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By *ranimallxl5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Does having a meet with a new person get anyone else out of a rut of depression?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, as someone who has depression the best way I can find to cope with it is to hang around friends, go walk outside or focus on a hobby

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Totally depends on the person and the circumstances.

It has potential to make things lots worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

time of the year , dark mornings dark evenings

its that sad syndrome thingy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am depressed I have no sexual drive so that's out I usually loose myself in the swimming pool x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just go for a sunbed and a facial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can work both ways, like I'm supposed to be meeting someone at the end of this month, it's giving me motivation to eat healthy and go to the gym every day and will get my hair done in a nice salon (it's well overdue) and generally make more effort with my appearance.

But it can also make you feel shit if you're looking for more than a one off or you could get a bad come down after the event which could make you feel shit.

It's a risk only you know if you're willing to take.

I'm going in to this meet just being excited that I can give someone an amazing rim job cos I'm dying to taste a fleshy arse hole.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"I just go for a sunbed and a facial "

Think I have seen that on a specialist internet site.

Oh. You meant...?

Well that's awkward.

In serious news though whatever works. My libido tends to drop off when I am down in the dumps.

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By *ranimallxl5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"It can work both ways, like I'm supposed to be meeting someone at the end of this month, it's giving me motivation to eat healthy and go to the gym every day and will get my hair done in a nice salon (it's well overdue) and generally make more effort with my appearance.

But it can also make you feel shit if you're looking for more than a one off or you could get a bad come down after the event which could make you feel shit.

It's a risk only you know if you're willing to take.

I'm going in to this meet just being excited that I can give someone an amazing rim job cos I'm dying to taste a fleshy arse hole. "

I think having a new person can knock you off your routine and give a spark of delight, anticipation thats much needed. But yes if you get ghosted it can make you worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can work both ways, like I'm supposed to be meeting someone at the end of this month, it's giving me motivation to eat healthy and go to the gym every day and will get my hair done in a nice salon (it's well overdue) and generally make more effort with my appearance.

But it can also make you feel shit if you're looking for more than a one off or you could get a bad come down after the event which could make you feel shit.

It's a risk only you know if you're willing to take.

I'm going in to this meet just being excited that I can give someone an amazing rim job cos I'm dying to taste a fleshy arse hole.

I think having a new person can knock you off your routine and give a spark of delight, anticipation thats much needed. But yes if you get ghosted it can make you worse "

Yes that's been the risk and being ghosted can make you feel all kinds of horrible shit. It's hard not to look forward to a meet but a thread the same time you don't want to look too forward to it just in case it doesn't work out.

That's why I'm using this possible meet at the end of the month as a reason to smarten up and if it happens it happens, if it doesn't then I'm a month into eating well and going to the gym again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucked that last post up! Sorry

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Stress for me, like a pressure relief valve.

Focusing on the other person and not where you are, so good.

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By *ranimallxl5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"Fucked that last post up! Sorry"

Well that's ok .Hope your meet goes well miss wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I am depressed I have no sexual drive so that's out I usually loose myself in the swimming pool x"

Same here,just swim and swim until im knackered and ultimately relaxed

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