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 A lack of verification (or recent ones at least) when a profile is over a year old can often indicate that someone is a timewaster... Just as reading between the lines on verifications can also show that someone was only verifying out of politeness and actually struggled to find something nice to say | |||
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"Definitely not. If it was only for no shows and time wasters it would work well, but consider this - every time you give someone a polite "no thanks", 9 out of 10 would give you a dislike. I'd be very unpopular on here, even though I'm really quite a nice person x " Point | |||
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"While sites like this are great at giving you the opportunity to verify the people you have managed to meet or cam with.... Unfortunately there is no system for identifying those who are repeat 'no shows'or 'ghosts', and naming/shaming is not permitted. However... The verification system does allow some insight A lack of verification (or recent ones at least) when a profile is over a year old can often indicate that someone is a timewaster... Just as reading between the lines on verifications can also show that someone was only verifying out of politeness and actually struggled to find something nice to say "I do find it odd that people rely on total strangers opinions when deciding whether or not they'll fuck another total stranger. Have people really lost the ability to judge situations for themselves? Ted Bundy at al didn't slice and dice every woman he came in contact with, so why assume someone on here will turn up and "treat you with respect" just because skackalice69 said so? Not having a dig, generally interested as I always ask but no one answers. | |||
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"While sites like this are great at giving you the opportunity to verify the people you have managed to meet or cam with.... Unfortunately there is no system for identifying those who are repeat 'no shows'or 'ghosts', and naming/shaming is not permitted. However... The verification system does allow some insight A lack of verification (or recent ones at least) when a profile is over a year old can often indicate that someone is a timewaster... Just as reading between the lines on verifications can also show that someone was only verifying out of politeness and actually struggled to find something nice to say
I do find it odd that people rely on total strangers opinions when deciding whether or not they'll fuck another total stranger.
Have people really lost the ability to judge situations for themselves?
Ted Bundy at al didn't slice and dice every woman he came in contact with, so why assume someone on here will turn up and "treat you with respect" just because skackalice69 said so?
Not having a dig, generally interested as I always ask but no one answers. "I guess some help is better than none If someone has 4 or 5 no show veris and zero good it’s a decent indicator | |||
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"While sites like this are great at giving you the opportunity to verify the people you have managed to meet or cam with.... Unfortunately there is no system for identifying those who are repeat 'no shows'or 'ghosts', and naming/shaming is not permitted. However... The verification system does allow some insight A lack of verification (or recent ones at least) when a profile is over a year old can often indicate that someone is a timewaster... Just as reading between the lines on verifications can also show that someone was only verifying out of politeness and actually struggled to find something nice to say
I do find it odd that people rely on total strangers opinions when deciding whether or not they'll fuck another total stranger.
Have people really lost the ability to judge situations for themselves?
Ted Bundy at al didn't slice and dice every woman he came in contact with, so why assume someone on here will turn up and "treat you with respect" just because skackalice69 said so?
Not having a dig, generally interested as I always ask but no one answers. "I've answered this on a lot of past threads. Personally I'm never going to decide who to meet based on either a profile or verifications. I have yet to see anyone put up a bad veri and reading those that are posted I wonder if they ever get beyond the same few cliches. The fact that someone is verified by another is wholly irrelevant to how I or anyone else may interact with that person...so really what is the point of them. I know many will disagree it's their right to do so and if others feel that they require other people's validation of someone they are considering meeting then that's fine for them. I'm the meantime I'll just carry on trusting my own judgement and take whatever comes with that without complaint. And to OP Do you really think this site really nerds another way for people to take their issues or discontent out on other members? | |||
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"While sites like this are great at giving you the opportunity to verify the people you have managed to meet or cam with.... Unfortunately there is no system for identifying those who are repeat 'no shows'or 'ghosts', and naming/shaming is not permitted. However... The verification system does allow some insight A lack of verification (or recent ones at least) when a profile is over a year old can often indicate that someone is a timewaster... Just as reading between the lines on verifications can also show that someone was only verifying out of politeness and actually struggled to find something nice to say
I do find it odd that people rely on total strangers opinions when deciding whether or not they'll fuck another total stranger.
Have people really lost the ability to judge situations for themselves?
Ted Bundy at al didn't slice and dice every woman he came in contact with, so why assume someone on here will turn up and "treat you with respect" just because skackalice69 said so?
Not having a dig, generally interested as I always ask but no one answers.
I've answered this on a lot of past threads. Personally I'm never going to decide who to meet based on either a profile or verifications.
I have yet to see anyone put up a bad veri and reading those that are posted I wonder if they ever get beyond the same few cliches.
The fact that someone is verified by another is wholly irrelevant to how I or anyone else may interact with that person...so really what is the point of them. I know many will disagree it's their right to do so and if others feel that they require other people's validation of someone they are considering meeting then that's fine for them.
I'm the meantime I'll just carry on trusting my own judgement and take whatever comes with that without complaint.
And to OP Do you really think this site really nerds another way for people to take their issues or discontent out on other members?"Wow angry man If u see comment previous it might dampen your rant a lil | |||
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"While sites like this are great at giving you the opportunity to verify the people you have managed to meet or cam with.... Unfortunately there is no system for identifying those who are repeat 'no shows'or 'ghosts', and naming/shaming is not permitted. However... The verification system does allow some insight A lack of verification (or recent ones at least) when a profile is over a year old can often indicate that someone is a timewaster... Just as reading between the lines on verifications can also show that someone was only verifying out of politeness and actually struggled to find something nice to say
I do find it odd that people rely on total strangers opinions when deciding whether or not they'll fuck another total stranger.
Have people really lost the ability to judge situations for themselves?
Ted Bundy at al didn't slice and dice every woman he came in contact with, so why assume someone on here will turn up and "treat you with respect" just because skackalice69 said so?
Not having a dig, generally interested as I always ask but no one answers.
I've answered this on a lot of past threads. Personally I'm never going to decide who to meet based on either a profile or verifications.
I have yet to see anyone put up a bad veri and reading those that are posted I wonder if they ever get beyond the same few cliches.
The fact that someone is verified by another is wholly irrelevant to how I or anyone else may interact with that person...so really what is the point of them. I know many will disagree it's their right to do so and if others feel that they require other people's validation of someone they are considering meeting then that's fine for them.
I'm the meantime I'll just carry on trusting my own judgement and take whatever comes with that without complaint.
And to OP Do you really think this site really nerds another way for people to take their issues or discontent out on other members?"Think you're missing the point. It would be great to have some sort of alarm system on here to show people they're getting mixed up with notorious time wasters and people who will stand you up. Unfortunately there's no way we could be warned up front x | |||
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"While sites like this are great at giving you the opportunity to verify the people you have managed to meet or cam with.... Unfortunately there is no system for identifying those who are repeat 'no shows'or 'ghosts', and naming/shaming is not permitted. However... The verification system does allow some insight A lack of verification (or recent ones at least) when a profile is over a year old can often indicate that someone is a timewaster... Just as reading between the lines on verifications can also show that someone was only verifying out of politeness and actually struggled to find something nice to say
I do find it odd that people rely on total strangers opinions when deciding whether or not they'll fuck another total stranger.
Have people really lost the ability to judge situations for themselves?
Ted Bundy at al didn't slice and dice every woman he came in contact with, so why assume someone on here will turn up and "treat you with respect" just because skackalice69 said so?
Not having a dig, generally interested as I always ask but no one answers.
I've answered this on a lot of past threads. Personally I'm never going to decide who to meet based on either a profile or verifications.
I have yet to see anyone put up a bad veri and reading those that are posted I wonder if they ever get beyond the same few cliches.
The fact that someone is verified by another is wholly irrelevant to how I or anyone else may interact with that person...so really what is the point of them. I know many will disagree it's their right to do so and if others feel that they require other people's validation of someone they are considering meeting then that's fine for them.
I'm the meantime I'll just carry on trusting my own judgement and take whatever comes with that without complaint.
And to OP Do you really think this site really nerds another way for people to take their issues or discontent out on other members?
Wow angry man
If u see comment previous it might dampen your rant a lil"Angry really? For daring to express an opinion which may be at variance with the views of others. If you consider my response angry perhaps you should go back and read it in the context of it being a response to the question asked by the poster to whom I responded. Anger it's for those who rant before they read. I do neither. It seems you may need a smile or two  | |||
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"While sites like this are great at giving you the opportunity to verify the people you have managed to meet or cam with.... Unfortunately there is no system for identifying those who are repeat 'no shows'or 'ghosts', and naming/shaming is not permitted. However... The verification system does allow some insight A lack of verification (or recent ones at least) when a profile is over a year old can often indicate that someone is a timewaster... Just as reading between the lines on verifications can also show that someone was only verifying out of politeness and actually struggled to find something nice to say
I do find it odd that people rely on total strangers opinions when deciding whether or not they'll fuck another total stranger.
Have people really lost the ability to judge situations for themselves?
Ted Bundy at al didn't slice and dice every woman he came in contact with, so why assume someone on here will turn up and "treat you with respect" just because skackalice69 said so?
Not having a dig, generally interested as I always ask but no one answers.
I've answered this on a lot of past threads. Personally I'm never going to decide who to meet based on either a profile or verifications.
I have yet to see anyone put up a bad veri and reading those that are posted I wonder if they ever get beyond the same few cliches.
The fact that someone is verified by another is wholly irrelevant to how I or anyone else may interact with that person...so really what is the point of them. I know many will disagree it's their right to do so and if others feel that they require other people's validation of someone they are considering meeting then that's fine for them.
I'm the meantime I'll just carry on trusting my own judgement and take whatever comes with that without complaint.
And to OP Do you really think this site really nerds another way for people to take their issues or discontent out on other members?
Wow angry man
If u see comment previous it might dampen your rant a lil
Angry really? For daring to express an opinion which may be at variance with the views of others.
If you consider my response angry perhaps you should go back and read it in the context of it being a response to the question asked by the poster to whom I responded.
Anger it's for those who rant before they read. I do neither.
It seems you may need a smile or two
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"While sites like this are great at giving you the opportunity to verify the people you have managed to meet or cam with.... Unfortunately there is no system for identifying those who are repeat 'no shows'or 'ghosts', and naming/shaming is not permitted. However... The verification system does allow some insight A lack of verification (or recent ones at least) when a profile is over a year old can often indicate that someone is a timewaster... Just as reading between the lines on verifications can also show that someone was only verifying out of politeness and actually struggled to find something nice to say
I do find it odd that people rely on total strangers opinions when deciding whether or not they'll fuck another total stranger.
Have people really lost the ability to judge situations for themselves?
Ted Bundy at al didn't slice and dice every woman he came in contact with, so why assume someone on here will turn up and "treat you with respect" just because skackalice69 said so?
Not having a dig, generally interested as I always ask but no one answers. "  | |||
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"While sites like this are great at giving you the opportunity to verify the people you have managed to meet or cam with.... Unfortunately there is no system for identifying those who are repeat 'no shows'or 'ghosts', and naming/shaming is not permitted. However... The verification system does allow some insight A lack of verification (or recent ones at least) when a profile is over a year old can often indicate that someone is a timewaster... Just as reading between the lines on verifications can also show that someone was only verifying out of politeness and actually struggled to find something nice to say
I do find it odd that people rely on total strangers opinions when deciding whether or not they'll fuck another total stranger.
Have people really lost the ability to judge situations for themselves?
Ted Bundy at al didn't slice and dice every woman he came in contact with, so why assume someone on here will turn up and "treat you with respect" just because skackalice69 said so?
Not having a dig, generally interested as I always ask but no one answers.
I've answered this on a lot of past threads. Personally I'm never going to decide who to meet based on either a profile or verifications.
I have yet to see anyone put up a bad veri and reading those that are posted I wonder if they ever get beyond the same few cliches.
The fact that someone is verified by another is wholly irrelevant to how I or anyone else may interact with that person...so really what is the point of them. I know many will disagree it's their right to do so and if others feel that they require other people's validation of someone they are considering meeting then that's fine for them.
I'm the meantime I'll just carry on trusting my own judgement and take whatever comes with that without complaint.
And to OP Do you really think this site really nerds another way for people to take their issues or discontent out on other members?
Think you're missing the point. It would be great to have some sort of alarm system on here to show people they're getting mixed up with notorious time wasters and people who will stand you up. Unfortunately there's no way we could be warned up front x"If people need a website to babysit them should they really be meeting strangers for sex? | |||
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"While sites like this are great at giving you the opportunity to verify the people you have managed to meet or cam with.... Unfortunately there is no system for identifying those who are repeat 'no shows'or 'ghosts', and naming/shaming is not permitted. However... The verification system does allow some insight A lack of verification (or recent ones at least) when a profile is over a year old can often indicate that someone is a timewaster... Just as reading between the lines on verifications can also show that someone was only verifying out of politeness and actually struggled to find something nice to say
I do find it odd that people rely on total strangers opinions when deciding whether or not they'll fuck another total stranger.
Have people really lost the ability to judge situations for themselves?
Ted Bundy at al didn't slice and dice every woman he came in contact with, so why assume someone on here will turn up and "treat you with respect" just because skackalice69 said so?
Not having a dig, generally interested as I always ask but no one answers.
I've answered this on a lot of past threads. Personally I'm never going to decide who to meet based on either a profile or verifications.
I have yet to see anyone put up a bad veri and reading those that are posted I wonder if they ever get beyond the same few cliches.
The fact that someone is verified by another is wholly irrelevant to how I or anyone else may interact with that person...so really what is the point of them. I know many will disagree it's their right to do so and if others feel that they require other people's validation of someone they are considering meeting then that's fine for them.
I'm the meantime I'll just carry on trusting my own judgement and take whatever comes with that without complaint.
And to OP Do you really think this site really nerds another way for people to take their issues or discontent out on other members?
Think you're missing the point. It would be great to have some sort of alarm system on here to show people they're getting mixed up with notorious time wasters and people who will stand you up. Unfortunately there's no way we could be warned up front x
If people need a website to babysit them should they really be meeting strangers for sex?"Where does the babysitter come in? | |||
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