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"Oh good luck, I am the same but because the jobs I've applied for are more to do with my skills as a chef I just go down the you'll be lucky to have me route, it usually works. For what it's worth keep smiling, sell yourself and never sell yourself short.. Crying and begging can also work ... ![]() Crying is what I’m terrified about doing, I had a bereavement recently so im a little fragile | |||
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"Good luck sweetheart! I’ve always gone in being myself with the attitude that I’m being the best me I can be. Nice smile, nice and open and honest, you can do it ????" Thanks I’ll plaster on the deranged smile look and give it my best x | |||
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"I can't offer many tips, I've never been interviewed. I imagine the usual staying calm tips work though. Like make sure you sleep well the night prior, have a good meal, breathing exercises, mentally go over what you're likely to be asked, research the company, project the confident person you are. " Without giving too much away it’s hard to research this job really. I haven’t slept properly in months so that one is difficult. And thanks I’ve lost some of my confidence recently but I’ll give it ago x | |||
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"Remember the point of the interview is for you to show them that you are right for the job, remember to take in a sheet or a few little cards with some pointers on to help get you through.. do your research into the company and try and ask a couple of questions at the end that will make you stand out... My personal favourite question to ask at interviews is abit of a reversal one to the interviewer - "So what made you initially apply for a job with this company..?" It always gets good feedback! Hope that helps a little OP and good luck ![]() Thanks I may try that one as Ive thought of a couple of questions but they may cover them in the interview x | |||
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"Before the interview make sure your comfortable about the company who’s interviewing you. Know who they are what they do and what job spec is You already know how and who you are. So place yourself in the company in the position advertised. What have you got that will add to thier existing business. Why would they choose you over the next person what makes you stand out. You’ll be asked questions that you will know the answer to but may have to think about. Ie tell us about a time when you were in this position and for example someone kicked off. What did you do. How did react and how did you resolve the issue. It is about prep Listen to the questions. Take a moment to think before answering If your unsure what the question means. Ask them to clarify the question If you have a Brag book or any paper with your achievements bring them. Just relax before hand. Once you know your stuff you will be fine Good luck x" Thanks they have asked me to bring proof of my qualifications so I will have that with me but I’ve recently done a diploma so I’m thinking that I can reference parts of it in the interview | |||
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"Before the interview make sure your comfortable about the company who’s interviewing you. Know who they are what they do and what job spec is You already know how and who you are. So place yourself in the company in the position advertised. What have you got that will add to thier existing business. Why would they choose you over the next person what makes you stand out. You’ll be asked questions that you will know the answer to but may have to think about. Ie tell us about a time when you were in this position and for example someone kicked off. What did you do. How did react and how did you resolve the issue. It is about prep Listen to the questions. Take a moment to think before answering If your unsure what the question means. Ask them to clarify the question If you have a Brag book or any paper with your achievements bring them. Just relax before hand. Once you know your stuff you will be fine Good luck x Thanks they have asked me to bring proof of my qualifications so I will have that with me but I’ve recently done a diploma so I’m thinking that I can reference parts of it in the interview " Great you can reference anything once it’s relevent to the job and the interview Also ask the interviewees questions too. Don’t be afraid to. You wouldn’t have been called for interview unless you were a 100% match for the job. You would be amazed the amount of job applications for one job get thrown in the trash. It’s all about you now so be you be strong and remember to wear your knickers lol | |||
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"Remember, you are also interviewing them. They will be lucky to have you. ![]() ![]() Thanks that’s what my old bosses have said. Which has helped a little as they didn’t want me to leave and they said that wherever gets me will be lucky. They have already requested references which I know the replies have been glowing which is another bonus x | |||
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"Best of luck to you, OP!! ![]() glad luck to you too.... some good advice on this thread. I'm sure you'll both smash it ![]() ![]() | |||
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"A great piece of advice which helped calm my nerves when being interviewed for a job.. remember that they have very specific requirements and the role reflects this. So if your skills and experience don't quite fit, that's all it is. It's not at all personal. I find this helps to take the edge off and stops fear of rejection. All the best x" Thank you. I have all the essentials and all but 1 of the desirables on the job description. It’s a dual role and I think a lot of people will only have experience in one side of the role or the other not both, they also said it would be desirable to have qualifications in one of the roles, again I have qualifications in both roles. So I know I fit what they are after, it’s purely down to if they like me in the interview I think | |||
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"I have my first interview in over 7 years next week and I’m terrified! I adored the job I had, but I left due to relocating, I really really want this job as it is a new challenge and I believe the skills and qualifications I have would be of benefit to them. However when I’m nervous I get tongue tied so I’m looking for interview tips ![]() Make sure you have carefully researched the company and offer something to prove you have during the interview. I was told by my current employer this was a BIG positive in my interview. Good luck with it xx | |||
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"I have my first interview in over 7 years next week and I’m terrified! I adored the job I had, but I left due to relocating, I really really want this job as it is a new challenge and I believe the skills and qualifications I have would be of benefit to them. However when I’m nervous I get tongue tied so I’m looking for interview tips ![]() Speak slowly and clearly try not to rush answers. Also, make sure that you are comfortably dressed and sleep well night before. | |||
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"I have my first interview in over 7 years next week and I’m terrified! I adored the job I had, but I left due to relocating, I really really want this job as it is a new challenge and I believe the skills and qualifications I have would be of benefit to them. However when I’m nervous I get tongue tied so I’m looking for interview tips ![]() Smile. Make eye contact. Think before you answer questions. Remember, you are there to talk about yourself; you are the expert on you. Best of luck. | |||
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"Thank interview people regularly, my advice would be; Don’t be late. Eye contact Firm handshake Be dressed appropriately Be clean including nails and shoes If you need a water and it’s not offered. Ask Have a copy of your cv with you Research the company and have pre-prepared questions. Ask about the team, what their current challenges are. Do not discuss money or benefits Good luck! " And push your chair back under the table once you're done ![]() | |||
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"Thank interview people regularly, my advice would be; Don’t be late. Eye contact Firm handshake Be dressed appropriately Be clean including nails and shoes If you need a water and it’s not offered. Ask Have a copy of your cv with you Research the company and have pre-prepared questions. Ask about the team, what their current challenges are. Do not discuss money or benefits Good luck! " Pretty much this! I also always ask at the end “is there any reason I wouldn’t be considered for the next stage?” It allows them to re ask a question you weren’t as strong in answering, or they will say no - which gives you the feedback you need. Smile, be authentic, be interested and outwardly show you are confident. Good luck x | |||
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" I also always ask at the end “is there any reason I wouldn’t be considered for the next stage?” It allows them to re ask a question you weren’t as strong in answering, or they will say no - which gives you the feedback you need. " As an interviewer I have been asked that on 3 or 4 occasions .I never, ever answer that question. Harsh perhaps but the interviewee has already had their opportunity to shine. | |||
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" I also always ask at the end “is there any reason I wouldn’t be considered for the next stage?” It allows them to re ask a question you weren’t as strong in answering, or they will say no - which gives you the feedback you need. As an interviewer I have been asked that on 3 or 4 occasions .I never, ever answer that question. Harsh perhaps but the interviewee has already had their opportunity to shine. " I have never been asked that when interviewing... But I feel a lot of people miss out by not doing it... And if an interviewer didn’t ever answer any of my questions it would be a sign of disrespect. Obviously, if I was being interviewed for a minimum wage job, my attitude might be different... I would see it as a sign of weakness maybe, dishonesty, and I definitely wouldn’t want to work for them. Communication is the most important part of almost every business... so if I was ever refused answers to any important questions at any time of the employment, or interview process, I woukd definitely see it as time to move forwards and upwards | |||
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" I also always ask at the end “is there any reason I wouldn’t be considered for the next stage?” It allows them to re ask a question you weren’t as strong in answering, or they will say no - which gives you the feedback you need. As an interviewer I have been asked that on 3 or 4 occasions .I never, ever answer that question. Harsh perhaps but the interviewee has already had their opportunity to shine. I have never been asked that when interviewing... But I feel a lot of people miss out by not doing it... And if an interviewer didn’t ever answer any of my questions it would be a sign of disrespect. Obviously, if I was being interviewed for a minimum wage job, my attitude might be different... I would see it as a sign of weakness maybe, dishonesty, and I definitely wouldn’t want to work for them. Communication is the most important part of almost every business... so if I was ever refused answers to any important questions at any time of the employment, or interview process, I woukd definitely see it as time to move forwards and upwards " Everyone is entitled to their opinion. ![]() | |||
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"Thank you all for the advice, it worked I got the job ![]() ![]() So. Much. Win. Huzzah! Congratulations. Fizzy pop and pink wafers all round. | |||
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"Thank you all for the advice, it worked I got the job ![]() ![]() Brilliant congrats x | |||
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"Thank you all for the advice, it worked I got the job ![]() ![]() Well done you!! x | |||
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"Thank you all for the advice, it worked I got the job ![]() ![]() Yayyyyyyyyy congrats ![]() | |||
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"Thank you all for the advice, it worked I got the job ![]() ![]() Brilliant! Well done! | |||
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" I also always ask at the end “is there any reason I wouldn’t be considered for the next stage?” It allows them to re ask a question you weren’t as strong in answering, or they will say no - which gives you the feedback you need. As an interviewer I have been asked that on 3 or 4 occasions .I never, ever answer that question. Harsh perhaps but the interviewee has already had their opportunity to shine. " Oh you’re very harsh lol! I’ve asked it a few times and always had the person answer ![]() | |||
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"Thank you all for the advice, it worked I got the job ![]() ![]() Aww so pleased for you ![]() | |||
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"Thank you all for the advice, it worked I got the job ![]() ![]() That is fantastic - very well done x ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have my first interview in over 7 years next week and I’m terrified! I adored the job I had, but I left due to relocating, I really really want this job as it is a new challenge and I believe the skills and qualifications I have would be of benefit to them. However when I’m nervous I get tongue tied so I’m looking for interview tips ![]() Just be yourself and your undoubted talent and fantastic personality will make the job yours xxx | |||
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"Thank you all for the advice, it worked I got the job ![]() ![]() Well done you. ![]() | |||
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