FabSwingers.com forum: Why do these no profile users even try ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Constantly get messaged by just joined supposably "Women".

Bad thing is you know there men trying to lure people and its just so wrong cause some people genuinely think its real!

So please be careful

There was an incident last week a guy was savagly beaten turning up to a supposedly meet.

Its just common sense

Have fun

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

As a single woman it’s a worry when I have a first meet and when guys try and brush off my safety concerns it raises a red flag, it’s the reason my block list is huge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to make first meets social and in as much of a busy public space as possible. If they don't want to do that, then let an alarm ring in your head

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By *ork10Man
over a year ago

York

Get whoever your meeting to write a word of your choice on a piece of paper then take selfie showing their face and the paper with word on, then they send you the pic. This should clear out a lot of fakes

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Simple.. Block newbies, no profile pic and non verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple.. Block newbies, no profile pic and non verified. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single woman it’s a worry when I have a first meet and when guys try and brush off my safety concerns it raises a red flag, it’s the reason my block list is huge "

me too

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

When I had single profile I always had social meet in public place.then ventured into club scene where I felt 100% safe all the time.kaZ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple.. Block newbies, no profile pic and non verified. "

And then you can start a thread asking why no one ever gets in contact

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Simple.. Block newbies, no profile pic and non verified.

And then you can start a thread asking why no one ever gets in contact

It's better to get just a few messages from those people than hundreds from blank profile newbies, surely.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Our usual response to this - all meets in a club first, it just takes all the stress out of it, and gives you a space to play, if you are so inclined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be wary of meeting anyone without seeing a face pic or two first, plus as others have said it's always a good idea to meet in a public place initially.

With anything like this you just need to exercise a bit of common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get whoever your meeting to write a word of your choice on a piece of paper then take selfie showing their face and the paper with word on, then they send you the pic. This should clear out a lot of fakes "

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple.. Block newbies, no profile pic and non verified.

And then you can start a thread asking why no one ever gets in contact

It's better to get just a few messages from those people than hundreds from blank profile newbies, surely."

Of course it is,no one wants their hopes raised or their time wasted.

But someone, somewhere,will always find something to complain about on fab.

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