FabSwingers.com forum: Relationships

By *haza69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Just being noisy how many people are single and would be looking for relashionships rather than just sex or are we all just on here for one thing

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Me!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Just being noisy how many people are single and would be looking for relashionships rather than just sex or are we all just on here for one thing "

*waves*

Over hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me to. Would love to have a relationship again. Yes the sex, naughtiness, flirting and experimenting is great, but nothing Beats 1-1 with sensual passion and hugs, cuddles and intimate kissing with someone special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me!"

If you are million miles away, u will be single for ever, come closer to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me to. Would love to have a relationship again. Yes the sex, naughtiness, flirting and experimenting is great, but nothing Beats 1-1 with sensual passion and hugs, cuddles and intimate kissing with someone special.

well said that man

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Me.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said that man "

Thank you sir.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Single,

Looking for a relationship.

But enjoying fab until I meet the right person.

Then either become monogamous or start a couples profile.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Me.

I want a cuckold relationship. Don't think I'm built for monogamy.

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

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By *iffler 2019Woman
over a year ago

Saltash aka Fraggle Rock

Me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for regular fwb relationship with a mature women, love to spend weekend together.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I tend not to play if there isn’t a level of connection, Then again there tends to be a little ground to be explored before we do. L likes club play, no meaning, just fun with stunning people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going against the grain of the thread. Single with no intention of getting into another relationship any time soon. That's not to say I'm closed to one, but not actively seeking one.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hard to answer, as I said on another thread what I'd like is a step above fwb but not full on relationship necessarily and probably open too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck relationships ... they all go sour in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. I'm for a relationship. Which is why I wouldn't ever meet another man from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going against the grain of the thread. Single with no intention of getting into another relationship any time soon. That's not to say I'm closed to one, but not actively seeking one. "

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yeah. I'm for a relationship. Which is why I wouldn't ever meet another man from here."

I'm really having to tease it out but I am guessing it wasn't a positive experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah. I'm for a relationship. Which is why I wouldn't ever meet another man from here.

I'm really having to tease it out but I am guessing it wasn't a positive experience? "

It was very positive. For what it was. But I've realised that if a man is on here, he's not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah. I'm for a relationship. Which is why I wouldn't ever meet another man from here.

I'm really having to tease it out but I am guessing it wasn't a positive experience?

It was very positive. For what it was. But I've realised that if a man is on here, he's not for me."

I seem to keep finding men that want a relationship on here! I’m here for the uglies bumping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've both been on here as singles who weren't looking for a relationship. It's just happened.

Kitten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single. I have no idea what i want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm single. I have no idea what i want."

Yeah i get that. Im the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah. I'm for a relationship. Which is why I wouldn't ever meet another man from here.

I'm really having to tease it out but I am guessing it wasn't a positive experience?

It was very positive. For what it was. But I've realised that if a man is on here, he's not for me."

Ironic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah. I'm for a relationship. Which is why I wouldn't ever meet another man from here.

I'm really having to tease it out but I am guessing it wasn't a positive experience?

It was very positive. For what it was. But I've realised that if a man is on here, he's not for me.

I seem to keep finding men that want a relationship on here! I’m here for the uglies bumping

Yes. Most men I've met here want me as a girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah. I'm for a relationship. Which is why I wouldn't ever meet another man from here.

I'm really having to tease it out but I am guessing it wasn't a positive experience?

It was very positive. For what it was. But I've realised that if a man is on here, he's not for me.

I seem to keep finding men that want a relationship on here! I’m here for the uglies bumping

Yes. Most men I've met here want me as a girlfriend."

Poor you

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By *onforming_deviantWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I'm looking for a mix of both haha my best friend says I'm looking for part-time boyfriends haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah. I'm for a relationship. Which is why I wouldn't ever meet another man from here.

I'm really having to tease it out but I am guessing it wasn't a positive experience?

It was very positive. For what it was. But I've realised that if a man is on here, he's not for me.

I seem to keep finding men that want a relationship on here! I’m here for the uglies bumping

Yes. Most men I've met here want me as a girlfriend.

Poor you "

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Hard to answer, as I said on another thread what I'd like is a step above fwb but not full on relationship necessarily and probably open too. "

i know where your coming from

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Yeah. I'm for a relationship. Which is why I wouldn't ever meet another man from here.

I'm really having to tease it out but I am guessing it wasn't a positive experience?

It was very positive. For what it was. But I've realised that if a man is on here, he's not for me.

I seem to keep finding men that want a relationship on here! I’m here for the uglies bumping

Yes. Most men I've met here want me as a girlfriend.

Poor you "

sorry

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Just being noisy how many people are single and would be looking for relashionships rather than just sex or are we all just on here for one thing "

Yes I'd like something deep and connected, not meaningless. I have sex in the meantime but it doesn't satisfy my needs other than superficially. Not great but still I have sexual needs and the wand only does so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much jealousy. Such little time...

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hard to answer, as I said on another thread what I'd like is a step above fwb but not full on relationship necessarily and probably open too.

i know where your coming from

I can't find anyone nearby that does though apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So much jealousy. Such little time..."

I ain't jealous the last thing I want is a fucking relationship ... good god no

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By *uited for youMan
over a year ago

Bristol

And you think a man would like a relationship with you if he knew you were on here?? #justsaying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you think a man would like a relationship with you if he knew you were on here?? #justsaying"

Double standards much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking for a mix of both haha my best friend says I'm looking for part-time boyfriends haha"

How's an evening every other week sound?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way I'd have a relationship with someone off here.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"And you think a man would like a relationship with you if he knew you were on here?? #justsaying"

Why wouldn't he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for sex.

But I'd like a FWB situation - I dont want to live with anyone, but I'd like to go out have a laugh and have great sex with multiple partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you think a man would like a relationship with you if he knew you were on here?? #justsaying"

Does it make any difference to be on here or to end up every time with a different guy on a night out? Are we inferior just because we know what we want and are not afraid to ask for it? You are on here as well #justsaying

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By *uited for youMan
over a year ago

Bristol

[Removed by poster at 17/11/17 21:22:26]

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"And you think a man would like a relationship with you if he knew you were on here?? #justsaying"

Probably not as we women on here are spoiled goods aren't we!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Me me me me

Jumping and waving me!!

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By *uited for youMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"[Removed by poster at 17/11/17 21:22:26]"

Not at all. But to say you wouldn't want a relationship with a guy on here, when you are on here as well, seems hypocritical!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"And you think a man would like a relationship with you if he knew you were on here?? #justsaying

Probably not as we women on here are spoiled goods aren't we!

Forever unclean

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By *uited for youMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Same reason that she wouldn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being on here has ruined my chances of a relationship.

Would happily engage in a vanilla relationship if the perfect man came along but he’d need to be blooming naughty to keep me satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/11/17 21:25:50]

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Kind of but not.

I like being single, but I miss having cuddles.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"And you think a man would like a relationship with you if he knew you were on here?? #justsaying

Probably not as we women on here are spoiled goods aren't we!

Forever unclean

I know,we'll never get into heaven

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"And you think a man would like a relationship with you if he knew you were on here?? #justsaying

Probably not as we women on here are spoiled goods aren't we!

Someone said decent men won't want you if you are on that site being tied upside down having your arse fucked.

Oh ok

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By *uited for youMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"[Removed by poster at 17/11/17 21:25:50]"

Ummm I'm divorced thanks!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Same reason that she wouldn't? "

You need to use reply+quote so we know who you're talking to. It would also have added context to your initial comment which came across as dickish when I don't think it was meant to be

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By *uited for youMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Ha oh and I know you've met my ex wife Miss Honey- say no more!!

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

This probably isn't a popular opinion, however, I think what a lot of single people are actually seeking on here is intimacy. Sex is just a vehicle to get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you think a man would like a relationship with you if he knew you were on here?? #justsaying

Probably not as we women on here are spoiled goods aren't we!

Forever unclean

I know,we'll never get into heaven

I don't want to go to heaven ... I'm off to hell with all my friends

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"And you think a man would like a relationship with you if he knew you were on here?? #justsaying"
imagine finding out the gal you’re dating is into 3somes, bondage, and all your other porn fantasies. Total deal breaker. Missionary only with the gal I love.

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By *uited for youMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Same reason that she wouldn't?

You need to use reply+quote so we know who you're talking to. It would also have added context to your initial comment which came across as dickish when I don't think it was meant to be

Lol thanks ????

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Well this escalated quickly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 17/11/17 21:22:26]

Not at all. But to say you wouldn't want a relationship with a guy on here, when you are on here as well, seems hypocritical! "

I don't know if you've realised, but I have a relationship with a guy from here, and I wouldn't change him for any of guys off fab.

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By *uited for youMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"[Removed by poster at 17/11/17 21:22:26]

Not at all. But to say you wouldn't want a relationship with a guy on here, when you are on here as well, seems hypocritical!

I don't know if you've realised, but I have a relationship with a guy from here, and I wouldn't change him for any of guys off fab.

I do apologise, I meant that reply for Elpis- sorry

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By *uited for youMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"And you think a man would like a relationship with you if he knew you were on here?? #justsayingimagine finding out the gal you’re dating is into 3somes, bondage, and all your other porn fantasies. Total deal breaker. Missionary only with the gal I love. "

Imagine walking in on your wife doing that and not knowing!

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

_________________________

That’s me drawing a line under this whole confusion.

Now who wants a date ?

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over a year ago

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

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By *haza69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Some good points maybe one day we will get a swingers wedding xxx

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Good. Pass the filthy bitch onto me I'll have her

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Stop ignoring my line !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely not looking to sleep around, but not a relationship either but rather a lady to spend quality time with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single, sick of trying to find someone. I attract all the wrong men lol

Changing my tactics, they want me they can work for it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me me me me

Jumping and waving me!!

I’ve noticed you waving and jumping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am ready for a relationship, I would like one with someone who understands the liberal side of me i.e this!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've been bored with the whole nsa shit for quite a while now and often think it's time I sorted myself out and got some happy in my life. Only problem is every relationship I get in always fucks up no matter how good I think it is so what the he'll do you do.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

i think i might slowly be ready for a new relationship. but I don't think a vanilla vanilla relationship would be for me anymore- I wouldn't want to give the whole swinging stuff up.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Surely there are better places to meet "ur one"

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"i think i might slowly be ready for a new relationship. but I don't think a vanilla vanilla relationship would be for me anymore- I wouldn't want to give the whole swinging stuff up."

Faf

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Surely there are better places to meet "ur one""

It's as good a place as any and would definitely save a whole lot of explaining or lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationship and sex would be nice I just got the1 ;-(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you think a man would like a relationship with you if he knew you were on here?? #justsaying"

I don't think many men would care. They'd probably be relieved to have proof i have a high sex drive and the confidence to do something about it.

#couldn'tgiveashit

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Surely there are better places to meet "ur one""

I was hoping to meet someone here,but I now realise I was in cloudcuckoo land. I don’t want anyone from here,I can't trust what they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter where you meet though? The issue of trust because someone is on here is a biggie as very possibly they are on other sites too, but that cuts both ways. Ultimately we have to develop trust and honesty in any relationship and so I don’t believe there’s a right and wrong place, if you meet someone and click then whoopie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely there are better places to meet "ur one"

I was hoping to meet someone here,but I now realise I was in cloudcuckoo land. I don’t want anyone from here,I can't trust what they say.

i find most on any internet site the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be open to it, but not actively looking for it at all atm. Also not just looking for sex either, I want all the other stuff that surrounds it as well. Kind of a close friend with benefits type thing would be ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely there are better places to meet "ur one"

I was hoping to meet someone here,but I now realise I was in cloudcuckoo land. I don’t want anyone from here,I can't trust what they say.

I agree... but why though? Perhaps the men on here are more honest about wanting sex whereas the ones on dating sites pretend to want a relationship when all they want is a shag.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

I'm single and actively looking for a relationship.

And sex, obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely there are better places to meet "ur one"

I was hoping to meet someone here,but I now realise I was in cloudcuckoo land. I don’t want anyone from here,I can't trust what they say.

I agree... but why though? Perhaps the men on here are more honest about wanting sex whereas the ones on dating sites pretend to want a relationship when all they want is a shag. "

I'm increasingly convinced that the clichés are right; men will only love a woman when she's demonstrably not 'easy'. Much like marx, they don't want to be a member of a club that would have them.

I don't think it matters if it's fab or a dating site. If you put out too fast, or seem as though you would, you'll lose any respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely there are better places to meet "ur one"

I was hoping to meet someone here,but I now realise I was in cloudcuckoo land. I don’t want anyone from here,I can't trust what they say.

I agree... but why though? Perhaps the men on here are more honest about wanting sex whereas the ones on dating sites pretend to want a relationship when all they want is a shag.

I'm increasingly convinced that the clichés are right; men will only love a woman when she's demonstrably not 'easy'. Much like marx, they don't want to be a member of a club that would have them.

I don't think it matters if it's fab or a dating site. If you put out too fast, or seem as though you would, you'll lose any respect. "

I think you're right. They find the good girl for the relationship. But she's such a 'nice girl' she doesn't like sex. So they get all horny and frustrated and come back looking for us 'bad girls'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes , me too ! I would definitely welcome the opportunity to meet someone on here and see how things develop.

Not many opportunities down here in Devon though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely there are better places to meet "ur one"

I was hoping to meet someone here,but I now realise I was in cloudcuckoo land. I don’t want anyone from here,I can't trust what they say.

I agree... but why though? Perhaps the men on here are more honest about wanting sex whereas the ones on dating sites pretend to want a relationship when all they want is a shag.

I'm increasingly convinced that the clichés are right; men will only love a woman when she's demonstrably not 'easy'. Much like marx, they don't want to be a member of a club that would have them.

I don't think it matters if it's fab or a dating site. If you put out too fast, or seem as though you would, you'll lose any respect.

I think you're right. They find the good girl for the relationship. But she's such a 'nice girl' she doesn't like sex. So they get all horny and frustrated and come back looking for us 'bad girls'.

No. I disagree. Thats too black and white. No woman is one or the other. If she doesn't like sex, that's down to them being incompatible or down to him being a cunt to her and turning her off.

'Bad' girls are the women having sex to feel loved. That whole Madonna / whore complex many men can't get the fuck over.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"If you put out too fast, or seem as though you would, you'll lose any respect. "

I fundamentally disagree with this statement. 'putting out' quickly would have no bearing on whether or not I might respect a women, or fall in love with her for that matter.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Surely there are better places to meet "ur one"

I was hoping to meet someone here,but I now realise I was in cloudcuckoo land. I don’t want anyone from here,I can't trust what they say.

I agree... but why though? Perhaps the men on here are more honest about wanting sex whereas the ones on dating sites pretend to want a relationship when all they want is a shag.

I'm increasingly convinced that the clichés are right; men will only love a woman when she's demonstrably not 'easy'. Much like marx, they don't want to be a member of a club that would have them.

I don't think it matters if it's fab or a dating site. If you put out too fast, or seem as though you would, you'll lose any respect.

I think you're right. They find the good girl for the relationship. But she's such a 'nice girl' she doesn't like sex. So they get all horny and frustrated and come back looking for us 'bad girls'.

My spin is there are people men will happily have sex with but wouldn’t want to date. (Shit example but I couldn’t date a smoker. But could sleep with one if I found them attractive.)

But men lie when they see someone as being sex only so pretend to the gal dating could be in the table. Which kicks out this idea.

I went down on my ex on date 1. And we slept together on date 2. Yet have massive respect for her and we went on to have four happy years. One example doesn’t disprove a rule of thumb. But at least shows it is at most a rule of thumb.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do think it is double standards on here, and I can't see it changing anytime soon unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single... I've done all I wanted to do as a swinger... time for a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely there are better places to meet "ur one"

I was hoping to meet someone here,but I now realise I was in cloudcuckoo land. I don’t want anyone from here,I can't trust what they say.

I agree... but why though? Perhaps the men on here are more honest about wanting sex whereas the ones on dating sites pretend to want a relationship when all they want is a shag.

I'm increasingly convinced that the clichés are right; men will only love a woman when she's demonstrably not 'easy'. Much like marx, they don't want to be a member of a club that would have them.

I don't think it matters if it's fab or a dating site. If you put out too fast, or seem as though you would, you'll lose any respect.

I think you're right. They find the good girl for the relationship. But she's such a 'nice girl' she doesn't like sex. So they get all horny and frustrated and come back looking for us 'bad girls'.

No. I disagree. Thats too black and white. No woman is one or the other. If she doesn't like sex, that's down to them being incompatible or down to him being a cunt to her and turning her off.

'Bad' girls are the women having sex to feel loved. That whole Madonna / whore complex many men can't get the fuck over."

Yeah good point. I think I mean the Madonna/ whore thing. The belief that women can't be both.

Also when I said 'us' bad girls I didn't mean you- or any women on here- are 'bad'. Just that some people think that any women that like sex are bad. (In my experience.)

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"If you put out too fast, or seem as though you would, you'll lose any respect.

I fundamentally disagree with this statement. 'putting out' quickly would have no bearing on whether or not I might respect a women, or fall in love with her for that matter. "

I agree.

A long term ex of mine 'put out' within an hour of us meeting.

Okay, we first met initially with a view for NSA... but fell for each other.

The rest is history.

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over a year ago

"Yeah. I'm for a relationship. Which is why I wouldn't ever meet another man from here."

I've never met someone from this and don't really want to. My profile pics and write up is so if someone does text they know I'm a real person and not a troll. I'm on this cause I love reading about sex and the forums and have a little flirt but really I'm a "vanilla" guy as they say here. Monogamy is my thing. Just saying that to show not all males are banging a new girl everyweek on this.

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over a year ago

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