FabSwingers.com forum: When you read verifications....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you sometimes think they are written by the same person?

Because a shitload of them sound the same. It's like there is a verification template on here and everyone has just plagiarised it.

Do you find that?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Lots of well used cliches yes lol

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t read verifications, some can be very graphic which I find quite off putting, just that they’ve met in person, that’ll do me.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think some are unsure what to say, so they write what they've seen before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, what can I say? An amazing fuck with a pussy to die for. Treat this one with respect folks, she deserves it. If you don't, you'll have me to deal with and I'll keep her for myself.

Feel free to copy and paste as needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all the ones I do say the same. I hate writing them. Should just say "yeah we met".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think all the ones I do say the same. I hate writing them. Should just say "yeah we met".

Would you show a verification that says -

yes, we met!

What would you think if you read that on a profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think all the ones I do say the same. I hate writing them. Should just say "yeah we met".

A tick box would be good!

Met. tick

Wasnt too weird. tick

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Mine is similar to my school report - must try harder / could do better

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"A tick box would be good!

Met. tick

Wasnt too weird. tick

Christ, you're putting the bar a bit high there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst a certain profile was located in Cardiff yesterday, I noticed about 10 veri updates. I possibly read the most vile but absolutely the most original veri ever!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is similar to my school report - must try harder / could do better"

You won't bloody meet me to write your glowing one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We once left a verification for a guy that said...he turned up as arranged and looked like his picture.

He was not impressed

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Was looking at a profile the other day, about every 3rd verification compared the fabber to a Dyson!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think all the ones I do say the same. I hate writing them. Should just say "yeah we met".

Would you show a verification that says -

yes, we met!

What would you think if you read that on a profile? "

Yes I'd show it. It would make me laugh.

That's totally my sense of humour. I'm sure I once had one that said "she's alright I suppose" or something like that.

I'd like it if I saw it on another profile too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think all the ones I do say the same. I hate writing them. Should just say "yeah we met".

A tick box would be good!

Met. tick

Wasnt too weird. tick

I'd love this! I'd only get the first tick though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how good it was. Takes a lot for me to write a glowing verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We once left a verification for a guy that said...he turned up as arranged and looked like his picture.

He was not impressed

Lol ... That's joke...

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I don't "do" veris. They are fucking cringe.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Just be honest, just tell it like it is.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

It's the ones that say "I recommend you meet them" that makes me laugh..big pimping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave out some details. Some things should be kept between the two ... or three... or more

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Well, what can I say? An amazing fuck with a pussy to die for. Treat this one with respect folks, she deserves it. I'll keep her for myself.

Feel free to copy and paste as needed

Errm, no thanks

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"We once left a verification for a guy that said...he turned up as arranged and looked like his picture.

He was not impressed

Talk about damning by faint praise.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I read all of them and if there's certain people that appear on a potential meets veris then they are no longer potential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore veri's as I like to make my own mind up about people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read all of them and if there's certain people that appear on a potential meets veris then they are no longer potential "

People don't have to show them you know

and can hide them obviously.

How can you be sure they haven't met someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot do read like Trip Advisor.

I give the pussy 3 stars! Would i go there again? Not until she splashes out on a brazilian and gets less bitey.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

I think one of mine I’m actually called shithead

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"I read all of them and if there's certain people that appear on a potential meets veris then they are no longer potential

People don't have to show them you know

and can hide them obviously.

How can you be sure they haven't met someone?"

I am aware of this haha I'm just saying if I do spy one then it will colour my decision.

I had a guy message to say he wasn't gonna message as I've close to 50 veris and he thought that meant I'd had 50 cocks but then read and realised it's cos I organise socials.

..swings and roundabouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them all but if there graphic then it's a big turn off for a potential meet

We all know what we are here for so in my opinion why the need to be so crude/graphic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was looking at a profile the other day, about every 3rd verification compared the fabber to a Dyson!

Perhaps they could come round and do my hoovering!

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By *ruesome-twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Whilst a certain profile was located in Cardiff yesterday, I noticed about 10 veri updates. I possibly read the most vile but absolutely the most original veri ever!! "

Think we know the one you mean stirring porridge comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was looking at a profile the other day, about every 3rd verification compared the fabber to a Dyson!

Perhaps they could come round and do my hoovering! "

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I read all of them and if there's certain people that appear on a potential meets veris then they are no longer potential

People don't have to show them you know

and can hide them obviously.

How can you be sure they haven't met someone?"

You can't, but being 'vigilant' isn't a bad thing.

I follow several people on my hotlist, due to the way they conduct themselves I have no desire to follow where they've been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a veri snob, I admit it.

If a pitential meet has left a veri saying things like "she's the best I've ever had" or "can't get better than blah blah" they are no longer a potential.

I won't meet guys that have met certain women either, she just loves lap post pissing and has stalked me because I have met a few guys that she was going to meet.

If I leave a veri for someone I now request that they don't show it. If they go against my wishes I block them so they can't show it. I recently came under attack by a woman who had been approached by a guy I had veri'd. She was vile and abusive for no reason. I reported and blocked but she's still doing her thing.

I guess there are some sick puppies on here?

I also don't display mine to prevent the same happening again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read all of them and if there's certain people that appear on a potential meets veris then they are no longer potential

People don't have to show them you know

and can hide them obviously.

How can you be sure they haven't met someone?

You can't, but being 'vigilant' isn't a bad thing.

I follow several people on my hotlist, due to the way they conduct themselves I have no desire to follow where they've been

I thought hotlists were because they've got lovely boobs.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Verifications mean different things to different people

Myself I see them really as a proof they are real , a nice person , turn up and a good meet. Also it’s an indication for me to see the type of people they meet.

Personally I don’t like overly graphic , don’t really want to know step by step detail of the meet either or veris where the writer is more concerned about using the facility to promote their own sexual ability

But each to their own I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't quite get the whole verification thing. To me, they are there to help decide if the person is real or not. That's it.

The rest of it is irrelevant as the dynamic between A and B is going to be totally different to the dynamic between B and C.

I also wouldn't want to meet someone who writes or displays graphic verifications. It seems to me they don't understand discretion and are also reducing the other person to a collection of body parts and not a whole human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually write a few words.. nothing cringey or in any detail, I find them abit boring when people write them..

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I have a love/hate relationship with veris. I like to read non graphic ones, I like to see where a potential meet has been already, I like to display the lovely veris but on the other hand, I like my privacy, there’s so much jealousy around them, you suddenly find yourself contacted by people that are connected to the person you’ve met, probably via their meet, it can be a minefield.

Socials or funny veris are ok with me at the minute but that changes on a daily basis it would seem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst a certain profile was located in Cardiff yesterday, I noticed about 10 veri updates. I possibly read the most vile but absolutely the most original veri ever!! "

Absolutely vile! Shocking surely ppl like that should be banned!! Disgusting

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I have a love/hate relationship with veris. I like to read non graphic ones, I like to see where a potential meet has been already, I like to display the lovely veris but on the other hand, I like my privacy, there’s so much jealousy around them, you suddenly find yourself contacted by people that are connected to the person you’ve met, probably via their meet, it can be a minefield.

Socials or funny veris are ok with me at the minute but that changes on a daily basis it would seem

Oh god yeah , the ones that hate you if you meet their meets ! Or of course the veri chasers !

Have to say if I meet a particularly good one that I want to meet again I rarely display haha

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Socials or funny veris are ok with me at the minute but that changes on a daily basis it would seem

Oh god yeah , the ones that hate you if you meet their meets ! Or of course the veri chasers !

Have to say if I meet a particularly good one that I want to meet again I rarely display haha

Veri chasers! ... that’s the expression I was looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veri on here is not a log book....

However, how a potential writes a veri can be a deal breaker for me, depending on language and tone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I trust my judgement not other people's.

The fact that two or more people met and hopefully enjoyed whatever experience does not guarantee that if I meet those same people there will be the same connection.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Socials or funny veris are ok with me at the minute but that changes on a daily basis it would seem

Can’t believe someone would contact you because of a connection

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Socials or funny veris are ok with me at the minute but that changes on a daily basis it would seem

Can’t believe someone would contact you because of a connection

Shocking isn’t it?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I like to write a funny innuendo filled veri. Mainly for my own amusement. I won't deny that sometimes I will see a veri on a potential meets page and it puts me off....cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Detailed personal information about what they got upto is just so off putting and yes i would be put off .

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Socials or funny veris are ok with me at the minute but that changes on a daily basis it would seem

Oh god yeah , the ones that hate you if you meet their meets ! Or of course the veri chasers !

Have to say if I meet a particularly good one that I want to meet again I rarely display haha

Veri chasers! ... that’s the expression I was looking for

Sad but true that we even have a make for it

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Lots of well used cliches yes lol

Miss"

And of course nobody is going to leave a bad verification if things don't go well, as it reflects back on them and makes them look shit in bed ha ha

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Lots of well used cliches yes lol

Miss

And of course nobody is going to leave a bad verification if things don't go well, as it reflects back on them and makes them look shit in bed ha ha"

And of course no one is going to display a bad one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of well used cliches yes lol

Miss

And of course nobody is going to leave a bad verification if things don't go well, as it reflects back on them and makes them look shit in bed ha ha"

I leave honest veries but one man doesn't show it as I said he was quickest meet ever and pics are not him on his profile .But what I found odd is the good few veries he had as they were lies .probably off his 3 fake profiles

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

"Veri on here is not a log book....

However, how a potential writes a veri can be a deal breaker for me, depending on language and tone."

Absolutely this

... if I have my eye on someone I'm far more interested in the veris they leave rather than the veris they've received. The benefits of having a good profile and the ability to write nice messages can be completely undone for me if I see them being extremely explicit and/or disrespectful towards someone they've met. Yeah - I suppose the recipient can't be too bothered or else they wouldn't show it, but I ask myself if I'd like to be referred to like that.

On a related note, I confess I've hotlisted one forumite solely because the regular veris they write are (unintentionally I'm sure) hilarious and I don't want to miss the updates. Which is probably a little mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst a certain profile was located in Cardiff yesterday, I noticed about 10 veri updates. I possibly read the most vile but absolutely the most original veri ever!! "

I think 10 is an understatement. I couldn't keep up with the blocking yesterday...and some of those veris were absolutely grim!

There's a fair few women who love territorial pissing with their veris - 'I'm keeping this one' or 'I'm not sharing'. Makes me immediately lose interest in the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot do read like Trip Advisor.

I give the pussy 3 stars! Would i go there again? Not until she splashes out on a brazilian and gets less bitey.

Her accommodation was most satisfying although the catering left a lot to be desired 6/10

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"A lot do read like Trip Advisor.

I give the pussy 3 stars! Would i go there again? Not until she splashes out on a brazilian and gets less bitey.

Her accommodation was most satisfying although the catering left a lot to be desired 6/10"

Haha reminds me of ‘four in a bed’

Perhaps a remake but with a different twist

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"There's a fair few women who love territorial pissing with their veris - 'I'm keeping this one' or 'I'm not sharing'. Makes me immediately lose interest in the guy

I wish it wasn't the case but sometimes I can read the grief/bitching that would happen if you were to have their favourite cock and I can't be bothered with it. Even without the

'he's mine' explicitly stated, you can tell it's the case. Oh well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't win with veris. So.even say you don't have enough some say you have too many. I just display to show how many and I leave it up them if the things know I'm suitable or not as you can't please all

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Veris are extremely contentious especially in the forum. The whole 6 degrees of separation theory is closer to 1 or 2. The forum is such a small pool of ppl all meeting each other, it’s bound to cause friction and jealousy. Regardless of the fact this is a swinging site and having NSA all over your profile ppl become attached. Feelings are something that can creep up on you despite being unintentional. If both parties feel the same then that’s great, but invariably one is adamant they are on a swinging site for a reason and doesn’t want monogamy. Then the veri problems start

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"There's a fair few women who love territorial pissing with their veris - 'I'm keeping this one' or 'I'm not sharing'. Makes me immediately lose interest in the guy

I wish it wasn't the case but sometimes I can read the grief/bitching that would happen if you were to have their favourite cock and I can't be bothered with it. Even without the

'he's mine' explicitly stated, you can tell it's the case. Oh well! "

They are marking their territory and it’s not worth the agg

Little does the guy displaying it realise it’s off putting to other girls and not the case that it makes them look special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to confess to leaving some pretty explicit veri's in the past but they aren't to be taken seriously. I only leave veri's like that for those I consider freinds and I know will see the funny side of them. Whenever I've met someone new I will always leave a respectful veri but either way nobody is forced to display them.

I think it's very easy for thinks to be taken the wrong way, A veri which is an in joke between friends who know each others sense of humour can be taken very wrongly by someone not in on it.

I try not to judge too much on verifications due to some of the crap I know I've written myself.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"There's a fair few women who love territorial pissing with their veris - 'I'm keeping this one' or 'I'm not sharing'. Makes me immediately lose interest in the guy

I wish it wasn't the case but sometimes I can read the grief/bitching that would happen if you were to have their favourite cock and I can't be bothered with it. Even without the

'he's mine' explicitly stated, you can tell it's the case. Oh well!

They are marking their territory and it’s not worth the agg

Little does the guy displaying it realise it’s off putting to other girls and not the case that it makes them look special "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read all of them and if there's certain people that appear on a potential meets veris then they are no longer potential "

^^^ I’m exactly the same!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I think whatever you write in a veri someone somewhere will take offence. Be it because you met that person in the first place *waves, hi bitches*

because there is something personal in it or just because you met someone other than them.

It is your own little thing, write the veri as you wish and display what you want to. If someone has a problem with that we then sadly that is their issue not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of well used cliches yes lol

Miss

And of course nobody is going to leave a bad verification if things don't go well, as it reflects back on them and makes them look shit in bed ha ha

And of course no one is going to display a bad one

I feel kind of guilty when people display a veri from me. I think people will look at my profile and it will put them off the other person because my profile is utter shite 99% of the time.

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