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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination

Am I the only one bothered by this??

You've been chatting to someone... and out of the blue they start sending you pics of themselves with other people... But with the third party's face in the pics... and usually in pretty explicit situations.

Its happened to me few times and I find it incredibly indiscreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never shared not will share a picture of myself in a compromising position with someone else. I've received a couple but tend to be fakes in my experience. I think it's shocking (unless the other party is happy to have their pictures hated) and infact is flirting with the line of revenge porn which now carries stiff sentences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be a red flag for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-*shared not hated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it happen a couple of times. We stopped chatting after. I value discretion on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has put me off meeting more than once and I don't let anyone take pics on a meet! Would be pissed off enough if someone shared just my face pic without asking first!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah it's not good is it.

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Got to be breaking some law unless they have actual permission from third party..

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've had it happen more times than I can remember, and I tell the sender exactly what I think of them.

If I was to have a picture taken with another person, it would only be with someone i knew very well, trusted and the pics would be on my phone or camera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to like "action" shots anyway but for someone to be so indiscreet as to show the other persons face it would be a total turn off for me.

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Ive never shared not will share a picture of myself in a compromising position with someone else. I've received a couple but tend to be fakes in my experience. I think it's shocking (unless the other party is happy to have their pictures hated) and infact is flirting with the line of revenge porn which now carries stiff sentences. "

That would be my thinking too... Usually if someone does it I just block them... But I have questioned a couple of people on why they felt it was acceptable to share someone else's face pic in compromising situations...and the response is usually 'oh that's my old fb'... And when I ask if they are aware their pic is being shared, suddenly the person goes quiet or blocks me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its terrible and i never do it .pics i have off special friends are for my eyes only and they would do the same with ones I send .Got to trust someone too send a pic or don't bother at all .

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"That would be a red flag for me"

Huge red flag for me too!

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I've had it happen a couple of times. We stopped chatting after. I value discretion on here. "

Agreed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get pictures op?

That would be a big 'stop right there pal!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'd be too worried to continue talking to them. Discretion is important to me and I'd be worried about their ability to respect that discretion.

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"It has put me off meeting more than once and I don't let anyone take pics on a meet! Would be pissed off enough if someone shared just my face pic without asking first!"

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I've never taken any photos of me having sex with anyone else.

So, if I send you one, it's a fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had any and certainly wouldn't send any. It would be a big red flag for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet fairly regularly with a few couples on here and the hubby's do quite often take pics with my permission. One couple even asked if they could post them on their profile, which i was happy with as long as no face pics, which of course they were happy with as well.

But i must admit i would be horrified if someone posted an action face pic of me on their own profile without asking. It's rude, disrespectful, presumptuous and would get an instant block from me along with a report to Admin. I would hope that Admin chucked them straight off the site as well, no matter how long they have been here of how many veri's they had.....................Totally out of order as far as i'm concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this to, some guys just don't get that most women dislike being sent action pics

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Yeah it's not good is it."

I think its awful. If I had explicit pics with someone which showed my face (which I don't), I'd be absolutely livid if I thought they were sharing them without my knowledge... Jeez they could end up anywhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is the key

Not sure why any guy would ever want to send a girl a pic of them getting it on with a different girl....

Maybe romance really is dead

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Got to be breaking some law unless they have actual permission from third party.."

One would think! But the amount of single guys who send pics of girls giving them bjs without the face being blanked out is mindboggling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been photographed having sex so it’s never crossed my mind to send one. I would never do it unless we were a couple or decided to do some for artistic reasons and agreed for both of us to use them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never taken any photos of me having sex with anyone else.

So, if I send you one, it's a fake. "

Do ya send 'em then??

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I've never taken any photos of me having sex with anyone else.

So, if I send you one, it's a fake.

Do ya send 'em then??"

Not to the best of my knowledge, but I'm often d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember asking a rather handsome guy to send me a picture of his penis, he said I'll send you a video and I said great go ahead. He then sends me a video of him being sucked off by a woman who looked like she'd had heroin for breakfast. Nah like, not for me.

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I remember asking a rather handsome guy to send me a picture of his penis, he said I'll send you a video and I said great go ahead. He then sends me a video of him being sucked off by a woman who looked like she'd had heroin for breakfast. Nah like, not for me. "

Eeek!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus when I'm with a guy I don't whip my phone out and start taking pictures.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Plus when I'm with a guy I don't whip my phone out and start taking pictures. "

It's never occurred to me so stop the fucking and search for my phone so that I might document the sex.....

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Plus when I'm with a guy I don't whip my phone out and start taking pictures.

It's never occurred to me so stop the fucking and search for my phone so that I might document the sex....."

I'd be in agreement with you both on this one... I'm usually far to preoccupied with pleasure to think about anything else

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