FabSwingers.com forum: Aggressive men on here

By *ammyharrogate OP Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

Why do men get aggressive on here ? Does reporting them do anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a whole lot happens unless the transgression is worthy of profile removal. It's likely, you'll just end up mutually blocked.

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By *ammyharrogate OP Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

That I can live with

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I blame unrealistic expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't wait for admin though. Just block them yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you say for them to respond aggressively. I've only had one message out of thousands that I could call aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame idiots.

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By *ammyharrogate OP Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

I said I wouldn’t ring him after 1 message which was just his number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I said I wouldn’t ring him after 1 message which was just his number "

Simplest solution is block them after saying no. No more aggressive comebacks.

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

"Why do men get aggressive on here ? Does reporting them do anything? "

Thankfully yes, it does, they're bagged and binned by the moderators (cheers guys), especially if there's evidence of abuse and/or threat.

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By *ammyharrogate OP Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

No flogging and sending to the deepest reaches of the land then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame the parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I blame the parents "

I blame brexit.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"Why do men get aggressive on here ? Does reporting them do anything?

Thankfully yes, it does, they're bagged and binned by the moderators (cheers guys), especially if there's evidence of abuse and/or threat.

and they come back the next day with a new profile!

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

"No flogging and sending to the deepest reaches of the land then ?

In the deepest recesses of their own twisted and broken souls, self-flaggation and moving to Margate, perhaps so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame the fact that they're sex deprived and frustrated.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Reporting doesn't really work. They'll just set up another profile, if they are kicked off. Just block them x

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"No flogging and sending to the deepest reaches of the land then ?

In the deepest recesses of their own twisted and broken souls, self-flaggation and moving to Margate, perhaps so.

seeside won't be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why can't u ring him if u got his number

maybe be he's fed up of fakes

u could just ring n say hello to confirm is that too much to ask

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

"why can't u ring him if u got his number

maybe be he's fed up of fakes

u could just ring n say hello to confirm is that too much to ask

After one message yes it is too much to ask!

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By *ammyharrogate OP Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

Because he wasn’t for me and was rude from the start should I ring everyone on fab ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because he wasn’t for me and was rude from the start should I ring everyone on fab ? "

Yes please. Here's my number...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why can't u ring him if u got his number

maybe be he's fed up of fakes

u could just ring n say hello to confirm is that too much to ask

Because he's most likely a weirdo that wanted to wank while she rang him!

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By *ammyharrogate OP Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

I genuinely thought it was me being up tight but after one message does it ever work ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why can't u ring him if u got his number

maybe be he's fed up of fakes

u could just ring n say hello to confirm is that too much to ask

So if someone was to send you their number after one message, you would ring?

Even if you didn't like their profile?

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

"why can't u ring him if u got his number

maybe be he's fed up of fakes

u could just ring n say hello to confirm is that too much to ask

We've certainly got your number now. Oops!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Some people do get arsey rather quickly on here.

I've had it on my single profile before,when I won't meet as fast as they want.

Any sign of aggro and I block now,I also block newbies as i had one bloke who continually left and rejoined and hassled me.

Miss

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By *ammyharrogate OP Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

"Some people do get arsey rather quickly on here.

I've had it on my single profile before,when I won't meet as fast as they want.

Any sign of aggro and I block now,I also block newbies as i had one bloke who continually left and rejoined and hassled me.

Miss"

Great idea this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t ring anyone anymore so it’s certainly not out of order. Block the cock and think no more of it

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Some people are just damn nasty and the only reason they are single and here is they unable to hold down a stable relationship..

Rest assured, those types usually end up being shunned by all and eventually leave..

In the meantime, just block them and move on..

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"why can't u ring him if u got his number

maybe be he's fed up of fakes

u could just ring n say hello to confirm is that too much to ask

Bloody hell, answer every messsge, ring every number, want us to go round to everyone’s house whilst we’re at it?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I blame their wives for not understanding them.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Just ignore them. The minute they find out thier not Gods gift they start. Block em. Reporting really won’t make much difference from my experience

I blocked and reported a guy ages ago for sending me on a wild goose chase to an address that was a field lol. Reported. Two weeks later messaged me on another profile to add him back on his old profile. So nothing was done about it

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By *ammyharrogate OP Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

"Just ignore them. The minute they find out thier not Gods gift they start. Block em. Reporting really won’t make much difference from my experience

Wow really ? A field that’s scary why send you to a field ?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Lol I know. Post code took me right to it. Just outside a housing estate That’s was a bad day for me as I was extremely in heat lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

OP can you clarify something. You said he sent you just his number in the first message. Yet later on you said he was rude from the start. Sending his number would seem a bit foward and possibly a little weird. However I am not sure why it would be classed as rude.

That being said. It's thick skin time. Blocking first of all. If they do a new profile and you realise it then just keep blocking. Eventually they will get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why can't u ring him if u got his number

maybe be he's fed up of fakes

u could just ring n say hello to confirm is that too much to ask

It's this kind of entitled thinking that makes so many women and couples on here wary of single men. Some people like chatting on the phone o over text whatsapp etc and some prefer to keep things on here.Down to individuals choice and preferences. Hell I wouldn't like to give my number over after just one message on here.

To many single guys on here seem to think that just because a woman's on Fab she should automatically has to talk to anyone who messages or jump on demand. People need to drop the entitled thinking it just makes things less enjoyable and harder for everyone involved.

Mini rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why can't u ring him if u got his number

maybe be he's fed up of fakes

u could just ring n say hello to confirm is that too much to ask

Did you really just ask that question? With a straight face?

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We regularly get guys messaging their number asking us to call, sometimes even in the first message.

We never call, even if we're planning a meet, all arranging is done via this site and organised for a club.

We've got better things to do than ring some random just because he sent his number.

Although, it can catch them out - if they have their number linked to Facebook and other social media.

Worth seeing if their pics match up, or even their relationship status.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"why can't u ring him if u got his number

maybe be he's fed up of fakes

u could just ring n say hello to confirm is that too much to ask

Bloody hell, answer every messsge, ring every number, want us to go round to everyone’s house whilst we’re at it?

Let's be real. Many people have things like must see them on cam, must have a chat between the girls of a couple, must send a face pic etc. All things to try and stop yourself from going to meet a fake or for ones own safety.

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By *ammyharrogate OP Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

"OP can you clarify something. You said he sent you just his number in the first message. Yet later on you said he was rude from the start. Sending his number would seem a bit foward and possibly a little weird. However I am not sure why it would be classed as rude.

That being said. It's thick skin time. Blocking first of all. If they do a new profile and you realise it then just keep blocking. Eventually they will get bored."

He sent his number and had a little quote on his profile, I ignored it deleted it, he sent a rude message after

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

Pent up testosterone coupled with being a keyboard warrior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That being said. It's thick skin time. Blocking first of all. If they do a new profile and you realise it then just keep blocking. Eventually they will get bored.

He sent his number and had a little quote on his profile, I ignored it deleted it, he sent a rude message after "

Don't let idiots make you question your own judgement, trust your instincts and make frequent use of the block button. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are also a fair number of aggressive women too ....

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By *ammyharrogate OP Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

That being said. It's thick skin time. Blocking first of all. If they do a new profile and you realise it then just keep blocking. Eventually they will get bored.

He sent his number and had a little quote on his profile, I ignored it deleted it, he sent a rude message after

Don't let idiots make you question your own judgement, trust your instincts and make frequent use of the block button. x"

Thank you x

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Why do men get aggressive on here ? Does reporting them do anything? "

Just sleep with every man who messages you, then they won't get upset. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why can't u ring him if u got his number

maybe be he's fed up of fakes

u could just ring n say hello to confirm is that too much to ask

Yes!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I said I wouldn’t ring him after 1 message which was just his number "

I say no thank you and block those ones. If they want phone sex they can ring 0800 gissawank.

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