FabSwingers.com forum: How not to be grumpy?

By *ools and the brain OP Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

So I seem to have picked up a reputation for being rather grumpy,be it at work,at home or here.

Basically people see me as intimidating and grumpy.

OK I admit to being extremely sarcastic have a very low tolerance for ignorance, bigotry, stupidity and people who are generally self obsessed.

Along with sycophants, attention seeker's, anything relating to reality TV and the assholes who appear on it and watch it, bad driver's, racists, chauvinism, rudness (manners cost nothing old chap), people who Go shopping in pajamas/nightwear, d*unken loutish behaviour and people who don't like cat's.

Apart from that I am a pretty easy going happy chap,but I am struggling to change the way people see me.

Any suggestions?

(Middle finger emoji)

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Fuck it, just continue basking in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good call on reality TV op

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Fuck it, just continue basking in it. "

You I am liking your thinking.

At the moment people tend to keep me at arm's length.

If they knew me they would know I am a big old softy.

I prefer to be aloof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother! I don't gain any love from insignificant people but those that matter get me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cat lover/owner *waves*

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Well I don't see anything wrong whatsoever with any of the things you have an understandable low tolerance for

Especially the bit about cats

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Move up north. Nobody is happy up here unless they have something to moan about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh just be you.

Full everyone else. Be it literally or figuratively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

***other dwarves are available ***

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Sounds entirely reasonable to me. Crack on.

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Maybe I'm not grumpy, perhaps I am normal and it's the annoyingly cheerful people are the one's with a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I'm not grumpy, perhaps I am normal and it's the annoyingly cheerful people are the one's with a problem?"

Yep. I'd go with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the only way to be.

My tolerance for humans is also wafer thin. And my natural resting-bitch-face makes me a lot of enemies. Carry on as you are i say!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

what's a loof ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're right, it's the others that are wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha! You sound like my twin

Don't change a bit

From a fellow grumpster

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"what's a loof ?"

It's French for

" Fuck off and don't talk to me, please don't come over hear and attempt small talk or I will smite thee with hailstones of sarcasm and dry wit"

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

Firmly in your camp, to be honest!

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By *appyhumper123Man
over a year ago

hull

I get accused of being grumpy but I'm not I'm just a moaning bastard I could moan for Scotland and win gold every time in fact my middle name is moaning bastard

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