw them out the window. And i wouldn't open the window first

it's a bit like when a dopey bird doesn't realise it's glass and smacks into your window,leaving it's body imprinted on there and ends up knocking it's self out cold if not dead!"

Have you seem the film 'The other woman?' Sorry for the distaste OP

The man walks into a glass wall, highly amusing

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

Tea is...rank . Give me a mug of hot chocolate with cream and marshmallows any day of the week.

Oh yummy. Grate some chocolate on that too?

Oh my God yeah your speaking my language!

And some shortbread that melts on your tongue "

Who needs a man in their life when there's things like that love

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

Tea is...rank . Give me a mug of hot chocolate with cream and marshmallows any day of the week.

Oh yummy. Grate some chocolate on that too?

Oh my God yeah your speaking my language!

And some shortbread that melts on your tongue

Who needs a man in their life when there's things like that love "

*to

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm not saying he's not to blame and everybody (well...lots of people fuck up) but my question was more, could you knowingly go in to somebody's family home. The thought makes me retch......

No.

We were offered this once ( on another site )while his wife was out shopping for the afternoon , the very idea of it was a huge turn off.

Wait til they ask you to wear their wife's clothes and make dinner too "

I actually know of one single woman around here who gets off on wearing the wives/girlfriends underwear while meeting the husband/bf behind their partners back. Not short of offers either!

Think she dreams the line at sticking dinner in the oven though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been invited to a blokes house whilst their partner is in work.

A few reasons why i declined:

1. It's a shitty thing to do honestly.

2. How can you relax and enjoy yourself when any minute a woman might enter the room whose life will temporarily crumble because you couldn't say no to an ejit and his cock.

3. The woman will take it out on the naked woman in her bed rather than her bloke, and i value my hair too much to put it through a good tugging session.

But i suppose some folk thrive on the thrill.

I don't really want to be drinking tea on the sofa whilst his family stare at me from the walls

Exactly! But then i know it's not just men who do it, some women do it too but i just can't fathom it. The stress and worry would kill my lust stone dead.

Honey I'm home....

Would you let them finish or throw them out the window?

Throw them out the window. And i wouldn't open the window first

it's a bit like when a dopey bird doesn't realise it's glass and smacks into your window,leaving it's body imprinted on there and ends up knocking it's self out cold if not dead!

Have you seem the film 'The other woman?' Sorry for the distaste OP

The man walks into a glass wall, highly amusing "

I saw a guy do that while face timing. Walks through the bar loudly talking about how wonderful he thought he was and how loaded and BOOM; window not door.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

Tea is...rank . Give me a mug of hot chocolate with cream and marshmallows any day of the week.

Oh yummy. Grate some chocolate on that too?

Oh my God yeah your speaking my language!

And some shortbread that melts on your tongue

Who needs a man in their life when there's things like that love "

*sighs blissfully and rolls eyes with delight*

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Back to the OP please and keep it civil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So....I recently found out that my boyfriend has been on here without my knowledge. I've been away for a few months, while I was gone he fucked 3 different women from this site.

I offered him the opportunity to have an open relationship but he didn't want that.

I understand the reasons behind cheating are numerous and everybody is individual, what I really struggle with (strangely) is how another woman can come in to my home, have sex with my boyfriend and toddle back off to her little life without a care in the world.

No morals, no scruples, just plain nasty........

What is wrong with people?

Destruction, devastation and family torn apart. To that couple/woman on here.....thanks. I hope it was worth it. "

Your boyfriend has been on here without your knowledge because he obviously wanted more sex than he was getting.

The woman in question had sex with a guy who could or could not have said he was involved with someone else.

They used the mutual house because its cheaper than a hotel room to rent.

What if she didn't know about you ? My wife has met guys at theirs and ours and later found out they have partners that she was unaware of at the time, doesn't make her the bad person makes the person who lied to get a meet the bad person.

In this situation its your boyfriend who is at fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Agree...at the end of the day this women is a nobody and has nothing to lose, what does she care about him, you or your family...ur anger should be aimed more towards him, he's the one in your life, not her

Well techniquely she was in her life if she was in her bloody bed,I'd have felt like ripping her fucking face off then his.

That's them not giving too shits whatsoever and I think that would devastate me more than the sex,them having the barefaced cheek to do it in my home.

Why would you rip her face off? The guy invited her into the house, no one broke the door down to get in did they

Yeah very true,I'll just make her a coffee for when she's finished fucking my partner and have a good old natter with her and compare notes like you do silly me

That’s quite pathetic really, if someone invites you to their home isn’t the onus on them to be honest about their situation? How can someone else be held responsible for YOUR partner cheating?

Ok a cup of tea then,I'm just not that good a tea maker. Thanks for the advice

Tea makes everything better.

You should drink more of it

Gin is like a fast track version of a drink that makes things better.

Gin just makes me wallow in my own self pity. And it's rank

Gin is not rank, young man.. you have defective taste buds. Have you been licking too many pp3 batteries again? "

You drink it neat then?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I've been invited to a blokes house whilst their partner is in work.

A few reasons why i declined:

1. It's a shitty thing to do honestly.

2. How can you relax and enjoy yourself when any minute a woman might enter the room whose life will temporarily crumble because you couldn't say no to an ejit and his cock.

3. The woman will take it out on the naked woman in her bed rather than her bloke, and i value my hair too much to put it through a good tugging session.

But i suppose some folk thrive on the thrill.

I don't really want to be drinking tea on the sofa whilst his family stare at me from the walls

Exactly! But then i know it's not just men who do it, some women do it too but i just can't fathom it. The stress and worry would kill my lust stone dead.

Honey I'm home....

Would you let them finish or throw them out the window?

Throw them out the window. And i wouldn't open the window first

it's a bit like when a dopey bird doesn't realise it's glass and smacks into your window,leaving it's body imprinted on there and ends up knocking it's self out cold if not dead!

Have you seem the film 'The other woman?' Sorry for the distaste OP

The man walks into a glass wall, highly amusing "

No,but it sound's like I should

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By *heislanderMan
over a year ago

cheshunt


"No clue, I would much rather be in a monogamous relationship than here

I would rather have a relationship and be monogous then be a swinger.

My ex husband cheated on me for 10 years. I would never cheat. As why others do it. Something is missing in their lives perhaps. Issues in their relationships obviously."

But then some people will also ask why do couples swing ?, is there something missing in their relationship or have they got issues ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No clue, I would much rather be in a monogamous relationship than here

I would rather have a relationship and be monogous then be a swinger.

My ex husband cheated on me for 10 years. I would never cheat. As why others do it. Something is missing in their lives perhaps. Issues in their relationships obviously.

But then some people will also ask why do couples swing ?, is there something missing in their relationship or have they got issues ? "

They don’t have issues that I’m aware of and swing to take their sexual relationship to another level

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Sounds like you are better off without him OP. I have no doubts you will do well here, you seem like a good-looking honest gal.

Happy hunting

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Back to the OP please and keep it civil"

Start a new thread please to have your banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back to the OP please and keep it civil"

Looking at the original post on its own it sounds like a ‘fuck you’ post to me.

Fuck him off for cheating and fuck you bitches for having sex with a guy...... even though they probably didn’t know he hadn’t got permission.

Moral of the story; lock your man in chastity when you go away. He’ll be rating to go when you return..... after a good wash anyhow.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"

I'm not saying he's not to blame and everybody (well...lots of people fuck up) but my question was more, could you knowingly go in to somebody's family home. The thought makes me retch......

No.

We were offered this once ( on another site )while his wife was out shopping for the afternoon , the very idea of it was a huge turn off.

Wait til they ask you to wear their wife's clothes and make dinner too

I actually know of one single woman around here who gets off on wearing the wives/girlfriends underwear while meeting the husband/bf behind their partners back. Not short of offers either!

Think she dreams the line at sticking dinner in the oven though."

Now she would get her head ripped off,especially if she looks better in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the smell of vitriol in a morning!

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Yes I suppose I didn't convey my disgust and anger towards him, obviously he is very much to blame but so is she.

I don't understand how anybody can go in to someones family home....it's just beyond me."

Its not always that black and white. Did she know? You don't know how she felt after or even during? You don't know her I presume?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If you want to goad the mod into banning you then don't be surprised if they do. Use another thread for your talk about all things drink as you are spoiling this one

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

When you're sick and tired of the endless childish threads like kiss and avoid, a thread like this comes along. The addiction of the forum.

I sympathise with the OP. Its obviously a shitty and emotional time. But theres one or two points made by others that make you want to hear the other side of the story. It doesn't sound clear cut. But if it is straight forward then it is him to blame and not the invited party. If he's lied to you then he's definitely lied to the other woman.

If we spoke to someone on here then we believe what they tell us. If we're invited to a home then we'd assume the cover story they told us was true if he said you'd split up or it was a cuckold situation or whatever. I can't imagine you'd have family pics everywhere of you, him and your kids if youve only been together 7months months or so.

I don't think you can aim your anger at a probably innocent party.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I get why your angry with the female ..but do you know she wasn't lied to ..did he tell her you were happy for him to meet ,that you are also on here etc ...she may well have been duped .. concentrate your anger and disappointment where it firmly belongs.. with him ..it was him that cheated not her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may be a swingers site but there are some wemon on here who really dont care about another females feelings even going So far as to msg just to see if you have split from your partner so they can fk him regardless if your still hurting over it and veri it straight away so you see it just to cut that knife a bit more

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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There could be a poor woman on here right now reading that people want to rip her face off and calling her ‘scum’. All she did was meet a bloke on a sex site for sex. There is nothing at this point to say that she knew anything, yet she’s the bad person. She could also have been lied to, mislead, whatever. She might be completely distressed if she found out she had been in a partners bed. You have no idea. Talk about judgemental.

It’s bizarre to me that even on a sex site the ‘other woman’ is still the one to get the blame. It was his house, his bed, his partner ... not hers.

There are two sides to ever story. Far too many presumptions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

"

On what exactly? We met on here over a year ago, he deleted that profile.

He then made another without my knowledge, I didn't bother coming back on here to delete mine so it was left hidden.

I've no reason or inclination for bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's perfect normal and to be expected that the third party gets the brunt initially. That's human nature.

However the op did post about how disgusted and angry she is with her ex and how she holds them equally to blame.

I think people can look too defensive for their posts to be objective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on. He obviously wasn't there one for you. I've had more than one man ask for me to be exclusive to him. They never want to be exclusive to me.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"I'd just like to add, for the naysayers. I knew S when she was last here. She left due to this guy and hasn't been back on the the last year or so to my knowledge until very recently. I fully believe her. "

Veris from January then popped on in April and late May to post some pics of herself....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And of course OP there is the old saying "If they have cheated once and been caught then its probably not the first time they have cheated " Who knows how many other women have been lied to by your boyfriend ?

There again thinking too much about it maybe its the OP who may have been "the other woman" some people have been known to have 2-3 completely separate lives without any of their partners being aware of the other families living miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd just like to add, for the naysayers. I knew S when she was last here. She left due to this guy and hasn't been back on the the last year or so to my knowledge until very recently. I fully believe her.

Veris from January then popped on in April and late May to post some pics of herself....? "
in 2016

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So....I recently found out that my boyfriend has been on here without my knowledge. I've been away for a few months, while I was gone he fucked 3 different women from this site.

I offered him the opportunity to have an open relationship but he didn't want that.

I understand the reasons behind cheating are numerous and everybody is individual, what I really struggle with (strangely) is how another woman can come in to my home, have sex with my boyfriend and toddle back off to her little life without a care in the world.

No morals, no scruples, just plain nasty........

What is wrong with people?

Destruction, devastation and family torn apart. To that couple/woman on here.....thanks. I hope it was worth it. "

You are on here and i cant see no mention of your bf on your profile.

so prehaps he was doing the same as you?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

On what exactly? We met on here over a year ago, he deleted that profile.

He then made another without my knowledge, I didn't bother coming back on here to delete mine so it was left hidden.

I've no reason or inclination for bullshit."

So why didn't you delete your profile? If he was wanting exclusivity surely you should have honoured that and done the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens is, they know you're seeing other people, and they don't like it, they want you to be their woman only-despite meeting you on a swingers site.So, they say they want a monogamous relationship, and leave the site-hoping you will leave too. You hide your profile (because the cynic in you tells you he'll probably be back), and get on with trying to build a relationship, because that's what he says he wants. Eventually, he realises he can't be monogamous -if he ever intended to be in the first place -and comes back, or jumps at the chance of fucking someone you tell him is interested. So much for him wanting monogamy.

This is why I won't entertain the idea of exclusive relationships. Because, they either don't want an actual relationship; just want you to themselves in bed. Or, they want you to only fuck them (so you don't need to use protection), but a woman on the side wouldn't hurt now and then, would it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

On what exactly? We met on here over a year ago, he deleted that profile.

He then made another without my knowledge, I didn't bother coming back on here to delete mine so it was left hidden.

I've no reason or inclination for bullshit.

So why didn't you delete your profile? If he was wanting exclusivity surely you should have honoured that and done the same? "

If she didn't come on to use it I don't think it matters whether she deleted it or not. I've got an old TV Chix account I haven't used for yonks. I don't think about it because I don't want anything from it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, when a man says, I'll delete my profile, because I only want you, my brain says yeh yeh, course you do. I'm Mrs Cynical.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've not at any point said I blame her and not him. He is very much to blame but she is not blameless.

Our place has a couple of photos of us, 50 pairs of my shoes, perfume, jewellery, cosmetics and girls crap allover the bathroom.

He confessed everything and I asked if they knew about me, a shameful nod of the head answered my question.

Guess he could be lying about that but I feel after the relief of confessing he is now being honest and open about the rest.

He deleted his profile as soon as I asked him if he had one, I asked him to log in to it and he pretended to forget his log in details.

P.s if I wanted attention or sympathy sex I'd start a 'who'd like to help me get my own back' thread or a 'fuck, dump or cheat' thread

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I'd just like to add, for the naysayers. I knew S when she was last here. She left due to this guy and hasn't been back on the the last year or so to my knowledge until very recently. I fully believe her.

Veris from January then popped on in April and late May to post some pics of herself....? "

The pictures are from 2016, not this year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok.

You met on here but didn't know he had a profile?

He knows you have a profile but it has been hidden?

I'm calling bull shit.

On what exactly? We met on here over a year ago, he deleted that profile.

He then made another without my knowledge, I didn't bother coming back on here to delete mine so it was left hidden.

I've no reason or inclination for bullshit.

So why didn't you delete your profile? If he was wanting exclusivity surely you should have honoured that and done the same? "

Because I just didn't log in to it, I didn't use it, couldn't be arsed etc etc.

I didn't cheat, I didn't come on here and talk to people, meet people or do anything I shouldn't have whilst we were in a relationship.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've not at any point said I blame her and not him. He is very much to blame but she is not blameless.

Our place has a couple of photos of us, 50 pairs of my shoes, perfume, jewellery, cosmetics and girls crap allover the bathroom.

He confessed everything and I asked if they knew about me, a shameful nod of the head answered my question.

Guess he could be lying about that but I feel after the relief of confessing he is now being honest and open about the rest.

He deleted his profile as soon as I asked him if he had one, I asked him to log in to it and he pretended to forget his log in details.

P.s if I wanted attention or sympathy sex I'd start a 'who'd like to help me get my own back' thread or a 'fuck, dump or cheat' thread "

Did you have hair grips though? You know those are the ultimate territory markers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd just like to add, for the naysayers. I knew S when she was last here. She left due to this guy and hasn't been back on the the last year or so to my knowledge until very recently. I fully believe her.

Veris from January then popped on in April and late May to post some pics of herself....?

The pictures are from 2016, not this year"

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Have you spoken to real life people about it?

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over a year ago

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By *heislanderMan
over a year ago

cheshunt


"No clue, I would much rather be in a monogamous relationship than here

I would rather have a relationship and be monogous then be a swinger.

My ex husband cheated on me for 10 years. I would never cheat. As why others do it. Something is missing in their lives perhaps. Issues in their relationships obviously.

But then some people will also ask why do couples swing ?, is there something missing in their relationship or have they got issues ?

They don’t have issues that I’m aware of and swing to take their sexual relationship to another level"

“That you’re aware of” but you don’t know everyone, I’m not having a go at couples who swing, just putting another perspective on it.

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over a year ago


"I'd just like to add, for the naysayers. I knew S when she was last here. She left due to this guy and hasn't been back on the the last year or so to my knowledge until very recently. I fully believe her.

Veris from January then popped on in April and late May to post some pics of herself....? "

Veris and pics from 2016. Not this year.

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over a year ago


"Veris from January then popped on in April and late May to post some pics of herself....? "

But if in a relationship at that time why post pics to an unused account ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok

ask something

why did you feel the need to log onto fab after not being on since 2016 and share it on the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus some people are simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you should be directing the 'how could they' question to the woman / couple who verified him, only they know their reasons behind the decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok

ask something

why did you feel the need to log onto fab after not being on since 2016 and share it on the forums?"

She found his profile on his phone and came back to investigate, by the sound of it. She shared because she's hurting. Lots of people share this kind of thing; possibly as a release, maybe as a way of outing him, or revenge. Some people may know who he is, if they know her.

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over a year ago


"Maybe you should be directing the 'how could they' question to the woman / couple who verified him, only they know their reasons behind the decision.

"

and its not up to them to respond or tell her why and WHAT IF they thought he was single

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Jesus some people are simple"

Yes. Yes they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your boyfriend pretty much told you he wanted an exclusive relationship with you (from the fact he turned down an open relationship) but yet he invited a woman into your home behind your back, had sex with her and yet it’s the woman’s fault and she’s the one with no morals?

Yes I suppose I didn't convey my disgust and anger towards him, obviously he is very much to blame but so is she.

I don't understand how anybody can go in to someones family home....it's just beyond me.

Nah it’s more the boyfriends fault. They were both on here looking for sex, they found each other and he invited her back into your home.

I'm not saying he's not to blame and everybody (well...lots of people fuck up) but my question was more, could you knowingly go in to somebody's family home. The thought makes me retch......

"

She might not have known it was a family home, at least before she walked through the door anyway. Depending how much effort he went to to remove 'evidence' she still might not.

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over a year ago


"I'd just like to add, for the naysayers. I knew S when she was last here. She left due to this guy and hasn't been back on the the last year or so to my knowledge until very recently. I fully believe her. "

She didn't leave

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Cheating is just wrong. If you can’t be honest with your partner then you shouldn’t be together. The blame however lies solely with your boyfriend. Good job you are now rid of him.

People have different morals and life can get complicated so you can’t second guess others situation. You can only do what you feel is right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"I've not at any point said I blame her and not him. He is very much to blame but she is not blameless.

Our place has a couple of photos of us, 50 pairs of my shoes, perfume, jewellery, cosmetics and girls crap allover the bathroom.

He confessed everything and I asked if they knew about me, a shameful nod of the head answered my question.

Guess he could be lying about that but I feel after the relief of confessing he is now being honest and open about the rest.

He deleted his profile as soon as I asked him if he had one, I asked him to log in to it and he pretended to forget his log in details.

P.s if I wanted attention or sympathy sex I'd start a 'who'd like to help me get my own back' thread or a 'fuck, dump or cheat' thread "

Are you still together then? He's deleted his 'new' profile but you still have yours? Apologies if I've misunderstood the post

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